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4 Years
Libra said I was the best thing
Understanding Libra's Approach to Love and Relationships
Libra individuals value harmony and fairness in relationships. They tend to approach love with sincerity but may withdraw if they feel unreciprocated or unstable. Repeated blocking and unblocking can reflect difficulty handling emotional conflict. Recognizing Libra's need for balance can improve relationship dynamics and communication.
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Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
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I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
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His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
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That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
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Yes I think he is
“ask him if he’s having sex or dating anyone and he gets upset saying I shouldn’t ask if we’re not together.”
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
Yes I think he is
“ask him if he’s having sex or dating anyone and he gets upset saying I shouldn’t ask if we’re not together.”
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He admitted he slept with someone in April and said it was horrible and he regretted it and blocked her. And was insisting I was sleeping with someone else too, I have not. We haven’t seen each other since Feb at this point so I’m not naive.
A colleague is going through same thing with her libra ex. He broke up with her yet now months later he's reaching out telling her how much he misses her. 🥴
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
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I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Sounds like he's playing the typical Libra man mind games 😄 Yup, I know that all too well as I am a Libra man myself. We can be heart breakers to the core. He's trying to figure it out still. You need to watch his actions, not what he says.
I don’t want to watch shit lol I don’t know why I haven’t blocked him on WhatsApp yet. I really don’t block people though and only did so because he started that bs. So I return the energy.
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
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Sorry to hear and hope you’re ok.
It’s why I didn’t even think I would start liking him, as if one could really control it. It didn’t come up right away though. I need to vet better.
Sounds like he's playing the typical Libra man mind games 😄 Yup, I know that all too well as I am a Libra man myself. We can be heart breakers to the core. He's trying to figure it out still. You need to watch his actions, not what he says.
I don’t want to watch shit lol I don’t know why I haven’t blocked him on WhatsApp yet. I really don’t block people though and only did so because he started that bs. So I return the energy.
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I sense you’re too strong for him
Bella
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
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In him.
This. Weird:
Tells me he’s not jealous but then got upset when I mentioned another dude. And wouldn’t stop mentioning the dude for a few days. I ask him if he’s having sex or dating anyone and he gets upset saying I shouldn’t ask if we’re not together.
You have NO business talking. Period!
It sounds totally like you both shouldn’t be talking but doing so out of boredom.
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
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Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
Sounds like he's playing the typical Libra man mind games 😄 Yup, I know that all too well as I am a Libra man myself. We can be heart breakers to the core. He's trying to figure it out still. You need to watch his actions, not what he says.
I don’t want to watch shit lol I don’t know why I haven’t blocked him on WhatsApp yet. I really don’t block people though and only did so because he started that bs. So I return the energy.
I sense you’re too strong for him
Bella
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Thanks Girlfriend, I don’t even feel that strong anymore. Love got me down.
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
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I know. I just want to see if she'd admit or not.
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
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That’s not the case though.
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
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I don’t think so
What did you argue about?
This. Weird:
Tells me he’s not jealous but then got upset when I mentioned another dude. And wouldn’t stop mentioning the dude for a few days. I ask him if he’s having sex or dating anyone and he gets upset saying I shouldn’t ask if we’re not together.
You have NO business talking. Period!
It sounds totally like you both shouldn’t be talking but doing so out of boredom.
Not true. At least for me.
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
Thought the same thing.
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Why? I’d love to hear your take on this.
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
I know. I just want to see if she'd admit or not.
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Telling him about dude. Why?
Just don’t engage in ANY conversation. Period.
I think sometimes people don’t even know they are bored and maybe somewhat lonely. Admitting it at times of confusion may not even a thing until mind is clearing up and REAL DUDE happens. 😂
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
I don’t think so
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Why engaging into QA talks? Just lose him. You wasn’t a huge fan to begin with…
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
I know. I just want to see if she'd admit or not.
Telling him about dude. Why?
Just don’t engage in ANY conversation. Period.
