I have posted before that I met a Libra man and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I'm a Cancer woman. The problem was that he started to distance himself so I thought he was not serious about me. He later on confessed that he was confused during those days because he had never been in a serious relationship before. He was a big player in the past and he did not take girls seriously.
He proved his love for me by moving into my apartment and we've been living together for almost 3 months. He says he's not used to living with a girl but that I won his heart like no other girl has. So we live together and he treats me so well but sometimes seems like he wants to escape. One day he says he loves me and another day he starts saying things that don't make sense.
He'll start saying that i'm too much for him, that he's not the right man for me or other things to try to escape from the relationship. He changes his mind constantly!!!! So now I'm all confused and I don't know if he'll stay with me or leave me when I least expect it? Will he ever make a final decision because I'm going crazy. He has mentioned that he wants to marry me and have children in the future so it's not a joke to me. What can I do so he can clear his thoughts and decide what he really wants?
cringe. i see a lot of myself in this. all i can say is on behalf of this nonsense, i apologise.
speaking for myself, i'm afraid you can't do anything to help him decide what he wants. it's unfair on you but i had to go through my process. i'm guessing he might too.
even now, i still have my wobbly moments if i am honest.
3 months is also not very long to cement thoughts and intentions. love is not a guarantee. people change their mind all the time. long term relationships break up, marriages fail, nothing is promised. all you can do is live for the day and hope that the risk you took works out in your favour.
you can certainly minimise those risks but making the sensible choice doesn't always lead to happiness either.
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