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Libra Men - Can I vent for a sec?
ok so was this directed at libra men or just the libra men i nyour life, you are too subjective, yo usay rude thigns and expect for no one to be offended wghats your sign and your faults im sure you have some. YOu are saying what everyone else saiid on here and its old and boring as fucc, you need a life that doesnt revolve around suin signs b/c you sound disillusioned and if it wasnt for me this thread would be dead most likely so you can thank me now
I can answer this:
"sneezing in the same room or playing music while you're playing doesn't constitute as behavior detrimental to your gaming experience"
Libras are very sensitive. Especially to sound, smells and atmosphere. Especially sound. You just need to understand it comes with the territory of being especially sensitive.. The libra is just telling the truth.. they get distracted very easily.
Libs have alot of bad points. It's what you call 'quirks', but so do other signs, or everyone for that matter. If you can live with the quirks, you can live with the person.
Think of quirks of other signs. Can you imagine them to be perfect? No, you only imagine Libra to be perfect.. because they stand for perfection as such.
Libras aren't perfect.. not in the slightest.
Plus, some things you state may be the repercussions of belonging to male species in a metrosexual society.
"sneezing in the same room or playing music while you're playing doesn't constitute as behavior detrimental to your gaming experience"
Libras are very sensitive. Especially to sound, smells and atmosphere. Especially sound. You just need to understand it comes with the territory of being especially sensitive.. The libra is just telling the truth.. they get distracted very easily.
Libs have alot of bad points. It's what you call 'quirks', but so do other signs, or everyone for that matter. If you can live with the quirks, you can live with the person.
Think of quirks of other signs. Can you imagine them to be perfect? No, you only imagine Libra to be perfect.. because they stand for perfection as such.
Libras aren't perfect.. not in the slightest.
Plus, some things you state may be the repercussions of belonging to male species in a metrosexual society.
Plus, your Libra doesn't sound very mature, tbh. Saturn probably hasn't knocked his cerebellum yet.
You are living with a man-boy.
Ask yourself, can you tolerate a man-boy? Yes, then do.
There's an option of speaking to him about it. And whether he listens to you is a whole other matter.
sorry couldnt help more. but, vent if it makes you feel better.
You are living with a man-boy.
Ask yourself, can you tolerate a man-boy? Yes, then do.
There's an option of speaking to him about it. And whether he listens to you is a whole other matter.
sorry couldnt help more. but, vent if it makes you feel better.
"Libra Son, Libra Dad, Libra Boyfriend"
I feel for you. It's not easy being Cancer in a Libra world. Libra and Cancer just do things differently. Of course, the love nature of Cancer is way more sincere, as opposed to the detachedness of Libra. Libra is like that spark of light that envelopes you then disappears. It comes with the territory of being air. Cancer's emotional pool (puddle) lingers, very very tangibly.. you can almost touch it. Libra is way more cerebral.
I feel for you. It's not easy being Cancer in a Libra world. Libra and Cancer just do things differently. Of course, the love nature of Cancer is way more sincere, as opposed to the detachedness of Libra. Libra is like that spark of light that envelopes you then disappears. It comes with the territory of being air. Cancer's emotional pool (puddle) lingers, very very tangibly.. you can almost touch it. Libra is way more cerebral.
LOL. That's really amusing. I always enjoy hearing people bitch about Libran traits which can be pretty overwhelming at times.
Some Librans are MUCH worse than others in terms of the above described characteristics. The Librans who possess those traits to the extreme, aggravate the piss outta me, but sometimes it's amusing... If I can observe and not deal with it, haha.
Though, I can't knock too hard. I'm guilty of some of that Libran nonsense myself:
1) Indecisive - I only get this way when I'm chilling one on one or in a small group. When I'm alone, I make decisions no problemo. When I go into "Whatever you want to do" mode, it's just because I want everyone to be happy. I don't push it though, if it seems like the other parties are dragging their feet... I've got no problem taking the reigns.
Haha. As for clothes shopping. I've done the same thing on a few occasions. I attribute it to my picky taste - I like plain/classic style s most, which are hard to find... too much labels & shit plastered all over clothes. So any time wasted during a shop is out of frustration.
2) Not guilty of any flirting problems like a lot of Librans. I'm just friendly with everyone. Sometimes people can confuse Libran charm and friendliness with flirting, but I know what you're talking about. I'm super picky with what attracts me, so maybe that's why I don't flirt around really?
3) I'm fine with taking the blame when it's due, it doesn't bother me one bit actually. I DO enjoy my video games in a very serious way, however I don't get bitchy if I get slapped around a bit.
4) Sure. I put forth a conscious effort to be sure everything looks like they're in their correct place, but I'm no mirror whore. I'm confident and don't care much to gain the approval of others.