I think sometimes people don’t even know they are bored and maybe somewhat lonely. Admitting it at times of confusion may not even a thing until mind is clearing up and REAL DUDE happens. 😂
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I mentioned it in an argument not just casual conversation. But I basically said he’s not doing enough compared to someone else. However the other guy did one small really nice gesture for me when I sick. The Libra asked what he could do but the other guy actually did something without even asking.
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
Thought the same thing.
Why? I’d love to hear your take on this.
I have nothing special to say, but it's very traumatic experience. One day he might feel ready to "move on", one day not.
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I thought you were agreeing with me being bored too. I see what you mean though. I think it’s a lot to live up to and live with.
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
I know. I just want to see if she'd admit or not.
Telling him about dude. Why?
Just don’t engage in ANY conversation. Period.
I think sometimes people don’t even know they are bored and maybe somewhat lonely. Admitting it at times of confusion may not even a thing until mind is clearing up and REAL DUDE happens. 😂
I mentioned it in an argument not just casual conversation. But I basically said he’s not doing enough compared to someone else. However the other guy did one small really nice gesture for me when I sick. The Libra asked what he could do but the other guy actually did something without even asking.
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Exactly! So why do you even considering wasting your time to entertain him if you already had better and more thoughfull man?
Why don't you just tell him you're not interested?
interested in what?
In him.
Like it wasn’t obvious…
She is bored.
I know. I just want to see if she'd admit or not.
Telling him about dude. Why?
Just don’t engage in ANY conversation. Period.
I think sometimes people don’t even know they are bored and maybe somewhat lonely. Admitting it at times of confusion may not even a thing until mind is clearing up and REAL DUDE happens. 😂
I mentioned it in an argument not just casual conversation. But I basically said he’s not doing enough compared to someone else. However the other guy did one small really nice gesture for me when I sick. The Libra asked what he could do but the other guy actually did something without even asking.
Exactly! So why do you even considering wasting your time to entertain him if you already had better and more thoughfull man?
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I don’t think the guy is better 100%
I’ve know him for years and he never really pursued me. We happened to reconnect when I wasn’t feeling good and he did the small gesture but for instance he only picked up the phone one time to talk to me since I’ve known him. Everything else it text. I don’t take him that serious. But maybe when I’m better I will let him take me out of he’s still showing some interest.
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
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Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
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Why didn’t I see him?
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
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Yeah
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
Yeah
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I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
Yeah
I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.
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What feelings?
I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
Yeah
I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.
What feelings?
I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!
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I think I just have a issue conveying that. I do have feelings for him though.
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
I've seen and heard so much of this Libra men's back and forth thing IRL and it's mostly with Leo or Aries women.
This guy can't make up his mind and will waste your time and energy if you allow it.
Welp I’m an Aries woman lol thanks
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
Thank you. Just gonna move on. It’s hard when someone is reaching out saying they missi you. If it gets too hard I’ll block him on WhatsApp too.
I've seen and heard so much of this Libra men's back and forth thing IRL and it's mostly with Leo or Aries women.
This guy can't make up his mind and will waste your time and energy if you allow it.
Aries women need strong assertive men not the can’t make up theirs minds type.
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
Thank you. Just gonna move on. It’s hard when someone is reaching out saying they missi you. If it gets too hard I’ll block him on WhatsApp too.
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Wish you could see my text log lol sucked cuz I was really into her but those red flags turned into mf banners. Pulled what he pulled but her anger was much more out there. She still attempts to text. Ignoring them makes it worse but it will pass. Trust me, he aint worth it. And it will only get worse and worse and worse. Cut ya ties and heal. Best of luck to you!!
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
Thank you. Just gonna move on. It’s hard when someone is reaching out saying they missi you. If it gets too hard I’ll block him on WhatsApp too.
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Wish you could see my text log lol sucked cuz I was really into her but those red flags turned into mf banners. Pulled what he pulled but her anger was much more out there. She still attempts to text. Ignoring them makes it worse but it will pass. Trust me, he aint worth it. And it will only get worse and worse and worse. Cut ya ties and heal. Best of luck to you!!
I've seen and heard so much of this Libra men's back and forth thing IRL and it's mostly with Leo or Aries women.
This guy can't make up his mind and will waste your time and energy if you allow it.
