How to play the game...

As a Taurus woman, once I know I want something I tend to be up front about it but I know you libras run away from that lol I was already a tiiiiiny bit too direct (but nothing that a day or two of sitting without reaching out won't fix lol). I have never been good at the game. The whole cat and mouse thing. I want to appear interested but not be the pursuer, if that makes sense. What do you libra men want? What draws you in? And is it normal for my libra to be very attentive and text lots then pull back?

Yes to alot of comm and pull back for this Libra to keep my orbiters warm. Maybe like your guy Libras like there space to decide on if your completely his before showering of love. The Libra sign is good at going with the flow and mirroring there mate. Communicate in a nice way of what you like and expect then watch us try to impress.

i can only speak as a libra. with that said, this guy might not be the typical libra man and he might be nothing like this particular libra woman but i get the feeling from your posts that you are way too forceful.

you would frighten me away. my suggestion would be to calm down a bit. do you taurus thing and concentrate on building a good foundation of friendship with him. it will give him time to make up his mind about you. if you push and push before he has established any kind of deeper feeling for you, the pressure to commit to a decision will force him to not make one at all but rather abandon the whole endeavour entirely.

again, it might the case that libra men enjoy an aggressive woman so i could be wrong here.

Posted by jeane

i can only speak as a libra. with that said, this guy might not be the typical libra man and he might be nothing like this particular libra woman but i get the feeling from your posts that you are way too forceful.

you would frighten me away. my suggestion would be to calm down a bit. do you taurus thing and concentrate on building a good foundation of friendship with him. it will give him time to make up his mind about you. if you push and push before he has established any kind of deeper feeling for you, the pressure to commit to a decision will force him to not make one at all but rather abandon the whole endeavour entirely.

again, it might the case that libra men enjoy an aggressive woman so i could be wrong here.

I actually haven't done anything forceful. Last year he tried to ask me out but his energy was too intense for me so I never accepted. He initiated a kiss the other night and was happy that I initiated a second one shortly after. He texted me when he got home that night and the next day. I texted first once just to show that I am interested but said something that implied we should have a drink to celebrate a new job he got. I complimented him in a sideways way because I get awkward and then I have left the ball in his court...I'm just curious what these games are that I hear about libras. I dated a libra for 8 years and recently was seeing a libra for a few weeks but he was a disaster and I got out. Now another libra. I'm screaming libra magnet. It's just that I don't feel attracted to very many people and I start to panic because I'm scared

Posted by tiziani

You want to be the coquette, which is fair enough.

I think a man has to be angry enough with life to buy into that. It's not really something within anyone else's control, it just comes down to experience.

I just don't want to push. But I don't want him to think I'm not interested because I would definitely go out with him if he asked.

So I think you’ve done your thing, and it sounds perfect to me. You’ve said you guys should do a drink.. and now you can leave it with him to engage. And it does not sound forceful.

I find this post strange, all the Taurus I know are very patient.. you seem a little impatient. What exactly makes you think he’s playing games? In all cases, tred with caution, Libras have a habit of luring you in with their charm and then rejecting you if you aren’t enough of a challenge. They are usually good at engineering situations, ie dates. Mimic his message patterns until you can work him out. Good luck.

Posted by AriesJo

So I think you’ve done your thing, and it sounds perfect to me. You’ve said you guys should do a drink.. and now you can leave it with him to engage. And it does not sound forceful.

I find this post strange, all the Taurus I know are very patient.. you seem a little impatient. What exactly makes you think he’s playing games? In all cases, tred with caution, Libras have a habit of luring you in with their charm and then rejecting you if you aren’t enough of a challenge. They are usually good at engineering situations, ie dates. Mimic his message patterns until you can work him out. Good luck.

Wow you know us Libs almost to a T. Not many understand our psyche but you do.

Posted by AriesJo

So I think you’ve done your thing, and it sounds perfect to me. You’ve said you guys should do a drink.. and now you can leave it with him to engage. And it does not sound forceful.

