Libra that doesn't seem to get along with other libras

This topic was created in the Libra forum by lulu1355 on Friday, September 15, 2017 and has 10 replies.

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@lulu1355
8 Years
I'm starting to notice more and more that I'm not getting along with libras as I grow older. I had a really close friend who was a libra and I can't stand to be around her anymore. I seem to get along better with Geminis, Aquariuses, and other fire signs. I just dated a guy who was a libra and that didn't really take off either. There was a lot of attraction on both ends but we had absolutely nothing in common or nothing to really talk about after the first few dates. Am I just as much of a libra ahole too?! Do other libras finds that this happens with them?
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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts
Some I get on with, some I can't stand.

There is a September (practically Virgo) woman that I avoid like the plague. I loathe her social and professional climbing.

Then there is a woman 2 days before me and she is fun. It's a shallow relationship but she good for the lolz.

Then another who is mid October who I get on like a house on fire. We share a hive mind.
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@lulu1355
8 Years
Posted by LibraMudra
I get along better with libras on here than in real life.
I think there's a mutual understanding on here. Libras in real life just get so caught up in being perfect in front of others that it makes them unapproachable. Maybe other libras catch wind of that. I'm slowly learning how to detach from that.
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@lulu1355
8 Years
Posted by MysteriousDreamer
I don't know if it's a Libra thing or just my mom. My mom is a Libra and she does not get along with other female Libras. She never got along with my Libra grandmother (her mother in law). She can't stand my Libra cousin (her niece). She also never cared for my brothers Libra ex-fiancé. The feelings were mutual though so I guess it can't be just my mom. I always wondered why this was?
Maybe it's other people reflecting things that she doesn't like about herself. Or maybe she sees them as competition on some level.
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@lulu1355
8 Years
Posted by yyynm
What don't you like about other libras?
Maybe it's because they always express their perceived truth and it just makes them come across as aholes? I think with my one friend after a while she was only friends with me for a purpose and not because she genuinely liked me. Maybe the last few years have been tough on all Libras and they're taking it out on everyone? There are so many things to consider.