Libra-Scorpio.... To be or not—

So I've been or had been with my love for a little over a year, we were actually celebrating our anniversary that night before we got into a fight. It's always typical that he brings up things that are bothering when we're drinking or about to head out somewhere.

Our relationship has been ups and downs more ups than downs, but his attitude is what kills me. He's 38, I'm 31 you would think he's still in high school with his juvenile behavior. When we get into fights, which he pushes my buttons to the point where I really go off because I'm pretty much an even keeled person, and he's very indirect with his confrontations and that's one thing I hate! People beating around the bush or not being able to express themselves ( I was actually getting him better with this) He will say little subliminal comments only I know that get under my skin and when I explode he tries to calm me down, once I get mad no turning back and then

Fast forward to 2 weeks ago, we were getting ready to go out and he brings up a convo I had with a friend in front of him a few days prior, and lied on my friend and said he said something when he didn't. he is a very highly skilled master manipulator, which doesn't work for me because my mind works quicker than his so I run circles around his intelligence (another topic). So anyway the entire day was a back and forth we argue then we talk then we argue (typical for us to have fights 2 days straight because we do act like Normal humans and have convos in the middle lol) so we get to a bar and were laughing and joking bringing the bar over to us with our energy. One guy dare looks at me and he's having a fit. So that was my final straw, since he had been irritating me all day. I didn't say anything to him I just told him I had enough and I was going home,( it wasn't meant for a breakup more so I'm going home because you're being really annoying and I'll be liable to curse you out at the bar so I'm going to take myself out before it gets ugly lol). He text me at like 6 the next morning insulting me, basically saying I'm a just like me. I didn't respond back, but I went to call him a couple days later and his phone number was changed!

The thing is that we have great chemistry, we love each other very much so and we show each other to no end. But what the heck is up with these games? He's changed his number like 3-5 in the last 3 months trying to run from me only for him to call me or come to my job when it's convenient for him. Now I'm far from a pushover but I've already told him he doesn't have to start fights to get alone time. Why does he do this? Do you all think he will Call me? It's been 2 weeks and it's been radio silence. And he has been pushing me to deepen the relationship( he asked to move in with me, get joint accounts) I'm really confused, any good advice out there?