Libra man utterly insensitive

I married this libra man 8 months ago. It was an arranged marriage. He was very sweet at the start. Paid for our honeymoon in paris and all. But he has always been too selfish. e.g. On honeymoon, e kept purchasing things for himself.. even with my money and never asked if i wanted anything. He used to leave on his own for the day's tours. I am more successful than him in terms of education, work success. I have a better personality than him. He hid a lot of things from me, which I eventually got to know starting from 4 months after the marriage. 1. he has psoriasis 2.his mother had cancer(they knew she was going to die a year in advance). She passed away in Jan this year and I took care of her for 3 months (being a newly wed) 3. Said he was going to do MBA but rejected that offer letter after marriage and joined a distance learning MS program without asking anyone. I have been broke over last 4 months. When the bad period started, one day i cried in his arms during the night. He got up, told me he has go to the bathroom and didnot come back for 1.15 hr. the next day he told his sister to check my whatsapp to see whom i was talking to. Did not ask me anything that day and just left. I was suffering through depression in feb and march and went an abortion in january because the doctors said it wasnt a good time to have the baby and that i wasnt physically fit. I was waiting to tell him this until everything was settled. He has started acting very weird these days. I am staying alone in my city. He is working in another. He said he would move to my city once married.. He hasnt yet or not even tried yet. he invited his father and sister to spend the weekend with us without telling me. They used to discuss something on their own.. i felt worthless over last weekend. After that we had a huge fight over texting which he initiated. I told him about all the things i had to go through without him. He did not come back until after 2 days with a mail saying we should start afresh. Hasnt called yet. Hasnt texted me back yet. I cannt believe he is this ruthless even after I ahve doen everything for him that was possible. I proposed divorce and he doesnot want it. I dont know what to do. Don't know where his head is at.

Also i missed out one. WE were going to purchase a house together, which he has registered on his name without asking me.

As Libra and someone who just read your post.

You sound problematic and whiny. If it was me I would take few days off and just give you some space to calm down. It's too intense for anyone to deal with, to be honest.

If it's an arranged marriage for whatever the reason is. He's probably going to marry you without caring about you. If a libra loves someone, we would give our all.

So just leave him and start your own life. If you're that successful and educated, you don't need to live with some like him regardless of his star sign.

I don't think it's a healthy situation for neither of you.

leave and never agree on arranged marriage again, unless you know the other person well enough to make that decision. you didn't know the guy now he's taking advantage of his position in your life 😢

Do you feel the pressure of your family to not make your own choices? I'm very sorry. This sounds horrible and as someone not familiar with this sort of social/family dynamic, I cant make an accurate opinion on this situation. Life is short... do what makes you happy.

He is acting like a single man and has no respect for you or your marriage.

Not sure what "went an abortion in january because the doctors said it wasnt a good time to have the baby and that i wasnt physically fit." means....are you anorexic? It could have been a blessing in disguise, though. I don't think you should stay married...

You may be able to annulate the marriage, since it has been short and you two not even live together. Talk to a lawyer!