Libra and Cappy

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So, I moved on from my crap, cancer ex and I've had little flings with people that never work out. This time I think this cap and I are both interested We live an hour away but both agreed that it shouldn't be a problem. I just don't if I can take him seriously. I've blown him off for a year or so and then I was like OH, YOU ARE MMMMM.

He's moving quite fast though, which is alright with me but I question it. He says things like "I want you," "be mine," and we text almost all day. I'm just worried because while he says this, his tweets say otherwise. Things like "I'll never be able to find love," "love will always be a dream for me," "you'll move on in no time," but kinda flirts with other chicks. One girl is from San Diego (I creeped) and he told me that he's flying out there in November. He is a libra rising, aries moon, and sag venus. Does anyone have experience with these placements? Just curious before I waste time!
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Caps generally move slow. My ex Cap messed about "entertaining" other girls when I left the country for a few months (he blamed me for leaving him for his behaviour) I saw all the messages and things he'd say to them to lure them in. It wasn't at all how it went down with me and him. He was cocky and overly confident with them.

Just don't go all in with your feelings, take it easy. Once a Cappy has a hold on you its difficult to get out lol. Adding to that he needs a strong, dont take no bs female. Feminine, soft but strong character. I feel they like to test individuals and see how much they can get away with which can end up devastating an otherwise healthy relationship but you must offer what he can't get elsewhere and he'll (likely) never stray.
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Caps generally move slow. My ex Cap messed about "entertaining" other girls when I left the country for a few months (he blamed me for leaving him for his behaviour) I saw all the messages and things he'd say to them to lure them in. It wasn't at all how it went down with me and him. He was cocky and overly confident with them.

Just don't go all in with your feelings, take it easy. Once a Cappy has a hold on you its difficult to get out lol. Adding to that he needs a strong, dont take no bs female. Feminine, soft but strong character. I feel they like to test individuals and see how much they can get away with which can end up devastating an otherwise healthy relationship but you must offer what he can't get elsewhere and he'll (likely) never stray.



So, I guess it didn't work out between you guys? I do see him entertaining other girls and he definitely tests me but I'm patient. Apparently, I make him feel like he's beneath me and that I don't care. I think it's just because he wants me to tell him no as validation. I've only really associated with cap females.
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Posted by Shrewdsharpe
The Capricorn sun is fine,

but his chart is saturated with the main cheating signs; Aries are hoes, Libra men are bigger hoes and Sag in Venus wrote the book on hoes.

He is already telling you one thing and doing another. I wouldn't put any weight on any words he speaks. With those placements, all he is talk, and impulsive selfish actions.



"Sag in Venus wrote the book on hoes" hahahahahah. You think I could just cut it off or wait it out?

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Posted by Shrewdsharpe
The Capricorn sun is fine,

but his chart is saturated with the main cheating signs; Aries are hoes, Libra men are bigger hoes and Sag in Venus wrote the book on hoes.

He is already telling you one thing and doing another. I wouldn't put any weight on any words he speaks. With those placements, all he is talk, and impulsive selfish actions.



"Sag in Venus wrote the book on hoes" hahahahahah. You think I could just cut it off or wait it out?

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It's not his placements that causes concern, it's his behavior....He says things like "I want you," "be mine," and we text almost all day. but kinda flirts with other chicks. —? What? He doesn't even hide it?

One girl is from San Diego (I creeped) and he told me that he's flying out there in November.

If he wants you to be his, why is he flying to see a girl if he wants you to be his?



My Cap but it all on the line our first meeting at Starbucks. He wanted me and he immediately began to promptly demonstrate it. It's next to impossible to be with another sign after being loved by this good man.
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Posted by LuckyLibra979
Just pay attention to his actions. Social media is the last thing I would resort to because it's not always a real reflection of that person.
FaceBook is FakeBook.

A Bio of people's fictitious lives.

I have a FB page.

I only discuss politics, shows, events, music, and nothing more.

It's social media for pete's sake.

Not a "Ooh look at me" celebrity lifeline.

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libraolga
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I cant agree more with libramudra. caps are harsh in their character, libras are sweet. you'll end up swallowing his negativity. they are headstrong. I advise to save your life from this cap, aeap. I was with a cap. it was really nice and we seemed strong couple. he loved me really well, but wasn't willing to make the slighted concession, to make efforts to improve the relationship. he blamed for not finishing his phd on time (I was in another country at that time). so get yourself a better guy than a cap girl.
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Posted by TheLibraMudra
Meh.

I don't really trust caps for relationships but I think they are awesome and get along so well with em.

What I've noticed...

Serial flirts while in a relationship

Brutal with zero mercy during breakup
I see this whole zero mercy thing! I'm still talking to him but I've backed off a bit. He keeps taking everything I say lightheartedly so serious! He will get angry, ignore me then apologize. He still manages to play the victim and claims that I'm the one to not be interested. I think he's either a manipulator or he really has issue. I've put my guard back up but I might hang around because I'm curious how it will turn out! :p