@MilaniKisses
9 YearsVirgo
Libra Moon Man - Emotional Cheater
Understanding Libra Moon Men and Flirtatious Behavior
Libra Moon men often seek harmony and connection, which can lead to flirtatious behavior even in committed relationships. They may enjoy social interactions and compliments without intending to cheat physically. Recognizing this trait can help navigate their emotional needs and boundaries effectively.
I'm not Libra moon. Flirting is NOT a cheat.
Yes, we flirt a lot, but don't worry. If he is in a relationship he will not go further from flirting.
Sometimes it's not actually flirting, more like projecting their charm around. We do that a lot. But doesn't mean we are interested in the person we are "flirting" with. We are just using our charm.
There is nothing to worry about.
Not gonna lie, I often flirt for shits and giggles, but it has no real emotion behind it.
Posted by AerialView
I'm not Libra moon. Flirting is NOT a cheat.It's not being faithful entirely though either. If someone cannot be satisfied with the company and attention of their significant other, then they shouldn't have one. Flirt all you want, but don't tie a lady down when your attention is in a million places.
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As long as the intention is clear>>Just to flirt nothing more then it's not a cheat.
I got a lot trouble in the past cause of this. It's not fair to me.
We do flirt or being very friendly, but trying not to hurt the feelings of anyone, if possible. This is also a narcissistic behavior and is done by some for self reassurance. I've seen it in a lot of non-Libra people, but in other signs, especially Gemini and rarely Aquarius. Because we are air signs and don't get attached, yet we do not realize the damage we do to people with different mindsets. Hence the complaints.
Posted by MilaniKisses
however, due to his flirtatious side likes to chat with other females on the side?
i got a meme
So its more than flirting to me... I get he wants an ego boost, but exchanging nudes is a bit far, right? It is with girls from other states, so obviously he doesnt have any intentions of actually meeting them. Just trying to figure out this Libra moon thing.
Posted by MilaniKisses
So its more than flirting to me... I get he wants an ego boost, but exchanging nudes is a bit far, right?
Yes, it's far. What is his sun sign?
Posted by AerialView
I'm not Libra moon. Flirting is NOT a cheat.It's not being faithful entirely though either. If someone cannot be satisfied with the company and attention of their significant other, then they shouldn't have one. Flirt all you want, but don't tie a lady down when your attention is in a million places.
As long as the intention is clear>>Just to flirt nothing more then it's not a cheat.
I got a lot trouble in the past cause of this. It's not fair to me.
Not fair to you... spare me. LOL
How do you make the intention clear? You tell these girls "hey, I have no real interest in you, but I am bored and want an ego boost so I am gonna flirt with you"? Cause that is essentially what you are doing and guaranteed no one says that to the girls they are using for attention. I don't see where and how the intention is ever made clear.. cause also, no one is telling their s/o "oh hey, Ima just flirt with this girl for attention.. but it doesn't mean nothing.." Doesn't happen like that.
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All I can say is I know what i'm doing lol and let the girl I was flirting with know that it's just a flirt. No misleading.
Posted by MilaniKisses
So its more than flirting to me... I get he wants an ego boost, but exchanging nudes is a bit far, right? It is with girls from other states, so obviously he doesnt have any intentions of actually meeting them. Just trying to figure out this Libra moon thing.
Whoa, no.
Sexting while single, I get. But if im in a defined relationship, no. No. Nudes is not casual flirting.
Posted by MilaniKisses
So its more than flirting to me... I get he wants an ego boost, but exchanging nudes is a bit far, right?Yes, it's far. What is his sun sign?
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His Sun is Taurus.
My best friend is a Libra moon. He flirts, but that's it - cheating is not an option for him. He's been with his current partner (a Scorpio moon) since 2006.
Posted by Ram416
My best friend is a Libra moon. He flirts, but that's it - cheating is not an option for him. He's been with his current partner (a Scorpio moon) since 2006.
Whats his sun sign?
Posted by MilaniKisses
So its more than flirting to me... I get he wants an ego boost, but exchanging nudes is a bit far, right?Yes, it's far. What is his sun sign?
His Sun is Taurus.
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So is my best friend. With a Gemini sun/Scorpio moon.
At the end of the day it's not about placements or aspects.
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Is this an actual relationship?What is too far is for you determine. Everyone is different
Yes its an actual relationship... actually engagement.
Posted by AerialView
I'm not Libra moon. Flirting is NOT a cheat.It's not being faithful entirely though either. If someone cannot be satisfied with the company and attention of their significant other, then they shouldn't have one. Flirt all you want, but don't tie a lady down when your attention is in a million places.
As long as the intention is clear>>Just to flirt nothing more then it's not a cheat.
