Gem03
@Gem03
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Libra sun+moon man upset, what do i do?
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Posted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
Your welcome, not sure if I should laugh or cry. Did I royally screw up? š¢
So you canāt let him have some time with coworkers when youāre spending every single day together? Thatās a bit much to then complain about cancelling..
If it was a once a week date, the cancelling complaint makes sense. But this is completely codependent. Um controlling to then tell him when he can next see you. Shouldnāt that be a discussion?
If it was a once a week date, the cancelling complaint makes sense. But this is completely codependent. Um controlling to then tell him when he can next see you. Shouldnāt that be a discussion?
He texted back saying "I need to reevaluate and see what the best steps are going forward for both of us." I said "Iām really sorry about last night. I hope you can forgive me and if there is anything I can do to make amends, please let me know."
Posted by PuzzlePieces
So you canāt let him have some time with coworkers when youāre spending every single day together? Thatās a bit much to then complain about cancelling..
If it was a once a week date, the cancelling complaint makes sense. But this is completely codependent. Um controlling to then tell him when he can next see you. Shouldnāt that be a discussion?
I just don't appreciate being cancelled on at the last minute. Also it was a suggestion, instead of seeing each other almost everyday we can see each other twice a week.
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
He can probably be bribed if you want him back at all costs
I don't really have advice other than that it would be wise to try to disengage
He texted back saying "I need to reevaluate and see what the best steps are going forward for both of us." He has never been this formal with me.
I said "Iām really sorry about last night. I hope you can forgive me and if there is anything I can do to make amends, please let me know."
I'm not texting him again.
How do I bribe him? What do i bribe him with?
Posted by Gem03Posted by PuzzlePieces
So you canāt let him have some time with coworkers when youāre spending every single day together? Thatās a bit much to then complain about cancelling..
If it was a once a week date, the cancelling complaint makes sense. But this is completely codependent. Um controlling to then tell him when he can next see you. Shouldnāt that be a discussion?
I just don't appreciate being cancelled on at the last minute. Also it was a suggestion, instead of seeing each other almost everyday we can see each other twice a week.click to expand
When you are seeing each other every day itās more like a relationship & you have to be more flexible about how things work. Seems you got to that point & instead of understanding you took it as he cancelled on you & got butthurt.. and now you can only see me twice a week. I donāt think either of you handled it very well honestly. Maybe have a discussion in person might help.
Posted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
you're miserable
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by Gem03Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
He can probably be bribed if you want him back at all costs
I don't really have advice other than that it would be wise to try to disengage
He texted back saying "I need to reevaluate and see what the best steps are going forward for both of us." He has never been this formal with me.
I said "Iām really sorry about last night. I hope you can forgive me and if there is anything I can do to make amends, please let me know."
I'm not texting him again.
How do I bribe him? What do i bribe him with?
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awww. you really shouldn't bribe him... the golfers I know are dbags. but I've been seeing a Libra who did the same lovebomb thing, then I put out, then he said he wants to just be friends bc he doesn't want a relationship but he isn't seeing anyone else and likes me-- like your Libra who is considering being alone so he is free to do what he wants when he wants
anyway, my Libra and I are doing better and he has made all manner of contradicting statements since I've known him.. Libras are known to be indecisive since they perceive on such a broad scale. I guess as of now he decided that we get along well enough to be good friends and monogamous but undefined? I expect shit to hit the fan again sometime... as of now he seems more stable and well-meaning than I realized before, since I've gotten to know him. but I bribed him with vape tanks, hentai sheets, a digital song I built in GarageBand, and other stuff he likes. Venusians like gifts and acts of service. worst thing you can do is impair his lifeclick to expand
Um so I haven't put out, I only have $ ex in a committed relationship. He understands this (he typically has $ ex with someone within a couple weeks)but he said he is okay waiting for me. I already bought him a whole bunch of things (and golf things) for his birthday. I think if I did that now he'll think Im trying to buy his forgiveness and thats not ok. Im happy things are going well with you and your libra man š
Posted by StubbornSag
Dear Gemini, all I can say without even knowing you is thag I'm 100% certain you deserve way better and you have absolutely nothing to apologize for yo him. He's the one who should be apologizing, yet he already has you wrapped around his finger and is toying with your feelings. You can do better. Like way way better than that. Also, all that Libra in his chart is a screaming red flag š¤¦š¼āāļø your Venus and Mars signs are incompatible and it already shows.
That is really sweet. Thank you ā¤ļø I'm prepared to leave if he wants to leave tho. I'll work through it if he wants to.
Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Gem03Posted by PuzzlePieces
So you canāt let him have some time with coworkers when youāre spending every single day together? Thatās a bit much to then complain about cancelling..
If it was a once a week date, the cancelling complaint makes sense. But this is completely codependent. Um controlling to then tell him when he can next see you. Shouldnāt that be a discussion?
I just don't appreciate being cancelled on at the last minute. Also it was a suggestion, instead of seeing each other almost everyday we can see each other twice a week.
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When you are seeing each other every day itās more like a relationship & you have to be more flexible about how things work. Seems you got to that point & instead of understanding you took it as he cancelled on you & got butthurt.. and now you can only see me twice a week. I donāt think either of you handled it very well honestly. Maybe have a discussion in person might help.click to expand
I completely agree, which is why I'm like lets talk about it and work through it yaknow?
Posted by Gem03Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Gem03Posted by PuzzlePieces
So you canāt let him have some time with coworkers when youāre spending every single day together? Thatās a bit much to then complain about cancelling..
