WaterDevil
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Libra has managed to become even more confusing to me than anticipated.
Posted by Arielle83SUSPECT.
ya those kind of questions are like a mindfuck
Posted by Arielle83East coast slang for "I'm suspicious". Lol
quoi?
What's your sign?
Posted by CookieoOoooooooof. Tough!Posted by libralotusShe's a cancer if I'm not mistaken.
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lul i quickly glanced the thread title and "confusing" and "anticipated" became "constipated" in my brain, i was like LOL poor libra!
Posted by Arielle83TemptingPosted by WaterDevilsounds like a headache...Posted by Arielle83East coast slang for "I'm suspicious". Lol
quoi?
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Posted by Mr_PinchyLMFAO!
lul i quickly glanced the thread title and "confusing" and "anticipated" became "constipated" in my brain, i was like LOL poor libra!
Posted by libralotusIt's an intersting thing isn't it? We both have sag moons btw and Venus in Virgo. Also I'm a libra rising. If it didn't make sense before it may now. Interesting is the truth that libras and cancers handle emotion differently which I found to be true after kicking it with her. FUNNY THING IS she was WAYYYY more emotional than me. I was more confused and worried she was sad all the time. But than again I guess I'm a wee bit different of a cancer. I also got an ice box where my heart used to be ? Real talk.Posted by CookieoOoooooooof. Tough!Posted by libralotusShe's a cancer if I'm not mistaken.
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Posted by WaterDevilPosted by libralotusIt's an intersting thing isn't it? We both have sag moons btw and Venus in Virgo. Also I'm a libra rising. If it didn't make sense before it may now. Interesting is the truth that libras and cancers handle emotion differently which I found to be true after kicking it with her. FUNNY THING IS she was WAYYYY more emotional than me. I was more confused and worried she was sad all the time. But than again I guess I'm a wee bit different of a cancer. I also got an ice box where my heart used to be ? Real talk.Posted by CookieoOoooooooof. Tough!Posted by libralotusShe's a cancer if I'm not mistaken.
What's your sign?
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I'm a ViV and my cancer ex was a ViG. We didn't last long. Just two different people:/
Posted by libralotusPosted by WaterDevilPosted by libralotusIt's an intersting thing isn't it? We both have sag moons btw and Venus in Virgo. Also I'm a libra rising. If it didn't make sense before it may now. Interesting is the truth that libras and cancers handle emotion differently which I found to be true after kicking it with her. FUNNY THING IS she was WAYYYY more emotional than me. I was more confused and worried she was sad all the time. But than again I guess I'm a wee bit different of a cancer. I also got an ice box where my heart used to be ? Real talk.Posted by CookieoOoooooooof. Tough!Posted by libralotusShe's a cancer if I'm not mistaken.
What's your sign?
I'm a ViV and my cancer ex was a ViG. We didn't last long. Just two different people:/
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Yeah I can't see how Venus and Virgo would work with Venus in Gemini I suppose. It's hard for a viv so it's actually nice about her. Something I felt and enjoyed. That aspect was the same. I just texted her back btw "of course we can be friends. How are you"
I figure it's better to be empathetic and big person here ego aside. I have some similar intimacy issues I know how it goes. In the end of the day. Even with friendship. Actions speak. But I'd be no better if I gave no response. I'm not perfect. Iv had my moments..
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
Posted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
Posted by WaterDevil@cookieoPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
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Posted by GC02lol Iv honestly never thought I'd ever be more confused than my Pisces had me for a minute. But woaaa am I confused. Still nothing. After she reached out? So weird. So so weird I'm very suspicious. But in a weird way I guess it's a turn on. Smh i told my self I wouldn't play games anymore and here I meet someone who likes playing more than I do and it's creeping me out and intriguing me every time I realize what's a game and what's not. It makes me wanna tell her off so bad. Than get naked. So fucking weird. I just wish she would have left me alone after I left her alone. This back and forth is exhausting.
Stilllllll with this issshhhh....
