So i confronted my libra..

This topic was created in the Libra forum by boxcarmirnta on Monday, September 4, 2017 and has 30 replies.

How Libras typically respond to confrontation and communication issues

Libras value harmony and open communication but may sometimes withdraw when they feel overwhelmed or misunderstood. They often prefer peaceful resolutions and may need time to process conflicts. Confrontation can be challenging for them, but they generally appreciate honesty and fairness in relationships.

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He said he wanted to hang out in a couple weeks, i tried to talk to him about stuff that was happening with me and he straight up ignored me... For two weeks. I was totally blown away. Fucking rude. So i told him i missed how we used to talk all the time, he agreed.. But also said how i hated being ignored and that i thought it was insulting.

Guess what he did? Ignored me more. IRONIC EH?? Anyway. I'm glad i spoke my mind.. And ill probably never hear from him again but I'm sick of men thinking they can do whatever they want with no repercussions. So leebs how would you feel about it?? Also any snark will be ignored. Thx.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

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But snark on your side is welcome.

Libras are fuckwits, plain & simple. Would run away from a confrontation like little bitches instead of dealing with the problem.

Seems to be the case!! Wow he really valued me huh? I hate cowards.

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Likewise. When I see grown-ass adults being pussies like that, really gets my blood boiling. Reminds me of my coward sister who flies all over the world, avoiding her problems instead of dealing with them and getting them out of the way.

She can run all she wants, but she can't outrun herself. She'll never be at peace even if she ends up on the other side of the galaxy.

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Move on. If he's really into you, he'd be right up in your face all clingy and needy. You don't need this guy's wishy washiness, life's too short for that crap.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

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But snark on your side is welcome.

Libras are fuckwits, plain & simple. Would run away from a confrontation like little bitches instead of dealing with the problem.

Seems to be the case!! Wow he really valued me huh? I hate cowards.

Likewise. When I see grown-ass adults being pussies like that, really gets my blood boiling. Reminds me of my coward sister who flies all over the world, avoiding her problems instead of dealing with them and getting them out of the way.

She can run all she wants, but she can't outrun herself. She'll never be at peace even if she ends up on the other side of the galaxy.

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Haha well i don't know your sister.. And i love traveling so i can't say it's for running away purposes for me.. But i imagine it can be for some folks.

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If you're so sick of it, stop allowing it, you dense whiner. Jfc.

You're the moron who keeps this guy around and keeps going back. You taught this guy how to treat you. Live with the consequences of your stupidity.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
But snark on your side is welcome.

Libras are fuckwits, plain & simple. Would run away from a confrontation like little bitches instead of dealing with the problem.

Seems to be the case!! Wow he really valued me huh? I hate cowards.

Likewise. When I see grown-ass adults being pussies like that, really gets my blood boiling. Reminds me of my coward sister who flies all over the world, avoiding her problems instead of dealing with them and getting them out of the way.

She can run all she wants, but she can't outrun herself. She'll never be at peace even if she ends up on the other side of the galaxy.

Haha well i don't know your sister.. And i love traveling so i can't say it's for running away purposes for me.. But i imagine it can be for some folks.

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She's a typical Libra, and all the negative traits I saw in her I also saw in every other Libra I've ever met. Her husband, his mother, a friend of mine from high school who I thought was a real standup guy until I REALLY got to know him, an old roommate of mine.

Selfish beyond description, avoiding an issue by avoiding you and when you expect an explanation from them they completely dance around the subject, that is unless they avoid you altogether. Can't get a straight answer out of them.

I hate cowards.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
If you're so sick of it, stop allowing it, you dense whiner. Jfc.

You're the moron who keeps this guy around and keeps going back. You taught this guy how to treat you. Live with the consequences of your stupidity.

Lol nevermind the dense whiner, you got bigger problems. Like not having had sausage or fish in years from the sound of it.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

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But snark on your side is welcome.

Libras are fuckwits, plain & simple. Would run away from a confrontation like little bitches instead of dealing with the problem.

Seems to be the case!! Wow he really valued me huh? I hate cowards.

Likewise. When I see grown-ass adults being pussies like that, really gets my blood boiling. Reminds me of my coward sister who flies all over the world, avoiding her problems instead of dealing with them and getting them out of the way.

She can run all she wants, but she can't outrun herself. She'll never be at peace even if she ends up on the other side of the galaxy.

Haha well i don't know your sister.. And i love traveling so i can't say it's for running away purposes for me.. But i imagine it can be for some folks.

She's a typical Libra, and all the negative traits I saw in her I also saw in every other Libra I've ever met. Her husband, his mother, a friend of mine from high school who I thought was a real standup guy until I REALLY got to know him, an old roommate of mine.

Selfish beyond description, avoiding an issue by avoiding you and when you expect an explanation from them they completely dance around the subject, that is unless they avoid you altogether. Can't get a straight answer out of them.

I hate cowards.

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Wow.. Fucking lame. My last love was a libra and also super evasive and shady. Cowards for sure.

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I'm having the same issue. But different in my case I've known him for over month and things were good until I got upset about him not wanting to meet up and told him ok...goodbye hope you well. And I didn't mean it but, meant more like a warning. And he said I hurt his feelings. And I haven't heard from him in a week.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
If you're so sick of it, stop allowing it, you dense whiner. Jfc.

You're the moron who keeps this guy around and keeps going back. You taught this guy how to treat you. Live with the consequences of your stupidity.

Lol nevermind the dense whiner, you got bigger problems. Like not having had sausage or fish in years from the sound of it.

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Feel better about yourself, honey?

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
If you're so sick of it, stop allowing it, you dense whiner. Jfc.