I got a lot trouble in the past cause of this. It's not fair to me.
Not fair to you... spare me. LOL
How do you make the intention clear? You tell these girls "hey, I have no real interest in you, but I am bored and want an ego boost so I am gonna flirt with you"? Cause that is essentially what you are doing and guaranteed no one says that to the girls they are using for attention. I don't see where and how the intention is ever made clear.. cause also, no one is telling their s/o "oh hey, Ima just flirt with this girl for attention.. but it doesn't mean nothing.." Doesn't happen like that.
All I can say is I know what i'm doing lol and let the girl I was flirting with know that it's just a flirt. No misleading.
Okay. But what about your significant other? Since the girl who means nothing is in the loop.. Kinda makes it seem like the girl who actually means something to you is less significant than the one who apparently means nothing.. She's the only one getting the truth..
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Significant other?
She doesn't have to know. It's better that way.
I never cared about flirting so much, as I did the soliciting advice. Which these moons do often cus they can't figure out how they feel about something on their own.
And when that muther fuker would come back with some other bitches opinion. 😐
Posted by Ram416
My best friend is a Libra moon. He flirts, but that's it - cheating is not an option for him. He's been with his current partner (a Scorpio moon) since 2006.
I hope they married by now.
I know a Taurus sun married with kids that cheated on his wife with a friend of mine. The friend got divorced as a background story and after realizing how wrong all the story was (including her marriage. She is a Virgo). Taurus is a lot about reaffirming sexuality. Libra is not, because Libra is mental, not physical.
Posted by compy
I know a Taurus sun married with kids that cheated on his wife with a friend of mine. The friend got divorced as a background story and after realizing how wrong all the story was (including her marriage. She is a Virgo). Taurus is a lot about reaffirming sexuality. Libra is not, because Libra is mental, not physical.
Divorced and then learning the truth afterwards? Was the truth still worthy of divorce?
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Posted by Ram416
My best friend is a Libra moon. He flirts, but that's it - cheating is not an option for him. He's been with his current partner (a Scorpio moon) since 2006.I hope they married by now.
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Gay marriage hasn't been legalized yet in Switzerland I think.
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Posted by Ram416
My best friend is a Libra moon. He flirts, but that's it - cheating is not an option for him. He's been with his current partner (a Scorpio moon) since 2006.I hope they married by now.
Gay marriage hasn't been legalized yet in Switzerland I think.
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Really?
So much for Switzerland always being neutral!
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Posted by Ram416
My best friend is a Libra moon. He flirts, but that's it - cheating is not an option for him. He's been with his current partner (a Scorpio moon) since 2006.I hope they married by now.
Gay marriage hasn't been legalized yet in Switzerland I think.
Really?
So much for Switzerland always being neutral!
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Culturally they're still quite conservative. They have civil unions but that's about it for now.
Posted by compy
I know a Taurus sun married with kids that cheated on his wife with a friend of mine. The friend got divorced as a background story and after realizing how wrong all the story was (including her marriage. She is a Virgo). Taurus is a lot about reaffirming sexuality. Libra is not, because Libra is mental, not physical.Divorced and then learning the truth afterwards? Was the truth still worthy of divorce?
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No, the divorce was not directly connected with the affair. It helped only to realize a non compatibility that was anyway obvious regarding expectations. My friend is single now and far away from the Taurus. The poor husband loved her but he didn't fight for the marriage.
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Posted by Ram416
My best friend is a Libra moon. He flirts, but that's it - cheating is not an option for him. He's been with his current partner (a Scorpio moon) since 2006.I hope they married by now.
Gay marriage hasn't been legalized yet in Switzerland I think.
Really?
So much for Switzerland always being neutral!
Culturally they're still quite conservative.
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Honestly I would never have thought it was not legal there.
It's sad in this day and age.
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Posted by Ram416
My best friend is a Libra moon. He flirts, but that's it - cheating is not an option for him. He's been with his current partner (a Scorpio moon) since 2006.I hope they married by now.
Gay marriage hasn't been legalized yet in Switzerland I think.
Really?
So much for Switzerland always being neutral!
Culturally they're still quite conservative.
Honestly I would never have thought it was not legal there.
It's sad in this day and age.
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There's still civil unions as an option haha...they'll get to marriage eventually. The Swiss govt is just very fickle about social issues.
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Posted by Ram416
My best friend is a Libra moon. He flirts, but that's it - cheating is not an option for him. He's been with his current partner (a Scorpio moon) since 2006.I hope they married by now.
Gay marriage hasn't been legalized yet in Switzerland I think.
Really?
So much for Switzerland always being neutral!
Culturally they're still quite conservative.
Honestly I would never have thought it was not legal there.
It's sad in this day and age.