Posted by WaterDevilI think she might be really confused and doesn't know how to respond. Sometimes I ghost... not because I don't want to say the wrong thing. I guess that's the indecisive part of me. Even if she is testing you she's doing it out of insecurity. I'm the type of person who is direct and I would just ask if she's testing you or not. Try to be gentle thoughPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
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Posted by CookieoI wanted friendship first! She came around asking if it's still on the table. I say yes to be a big person. Ghost— This makes no sense..Posted by WaterDevilDidn't I say not to overanalyse and that if she wants to she will reach out. I knew she would. Because libras have difficulties making up their mind. When you keep pushing she will back away. When you back away she will reach out. It's how the scales work. They swing back and forth to try to keep the balance.Posted by WaterDevil@cookieoPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
The only problem here is that you let her. You have the choice to decide what it is that you want and stick to that. 🙂
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Posted by libralotusGood idea. I think I may be direct about that now. I gave her benefit of the doubt. Nah son nahPosted by WaterDevilI think she might be really confused and doesn't know how to respond. Sometimes I ghost... not because I don't want to say the wrong thing. I guess that's the indecisive part of me. Even if she is testing you she's doing it out of insecurity. I'm the type of person who is direct and I would just ask if she's testing you or not. Try to be gentle thoughPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
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Posted by WaterDevilMaybe wait a week before you decide she's ghosting? I don't think 7 hours is sufficient time to decide that, and I'm an Aries lolPosted by CookieoI wanted friendship first! She came around asking if it's still on the table. I say yes to be a big person. Ghost— This makes no sense..Posted by WaterDevilDidn't I say not to overanalyse and that if she wants to she will reach out. I knew she would. Because libras have difficulties making up their mind. When you keep pushing she will back away. When you back away she will reach out. It's how the scales work. They swing back and forth to try to keep the balance.Posted by WaterDevil@cookieoPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
The only problem here is that you let her. You have the choice to decide what it is that you want and stick to that. 🙂
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Don't get caught in passive aggressive mind games. Just let her come to you.
Posted by CookieoI don't know what I want I told her this. But I know I don't want to be played with. Iv just been traumatized with petty shit in the past. But you're right. I'll give her benefit of the doubt. I just have major trust issues I guess. So I'm always suspicious. It's a problem. And also a reason I told her I'm not looking for serious. But I am down to be friends of that is really what she wants and it's not a test. But time will tell. I can exercise patience like a pro. Doesn't mean I'm not thinking about it though. It's a struggle.Posted by Ram416I agree. OP you want this to be on your "time" frame. Didn't she go through a difficult time. Maybe she doesn't know what to answer to the "how are you?" because she is in a bad place and doesn't want to talk about it.Posted by WaterDevilMaybe wait a week before you decide she's ghosting? I don't think 7 hours is sufficient time to decide that, and I'm an Aries lolPosted by CookieoI wanted friendship first! She came around asking if it's still on the table. I say yes to be a big person. Ghost— This makes no sense..Posted by WaterDevilDidn't I say not to overanalyse and that if she wants to she will reach out. I knew she would. Because libras have difficulties making up their mind. When you keep pushing she will back away. When you back away she will reach out. It's how the scales work. They swing back and forth to try to keep the balance.Posted by WaterDevil@cookieoPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
The only problem here is that you let her. You have the choice to decide what it is that you want and stick to that. 🙂
What is it that you want from her exactly? Just reading your post after post is a bit overwhelming for me and I'm not her so maybe she felt you were a bit "too" much?
Give her space and stop expecting her to behave in the way you want to. If you're not OK with her behavior like I said earlier you have the choice to end it.
