I HATE BEING A LIBRA

LONEY AS FUCK ALWAYS LOOKING FOR LOVE THIS SUCKS I CANT KEEP A GIRL FOR SHIT I HATE BEING ALIBRA THEY ALWAYS SAY IM TOO NICE WELL IMA KILL MYSELF NOW PEACE AND FUCK VALENTINES DAY

pls dont be upset 🙂
Im a Libra moon, can relate how you must feel. these holidays put so much pressure on everyone to act happy, go with the flow, and God forbid you have a year where you juust wanna go unnoticed, escape xmas under the radar ...
btw whos actually happy and happily in love on Valentines anyways?? maybe 10% of the population, the ones that met over xmas, the other 90% are just embarassed to be there ..
no worries, tomorrows another day 🙂 go to sleep

me i dont want any material gifts but oh, how Id like to think instead of throwing my emotions all over the place 😢

just go eat drink and do other stuff that make you feel ok🙂 itll pass

It doesn't have to be a holiday for us to look or want love.... but holidays are tough. I miss my ex Taurus, I must say she was the only one that gave me excellent gifts. I'm going on my 2nd year now single at Christmas, usually some trick will show up in time for Valentines Day....lol.... Well dude keep your head up, a couple of strokes will do it.

i feel a little better now but i an on the prowl foreal its stalk time i hate being single huggin my f n pillow f that libra needs love

You need a hug!

this world is goona end dec 21 2012 and i need fun now lol wife now kids now 2012 people 2012 lol

Posted by Hypnotic—
LoL..
you care too much about women feedback...
most women don't even know what they want...

so.. why bother ?

Forgive the feminazi-sounding reply.
Men and women don't really know what they want. But in a relationship, it is MORE important for a man to know what he wants than a woman to know what she wants. If the man does not know what he wants, the relationship will never take flight. If he knows what he wants (HER, and their future), the ship can take off. If she knows what she wants (him, a relationship, marriage.. etc), it does not do any good if he does not want the same thing.

It is pretty much easier for Man to convice Woman, and pretty much Nil the other way.

But note that for this equation to work, both must already like the other.

"it sounds like he thinks..
he should be less nice to meet their will.."



Gawd, Libras.. aren't nice at all. Especially in relationships.
A 'nice' is followed by an equal bout of 'un nice', to balance the scales.

Plus if vsop is too nice, he wouldnt be without woman.

By the way, I hate being a Libra too. It's hard to keep a balance and stay sane in a skewed world filled with anti-idealists. There is no place for Venus except in the art museums.

tsk tsk. Just kidding.. Merry Christmas!

😄

Posted by Hypnotic—
lol..
not only anti-idealists.. but also many happiness-ruiners..
I guess we're a rare breed..

*kisses self*

Lol!

how bout i gave her more money for things u could imagine i let her drive my car with no licence she got mad when i stopped letting her use my car i gave her son money -------------to end it she said im married my personal lifed SUCKED FOR 2009 the other chick at my job was married DAMDAMDAM i tryed online sites NO F ING results i have 3 sisters and 1 brother they all got longterm relationships never ever had a woman at christmas i have no children the longest relationship i been in lasted 3 months !! DAAAMMM DAAAAM DAM !!!!! purple rain libras PURPLE RAIN my mother still think im with her that was over iin september

So true Spica - Libras are just as nice as we are un-nice. Because we open our mouths and criticize every damn thang.

v s o p - I had to learned to balance what I do for women that I dated and sometimes even when the relationship was over, I was still providing. My captain save-a-hoe days are over and not because of the recession. At the present, I'm seeing two ladies one Virgo, the other Leo and so far...... unless it's a front neither has shown a need for what I can do for them. They both didn't mind going out and paying seperate tabs. I've learned not to impress with things and providing so soon. Nice guys really do finish last, but they always want to return to us. I refuse to rush and find love this time because the breakups hurt so bad. The sad part with these two is I'm attracted to them mentally not physically ........ damn! it's hard being a libra. I need the mental and physical to balance like a ham and cheese sandwich.