Aries women need strong assertive men not the can’t make up theirs minds type.
I will always ship Aries + Leo.
A former Aries colleague was in very dysfunctional relationship with a Libra man that everytime she came to me for advice on Libras, I'd be clueless as to why she's with him. The guy was so insensitive, insecure, an absolute hoe and would go back and forth she really was almost driven insane.
She's now with a Leo man for 3 years and has never been happier.
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I dated one leo briefly for about 7 months. He was a mess. If they’re anything like him I’ll pass. He was lazy, angry and boring in my opinion. Didn’t feel cared for. I much prefer Saggi men although I only dated one briefly as a younging but we always click pretty instantly.
I never did this and Im a libra. And hate when its done to me. That is a childish, immature and manipulative man. Only reason he hasnt shown hos abusive sode is because you intimidated him by cutting his ass off.
Leave him alone. I went thru this with a few women. Its tiring and pointless. They hate to see you go and will do anything in this world to keep ypu around a chew toy.
Literally just went thru this. Broke it off, left her alone. She comes around and says lets be friends and I tried but boy it just......no. She ended up getting angrier amd angrier at the fact that I didnt want her and that she couldnt accept that. But she wanted to be spiteful and I wouldnt allow that either. Any response to them is a weapon to use in their eyes
Thank you. Just gonna move on. It’s hard when someone is reaching out saying they missi you. If it gets too hard I’ll block him on WhatsApp too.
Wish you could see my text log lol sucked cuz I was really into her but those red flags turned into mf banners. Pulled what he pulled but her anger was much more out there. She still attempts to text. Ignoring them makes it worse but it will pass. Trust me, he aint worth it. And it will only get worse and worse and worse. Cut ya ties and heal. Best of luck to you!!
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I’ve seen what damage Libra men can do. My friend has dated one for over 10 years. She’s a shell of herself. Always crying and begging him to love her. She even got suicidal. It’s scary. I’m at least about to delete our log. I think I’m avoiding blocking to keep the door open just a tiny bit because I still like him. But time usually helps me.
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
Yeah
I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.
What feelings?
I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!
I think I just have a issue conveying that. I do have feelings for him though.
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If you do - it must be driving you up a wall that he is crying for her deceased gf. Is it?
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
Yeah
I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.
What feelings?
I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!
I think I just have a issue conveying that. I do have feelings for him though.
If you do - it must be driving you up a wall that he is crying for her deceased gf. Is it?
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I’m not happy about it but it’s expected
Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.
That’s why I thinks he’s full of it and ignore. I did block him too and then he locates me on WhatsApp asking if and why I blocked him. I think he’s trying to add me to some harem.
I don’t know what he went through as you mentioned a traumatic experience. Also, maybe he is young? Perhaps he is incredibly frustrated and lashes out against his better interest and afterwards rudders backwards.
His gf passed away. He’s 33. Not that young.
That is pretty scary to deal with, if you are trying to love again. I'm not making excuses for him, but I do understand his push/pull.
I agree. That’s why I’m like lemme let this go. He said he was sad and cried on the anniversary recently for a few days but was over being sad and wanted to see me. I made an excuse as to not see him.
Why? He was honest with you, and you are trying to be understanding and patient with him, so why punish him for being honest?
Why didn’t I see him?
Yeah
I was in my feelings about how things have gone. So I feel distance is best.
What feelings?
I haven’t noticed any feelings from you to him at all! You just BORED!
I think I just have a issue conveying that. I do have feelings for him though.
If you do - it must be driving you up a wall that he is crying for her deceased gf. Is it?
I’m not happy about it but it’s expected
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It’s messed up. He had no business to deal with your feelings while his are still raw and THERE!
I always say that break ups can be cured by new rships but death - I have no opinion on that but it would make me SO uncomfortable living in a shadow of his past and seeing him like that…
How much tile passed from her death?
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Sounds weird even to me though I am a Libra. I only approach once. When someone tells me no I’m gone. Sometimes when I really like someone and am heartbroken I might try again but that blocking and unblocking stuff is weird. I wouldn’t block my love interest. Seems quite unstable.