Libra Male Mixed Signals

Hi, I'm a Capricorn woman dating a libra man for the past 9 months. We agreed early on to only date each other and not other people. I have met his friends and mom on multiple occasions. He has even told me he loves me on rare occasions and that he can see me in his future. The thing I hate is that we kind of have a long distance relationship and at times our communication and seeing each other suffers because of his busy schedule. But that's not why I'm here.

The problem is, about 3 weeks ago I made him mad (over something in my mind wasn't that serious. No cheating or anything along that nature). This was the first time he has ever been that mad at me. After a couple of days me told me he wanted a break or space. I thought he was trying to end things but he told me that I was over reacting and thinking too deep. The next day he called me to check on me and how my day was going. 3 days after that was complete silence. No calls or text from him, nothing! Then finally he contacted me and we met to talk and he was saying he was "chilling" and just needed space. I asked him if he wanted to end things since he was ignoring me for 3 days straight and he said no. I asked if we were still together and he said yes and that he would text me later. So I left and when I left he gave me a hug and a kiss and told me he loved me back. The very next day he ignored me for 5 more days! (Well on day 4 he messaged me saying he would call me in the morning but never did). So finally I called him from a different number and asked him why was he ignoring me? He said he wasn't ignoring me he was just chilling ' I asked does he wanna work on things and he said "idk" and I said are we still together? He said yes. I said so what do you want? He said idk. I said are you still interested in me? And he said yes. At that point I was so frustrated that I told him that we are done and he replied "yea okay I hear you" as if he didn't believe me. The day afterwards I sent him a message basically saying if it's meant for us to be them we will one day and I wish him the best. He replied asking me how my day was going as if nothing ever happened. The next day he messaged me first by saying good morning and then on the 3rd day I messaged him first and he completely ignored me but when I called him later we spoke for a while and I asked was he still mad? He said no he was over it and that he was just chilling and that nothing had changed between us in his eyes and that we were still together. Then today I didn't hear from him at all! I called and texted no reply. I texted him saying I'm tired of the silent treating and I'm not putting up with it anymore.

My question is, what does this Libra man want or am I over reacting and just need to give him his space and let him come to me? I just can't see how he can claim everything is fine but yet he is ignoring me and not acting lovey Dover since he got mad at me. What can I do? I really wanna make it work.

Signed,

The Sad Ca

Not really a long distance relationship just a hour drive

What the shit lady?. For 9 months it was perfect up until recently, what happened between you guys to go through having problems like?

What is your placements

Idk the full details on astrology so idk the placements. And no it defiantly wasn't perfect, til then. We had problems with communication and seeing each other but that was stuff we already discussed and was working on and planning to work on. But the argument happened because of something I started as a joke and he joked back and I took offense to his joke and over reacted and did and said something I shouldn't have done or said out of anger. He was angry in my reaction and how it made him look to other people as if he was the bad guy even tho I started it. And he said that he hated that I got other ppl into the issue

Oh ok no bueno lady. Hm yeah go ahead and take the opportunity to detach from him. It is okay both tried and didn't work.

I don't like the mind games like that you both are doing. He is more prudish. But if he has fixed or you it would be hard to let go. But once fixed let go that's it, even air, mutable placement would detach and see later in life but too much already problems not working out.

@DollyLuxe that's basically what happened! When he got mad at me and exploded he basically said some pretty hurtful things to me plus all the stuff he has been mad about but never spoke on. How long does it take for him to get over it or decide he had enough space? It has been 2 weeks now since he started the on and off silent treatment

@FirstDecanTaurianWoman0428 but the earlier problems about seeing each other was on his part because of his schedule and he was going to work on that to fix the issue. But that had nothing to do with the disagreement at all. He keeps saying we are together and that nothing has changed between us in his eyes as far as where we stood prior to the argument

@topes so is retro something that is causing Libras to be distant at this moment? If so, when does it end? Lol

1. It changed alot your relationship. Probably changing each other not accepting one another.

2. The communication is really important but the mind games of are or aren't we together gets dull asked over and over again. If you ask and wait patiently for the answer it will be revealed.

3. Did you try to change his work schedule to accommodate you?

4. I am still thinking pull away for a little bit or completely to see if he does want to be together? A guy should not be games like what he is doing.

5. What did you do?why is he so mad?

@topes kinda knows what's up though.

It's not just a couple of days haha

@DollyLuxe I apologized last week in a text message and he didn't reply. I apologized yesterday over the phone and he told me it was okay that he wasn't tripping on it anymore. That's why I'm surprised he didn't speak to me at all today. I sent him a long text basically what I want out of the relationship to make it better and I told him I loved him and would talk to him later. But then I backed doored and told him I wasn't going to put up with the silent treatment anymore after dealing with it for 2 weeks already and letting him slide on it. Still no reply :/

@topes a couple of days?? Ugh. Idk if my emotions can handle this silence. :/

@DollyLuxe I told a joke in a group chat that he and I was apart of with mutual friends. The female friends joined in on the joke and we laughed. Then he responded to my joke with a joke that I found to be offensive and so did my female friends. I ended up deleting him from the group chat and me and my friends continued talking about how messed up he was for saying that (even tho it was a joke). The day after the joke I spoke to him and he just went off saying I shouldn't have over reacted over a joke since I started it and how I deleted him from the group chat and now everyone hates him and he can't defend himself because he was removed from the chat. He was also mad that I was talking about our business with our friends dealing with the joke instead of keeping it between us. But after giving him a day of space he was still messaging me but it wasn't until a mutual friend added him back into the group chat 3 days after the joke and he read what was said after he was first deleted, and he got mad all over again and told me he needed space and that's when the silent treatment began

@DollyLuxe thank you so much for your help! I feel a lot better. I just wanna make sure he isn't done for good since he never said it and keeps saying we are still together. I'll give him his space as hard as it will be. I hope it works. Thank you again

K good to know.

@DollyLuxe I will! Hopefully I'll have s good report in a week. We are suppose to meet this weekend to finally hang out if he doesn't bail on me

@princessLouise that's what I was thinking. Like he blew up everything he was holding back. What should I do? One Libra told me to give him his space to cool down

@sagiluv thank you for the tip! I'm going to try it

You burst his fantasy bubble and now you're going to see the real him

@rockyroadicecream so what do I do now?

@sagiluv you are right. He has basically pushed me to the point of giving him a dose of his own medicine. If he loves me like he says then he needs to prove it like you said or else he is about to loose a real loyal woman. i just hate how ever time I tell him I'm done, he tries to fix things to make me happy again and after a few days or a week he goes back to his old ways. I need to be firm and stick to ignoring him because he basically things he won't loose me