Libra men = confused gemini woman

So, to my knowledge at least, libra and gemini are supposed to be soul mate signs.

Then why is it, with the exception of One entire person, every libra man I have ever met abhors me? I mean, for the first few moments we're good. Fun fun fun, bam suddenly I'm either being spoken to very rudely or not spoken to at all. Am I missing something? I thought libra people were peacemakers as a general rule?

Maybe you need to reflect on the lead up to why they all seem to end this way... I mean there is no smoke without fire! So, is there something about the way you behave that get's their back up?
Is it only libra's that seem to have an issue with you, or are there other people in general? I mean, be real, Gemini's are NO angels!!!! You guys can be very rude and two faced and fail to see this a the best of times! Maybe every time time you meet a Libra, it's your horrid twin that their getting to know and not the flip side that it funny, and fun loving...

Just food for thought... However, you should ask this current Libra what's up. Good Luck.

Lol I know I can be horrid, but I honestly try my best. I think possibly I come off to strongly? I'm very open with people and tend to attach myself quickly. As in, suddenly they are a part of my routine before they realize it. Not so much that I want to attach myself romantically as I do in a more friendly way. I'm very touchy, forward, aggressive kind of friendly. Yes, its typically just libra men that I have this particular problem with. Even women I normally get along with fine.

Its the sudden change that surprises me.

I love gems , but i hate their 2nd personality

geminis flit around too much. libras need to feel like they are the most important thing ever. if you're distracted and don't pay him enough of the right kinds of attention, he will lose interest very quickly. geminis also like lots of adoration. libras, though, like to charm people and will have an easier time giving the gemini the feeling of adoration they want. unfortunately, geminis don't return it, so the libra gets bored and moves on.

the rudeness you describe is generally how libras act when they get the impression that somebody they thought was interested in them is not actually interested in them.

just because you feel like you're being nice and you feel like they are important to you doesn't mean it comes off that way. geminis have to work extra hard to seem sincere. that's just that.

i also have that same problem with my ex gemini lol its weird but i don't believe we our ment to be soulmate signs.

Maybe gemini/libra isn't the best of combos. I honestly notice a lot more pisces/libra. That is just weird to me, but what do I know? It would coincide with the need for an equal amount of adoration given though. I'm terrible at -showing- emotions while apparently a pisces woman is great at it. Libra men ARE amazing though. Whether I show it or not, they make me smile 😄!

Posted by xxxLeogalxxx

I mean, be real, Gemini's are NO angels!!!! You guys can be very rude and two faced and fail to see this a the best of times!

pardon moi...we are pretty close to angels 😉

never met a two faced Gem yet...see both sides and tell it like it is, but never two faced



some Gems are right in yer face kind, like me...I think it turns a lot of people off at worse and freaks them out.

at least that's what my Libra told me.

just because you feel like you're being nice and you feel like they are important to you doesn't mean it comes off that way. geminis have to work extra hard to seem sincere. that's just that.

meh...why waste time explaining to someone for an hour that they actually are important, when 5 minutes should suffice...Sincerity should come from actions and track record of honestly, not flowery dressing up of meaningless words if nothing solid is at it's base.
I have yet to meet a Gem that would go to that extent...it would probably suffocate me...as in: "I like you, how are you feeling, you ok? good! now lets get something to eat and talk about what you and I can do tomorrow" kinda way. kwim?

Posted by Sickleesweet
Maybe gemini/libra isn't the best of combos. I honestly notice a lot more pisces/libra. That is just weird to me, but what do I know?

true and not.

my Libra's ex of 5 years is a Pisces...and honestly, I don't know how that was done, maybe the dreaminess is what works for Libra, or the helplessness, which probably works for a guy since they always seem to have the need to save the day.

😆 Hey hey hey, I can play the helpless damsel if thats whats needed. Just don't expect me to stay that way outside of the bedroom.

there is always a reason for any Gems madness...always...just don't provoke it lol

Posted by curious visitor
geminis flit around too much. libras need to feel like they are the most important thing ever.

This was exactly my experience with my Libra ex and it shocked me because I had never had someone act like that so quickly. It was our first official date after a 20+ year split. We were sitting on barstools at the bar facing sideways so we were facing each other. At one point I just casually glanced behind him because a fire over the bars open wood burning fireplace caught my eye. All I did was glance at the flickering fire, I didn't even turn or move in my seat, only my eyes moved. He started saying stuff like 'why are you looking around' and 'who are you looking at' and then accused me of looking around to see if any guys were looking at me. It was so awkward and happened every time my eyes left his eyes. It felt like he was trying to control every movement I had and I just wanted to scream that I can't help it, I get distracted by shiny things. Who knows how bad it would have been had I ever actually flirted with anyone in front of him.

problem is that people just generally match their sun signs with each other ..but in love..it really doesn't matter what sign your with AS LONG as

your venus (love) and mars (desire) are matching.

my bf and i have all planets matching each other. venus/ mars. moon. rising. sun.

my gemini friend is dating this guy who is a virgo! been together happily for awhile now.