whackylibra
@whackylibra
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libra man - next step
i think you have to think about what is more important and what you are more willing to lose.
is the friendship more important or the potential for more?
are you willing to lose this guy if it all turns to shit or are you more willing to lose the opportunity of what could be a great relationship?
in terms of getting hurt, it's part of being alive and it's the price you have to pay (the price of admission) of having a relationship with another person. you can keep yourself wrapped up so nothing ever hurts you but you forgo so much by not experiencing those other aspects of life (which includes getting hurt) .
it really is in the scales of what weighs heavier for you. you might not be ready yet to take the plunge. you might want to remain in a state of safety and just enjoy his company for now. there's nothing wrong with that either. it's just a matter of where you are in your life and what you want out of it at this point.
is the friendship more important or the potential for more?
are you willing to lose this guy if it all turns to shit or are you more willing to lose the opportunity of what could be a great relationship?
in terms of getting hurt, it's part of being alive and it's the price you have to pay (the price of admission) of having a relationship with another person. you can keep yourself wrapped up so nothing ever hurts you but you forgo so much by not experiencing those other aspects of life (which includes getting hurt) .
it really is in the scales of what weighs heavier for you. you might not be ready yet to take the plunge. you might want to remain in a state of safety and just enjoy his company for now. there's nothing wrong with that either. it's just a matter of where you are in your life and what you want out of it at this point.
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