You're the moron who keeps this guy around and keeps going back. You taught this guy how to treat you. Live with the consequences of your stupidity.

Whoa! Don't put any live ammo in this one. Pew pew!

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You don't know this snotty diva's history.

"I'm so great. How could he not be interested in me!!"

*gags for his attention and keeps him around despite him treating her like shit*

"WHY IS THIS HAPPENING? HOW DARE HE!!!"

*is told he's full of shit by the users here*

"WAH YOU ALL ARE MEAN AND WRONG. I'M BLOCKING EVERYONE WHO DOESN'T CATER TO MY RETARDED FEELINGS!"

*continues to keep him around and cries about it like the desperate hoe she is*

For someone who supposedly thinks so highly of herself, she sure doesn't act like it. There will likely be another thread in a few weeks about this guy.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

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Yes sounds like you and libras are not a good mix. Best to avoid in future.

Or ill just pick a better one in the future.. One who doesn't flake and ghost me for no reason.

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well you are very good looking and amazing and men are "all over your shit" i don't think guys will flake on you or ghost you.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
He said he wanted to hang out in a couple weeks, i tried to talk to him about stuff that was happening with me and he straight up ignored me... For two weeks. I was totally blown away. Fucking rude. So i told him i missed how we used to talk all the time, he agreed.. But also said how i hated being ignored and that i thought it was insulting.

Guess what he did? Ignored me more. IRONIC EH?? Anyway. I'm glad i spoke my mind.. And ill probably never hear from him again but I'm sick of men thinking they can do whatever they want with no repercussions. So leebs how would you feel about it?? Also any snark will be ignored. Thx.

Do you still wanted to talk about stuff after 2 weeks? AFTER he ignored you?

Dxp is the place for talking stuff!

Did you forget—?

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by boxcarmirnta
He said he wanted to hang out in a couple weeks, i tried to talk to him about stuff that was happening with me and he straight up ignored me... For two weeks. I was totally blown away. Fucking rude. So i told him i missed how we used to talk all the time, he agreed.. But also said how i hated being ignored and that i thought it was insulting.

Guess what he did? Ignored me more. IRONIC EH?? Anyway. I'm glad i spoke my mind.. And ill probably never hear from him again but I'm sick of men thinking they can do whatever they want with no repercussions. So leebs how would you feel about it?? Also any snark will be ignored. Thx.

Do you still wanted to talk about stuff after 2 weeks? AFTER he ignored you?

Dxp is the place for talking stuff!

Did you forget—?

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No thats why i told him off. Haha.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by jeane
Yes sounds like you and libras are not a good mix. Best to avoid in future.

Or ill just pick a better one in the future.. One who doesn't flake and ghost me for no reason.

well you are very good looking and amazing and men are "all over your shit" i don't think guys will flake on you or ghost you.

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You're absolutely correct.thanks for the reminder. Luckily i don't put all my eggs in one basket ever. And have other dudes in mind.. Just like men do and feel no shame about.. Feeling pretty good!

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Posted by Bullish

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But snark on your side is welcome.

Libras are fuckwits, plain & simple. Would run away from a confrontation like little bitches instead of dealing with the problem.

Lol This must be white people problems. All the Libras I know are instigators, start shyt all of the time just for fun, love to fight and are the exact opposite. This libra, Cardi B, looks like the poster child for every libra in my family. The one in the braids who walks up to both of them and starts the fight is a classic libra. Every libra I know acts just like her.

Lol unless you're talking about a different kind of confrontation.

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Every libra i know is an actor. And a really good one. Confronting them for doing something shitty? Hell yea. No response? Lame.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by jeane

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by jeane
Yes sounds like you and libras are not a good mix. Best to avoid in future.

Or ill just pick a better one in the future.. One who doesn't flake and ghost me for no reason.

well you are very good looking and amazing and men are "all over your shit" i don't think guys will flake on you or ghost you.

You're absolutely correct.thanks for the reminder. Luckily i don't put all my eggs in one basket ever. And have other dudes in mind.. Just like men do and feel no shame about.. Feeling pretty good!

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Doesnt sound like hes that into you. The libras that i know of always pursued their women to rectify any disputes. To make sure all was well with their partner.

She's been told this over the last 4-5 posts about this guy but she just cannot fathom that a guy would not be into her because she's so "good looking and a total catch."

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He said he wanted to hang out in a couple weeks, i tried to talk to him about stuff that was happening with me and he straight up ignored me... For two weeks. I was totally blown away. Fucking rude. So i told him i missed how we used to talk all the time, he agreed.. But also said how i hated being ignored and that i thought it was insulting.

Guess what he did? Ignored me more. IRONIC EH?? Anyway. I'm glad i spoke my mind.. And ill probably never hear from him again but I'm sick of men thinking they can do whatever they want with no repercussions. So leebs how would you feel about it?? Also any snark will be ignored. Thx.

What constitutes as 'stuff happening to you'?

Air sun males are not wired to discuss 'life' much and prefer to keep negative encumbering baggage to a strict minimum or they will bore of you and find someone else to exchange ideas with.

That's for the fellow water and earth signs. They revel in that shit.

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We talked about everything all the time. Bad and good his and mine. Anything different from that was foreign and odd. Anyway i don't care i don't want inconsistent people in my life.

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Doesnt sound like hes that into you. The libras that i know of always pursued their women to rectify any disputes. To make sure all was well with their partner.

He did for several months then acted like nothing happened. Not my problem. Moved on.

He probably fidnt wish to fight.they dont like confeontation

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I don't like fighting either. I loathe drama. But when someone acts like a dick I'm gonna tell em I'm not cool with it. If he can't handle it then he's not the one for me. People who care, listen, and respect what their lover is saying etc..