There's still civil unions as an option haha...they'll get to marriage eventually. The Swiss govt is just very fickle about social issues.
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So you are from Switzerland?
I'm a triple Libra.... seriously how is flirting with others okay when you are in a relationship? Unless that is a boundary you BOTH are okay with.
Everyone is different, but people who think that way should be with other people who also think that way. That's horrible for the one who isn't the type to flirt or cheat to be with someone who thinks that's okay.
Oh and yeah... sending nudes?? Hell no. I would never disrespect my SO like that.
Once I'm committed to being with someone that I care about, flirting with others isn't worth it. But my Fiancé and I flirt with each other everyday. ?
Posted by AerialView
I'm not Libra moon. Flirting is NOT a cheat.It's not being faithful entirely though either. If someone cannot be satisfied with the company and attention of their significant other, then they shouldn't have one. Flirt all you want, but don't tie a lady down when your attention is in a million places.
As long as the intention is clear>>Just to flirt nothing more then it's not a cheat.
I got a lot trouble in the past cause of this. It's not fair to me.
Not fair to you... spare me. LOL
How do you make the intention clear? You tell these girls "hey, I have no real interest in you, but I am bored and want an ego boost so I am gonna flirt with you"? Cause that is essentially what you are doing and guaranteed no one says that to the girls they are using for attention. I don't see where and how the intention is ever made clear.. cause also, no one is telling their s/o "oh hey, Ima just flirt with this girl for attention.. but it doesn't mean nothing.." Doesn't happen like that.
All I can say is I know what i'm doing lol and let the girl I was flirting with know that it's just a flirt. No misleading.
Okay. But what about your significant other? Since the girl who means nothing is in the loop.. Kinda makes it seem like the girl who actually means something to you is less significant than the one who apparently means nothing.. She's the only one getting the truth..
Significant other?
She doesn't have to know. It's better that way.
Damn.. your girl is so lucky! LOL
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She is and also smart 😉
Posted by AerialView
I'm not Libra moon. Flirting is NOT a cheat.It's not being faithful entirely though either. If someone cannot be satisfied with the company and attention of their significant other, then they shouldn't have one. Flirt all you want, but don't tie a lady down when your attention is in a million places.
As long as the intention is clear>>Just to flirt nothing more then it's not a cheat.
I got a lot trouble in the past cause of this. It's not fair to me.
Not fair to you... spare me. LOL
How do you make the intention clear? You tell these girls "hey, I have no real interest in you, but I am bored and want an ego boost so I am gonna flirt with you"? Cause that is essentially what you are doing and guaranteed no one says that to the girls they are using for attention. I don't see where and how the intention is ever made clear.. cause also, no one is telling their s/o "oh hey, Ima just flirt with this girl for attention.. but it doesn't mean nothing.." Doesn't happen like that.
All I can say is I know what i'm doing lol and let the girl I was flirting with know that it's just a flirt. No misleading.
Okay. But what about your significant other? Since the girl who means nothing is in the loop.. Kinda makes it seem like the girl who actually means something to you is less significant than the one who apparently means nothing.. She's the only one getting the truth..
Significant other?
She doesn't have to know. It's better that way.
Damn.. your girl is so lucky! LOL
She is and also smart 😉
You do understand what I am saying though right? If you thought so highly of your woman you wouldn't be doing this stuff behind her back.. What makes it worse though is that you seem to be giving more respect to these girls you have no interest in.. at least you are being honest with them. Shouldn't the love of your life who you think is so smart be the one getting your respect, attention and honesty?
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I never said I giving more respect to those women.
By smart i mean she knows i'm only flirting nothing more.
I'm flirt by nature, not because our relationship is in some kind of danger nor I feel less loved by her. We're fine.
This isn't an astrology thing. It's plain and simple,
this man is attracted to females despite pursuing you. You need you find a person that is 100% ok with and only is dedicated to you. Someone who sees beyond a mere curiosity and wants the person.
As it is, it seems like a lot of these men that you have dated get their fill and go back to natural born females. I could be wrong, but that's what it sounds like as an oustider.
Hi I've seen you around this forum often and can relate to you on so many different levels. I was dating a libra moon with libra sun for a while. He was the most confusing human being ever and was super flirty with a girl in our group of friends although I was there all along. Maybe to me we were dating but to him we were just having fun so whatever. Anyways, I really think it's a Libra thing
Libra moon men I know are very flirtatious in & out of a relationship
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Hi All,
Has anyone dealt with a Libra moon male who is in a committed relationship, however, due to his flirtatious side likes to chat with other females on the side? They wouldn't physically cheat, but get a joy from 'flirting'. I read that this is a common trait of them.
Thanks,
Milani