I find this post strange, all the Taurus I know are very patient.. you seem a little impatient. What exactly makes you think he’s playing games? In all cases, tred with caution, Libras have a habit of luring you in with their charm and then rejecting you if you aren’t enough of a challenge. They are usually good at engineering situations, ie dates. Mimic his message patterns until you can work him out. Good luck.

Thank you! I am a bit impatient. Lol I think it's my Scorpio Moon. I'm very nervous when I feel attraction because it doesn't happen often. Lots of guys try. Very few interest me.

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Posted by jeane

i can only speak as a libra. with that said, this guy might not be the typical libra man and he might be nothing like this particular libra woman but i get the feeling from your posts that you are way too forceful.

you would frighten me away. my suggestion would be to calm down a bit. do you taurus thing and concentrate on building a good foundation of friendship with him. it will give him time to make up his mind about you. if you push and push before he has established any kind of deeper feeling for you, the pressure to commit to a decision will force him to not make one at all but rather abandon the whole endeavour entirely.

again, it might the case that libra men enjoy an aggressive woman so i could be wrong here.

I actually haven't done anything forceful. Last year he tried to ask me out but his energy was too intense for me so I never accepted. He initiated a kiss the other night and was happy that I initiated a second one shortly after. He texted me when he got home that night and the next day. I texted first once just to show that I am interested but said something that implied we should have a drink to celebrate a new job he got. I complimented him in a sideways way because I get awkward and then I have left the ball in his court...I'm just curious what these games are that I hear about libras. I dated a libra for 8 years and recently was seeing a libra for a few weeks but he was a disaster and I got out. Now another libra. I'm screaming libra magnet. It's just that I don't feel attracted to very many people and I start to panic because I'm scared

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yeah, i think i would be frightened off with that if i didn't know you all that well. it might just be me being very cautious.

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Posted by jeane

i can only speak as a libra. with that said, this guy might not be the typical libra man and he might be nothing like this particular libra woman but i get the feeling from your posts that you are way too forceful.

you would frighten me away. my suggestion would be to calm down a bit. do you taurus thing and concentrate on building a good foundation of friendship with him. it will give him time to make up his mind about you. if you push and push before he has established any kind of deeper feeling for you, the pressure to commit to a decision will force him to not make one at all but rather abandon the whole endeavour entirely.

again, it might the case that libra men enjoy an aggressive woman so i could be wrong here.

I actually haven't done anything forceful. Last year he tried to ask me out but his energy was too intense for me so I never accepted. He initiated a kiss the other night and was happy that I initiated a second one shortly after. He texted me when he got home that night and the next day. I texted first once just to show that I am interested but said something that implied we should have a drink to celebrate a new job he got. I complimented him in a sideways way because I get awkward and then I have left the ball in his court...I'm just curious what these games are that I hear about libras. I dated a libra for 8 years and recently was seeing a libra for a few weeks but he was a disaster and I got out. Now another libra. I'm screaming libra magnet. It's just that I don't feel attracted to very many people and I start to panic because I'm scared

yeah, i think i would be frightened off with that if i didn't know you all that well. it might just be me being very cautious.

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I can see that but he and I have known each other for over a year and a half. Actually we just had an amazing night last night. Ran into each other and he was a little aloof and skiddish at first but as the night went on, I saw him starting to just relax and have fun with me again. He was complimenting me in front of everyone and we shared a few moments where it was like no one else was in the room. By the end of the night we were being just as mushy as Monday. He asked me out for dinner and is making me pick a day to go lol. We talked a lot about family and future desires and he told me a LOT about himself. Things that he definitely wouldn't tell just anyone.

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Posted by jeane

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Posted by jeane

i can only speak as a libra. with that said, this guy might not be the typical libra man and he might be nothing like this particular libra woman but i get the feeling from your posts that you are way too forceful.

you would frighten me away. my suggestion would be to calm down a bit. do you taurus thing and concentrate on building a good foundation of friendship with him. it will give him time to make up his mind about you. if you push and push before he has established any kind of deeper feeling for you, the pressure to commit to a decision will force him to not make one at all but rather abandon the whole endeavour entirely.

again, it might the case that libra men enjoy an aggressive woman so i could be wrong here.

