In love with me, but I'm not in love with him

This topic was created in the Libra forum by fieryearth on Sunday, March 25, 2007 and has 3 replies.

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@fieryearth
19 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Libra guy claims he has fallen in love with me. I do not love him, heck I'm not even in a realtionship with him. We were just good friends at a point in time, but then he told me this. After he confessed this to me, I started to drift away from him because I felt uncomfortable around him. I told him how I felt about him (that I was not in love with him and I just thought we were really good friends), we eventually stopped hanging out etc, etc because it was just too awkward. Of course it hurt him, we kind of ended our friendship on an open note. But anyway, now he is starting to call me constantly, which is a major turn off in general. I thought I made it clear to him that I did not feel the same way about him. At first I would answer his calls. We would make small talk, but now I am starting to ignore the calls because he told me he still feels the same way about me. What should I do about this?

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@nicodemus
19 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

It looks like there isn't much you can do, at least he has made it clear that he is going to let his feelings get in the way of your friendship. I always think it's best to communicate stuff like this, if you do I would tell him that it isn't fair that he is putting his feelings before your relaitonship.