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Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.

That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.

I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.

His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.

That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.

I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.

Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?

Why didn’t I see him?

Yeah

I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.

What feelings?

I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!

I think I just have a issue conveying that. I do have feelings for him though.

If you do - it must be driving you up a wall that he is crying for her deceased gf. Is it?
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I’m not happy about it but it’s expected
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Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.

That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.

I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.

His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.

That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.

I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.

Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?

Why didn’t I see him?

Yeah

I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.

What feelings?

I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!

I think I just have a issue conveying that. I do have feelings for him though.

If you do - it must be driving you up a wall that he is crying for her deceased gf. Is it?

I’m not happy about it but it’s expected
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It’s messed up. He had no business to deal with your feelings while his are still raw and THERE!

I always say that break ups can be cured by new rships but death - I have no opinion on that but it would make me SO uncomfortable living in a shadow of his past and seeing him like that…

How much tile passed from her death?
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Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.

That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.

I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.

His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.

That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.

I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.

Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?

Why didn’t I see him?

Yeah

I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.

What feelings?

I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!

I think I just have a issue conveying that. I do have feelings for him though.

If you do - it must be driving you up a wall that he is crying for her deceased gf. Is it?

I’m not happy about it but it’s expected

It’s messed up. He had no business to deal with your feelings while his are still raw and THERE!

I always say that break ups can be cured by new rships but death - I have no opinion on that but it would make me SO uncomfortable living in a shadow of his past and seeing him like that…

How much tile passed from her death?
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When we met it was only 6 months. Now a year.
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Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.

That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.

I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.

His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.

That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.

I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.

Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?

Why didn’t I see him?

Yeah

I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.

What feelings?

I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!

I think I just have a issue conveying that. I do have feelings for him though.

If you do - it must be driving you up a wall that he is crying for her deceased gf. Is it?

I’m not happy about it but it’s expected

It’s messed up. He had no business to deal with your feelings while his are still raw and THERE!

I always say that break ups can be cured by new rships but death - I have no opinion on that but it would make me SO uncomfortable living in a shadow of his past and seeing him like that…

How much tile passed from her death?

When we met it was only 6 months. Now a year.
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Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.

That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.

I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.

His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.

That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.

I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.

Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?

Why didn’t I see him?

Yeah

I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.

What feelings?

I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!

I think I just have a issue conveying that. I do have feelings for him though.

If you do - it must be driving you up a wall that he is crying for her deceased gf. Is it?

I’m not happy about it but it’s expected

It’s messed up. He had no business to deal with your feelings while his are still raw and THERE!

I always say that break ups can be cured by new rships but death - I have no opinion on that but it would make me SO uncomfortable living in a shadow of his past and seeing him like that…

How much tile passed from her death?

When we met it was only 6 months. Now a year.

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I did but he’s the only one I was sleeping with
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I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.



Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.

Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes

Thank you. Just gonna move on. It’s hard when someone is reaching out saying they missi you. If it gets too hard I’ll block him on WhatsApp too.

Wish you could see my text log lol sucked cuz I was really into her but those red flags turned into mf banners. Pulled what he pulled but her anger was much more out there. She still attempts to text. Ignoring them makes it worse but it will pass. Trust me, he aint worth it. And it will only get worse and worse and worse. Cut ya ties and heal. Best of luck to you!!

I’ve seen what damage Libra men can do. My friend has dated one for over 10 years. She’s a shell of herself. Always crying and begging him to love her. She even got suicidal. It’s scary. I’m at least about to delete our log. I think I’m avoiding blocking to keep the door open just a tiny bit because I still like him. But time usually helps me.
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Eh. Ive seen Taurus, Aqua and Leo men do the same but to each their own. Although I love astrology, I catergoroze shitty ppl as just that, shitty ppl. Like I said Ive never done this. Way too honest and upfront but Im not what western astrology describes me as. Whats important to remember is anyone can manipulate someone who is willing to believe it. Watch for red flags amd react accordingly
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I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.



Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.

Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes

Thank you. Just gonna move on. It’s hard when someone is reaching out saying they missi you. If it gets too hard I’ll block him on WhatsApp too.

Wish you could see my text log lol sucked cuz I was really into her but those red flags turned into mf banners. Pulled what he pulled but her anger was much more out there. She still attempts to text. Ignoring them makes it worse but it will pass. Trust me, he aint worth it. And it will only get worse and worse and worse. Cut ya ties and heal. Best of luck to you!!

I’ve seen what damage Libra men can do. My friend has dated one for over 10 years. She’s a shell of herself. Always crying and begging him to love her. She even got suicidal. It’s scary. I’m at least about to delete our log. I think I’m avoiding blocking to keep the door open just a tiny bit because I still like him. But time usually helps me.
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Eh. Ive seen Taurus, Aqua and Leo men do the same but to each their own. Although I love astrology, I catergoroze shitty ppl as just that, shitty ppl. Like I said Ive never done this. Way too honest and upfront but Im not what western astrology describes me as. Whats important to remember is anyone can manipulate someone who is willing to believe it. Watch for red flags amd react accordingly
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I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.



Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.

Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes

Thank you. Just gonna move on. It’s hard when someone is reaching out saying they missi you. If it gets too hard I’ll block him on WhatsApp too.

Wish you could see my text log lol sucked cuz I was really into her but those red flags turned into mf banners. Pulled what he pulled but her anger was much more out there. She still attempts to text. Ignoring them makes it worse but it will pass. Trust me, he aint worth it. And it will only get worse and worse and worse. Cut ya ties and heal. Best of luck to you!!

I’ve seen what damage Libra men can do. My friend has dated one for over 10 years. She’s a shell of herself. Always crying and begging him to love her. She even got suicidal. It’s scary. I’m at least about to delete our log. I think I’m avoiding blocking to keep the door open just a tiny bit because I still like him. But time usually helps me.

Eh. Ive seen Taurus, Aqua and Leo men do the same but to each their own. Although I love astrology, I catergoroze shitty ppl as just that, shitty ppl. Like I said Ive never done this. Way too honest and upfront but Im not what western astrology describes me as. Whats important to remember is anyone can manipulate someone who is willing to believe it. Watch for red flags amd react accordingly
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