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Posted by WaterDevilFor someone who doesn't want serious, you are putting an awful amount of pressure on this.Posted by CookieoI don't know what I want I told her this. But I know I don't want to be played with. Iv just been traumatized with petty shit in the past. But you're right. I'll give her benefit of the doubt. I just have major trust issues I guess. So I'm always suspicious. It's a problem. And also a reason I told her I'm not looking for serious. But I am down to be friends of that is really what she wants and it's not a test. But time will tell. I can exercise patience like a pro. Doesn't mean I'm not thinking about it though. It's a struggle.Posted by Ram416I agree. OP you want this to be on your "time" frame. Didn't she go through a difficult time. Maybe she doesn't know what to answer to the "how are you?" because she is in a bad place and doesn't want to talk about it.Posted by WaterDevilMaybe wait a week before you decide she's ghosting? I don't think 7 hours is sufficient time to decide that, and I'm an Aries lolPosted by CookieoI wanted friendship first! She came around asking if it's still on the table. I say yes to be a big person. Ghost— This makes no sense..Posted by WaterDevilDidn't I say not to overanalyse and that if she wants to she will reach out. I knew she would. Because libras have difficulties making up their mind. When you keep pushing she will back away. When you back away she will reach out. It's how the scales work. They swing back and forth to try to keep the balance.Posted by WaterDevil@cookieoPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
The only problem here is that you let her. You have the choice to decide what it is that you want and stick to that. 🙂
What is it that you want from her exactly? Just reading your post after post is a bit overwhelming for me and I'm not her so maybe she felt you were a bit "too" much?
Give her space and stop expecting her to behave in the way you want to. If you're not OK with her behavior like I said earlier you have the choice to end it.
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Posted by jeaneits my godforsaken empathy and intimacy issues. I dont NEED serious. Nor do I want it. But its a boundary for a reason. Regardless Im "SERIOUS" about every women I am intimately involved with casual or not. Its called having respect.Posted by WaterDevilFor someone who doesn't want serious, you are putting an awful amount of pressure on this.Posted by CookieoI don't know what I want I told her this. But I know I don't want to be played with. Iv just been traumatized with petty shit in the past. But you're right. I'll give her benefit of the doubt. I just have major trust issues I guess. So I'm always suspicious. It's a problem. And also a reason I told her I'm not looking for serious. But I am down to be friends of that is really what she wants and it's not a test. But time will tell. I can exercise patience like a pro. Doesn't mean I'm not thinking about it though. It's a struggle.Posted by Ram416I agree. OP you want this to be on your "time" frame. Didn't she go through a difficult time. Maybe she doesn't know what to answer to the "how are you?" because she is in a bad place and doesn't want to talk about it.Posted by WaterDevilMaybe wait a week before you decide she's ghosting? I don't think 7 hours is sufficient time to decide that, and I'm an Aries lolPosted by CookieoI wanted friendship first! She came around asking if it's still on the table. I say yes to be a big person. Ghost— This makes no sense..Posted by WaterDevilDidn't I say not to overanalyse and that if she wants to she will reach out. I knew she would. Because libras have difficulties making up their mind. When you keep pushing she will back away. When you back away she will reach out. It's how the scales work. They swing back and forth to try to keep the balance.Posted by WaterDevil@cookieoPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
The only problem here is that you let her. You have the choice to decide what it is that you want and stick to that. 🙂
What is it that you want from her exactly? Just reading your post after post is a bit overwhelming for me and I'm not her so maybe she felt you were a bit "too" much?
Give her space and stop expecting her to behave in the way you want to. If you're not OK with her behavior like I said earlier you have the choice to end it.
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The over analyzing is my own thing though. Im also so fascinated by why people act the way they act romantic or not. I just like to know. everything. its fucked.
Posted by WaterDevilPosted by libralotusGood idea. I think I may be direct about that now. I gave her benefit of the doubt. Nah son nahPosted by WaterDevilI think she might be really confused and doesn't know how to respond. Sometimes I ghost... not because I don't want to say the wrong thing. I guess that's the indecisive part of me. Even if she is testing you she's doing it out of insecurity. I'm the type of person who is direct and I would just ask if she's testing you or not. Try to be gentle thoughPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
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Cancers.... ugh
Posted by libralotusFunny the Libra has some predispositions about me too. What is it about us exactly? Our changing emotions? Ill have you know internally its a title wave but externally Im a balanced libra rising. So what's your "ugh" imply exactly?. I hate generalizations of me because my sun sign is cancer. I feel less of a cancer than anything in my chart. Not to mention the ONLY cancer placement I have is my sun. So what is your point?Posted by WaterDevilPosted by libralotusGood idea. I think I may be direct about that now. I gave her benefit of the doubt. Nah son nahPosted by WaterDevilI think she might be really confused and doesn't know how to respond. Sometimes I ghost... not because I don't want to say the wrong thing. I guess that's the indecisive part of me. Even if she is testing you she's doing it out of insecurity. I'm the type of person who is direct and I would just ask if she's testing you or not. Try to be gentle thoughPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
Cancers.... ugh
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SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
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SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
@cookieo
Posted by WaterDevili second cookieo's response. what do you want?Posted by WaterDevil@jeane
SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
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personally, i don't think you are a good match. she's an arse backward fickle libra and you are far too sensitive.