5) Collecting exes? I didn't know that was a Libran thing. Fuck that, sure isn't my thing. Sounds like a headache to me.
Some Librans are MUCH worse than others in terms of the above described characteristics. The Librans who possess those traits to the extreme, aggravate the piss outta me, but sometimes it's amusing... If I can observe and not deal with it, haha.
Though, I can't knock too hard. I'm guilty of some of that Libran nonsense myself:
1) Indecisive - I only get this way when I'm chilling one on one or in a small group. When I'm alone, I make decisions no problemo. When I go into "Whatever you want to do" mode, it's just because I want everyone to be happy. I don't push it though, if it seems like the other parties are dragging their feet... I've got no problem taking the reigns.
Haha. As for clothes shopping. I've done the same thing on a few occasions. I attribute it to my picky taste - I like plain/classic style s most, which are hard to find... too much labels & shit plastered all over clothes. So any time wasted during a shop is out of frustration.
2) Not guilty of any flirting problems like a lot of Librans. I'm just friendly with everyone. Sometimes people can confuse Libran charm and friendliness with flirting, but I know what you're talking about. I'm super picky with what attracts me, so maybe that's why I don't flirt around really?
3) I'm fine with taking the blame when it's due, it doesn't bother me one bit actually. I DO enjoy my video games in a very serious way, however I don't get bitchy if I get slapped around a bit.
4) Sure. I put forth a conscious effort to be sure everything looks like they're in their correct place, but I'm no mirror whore. I'm confident and don't care much to gain the approval of others.
5) Collecting exes? I didn't know that was a Libran thing. Fuck that, sure isn't my thing. Sounds like a headache to me.
Posted by KingofLibras
Yes, I love what I see in the mirror. I get upset when I see unfairness like someone running a red light or merging in traffic lanes cutting everyone off, or when someone rich treats others like subclass people. I get upset and mad and I can't explain it.
Ha. Word.
it's all in good fun. it's pretty simple. you don't know me - i don't know you. i never said that THIS IS ABOUT [insert name]. i knew that there would be a little backlash for what i posted. but look at it like this...we ALL have something to say about other signs or our own. just like anyone else on this board - you also have a right to speak your mind.
i thought it was hilarious and other people who are or who have dealt with libra men (which was the title of the thread, so stop asking) and have a sense of humor would too.
if you can't take the heat - let alone an opinion from a total stranger, stay off the thread.
i thought it was hilarious and other people who are or who have dealt with libra men (which was the title of the thread, so stop asking) and have a sense of humor would too.
if you can't take the heat - let alone an opinion from a total stranger, stay off the thread.
Posted by sucha_d0ll
if you can't take the heat - let alone an opinion from a total stranger, stay off the thread.
Thumbs up to that.
Posted by sucha_d0ll
it's all in good fun. it's pretty simple. you don't know me - i don't know you. i never said that THIS IS ABOUT [insert name]. i knew that there would be a little backlash for what i posted. but look at it like this...we ALL have something to say about other signs or our own. just like anyone else on this board - you also have a right to speak your mind.
i thought it was hilarious and other people who are or who have dealt with libra men (which was the title of the thread, so stop asking) and have a sense of humor would too.
if you can't take the heat - let alone an opinion from a total stranger, stay off the thread.
the last part is funny since you came on here venting to total strangers you didnt come off as someone who was joking it seemed serious in my eyes but since you say u was joking there isnt a need to get mad then
I agree with all the OP's points, but aside from the indecisiveness im failing to see the flaws? 😛
Posted by sucha_d0ll
1) Indecisive. DAMN*IT can't you make a #@ $ *&ing decision?
-We can make decisions, we just take a min. It also derives from #3 'cuz we don't want it to be our fault lol
Posted by sucha_d0ll
2) Flirting.
-That I don't do unless she flirts w/ me. I was accused of this a lot from my Cancer ex; I don't even like saying anything sexual or anything laden w/ sexual undertones in public. I just like to compliment people when they appear, do, or say something delightful.
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3) Nothing is your fault.
-I'm overly apologetic at times, even when I know it isn't my fault. If I can find a really logical explanation on why it isn't my fault, chances are that it isn't my fault, lol.
Posted by sucha_d0ll
4) Stop looking at yourself in the mirror.
-Chicago's the Windy City & I'd hate to have a bad hair day lol. I don't like labels plastered on me because frankly, I don't want anyone wearing the same thing I'm wearing. If anyone asks where I got so-and-so, I always say "online".
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5) Stop collecting your exes.click to expand
-I used to be a little jealous of my first ex's relationships w/ her exes but now I can see how one can stay friends w/ someone who they shared a lot of love and good times w/. I can see why someone's GF/BF would be jealous of such a relationship but I always felt the need to establish to your GF/BF that there is no chance of you & your ex getting back together. I'm friends w/ all my exs & they somehow became friends w/ each other. I even became friends w/ a couple of my ex's exes. I don't think I'd ever be friends w/ an ex who cheated on me, but then again, I've never been cheated on (at least I don't think lol) so I can't really comment on that.
