LIbra man acting weird

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littlemermaid27
@littlemermaid27
7 Years

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OK guys so this is a bit more complicated so bear with me please. I was engaged to a Capricorn with whom I have 2 kids. He told me he needs a break because of his financial issues in the summer 2017 so me and the kids moved to my hometown. There I met this Libra guy. At first we were just observing each other, he was appearing at places he knew I was going to be etc...He is from my hometown but he works and lives in Australia (he is coming back permanently this November).

So the night before he was supposed to come back we met at the party and we ended up kissing (it was absolutely amazing). After he left, me and my Capricorn ex started to get our s*it together and were moving closely to a second chance together but I felt it´s not the right thing. We are texting with the Libra guy every day even though he lives on the other side of the world now I feel super close to him - more than I ever felt with anyone and I know he feels the same.

The thing is. I broke up with my Capricorn in January 1st after finding out he was lying to me the whole time about his gambling problem and ironically at the same day the LIbra guy found someone he is still with today. But he said he wants to come see me so we decided to go on a holidays to Thailand together. I thought we will finally "get it on" but now he is acting like he doesn´t want to have anything intimate with me (but I know that he finds me attractive). And I am very confused because he is avoiding the issue "what if we have sex together". I don´t feel like he is in love with his girlfriend - at least from what he tells me it´s more friends with benefits. But I don´t understand his behaviour and I feel super hurt - why would he tell me he wants to go see me and that he wants to prove to me that it is not just about sex with me and then when its arranged and we are actually meeting acting like "oh we are just friends and nothing more"....?

Sorry for the long post, my life is a complicated mess... 😄
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Diona
@Diona
7 Years

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Ouch. Does he have kids? He does like you for sure, but also he might like the attention you are giving him. And he might not be happy to be fully committed, especially because it's nice to have the attention from two persons at the same time.

You'll need to think do you need an adventure or a new love story now. And do you want to get back with your husband. If you need adventure-you might have it with this libra, or you will find someone else. But you are not ready to have someone new in your live so fast after you left your husband. Take your time and enjoy a bit 🙂