Posted by Cookieoi am. just not sure in what yet.Posted by WaterDevilYes it does seem she is interested. The question is are you?Posted by WaterDevil@jeane
SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
@cookieo
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Posted by jeanelol what about me said sensitive to you. im sensitive to others. and their needs. And I have strict boundaries of my own that block me from getting sensitive about others. So Im confused, is this because Im a cancer sun? If so you are very mistaken about who I am. Im not a typical water sign at all. I operate more like air and fire. Does that make sense? My issue isnt that she's fickle, its that with her specifically I dont trust WHY she is fickle. Feel me? If anything blame my trust issues. Not my sun sign. I wasn't always like this.Posted by WaterDevili second cookieo's response. what do you want?Posted by WaterDevil@jeane
SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
@cookieo
personally, i don't think you are a good match. she's an arse backward fickle libra and you are far too sensitive.click to expand
Is she young? This sounds like shit I used to do to keep people showing me attention. Drop them.
Posted by heliumfiascoMy age. 26
Is she young? This sounds like shit I used to do to keep people showing me attention. Drop them.
Posted by WaterDevilPosted by jeanelol what about me said sensitive to you. im sensitive to others. and their needs. And I have strict boundaries of my own that block me from getting sensitive about others. So Im confused, is this because Im a cancer sun? If so you are very mistaken about who I am. Im not a typical water sign at all. I operate more like air and fire. Does that make sense? My issue isnt that she's fickle, its that with her specifically I dont trust WHY she is fickle. Feel me? If anything blame my trust issues. Not my sun sign. I wasn't always like this.Posted by WaterDevili second cookieo's response. what do you want?Posted by WaterDevil@jeane
SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
@cookieo
personally, i don't think you are a good match. she's an arse backward fickle libra and you are far too sensitive.
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i'm not blaming any of your placements.
it's just the way you have handled this. the multiple threads, the constant questioning, the obsessing over the slightest thing.
it may be your trust issues but either way, you're too delicate for an insensitive libra.
Posted by jeaneI would say the only thing that you said that was correct is "obsessive". I'm like that anytime someone makes me unsure of them. I still don't see what you mean by sensitive. And libras are VERY sensitive. They just pretend they arnt to their lovers. I know from all my libra friends. I'm the one they cry to every time they don't get a text back from their mans and womans. LolPosted by WaterDevilPosted by jeanelol what about me said sensitive to you. im sensitive to others. and their needs. And I have strict boundaries of my own that block me from getting sensitive about others. So Im confused, is this because Im a cancer sun? If so you are very mistaken about who I am. Im not a typical water sign at all. I operate more like air and fire. Does that make sense? My issue isnt that she's fickle, its that with her specifically I dont trust WHY she is fickle. Feel me? If anything blame my trust issues. Not my sun sign. I wasn't always like this.Posted by WaterDevili second cookieo's response. what do you want?Posted by WaterDevil@jeane
SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
@cookieo
personally, i don't think you are a good match. she's an arse backward fickle libra and you are far too sensitive.
i'm not blaming any of your placements.
it's just the way you have handled this. the multiple threads, the constant questioning, the obsessing over the slightest thing.
it may be your trust issues but either way, you're too delicate for an insensitive libra.