I thought this list was funny actually. It's true for the most part 😄.
if you can't take the heat - let alone an opinion from a total stranger, stay off the thread.
Yes, THAT is what it is. The people who responded simply can't "take the heat"
Im Sorry, Ive read your thread cancer-girl and skimmed through some of the others and I must say I agree with what you said 100 and ten % ... My libra man is EXACTLY EXACTLY EXACTLY!!! The same way . lol. I love him to death dont get me wrong but... ugh giirl hes a handful and definitley an experience. It takes a reallly... hmm how do I say it, whats the word im looking for, >patient< person to deal with a Libra guy such as himself and maybe that applies to all libra's, maybe not. The one that hit home was when you noted they never have any faults... It true. they never do, in the libra mind they are infallible lol. And oh god forbid you TELL them they are in the wrong. They'll have a freakin coniption on you. Me and my libra guy are actually on a "break" because of a recent arguement. I love him and to be with him it takes a lot of pride swallowing cause he's very bossy with me and mean sometimes and also he can be over bearing when he throughs fits because I dont give him what he wants WHEN he wants it. But.. lol I love him soo... I take it all.
And to those who are getting all pissy and tlkn shit about a simple thread, oh please! Get over it its not that serious. Stop sayin g someone is stereotyping. Its just her opinion. And when you look at it all Astrology in some way shape or form is a form of sterotypes 🙂
And to those who are getting all pissy and tlkn shit about a simple thread, oh please! Get over it its not that serious. Stop sayin g someone is stereotyping. Its just her opinion. And when you look at it all Astrology in some way shape or form is a form of sterotypes 🙂
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2) Flirting.
This is crap. I'm sorry. If you are in a relationship, be in one. If you aren't - flirt like crazy. Do you guys really have to be that OBSESSED with the female species? The real kicker is that there is no measure with you guys. You like fat, tall, short, skinny, old, young, blonde, brunette... etc
We like all shapes and sizes because we aren't flirting. We're just talking and being nice. I can't help it if she gets a crush on me after wards... I swear. And yes, I will always be obsessed with women. Most of my friends have always been females. This is going to sound bad but I have always liked keeping company with pretty women. I mean if I get to pick my friends (all other things equal) why not pick pretty women. Who doesn't want to be the guy at the party that every lady has to come say hi to? I get hugged everywhere I go, it's great!
I do agree with #5 though. No more ex collecting for this Libra. It is silly.
"I like keeping company of pretty woman" lol guy above me sounds just like my boyfriend.
Hmmm .. I don't think all of them are true from my experience. Also, if you were a cancer then I think you're just being oversensitive or overreacting to things 🙂 Just chill.
well i dont give a rats ass what anybody says im not indecisive, im a grown man and make my own decisions on my own time i dont ever let people rush me, i keep my decision making to myself and remain silent about my plans until a good time arises or im done making my decision. If i tell someone i dont care where we eat, its cause i really dont, but f i do care then i will tell them where i want my food from, im starting to think some people havent even dealt with libras, just read the internet and think its close enough, i hope no one is doing that
FLirting-exactly wtf is flirting? everyone has their different opinion on what flirting is and i guarantee you its signs out there that flirt worse then us from scorpio men to virgo women and every sign in between
Nothing is your fault-thats just ridiculous, i wont even comment on that
Stop looking in the mirror-anyone who gives two pennies about their appearnace is going to spend some time in the mirror, if they dont then they have no self worth. Im a man, i just go in and see if im togetehr and go, im not gonna spend hours in their like some woman or closet case
and the exes thing, i rarely get in relationships, im all about sex with no strings attached and have no problem telling that to a woman, well i will tell her im not doing reltaionships at the moment, cant be too damn blunt with women
FLirting-exactly wtf is flirting? everyone has their different opinion on what flirting is and i guarantee you its signs out there that flirt worse then us from scorpio men to virgo women and every sign in between
Nothing is your fault-thats just ridiculous, i wont even comment on that
Stop looking in the mirror-anyone who gives two pennies about their appearnace is going to spend some time in the mirror, if they dont then they have no self worth. Im a man, i just go in and see if im togetehr and go, im not gonna spend hours in their like some woman or closet case
and the exes thing, i rarely get in relationships, im all about sex with no strings attached and have no problem telling that to a woman, well i will tell her im not doing reltaionships at the moment, cant be too damn blunt with women
Posted by amethyst2002Posted by Pride of 0ctober
and the exes thing, i rarely get in relationships, im all about sex with no strings attached and have no problem telling that to a woman, well i will tell her im not doing reltaionships at the moment, cant be too damn blunt with women