Sounds like she used you. For your money, your vehicle and what you could give the boy as well. One conscience attack and she took a powder.
There are good women out there, truly.
Online sites are meat markets. I'm sure there are good people on them honestly searching for a connection, but from what I've seen it's all about hooking up. You don't need some potentially disease ridden gold digger.
As to the children, want to borrow mine??
2009 has been one butter ridden ride for me as well. My youngest passed away, a drawn out divorce finalized and my own toe dip into the water ( dated a Libra, he left me when I stopped being "fun" after my daughter passed on. I was different, can't imagine why, geesh. ) and other trials, none as horrific as my baby girl.
I think Jo gives good advice, can't really top that. 🙂

i like being a libra and i dont look 4 love i got done in pretty bad once already just relax u need some closure from the world to get in touch with those scales and balance 'em, you'll be fine

man i see nobody likes to be libras b/c we got the precieved notion of ppl pleasers and "on the fencers", astrology doesnt need to be used to judge humans


i feel like the fact that some libras dont wanna be libras is their way of ppl pleasing like "look im not so peaceful after all, change your mind about libras"

fucc that if ppl dont like what you are and cant repsect your wantys then fucc em.

not only that it seems my so called freimnds use me to to either take them somewhere or im always buying everything cause aw man i aint got no money the others think i got it so good they like pick on me and try to say things to piss me off my only brother only call me when he want a beer or some money he a aqua

thats how libra's are, if you can control your thought then mabe you can care less about other peoples and focus more on yourself. i see peoples walk in a out of my life and i say one thing, peoples that walk out will never be back in and never get help from me again. Look into your group of friends and see if who really your true friends.

Posted by Mr Nice
I would not like to be a libra, the only thing I do like about libra is some of them do make great musicians, so if I could steal that from them I would be greatful, I just don't like there bad traits.

im glad that u aint a libra either

Have to give props to Monty Python! *whistling along*

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Posted by Pride of 0ctober

Posted by Mr Nice
I would not like to be a libra, the only thing I do like about libra is some of them do make great musicians, so if I could steal that from them I would be greatful, I just don't like there bad traits.

im glad that u aint a libra either

and this is a prime example of when astrology goes wrong..............

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Some things in life are bad
They can really make you mad
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle
Don't grumble, give a whistle
And this'll help things turn out for the best...

And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...

If life seems jolly rotten
There's something you've forgotten
And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.
When you're feeling in the dumps
Don't be silly chumps
Just purse your lips and whistle - that's the thing.

And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...

For life is quite absurd
And death's the final word
You must always face the curtain with a bow.
Forget about your sin - give the audience a grin
Enjoy it - it's your last chance anyhow.

So always look on the bright side of death
Just before you draw your terminal breath

Life's a piece of butter
When you look at it
Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true.
You'll see it's all a show
Keep 'em laughing as you go
Just remember that the last laugh is on you.

And always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the right side of life...
(Come on guys, cheer up!)
Always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the bright side of life...
(Worse things happen at sea, you know.)
Always look on the bright side of life...
(I mean - what have you got to lose?)
(You know, you come from nothing - you're going back to nothing.
What have you lost? Nothing!)
Always look on the right side of life...

2010 new me thanks libras for giving me love im better now LIBRALOVEJUSTICE

I am willing to bet that like most Libra Males you have a strong savior complex. The problem with this is you want to swoop in and make the life of the person you are interested in easier. Offer things like driving your car without a license, offering financial help to a single mom, offering to pay for everything....then the feeling sinks that your giving too much and receiving too little and that manifests into feeling like you do more and care more. But it all started with being WANTING to do these things and having the expectation of a idealistic outcome.

Don't try to save people. There is a difference between being a nice guy and making sacrifices. Women saying that your "Too Nice" can be directly translated into "You make too many sacrifices."

A sobering truth is that the common denominator of all of your relationships past, present and future is you. The one thing that is one hundred percent consistent in all cases is that you are a primary factor.

Sometimes the nicest thing to do is not be "nice".

I so get how you feel. I feel like I've been on the quest for deep, passionate love my whole life. Holidays are indeed the worst! And it seems like eveyone has somebody but me but the reality of it is that most of the people who are in relationships aren't as happy as they look. Hell, I know people that's in relationships and still aint get a damn thing for Xmas and spent New Years alone! I think we as libras get so caught up in this fantasy of how love is suppose to be that we forget that its just a fantasy and those affairs are sooooo rare. And don't let us meet somebody we like! We're mentally picking our wedding colors and names for the kids. Then when the affair doesn't go EXACTLY the way we picture it we get disappointed. I had to learn to get out of my head a take each situation as it is. Don't settle, but don't get caught up with illusions. We tend to walk away from good potiential because its not exactly what we want (and we want what we want when we want it...lol) and stay in bad relationships because we only see the relationship that we really want with them instead of how it really is. I'm single as hell! And I hate it but I keep in mind that the "perfect" relationship may never happen for me. It doesn't happen for most. I'm enjoying the fact that I don't have to deal with cheating, sleeping next to somebody I hate, etc. Being single has its perks. Its better to be happy alone then miserable in a relationship. When it happens it happens and stressing isn't gon get you there any faster. There's a lot of us singletines out here...finding a well worth companion definately takes time and hitting a lot of bumps along the way