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Posted by WaterDevilPosted by jeaneI would say the only thing that you said that was correct is "obsessive". I'm like that anytime someone makes me unsure of them. I still don't see what you mean by sensitive. And libras are VERY sensitive. They just pretend they arnt to their lovers. I know from all my libra friends. I'm the one they cry to every time they don't get a text back from their mans and womans. LolPosted by WaterDevilPosted by jeanelol what about me said sensitive to you. im sensitive to others. and their needs. And I have strict boundaries of my own that block me from getting sensitive about others. So Im confused, is this because Im a cancer sun? If so you are very mistaken about who I am. Im not a typical water sign at all. I operate more like air and fire. Does that make sense? My issue isnt that she's fickle, its that with her specifically I dont trust WHY she is fickle. Feel me? If anything blame my trust issues. Not my sun sign. I wasn't always like this.Posted by WaterDevili second cookieo's response. what do you want?Posted by WaterDevil@jeane
SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
@cookieo
personally, i don't think you are a good match. she's an arse backward fickle libra and you are far too sensitive.
i'm not blaming any of your placements.
it's just the way you have handled this. the multiple threads, the constant questioning, the obsessing over the slightest thing.
it may be your trust issues but either way, you're too delicate for an insensitive libra.
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you don't think you made multiple threads? or asked a lot of questions? ok.
libras are sensitive. when they want to be. certainly sensitive when it comes to themselves. i can't speak for all libras but i know i can be completely insensitive to others and from the common complaints on the board, that seems to be the feeling of many who visit here.
Posted by jeaneCuriosity and sensitivity are two different things.Posted by WaterDevilPosted by jeaneI would say the only thing that you said that was correct is "obsessive". I'm like that anytime someone makes me unsure of them. I still don't see what you mean by sensitive. And libras are VERY sensitive. They just pretend they arnt to their lovers. I know from all my libra friends. I'm the one they cry to every time they don't get a text back from their mans and womans. LolPosted by WaterDevilPosted by jeanelol what about me said sensitive to you. im sensitive to others. and their needs. And I have strict boundaries of my own that block me from getting sensitive about others. So Im confused, is this because Im a cancer sun? If so you are very mistaken about who I am. Im not a typical water sign at all. I operate more like air and fire. Does that make sense? My issue isnt that she's fickle, its that with her specifically I dont trust WHY she is fickle. Feel me? If anything blame my trust issues. Not my sun sign. I wasn't always like this.Posted by WaterDevili second cookieo's response. what do you want?Posted by WaterDevil@jeane
SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
@cookieo
personally, i don't think you are a good match. she's an arse backward fickle libra and you are far too sensitive.
i'm not blaming any of your placements.
it's just the way you have handled this. the multiple threads, the constant questioning, the obsessing over the slightest thing.
it may be your trust issues but either way, you're too delicate for an insensitive libra.
you don't think you made multiple threads? or asked a lot of questions? ok.
libras are sensitive. when they want to be. certainly sensitive when it comes to themselves. i can't speak for all libras but i know i can be completely insensitive to others and from the common complaints on the board, that seems to be the feeling of many who visit here.
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Posted by CookieoI agree with them not pushing. And for the record. Not once have I pushed. Only ever mirrored her behavior. My threads on here arnt really to decide if I did something wrong. I know where I did and didn't. And I'm very confident in my self. My threads are to help me gain perspective on if I should trust this specific libra or not. She's not the most difficult person Iv encountered as far as the "dating" aspect. But this is the first time I can't tell if someone is being genuine or not. And I'd like to tap out if it's a non genuine situation. I don't need her to be all up on me. I just need some sort of sign that she's interested in ME and not the idea. So I know if to tap out before I'm emotionally invested. Hence why Iv yet to be sensitive. This is a prevention thing for me. I won't open my self up to someone undeserving and if she's "playing" I'm gonna keep her in that friend zone for as long as appropriate. Because like I said. I'm ok with friendship. But I won't move things along if it's not with good intention. That's a hard no for me. Just figured I'd say all that because i think you two were misinterpreting the point of my libra threads. My Pisces is an emotional thing. But I was already emotionally invested in her before I even joined dxp. This libra is different. This is me taking preventive measures by asking everyone for insight.Posted by jeaneI kinda have to agree with her OP. You need to learn to role with the "punches" when you're with a libra.Posted by WaterDevilPosted by jeanelol what about me said sensitive to you. im sensitive to others. and their needs. And I have strict boundaries of my own that block me from getting sensitive about others. So Im confused, is this because Im a cancer sun? If so you are very mistaken about who I am. Im not a typical water sign at all. I operate more like air and fire. Does that make sense? My issue isnt that she's fickle, its that with her specifically I dont trust WHY she is fickle. Feel me? If anything blame my trust issues. Not my sun sign. I wasn't always like this.Posted by WaterDevili second cookieo's response. what do you want?Posted by WaterDevil@jeane
SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
@cookieo
personally, i don't think you are a good match. she's an arse backward fickle libra and you are far too sensitive.
