How common do Libras get—?

OK guys, in my experience with Libra guys. I am guessing they get really comfortable with you when they like you, or you make them comfortable... My libra friend was with me through my surgery (pretty personal surgery) He would ask stuff like, can I see the scar? What does it look like - trust me it was in a place where I didn't want to see it. I, shocked was exclaimed.. "No!!! Are you insane!!! I laughed and thought. This dud is crazy...

Also, he would come in the restroom while I am using the bathroom, at home and I would have to put him out, if I am on my period... Just don't like that. I was the same way with my hubby. He also thought that was bazarre and not a big deal... Also, when I was doing number two, I would put him out, he had no problem with doing those things in front of me. Weird...

yup, weird...there's a certain anonymity you need to keep no matter how comfy you are with someone.

I think this is more how you were raised, and what you're used to. I hope so anyway. I like my privacy...

How's things QS?

Yeah .... that ain't cool.

I know right? My ex used to say, "there is nothing about you that has to be kept from me, we have been together for 8 years." I used to tell him, Ugghhh there always is...

He thinks because at the birth of our child - he was there and watched the whole c-section thing there is nothing about me inside or out that he is uncomfortable with.

But my libra friend. we hadn't even been intimate but once when he asked to see my post surgery insisions. I was sure hoping he was joking when he asked that... Rubbed me the wrong way a little. Also, that was the same day he said he became emotional about us and I shut him down, now that I think about it, this weirdness probably had something to do with it... LOL!!!

Libra, I am actually good. Got that huge baggage off my chest and the rest is up to him. Friends or explore something further. I am leaving it at that. I have a couple things going on - little projects that I started doing and my baby always keeps me busy.

How are you? Have you thought about what I told you? I hope you realize that your happiness is your destiny and no one elses...

HP is on a roll!!!!

Cultural also, perhaps and whether you have five siblings all sharing one bathroom, or perhaps if you were a boarder etc

I am a little scared to take charge but your line (put yourself first) is my mantra. Still it is difficult...

Why the fear. No one will look out for you better than you. You are going to have to swallow that fear and just do it... If you need to send for me do so, I will back you up I ain't 'fraid... 🙂

Oh good, because I'm absolutely terrified...

(now you see the dark side of a generally sweet Libra)

Libra Girl does all sorts of stuff in front of me I consider a little more comfortable. I agree with you, QS, there should always be SOME things that are private.

Absolutely!!!

My Gemini ex was like that....NOTHING was private.....but he was a control freak anyway....I do like my own space!

so, in summation, libra guys are great friends and do and share everything with you until you let them know you are interested in them, then comes the vanishing act.

What are libras like to live with?

Was out with a libra guy this weekend (all libras are not good looking by the way)
Yes, they make sure to let you know how much they like you. This drunk guy tried to pick up on me whilst I was with Libra - he became confrontational with the guy, I was shocked - thought libras avoided confrontation. WE left the bar early cause it kinda upset me about the drunk. Anyways I emailed him I was sorry it happened and thanked him for coming to my rescue. Hhhmmm I never heard anything back. I think it rather rude when people do not acknowledge emails. what do you guys think?

If you want an instanct reaction then don't email because email allows the respondent to reply when they want to.

Maybe he did not have time. Or was just enjoying your message...

instant, of course*

Yeah....thank God I didn't send that email either.....last time I sent him an email, it took almost 2 days for a reply - sheesh!!! Had I sent a text, I'd have received a reply within seconds or minutes at the lastest....strange!!

Yep, Libras can be confrontational at times---seems to always be tied into something they really believe in.