Posted by playswitfire83
I think we as libras get so caught up in this fantasy of how love is suppose to be that we forget that its just a fantasy and those affairs are sooooo rare.

Rare doesn't mean I won't get mine... just that it may take a while.

Posted by playswitfire83

I'm single as hell! And I hate it but I keep in mind that the "perfect" relationship may never happen for me. It doesn't happen for most. I'm enjoying the fact that I don't have to deal with cheating, sleeping next to somebody I hate, etc. Being single has its perks. Its better to be happy alone then miserable in a relationship.

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Don't burst my bubble! As for the "no cheating", "No sleeping next to someone you hate", and "better happy single..." comments, those aren't perks of being single, they are perks of not being in a shitty relationship. When you find a good one there won't be cheating, you'll be sleeping next to someone you love, and you'll be happy in the relationship.

Bad shit happens, don't let it get ya down. Decide what you want and go get it. With all the billions of people on this earth there's bound to be several who love the same way I do and who want the same things. That's worth waiting for.

O...and people do tend to assume that its something that YOU'RE doing wrong. This is not always the case. Some people can be in relationships with people they don't like just so they can say they're in a relationship. Not everyone has the stomach for that...I know I don't. We either have chemistry or we don't! And good chemistry doesn't come along everyday. If you choose quality over quantity its gonna take time. @ VSOP...the sooner you stop giving a fucc the sooner they'll start flocking towards you. Sometimes our desires have a tendancy to repel the things we want (food for thought 🙂 )

Oh and yes, I like being a Libra. I know I fucking love being me and I'm a Libra so by default I must like being a Libra 😄

I have a great mind. I can easily see both sides of a problem. this helps me with thinking outside the box and coming up with solutions that a lot of other people don't see because they are so one sided. I get along with everyone. I honestly don't have any enemies. I'm romantic and I like it. I'm optimistic, so even when bad shit happens (and a lot has over the last year) it doesn't keep me down for too long. Yeah, I like being me.

Posted by playswitfire83
@ VSOP...

This thread was created over a year ago and I haven't seen that poster in the few months I've been coming here. good advice all the same. Oddly enough, the less we care about a woman the more interested she becomes... If you do read this, forget about the bad times. Have fun. Be yourself. Talk to EVERYONE (not just hot chicks that you want to bed). Be sociable. Lighten up. Try that and you'll be fine.

@ LibraSid...you're right. rare doesn't mean impossible...lol...it means rare. When I say fantasies I mean somebody who has everything on our mental check list. We have to keep in mind that all of us isn't going to meet our definiton of "perfect" so we don't know what challenges our future relationships might bring us. Us libras can get turned off easily before giving someone a chance. But there are a lot of us out there that kind of beat ourselves up because we haven't found anybody yet. That's just my POV on one of the reasons why...because we are looking for the one we've been daydreaming about since childhood and that person may not exist. The person may be someone we wouldn't ordinarily date but they would love us the way we deserve. As far as my no cheating, etc comment...O Yes! that's a perk of being single! Ofcourse that excludes happy relationships...but let me reword this. I would RATHER be single then not be single and deal with that (we both know that happens more then it doesn't). At the end of the day remind you're self of the positives of you're current situation rather then let something you can't control keep you down i.e. Being single and "lonely" I have faith that all of us who want that lovely companion and true relationship will absolutly find it.

Lol...we always want what we can't have

@v s o p...wake up u fool, libras is one of the best zodiac signs suited to life on earth. Way too many attractive postive traits than negative. You should be thankful!

