Libra man loving an ex (Scorpio)

I need some help with this one, I have recently broken up with this scorpio woman and we were engaged. I still love her but she is with someone else. for her birth day i was thinking about sending some flowers in hopes that she would come back to me. am I a fool for this or what. Please let me know your thoughts. Man o man!

She is with someone else......that was quick, wasn't it, even though you were engaged Jeazy!! How come she has moved on so fast and furiously and you are still stuck in scorpio-limbo-land??

For me, I think scorpios are the one people who hardly ever look back, forgive or forget!! That is the way they operate and fair play to them.......

No way would I send her flowers......too sentimental, too fluffy-duffy!!, too clingy -can't live without you stuff........she's gonna still think you are running after her and her other half won't be too impressed either......say something on the card like..."still think of you lots but now you're with other guy - just wish you the best"....
It will get her thinking....huh...he used to be the love of my life and couldn't function without me!!!...now he just thinks of me!!!! but can live without me.....and wish me well with other guy.....!!!hmmmmmmmmmmmmm, it's all about reverse psychology!!!!!!

However, I would certainly send her a birthday card wishing her the very best - nothing more, nothing less.......

In the meantime.......you're young, free and single......now you gotta make yourself mingle..........

A x

yah, I somewhat agree with Alana

i know this may have come to late. i am a scorpio woman dating a libra and i have something to say. listening to others and not following your heart is what helped her leave u. we want your heart not the games and the lies. it's all or nuthin. im sure she was worth it cause u still want her back. u will never find another that can match her. we dont want the i can do with u or without u attitude. save that for the lame broads. we need a warrior someone thats not afraid to give his heart and not hold back. we wont break your heart it will be handled with care. man up and try it again

Librans and scorpions tend to get emotionally attached. and I have been through one. Cant say I managed to get out of it completely. But still trying.

Funny how libra males can't let things go. :-/
My libra ex is still trying to get me back after 3 years.


Send her a card wishing her a happy birthday and tell her you still think about her. Ask her if you can take her out for her birthday. Just don't be pushy.

Totally agree with brianafay

..its horrible not being able to let it go, but if you feel that strongly, then its better to go with your instincts. She?d appreciate the flowers, with a simple note, im sure.

i agree with alana as well. scorpios are curious by nature and the fact that you write her a note saying you wish her well with the other, but do it in a way that doesn't sound like you are being sarcastic, but instead you show that you are mature and able to move on will intrigue her. scorpios like to be intrigued, but they hate it too, they will want to figure out why you are behaving the way you are. i think that scorpio women do not like clingy men or men that act as if they cannot live without them, to a scorpio this is like revealing a weakness, and scorpios don't do that unless they know you feel the same for them, otherwise they are critical this in themselves and will definitely be turned off by this in you. scorpios like confident not arrogant though) people who show that they can take care of themselves, and that they are mature. but if you can't and you're not, scorpio will see through this eventually, and might even feel that you manipulated or tricked her into getting back with you.
of course i've got to say, if she considers it over, its better for both of you if you try to move on. it doesn't hurt to keep good relations, if you are capable of doing so without pushing for more or being hurt. but otherwise, you should focus on yourself and getting past this relationship.

sorry i posted that without rereading it, its a bit jumbled

OK, guys, It is time to hear from a pro. 50 percent of the guys I have dated have been Libras. I am a Scorp and our union can be an exciting one. Actually I recently divorced a Libra. I learn something new about them every time...

Libras are very laid back and lackadaisical about a lot of things and very wishy washy.
When it comes to relationships they almost have to be coasted along the way... Very charming, the perfect gentleman, and great lovers. However, I don't know if they all can be exactlly what a strong and powerful scorpio woman needs. I agree with Sucksess.. We need to know we can count on you, you need to be a rock not water... Libras don't give their hearts easily, especially after being hurt by a recent relationship. They should take some of their own advice that they give others and listen, and relax. Everything is one extreme to the next. Make a freakin decision about something!!!

Hi,
I am also a Libra male.