I actually haven't done anything forceful. Last year he tried to ask me out but his energy was too intense for me so I never accepted. He initiated a kiss the other night and was happy that I initiated a second one shortly after. He texted me when he got home that night and the next day. I texted first once just to show that I am interested but said something that implied we should have a drink to celebrate a new job he got. I complimented him in a sideways way because I get awkward and then I have left the ball in his court...I'm just curious what these games are that I hear about libras. I dated a libra for 8 years and recently was seeing a libra for a few weeks but he was a disaster and I got out. Now another libra. I'm screaming libra magnet. It's just that I don't feel attracted to very many people and I start to panic because I'm scared

yeah, i think i would be frightened off with that if i didn't know you all that well. it might just be me being very cautious.

I can see that but he and I have known each other for over a year and a half. Actually we just had an amazing night last night. Ran into each other and he was a little aloof and skiddish at first but as the night went on, I saw him starting to just relax and have fun with me again. He was complimenting me in front of everyone and we shared a few moments where it was like no one else was in the room. By the end of the night we were being just as mushy as Monday. He asked me out for dinner and is making me pick a day to go lol. We talked a lot about family and future desires and he told me a LOT about himself. Things that he definitely wouldn't tell just anyone.

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that's great. i wish you all the best.

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Posted by AriesJo

So I think you’ve done your thing, and it sounds perfect to me. You’ve said you guys should do a drink.. and now you can leave it with him to engage. And it does not sound forceful.

I find this post strange, all the Taurus I know are very patient.. you seem a little impatient. What exactly makes you think he’s playing games? In all cases, tred with caution, Libras have a habit of luring you in with their charm and then rejecting you if you aren’t enough of a challenge. They are usually good at engineering situations, ie dates. Mimic his message patterns until you can work him out. Good luck.

Thank you! I am a bit impatient. Lol I think it's my Scorpio Moon. I'm very nervous when I feel attraction because it doesn't happen often. Lots of guys try. Very few interest me.

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Why do Libra men interest you?

I'm a Lib and was my 2nd husband was a Libra. They don't like to be chased and neither do I. They really don't play games either. Most Libra men are straight up with their feelings.

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Posted by AriesJo

So I think you’ve done your thing, and it sounds perfect to me. You’ve said you guys should do a drink.. and now you can leave it with him to engage. And it does not sound forceful.

I find this post strange, all the Taurus I know are very patient.. you seem a little impatient. What exactly makes you think he’s playing games? In all cases, tred with caution, Libras have a habit of luring you in with their charm and then rejecting you if you aren’t enough of a challenge. They are usually good at engineering situations, ie dates. Mimic his message patterns until you can work him out. Good luck.

Thank you! I am a bit impatient. Lol I think it's my Scorpio Moon. I'm very nervous when I feel attraction because it doesn't happen often. Lots of guys try. Very few interest me.

Why do Libra men interest you?

I'm a Lib and was my 2nd husband was a Libra. They don't like to be chased and neither do I. They really don't play games either. Most Libra men are straight up with their feelings.

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I don't even know tbh. The guys I like especially lately seem to be libra lol I've been in relationships most of my adult life and only really started dating about a year and a half ago. This new libra and I are hitting it off really well. We spent literally all day yesterday together and he wanted to come and experience my beekeeping with me and he met the man I do beekeeping for who is like a second dad to me. I was nervous but it went really well. I think because this libra and I have known each other for a while things are progressing kinda quickly. We have plans for our dogs to meet this weekend too 😊

I actually have a really good feeling about him and he's not playing games too much. Just a little push and pull but I like some space too especially since I know he likes me now and I'm not guessing about it.

I hope it works out for you. They are definitely very romantic men and will shower you with gifts if they love you. Good Luck!

Hi, I am a Libra male who is in love with Taurus female...my only hesitation to tell that I love her is that I am 14years older than her... should I approach her and express my interest or what? ... help me