Posted by v s o p
LONEY AS FUCK ALWAYS LOOKING FOR LOVE THIS SUCKS I CANT KEEP A GIRL FOR SHIT I HATE BEING ALIBRA THEY ALWAYS SAY IM TOO NICE WELL IMA KILL MYSELF NOW PEACE AND FUCK VALENTINES DAY

Really?? Come on now... stop feeling sorry for yourself. And stop with those negative thoughts of yours. Sometimes, the things you want in life turn up unexpected.

Posted by v s o p
i feel a little better now but i an on the prowl foreal its stalk time i hate being single huggin my f n pillow f that libra needs love

Aww...

I like Pepe le pew!!

Always being used and they allwas f u c k I. N think I'm lying dam
G all I want is a wife and a family I'm 35 no kids and can't stay in a relationship. Past 8 months

if you're always being used maybe you should reconsider the type of women you are going after. when you notice a pattern like this its time to stop being naive and set some firm boundaries. there's nothing wrong with testing women to make sure they're not total bitches before you let them into your heart. make her prove she's a giver, and not just a taker.

Don't let people walk all over you then. And learn to say no.

...and stop dating crazy hoes. You guys are freaking prone to that. Fricken tards.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Isn't it all about finding ones own brand of crazy though anyways?

Yip people who dont run around claiming the "spunk" is missing. Idiots.

Oh gosh not the stories.

-Falls off the world-

I would love for once to not see enabling behavior from a Libra. SOMEONE please prove that Libras are capable of not being an enabler.

It's not about the "type" of crazy or what "works" for someone. When I say crazy, it's the bad type. Like what the OP was referring to as the problem in his past relationships. Why the fuck do you come in, making excuses for this shit? Go outside!

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Posted by Theultra79
Why do you think this is about being a libra?

THIS. I have trouble imagining said problems are inherent of being a Libra.

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It may not be inherent with all Libras, but I can see how they'd be prone to situations like this due to their personalities/laid back nature.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
...and stop dating crazy hoes. You guys are freaking prone to that. Fricken tards.

+1. If it's an isolated incident, then it's a crazy hoe..lol. However, if it's all the women you've dated, then it's you, your lack of backbone and communication. Learn to say no and grow a backbone. Stop being nice and speak what's on your mind.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
...and stop dating crazy hoes. You guys are freaking prone to that. Fricken tards.

+1. If it's an isolated incident, then it's a crazy hoe..lol. However, if it's all the women you've dated, then it's you, your lack of backbone and communication. Learn to say no and grow a backbone. Stop being nice and speak what's on your mind.

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+1 I had this problem a while back. Typical Sag with the ol happy-go-lucky nature being too generous and getting my heart broken. man or woman, that other person has to show you that their worth your love. No that you're superior to them, but that you're not wasting your time on someone thats not willing or able to give you what you want. A backbone and communication is what's in order. Make em wait.

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Posted by aquarius09

Posted by rockyroadicecream
...and stop dating crazy hoes. You guys are freaking prone to that. Fricken tards.

+1. If it's an isolated incident, then it's a crazy hoe..lol. However, if it's all the women you've dated, then it's you, your lack of backbone and communication. Learn to say no and grow a backbone. Stop being nice and speak what's on your mind.

I'm surprised you didn't bitch slap me for my douchey comment 😢

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Nah! I have a bias when it comes to you. Just make sure it's not too douchey :p lol

I personally know for a fact that women hate us. Dam failed relationship over and over ..the long wait they all want to use u thats it thats all.

Most Libra guys that I have known just aren't really attracted to the "nice" girls that wouldn't screw them over or use them.. no, instead, they want what they can't easily have.. the bitch, the hard-to-get, the aloof girl who doesn't really want nor need him.. or maybe even particularly LIKE him! It's like they can't resist the challenge the "bad girls" present.. even if it gets them chewed up and spat out.. again!

For some strange reason, Aquarius women & Libra men make a great pair. I know of 2 such couples & their bond is strong. So go for Aquarius.

Man I feel the same way. I dont chase "bad girls" but I do like a bit of a challenge. I wouldnt say change your standards too much though just because I know for me its almost impossible because I like what I like. Aquarius are a good match like Beowulf said and alot of them like to make the first move which I think is pretty cool cause I know alot of libras (such as myself) that have a hard time doing so. They are a little hard to find though, but you just gotta look around.

I adore the Libra man in my life and would never think of using him or mistreating him. But its hard. he is a true Libra threw and threw from what I'm reading. We women don't hate Libra men at least I don't.