i'm not blaming any of your placements.
it's just the way you have handled this. the multiple threads, the constant questioning, the obsessing over the slightest thing.
it may be your trust issues but either way, you're too delicate for an insensitive libra.
You can't be so obsessive. Libras will swing back and forth a lot. She also seems quite immature so I guess you will see a lot of that swinging. 😛
One minute she likes you next minute she is ignoring you. She is probably unsure what she wants herself so she swings a little towards you... Then she thinks it's too much so she swings away from you. That's her way of trying to find balance.
Libras don't like to be pushed into "deciding" anything. They need their time to think things through. If you push she will back away.
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Posted by WaterDevilLmao UGHPosted by libralotusFunny the Libra has some predispositions about me too. What is it about us exactly? Our changing emotions? Ill have you know internally its a title wave but externally Im a balanced libra rising. So what's your "ugh" imply exactly?. I hate generalizations of me because my sun sign is cancer. I feel less of a cancer than anything in my chart. Not to mention the ONLY cancer placement I have is my sun. So what is your point?Posted by WaterDevilPosted by libralotusGood idea. I think I may be direct about that now. I gave her benefit of the doubt. Nah son nahPosted by WaterDevilI think she might be really confused and doesn't know how to respond. Sometimes I ghost... not because I don't want to say the wrong thing. I guess that's the indecisive part of me. Even if she is testing you she's doing it out of insecurity. I'm the type of person who is direct and I would just ask if she's testing you or not. Try to be gentle thoughPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
Cancers.... ugh
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Posted by libralotusPosted by WaterDevilLmao UGHPosted by libralotusFunny the Libra has some predispositions about me too. What is it about us exactly? Our changing emotions? Ill have you know internally its a title wave but externally Im a balanced libra rising. So what's your "ugh" imply exactly?. I hate generalizations of me because my sun sign is cancer. I feel less of a cancer than anything in my chart. Not to mention the ONLY cancer placement I have is my sun. So what is your point?Posted by WaterDevilPosted by libralotusGood idea. I think I may be direct about that now. I gave her benefit of the doubt. Nah son nahPosted by WaterDevilI think she might be really confused and doesn't know how to respond. Sometimes I ghost... not because I don't want to say the wrong thing. I guess that's the indecisive part of me. Even if she is testing you she's doing it out of insecurity. I'm the type of person who is direct and I would just ask if she's testing you or not. Try to be gentle thoughPosted by WaterDevil@cookio @libralotus thoughts?
Ok soooooo I messaged her back next day "of course we can be friends."
Followed with
"How are you?"
No response yet and it's been a good 7 hours. What the actual fuck? I'm so confused. Why would she ask that. Than ghost? I mean yes. She could very well be busy. But this leads me to believe she is testing me. I REALLLLY don't take kindly to that if that's the case. But can you guys tell me. What would be the "test" in this case??
Cancers.... ugh
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Op, I think this is your relationship with the Libra in a nutshell.
