Libra Best Friend

I'm not sure how to reconnect back with her because I think I've lost her and I'm not confident anymore...I had a falling out with my childhood friend...We live miles apart from each other but we manage to slash at each others throats last February and now we are not talking because I've had enough of her acting like her shit doesn't stink routine. And I guess she's had enough of me because I'm a careless and freedom loving creature that gets into trouble a lot.

I understand that she cares about me and wants to help me make the right decisions, but I just can't tolerate her need to always, always act like she's the motherly type because there are just times when she doesn't live up to her decisions especially major ones. I care about her especially when it's about guys she's dating...She's never cautious! Argh! I hate that part she never thinks things through and falls in love with love so much that she turns a blind eye to her ex's flaws. But she's not the only one with these kinds of problems...It's just that I'm not sure anymore if she's willing to be my friend again especially after we've had that messy argument over a guy I was seeing...It's not like she has the best taste in men and neither do I but at that time I was still seeing a new guy after months of abstinence while she's been busy hounding guys in her Artistic circle for months now. And she gets angry with me because I played with love and all that bullshit Libra partnership stuff. Argh (sorry had to get that off my chest)

I'm just not sure if she'll talk to me again or if things will be the same as before but I know thats not possible...we both showed our ugly sides for the second time in years...I miss talking to her though and my Gemini sun misses her too...I just don't know how to talk to her...and she's probably busy making it big into her artistic circle. Makes me feel invisible most of the time. Also I don't understand why she keeps saying that she's a cage bird and only goes to Comic Cons with the rest of her family! She has it better than me I barely hang out with my family except when were arguing! >.___<

Argh~!! Should I just let her go? She's better off with people in her circle and she's bound to find a new bff any way. I don't know much of her birth chart but my moon is in Leo, Sun in Gemini, and Asc in Cancer...

Man, this sign can be so much talk and no action, on many levels.

Have you talked to her about any of this specifically? Have you told her what's bothering you? They can be kind of ditzy and have no idea until you voice anything. I had a Libra friend who did similar things that drove me batty, too. A lot of talk, no action, hypocrisy, made no sense because I'd be told one thing, and then they'd turn right around and do the opposite. They're people pleasers and will do all sorts of stupid shit just to social climb, even if it means leaving others behind. It's all about that status for some, which is what it sounds like with her art friends.

I don't know about ending it, but I'd definitely take a step back and figure things out after bringing it up. See what she says. Her reaction will tell you plenty. If she makes a ton of excuses and it all sounds phony and people pleasing, you're right in considering separating yourself. However, if she acknowledges it and makes an effort, it means she does care to an extent.

With my friend, an attempt to address my concerns was made, but soon old behaviors slipped back into place and I was constantly pushed aside for people that were complained about.

I don't know about you, but I don't have time for people like that. Either you're a friend or you aren't. If you're going to keep me around as a convenience factor when your status symbol clique isn't paying you any attention, eff off. Ain't nobody got time for that.

She'll talk to you again, one thing we do is forgive easily enough with people that we care about. Forgetting is another matter, what you said and the way you acted would cut like a knife and it won't be forgotten. Very doubtful that you will get back to where you once were unless you are very very special to this Leeb. Most of my friendships, the ones that are solid are also easy and very few if any conflicts and that's the way friends should be. If it's toxic and full of jealousy which is what I read here then it's kept at arms length.