Wtf evar! Your thread on here implies otherwise, mister, "I fuck then get into relationships." I know another Libra who did the same thing. Keep it in your effing pants and you won't have all this drama. :p
"No strings," my ass. More like, "intention of no strings and then it goes from there into some relationship of sorts." 😉 It's okay though, you're only human.click to expand
Exxxxxxactly!!! lol
So I am a scorpio woman who has been married for 7 years to a man whom i have fallen out of love with for a very long time now , but i have stayed because we have kids and was waiting for my youngest to go into school fulltime. I met this Libra man at work and i have been attracted to him from day one, I always kept it short and sweet with him when he comes in but tried to not let him know i was attracted for the above reasons.... well he finally told me that he liked me too ..and i was so excited that i never put two and two together that he hadnt noticed my wedding ring. We met up for a day date and let me tell you I was almost instantly hooked we have so many things in common and I have not felt so happy inside for far too long he made a few comments and i quickly realized tht he had no clue i was married so i ended things quick with him to save himself any embarrassment or hurt and even though all i want is to call him i cant bring myself to do it im afraid hell tell me im a terrible person and that would really hurt me alot! So the other day he comes in to work and he wont speak to me or look at me he was definetly being a pouty libra.. after he left one of my other co workers said he asked her if i was married and she told him i was and said that he got really quiet and looked sad. Well so now I dont know what to do do i tell him the truth that i am in an unhappy marriage and until meeting him i didnt realize how much i was missing out on. Or is he hating me right now with all his libra aloofness and hell never forgive me...Libra men help i need answers!
Help what? You are married... deal with that before you worry about another guy. You have kids, haven't you ever told them to clean up one mess before they get out new toys? No PlayStation until you clean up the Legos!
I know THIS Libra would never be "the other guy". I would be upset if someone was showing attraction to me and we went out only to find out she was married. Hah, yes I would be upset. It would end the possibility of a relationship in my mind.
I know THIS Libra would never be "the other guy". I would be upset if someone was showing attraction to me and we went out only to find out she was married. Hah, yes I would be upset. It would end the possibility of a relationship in my mind.
Ok i get what your saying i am not nieve enough to expect him to be the other man wich is why i cut him off i just dont want him to hate me for it. I never intended to offend him or make him angry i just wanted to know if i should try and explain that too him or just let it be.
I am not another wierdo Scorpio chick I have never been this woman to lie,or be disloyal. I was just asking im sorry to have bothered you.
Thank you
elle/LS is weird too, but it's a good weird. She can stay 🙂
Thank you Q for your thoughts I have tried to repair my "love boat" but it takes too or you crash anyway. I should not have led anyone on but i have never been tempted before and thought life was telling me to take a chance, I would hate to look back and think i missed out on something great because i was afraid to try. I like your advice about being true to yourself I have all but forgot about myself for far too long, time for a change i think!
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1) Indecisive. DAMN*IT can't you make a #@ $ *&ing decision?
-What would you like for dinner?
Lib: I dunno, whatever you like.
-What do you wanna do tonight?
Lib: Anything you want, I'm down.
Shopping at the mall? Give yourself at least 3 hours for your Libra man. He'll get something off the wrack, walk around with it for 45 minutes, while he looks at 10 other things that he 'might' get, and then put the held item back.
2) Flirting.
This is crap. I'm sorry. If you are in a relationship, be in one. If you aren't - flirt like crazy. Do you guys really have to be that OBSESSED with the female species? The real kicker is that there is no measure with you guys. You like fat, tall, short, skinny, old, young, blonde, brunette... etc
3) Nothing is your fault.
You can walk down the hallway, stub your toe on a door jam... then curse everyone else in the house for being too loud (thus leaving you to lose concentration) and 'making' you do it.
Video games? You guys are the KINGS of the classic "YOU MADE ME DIE!" accusation. (sneezing in the same room or playing music while you're playing doesn't constitute as behavior detrimental to your gaming experience)
Pretty much anything ill that has been bestowed upon you or someone else in your vicinity can't possibly your fault. In fact... LIBRAS - Do me a favor and think about the last 5 bad things you did that were your fault. Can you name any? =X
4) Stop looking at yourself in the mirror.
YOU LOOK FINE. Your shoes match your friggin shirt, the shirt on your back has a designer label, and YES you are sexy. Don't fret, only a small few of us can actually see right through your slightly insecure two-face'ness =D
5) Stop collecting your exes. This will never prove to be an asset to you in your life. Especially if you get a good woman who treats you well. Inviting over Stacy to the next house party (that you're throwing of course) isn't going to make such a 'harmonious' atmosphere if you've got your GF there as well.
But wait-what if your GF