Posted by CookieoI just look at patterns. When people break patterns it makes me question it. Naw I'm not emotionally invested that's silly... I am however attracted. And so I'm curious if she's real or not.Posted by WaterDevilI was just telling you how the typical libra mind works. I don't know you or her but that is how you come across? When I said pushing I meant your expectations on her. You expected her to answer within a certain time and you overanalyze the things she does or doesn't. That makes me think you're already emotionally invested in her.Posted by CookieoI agree with them not pushing. And for the record. Not once have I pushed. Only ever mirrored her behavior. My threads on here arnt really to decide if I did something wrong. I know where I did and didn't. And I'm very confident in my self. My threads are to help me gain perspective on if I should trust this specific libra or not. She's not the most difficult person Iv encountered as far as the "dating" aspect. But this is the first time I can't tell if someone is being genuine or not. And I'd like to tap out if it's a non genuine situation. I don't need her to be all up on me. I just need some sort of sign that she's interested in ME and not the idea. So I know if to tap out before I'm emotionally invested. Hence why Iv yet to be sensitive. This is a prevention thing for me. I won't open my self up to someone undeserving and if she's "playing" I'm gonna keep her in that friend zone for as long as appropriate. Because like I said. I'm ok with friendship. But I won't move things along if it's not with good intention. That's a hard no for me. Just figured I'd say all that because i think you two were misinterpreting the point of my libra threads. My Pisces is an emotional thing. But I was already emotionally invested in her before I even joined dxp. This libra is different. This is me taking preventive measures by asking everyone for insight.Posted by jeaneI kinda have to agree with her OP. You need to learn to role with the "punches" when you're with a libra.Posted by WaterDevilPosted by jeanelol what about me said sensitive to you. im sensitive to others. and their needs. And I have strict boundaries of my own that block me from getting sensitive about others. So Im confused, is this because Im a cancer sun? If so you are very mistaken about who I am. Im not a typical water sign at all. I operate more like air and fire. Does that make sense? My issue isnt that she's fickle, its that with her specifically I dont trust WHY she is fickle. Feel me? If anything blame my trust issues. Not my sun sign. I wasn't always like this.Posted by WaterDevili second cookieo's response. what do you want?Posted by WaterDevil@jeane
SO she ended up contacting me. Basically tip towing around the fact (surprisingly in a not so direct way) but obviously telling me, "friends" in the traditional term is not exactly what she wants. She hinted about me coming to this lakehouse with her this weekend. And wanting to make out. And I ask why, and she said she likes my hair. LOL so i ask why. But she also mentioned my coke connects. So I started asking her questions regarding her statements. To clarify. I even told her Im very confused about what she wants. Havn't heard back yet. I guess she's doing that "im fickle, need to think of a good response" thing again. At least I found a pattern of consistency there... Just interesting. I guess she was REALLY thinking about me.
@cookieo
personally, i don't think you are a good match. she's an arse backward fickle libra and you are far too sensitive.
i'm not blaming any of your placements.
it's just the way you have handled this. the multiple threads, the constant questioning, the obsessing over the slightest thing.
it may be your trust issues but either way, you're too delicate for an insensitive libra.
You can't be so obsessive. Libras will swing back and forth a lot. She also seems quite immature so I guess you will see a lot of that swinging. 😛
One minute she likes you next minute she is ignoring you. She is probably unsure what she wants herself so she swings a little towards you... Then she thinks it's too much so she swings away from you. That's her way of trying to find balance.
Libras don't like to be pushed into "deciding" anything. They need their time to think things through. If you push she will back away.
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But all honesty I woke up this morning thinking about the Pisces. The little lady is going on a trip today and we have been having the most sweet exchanges oh my. I'm just reminded why she's always number one on my mind. Anyway talked to my libra best friend last night. Iv decided to "roll with the punches" as you say it. And keep the libra in my back pocket as she is doing with me. Kinda mirroring her still. If she wants me when she wants me. I can do the same right? Imma just relax and do that unless proven worthy of something more serious. Feel me? I just can't help but smile this morning. Being poly is the best. Opening my heart to more than one person in one time. Wow. I'd recommend that to any water sign. We have TOO MUCH. Love to give. It gives me balance to spread it.
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