I'm new here and I been seeing a Libra boy who I met through a dating site. Since we were both looking for a relationship and had many things in common we decided to go out and get to know each other. Everything was ok, we when out, he was very charming, a gentlemen and we had a huge connection. Since he had a hectic schedule and took a while to answer my texts I decided to text him about every three days, and call him like once a week because I do not want to seem like I'm desperate. After a week that he started his new firefighter training he stopped answering my texts. So I decided to wait a couple of days and give him a call. I'm not a calling person but decided I should call him to see how he was. And still nothing. I had not heard from him for about three weeks.
During these three weeks I had not contacted him because I heard that I should let him contact me if he really cared for me. I decided to focus on my studies and date other people but the thought of him disappearing on me is something that is been bothering me a little. Just wondering if I did something bad.
I wouldn't say you did anything 'bad'. How long were you going out? It appears to me like you only went out the once. In which case texting three times a week is a bit excessive, especially as you are not in a relationship yet. You probably need to hold back and wait for further dates. If the request for a date is not forthcoming he's not that interested. He might get back in touch when he is less distracted, but to be honest, if it was me, I wouldn't want to be such a low priority in his life. Keep looking for someone prepared to make you more of a priority.
We when out like once or twice a week for about a month. Yeah your right I should just stop complaining and move on. =) Thanks all!
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I'm new here and I been seeing a Libra boy who I met through a dating site. Since we were both looking for a relationship and had many things in common we decided to go out and get to know each other. Everything was ok, we when out, he was very charming, a gentlemen and we had a huge connection. Since he had a hectic schedule and took a while to answer my texts I decided to text him about every three days, and call him like once a week because I do not want to seem like I'm desperate. After a week that he started his new firefighter training he stopped answering my texts. So I decided to wait a couple of days and give him a call. I'm not a calling person but decided I should call him to see how he was. And still nothing. I had not heard from him for about three weeks.
During these three weeks I had not contacted him because I heard that I should let him contact me if he really cared for me. I decided to focus on my studies and date other people but the thought of him disappearing on me is something that is been bothering me a little. Just wondering if I did something bad.