Forget about getting back to her, never come crawling back and specially NEVER to any women. She has your number and she can get back to you if she is interested. The thing about she is already with many other men means that she was never in love with you and she properly just exploited you as all greedy Scorpio do. Simple get the idea out of your head and the best thing is that there are around 1000 other women in your area that wants you and that you should go after!
So the best thing is to wish her all the best and never spend time on her again.

After my experience with Water signs, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces is that there is too much headaches, drama, mood swings, manipulation, changing of opinion etc.. they simple thrive on these fine qualities.

I have the best connection with Gemini or Aqua girls even though they are very flirty. I have yet to try Earth and Fire signs.

Ben

OK Benny Boy!!! Straight from a Scorp that Libras can't seem to leave alone. I have purposely tried to stay away... I guess that means I can't resist them either...

Sorry you clearly had a bad experience with a Scorpio, or other water signs for that matter, their rising or moon signs could have also been water or some other sign that doesn't connect well with you.

However, I don't know if Libra and Scorpios are the best match. We just seem to have this emotional bond (not only sexually, as that is a great quality of this pair)- so speak for yourself. The Libras I have been with except one are still friends of mine and I think they are still awesome people and great friends!!!

Water signs can be emotional, part of our charactor, just like Libras are reluctant to making decisions and sometimes they miss out because of it...

So, depending on the pair and the understanding and acceptance of eachother for who each person is this can be an outstanding union and a great busines pair.

that was definitely a perfect observation from queenscorp abt libramen.

and benjsh, u forget abt cancer and pisces - tats bit of a pain evenif u tell me pisces are sweethearts. libra-scorp scores most in bed. and too damn emotional. If someday libra-scorp splits, there still remains an emotional bond for long.

Thank you ver much Libran Beau!!!

@Alana:
You will now, or in a while, enter the "bitter libra" phase. Forgetting her would be wise, but I know Libras don't forget ever.
Just know this: She won't take you back. If you keep this in mind, perhaps you can soften the shock when she actually tells you.

I've seen too many Libras fall because of stuff like this, I guess it can't be helped. You ever wondered why there are aggressive, pessimistic Libras that act almost completely contrary to what the stars say?
It's always because of situations like this.

hi all i am a scorp female who was dating a libra male for couple months, he was all interested the first month then after that i was the one calling him. he said i didnt seem that interested. whenever i called we always went out had a great time all lovey dovey, then i didnt hear from him for several weeks, he said we needed to talk. When i finally pinned him down to talk he said right now he only saw us as being friends. i really like this guy, do you think it would do me any good to pursue him? he never calls anymore, but when i text him he usually answers back. we always had this friendly banter going on. do you think he really wants to be friends or is this just a nice way of saying GET LOST> HELP

Sirley, I am also a Scorpio who is recently divorced from a Libra and has a Libra friend w/benefits. Things are changing because of a few circumstances (check out my postings on reading between the lines of this Libra section - you will get the whole pictur) you and I are going through almost the same thing. My friend and I were doing great as friends with bene's and he got a little emotional about it and I like it as it is. We still have to talk about it. Libras cannot be presured and they hate confrontations or uncomfortable situations. We scorps are pretty emotional and intense and that could sometimes be too much for Libras. If you really like him. Be his friend and go with the flow as long as you can tak it. However, after it is to a point where you can't take it anymore. Have a talk and let him know exactly what you want, then leave it up to him.

He will take some time to think it over and analyze it before he gives you an answer (trust I know - 80% of the men I have dated or hung out with are Libras, including my brother, grandfather and one of my closest guy friends) Be patient, but don't let it get to a point where you become resentful. They are great friends and great lovers, however, a little unbalanced in their personal lives.

*** he only saw us as being friends.

Why would you pursue? He isn't interested in you romantically. Men who are in love don't say this to women they are falling for.

If he still answers your text etc, then he is being your friend. I know I generally am a very low key friend until I get to know someone pretty well. Usually a year or so before they become a full friend. Until then it is very casual, easy come, easy go.