Is my Libra man into me?

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Pisces987
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7 Years

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As I’ve been reading about Libra men’s, I still feel confused by my own situation.

I’m a Pisces woman, a single mom to 3 year old boy. I’ve been dating a Libra man for 9 months now. Everything seemed to go well, and I met this libra man in my sons kinder garden, where he works. So to the point; I asked him about what he was thinking about us. He answered that he love me, that he has feelings for me, but he’s not ready to commit to a relationship yet. He also said it was because he wanted to be more independent himself and at the same time,he wasn’t ready to let someone come that close into him. We decided both to take a break, and during this break, I thought a lot. For me it seems like he has a lot going on with his life right now, because he is going to study after the summer, has no work after June and have to move back in to his parents house. And maybe that why he said that he wanted to get more independent first. He also mentioned that relationship for him is the next level than what we have now. (We are seeing each other around 1-3 times a week, sometimes more or less). Last Tuesday I sent him a text “hey, I miss you”.

He didn’t answer, but the day after I asked if he wanted to meet, and he answered: hi! Yes I really want to🙂 I’m so sorry that I didn’t respond to your last message, but I didn’t know what to answer. I really miss you too.

So, last Friday we met, we held hands in public, we ate out at a restaurant, I told him what I’ve been thinking about during this break, and that I don’t want to loose him. He agreed and said that he didn’t want to loose me either. At the end I said thanks for today’, he said the same and asked; are you going home now? In a sad way and asked if I would join him home. I said yes, and At the bus he held around me, kissed me, held my hand all the way home. He looked at me with the warmest eyes I’ve ever seen.

But now, this week, he use around one day to respond my text message or snapchats. Sometimes he doesn’t respond at all.

We were going to hang out yesterday, but he forgot his phone at home and went to a family dinner he also gave forgotten about.

I texted him and asked about when we were going to hang out. He answered around midnight and explained the situation about the family dinner. I didn’t answer, and today when I woke up I had a new message from him where he asked if I wanted to hang out today.

So what I’m actually asking for is: is he interested?

He also, as other Libra men’s, have his silent modes. I figured out that my Libra mans silent modes comes when he has to rebalance himself or find out something about work or other problems.

Thank you🙂
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prettypiscean
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12 YearsPisces

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Most of my relationships are w/ a libra man if not with a strong libra in their chart.. my daughter’s dad is a libra and he is my last relationship.. i fell head over heels on him, i felt how caring and loving he was to me when we were starting. The thing about libra men as per my experience is that at the beginning when they try to win you over, they will do and give all they can, sweep you off your feet and rock your world. Until you love them and love them Deeply, then the dark sides of them will start to show up! they are very flirtatious and inconsistent and very much a cheat (at least my ex’s) are. Then they will be sorry and try to win you over again.. plus they have a narcississtic side. im just really glad i got rid of my ex.. good riddance really! and he’s the reason why im afraid to give love a try again. Sucks! *sighs*

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heliumfiasco
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13 Years1,000+ Posts

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Posted by Waterbearerwearer
I stopped at paragraph 2.

Libras go head first than pump the breaks when reality catches up.

They are more attached when you’re not.

There’s definitely a toxic element to their relational pattern that I avoid like the plague.


Facts. However, when we pull back do the same... then we come running and will stay. IDK why its this way.