If it was a once a week date, the cancelling complaint makes sense. But this is completely codependent. Um controlling to then tell him when he can next see you. Shouldnāt that be a discussion?
I just don't appreciate being cancelled on at the last minute. Also it was a suggestion, instead of seeing each other almost everyday we can see each other twice a week.
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When you are seeing each other every day itās more like a relationship & you have to be more flexible about how things work. Seems you got to that point & instead of understanding you took it as he cancelled on you & got butthurt.. and now you can only see me twice a week. I donāt think either of you handled it very well honestly. Maybe have a discussion in person might help.
I completely agree, which is why I'm like lets talk about it and work through it yaknow?click to expand
Yes I get what you were trying to do. Unfortunately, it wasnāt handled great by either of you. Itās hard when you spend so much time together right off the bat, it requires a back off to reality and real life. Hopefully, he will stop being silent soon & you guys can have a real discussion. Again Iād suggest in person. Then you can figure it all out together.
Posted by StubbornSagPosted by Gem03Posted by StubbornSag
Dear Gemini, all I can say without even knowing you is thag I'm 100% certain you deserve way better and you have absolutely nothing to apologize for yo him. He's the one who should be apologizing, yet he already has you wrapped around his finger and is toying with your feelings. You can do better. Like way way better than that. Also, all that Libra in his chart is a screaming red flag š¤¦š¼āāļø your Venus and Mars signs are incompatible and it already shows.
That is really sweet. Thank you I'm prepared to leave if he wants to leave tho. I'll work through it if he wants to.
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Get the ball in your hands, don't give him that power over you or he can and will abuse it. I dated Libra once, they respond to rejection much more than to pleasing. Well not to rejection literally, just being less interested, less engaged. Having your own life that you squeeze him in, instead of having it revolve around himclick to expand
Its the first time he was ever that formal with me when he said he was going to reevaluate us. I'm prepared for the worst, I washed the hoodies he gave me and logged out of his hbo account on my tv. Also I have a venus in aries with mercury taurus, it grounds me a little and I have never been able to do the "pretend im not interested even tho i like you". Im decisive and straight forward. I don't want to change who i am or play pretend games.
Posted by Gem03Posted by StubbornSagPosted by Gem03Posted by StubbornSag
Dear Gemini, all I can say without even knowing you is thag I'm 100% certain you deserve way better and you have absolutely nothing to apologize for yo him. He's the one who should be apologizing, yet he already has you wrapped around his finger and is toying with your feelings. You can do better. Like way way better than that. Also, all that Libra in his chart is a screaming red flag š¤¦š¼āāļø your Venus and Mars signs are incompatible and it already shows.
That is really sweet. Thank you I'm prepared to leave if he wants to leave tho. I'll work through it if he wants to.
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Get the ball in your hands, don't give him that power over you or he can and will abuse it. I dated Libra once, they respond to rejection much more than to pleasing. Well not to rejection literally, just being less interested, less engaged. Having your own life that you squeeze him in, instead of having it revolve around him
Its the first time he was ever that formal with me when he said he was going to reevaluate us. I'm prepared for the worst, I washed the hoodies he gave me and logged out of his hbo account on my tv. Also I have a venus in aries with mercury taurus, it grounds me a little and I have never been able to do the "pretend im not interested even tho i like you". Im decisive and straight forward. I don't want to change who i am or play pretend games.click to expand
Also full disclosure: these first few weeks our lived essentially revolved around one another. Every date was long as hell but the time flew by, it was either we were working or spending time with each other.
Posted by EggrollsPosted by route666aybbPosted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
you're miserable
And you have titties š¤·āāļøclick to expand
Wtf lol
@Eggrolls barely but that ain't stoppin you from being miserable
Posted by EggrollsPosted by route666aybb
@Eggrolls barely but that ain't stoppin you from being miserable
Barely? Thatās a full B cup. Why would your gynecomastia stop my misery?click to expand
Cappin is not gonna make me mad . Try again
Posted by Gem03
I began dating a libra man, we matched on hinge on 9/10 (just 3 weeks ago) and have been consistently seeing each other. As in almost every single day, our first couple dates were 8 hours long each. We align on core values, have amazing talks and love spending time with each other. Within 1 week, we deleted our hinge accounts, we haven't made it official yet tho. He took me on a shopping spree, spends so much time with me and i whole heartedly appreciate him. On 9/26, it was his birthday so I invited him over and cooked him a whole meal (appetizer+main dish+drinks that i made). I bought him birthday gifts (since he took me on a shopping spree, it only seemed fair). He loved it. I adore this man. He has told me that he is obsessed and attached and i feel the same way about him!
He plays a lot of golf, like a lot. I'm cool with that. But on last Sunday we planned a date and the morning of, he agreed that he will come pick me up at 3pm, around 1pm he cancels on me because he wants to play another round of golf. I was upset, he said he was sorry and we make up.
Well, it happened last night as well. I was going to go over to his place and he canceled on me 2 hours early, saying he wants to play golf with his coworkers. I was like "okay well canceling plans at the last minute is disrespectful. Would you be okay if I did this to you?". He texted this morning at 6am and said he was sorry and that it can be seen as selfish, that he is a loner and he did what made him happy in the moment, and that since we spend so much time together I wouldn't mind. My issue isn't golf, my issue is being canceled on.
I texted back at 6:30am saying yes its disrespectful, but also that we are used to seeing each other so much that it became our routine. So I said we should plan better, and incorporate time for our hobbies and for each other. I apologized as well, and told him I'd be mindful of him needing his alone time/golf time. I asked if I can come see him tonight and then the next time we see each other can be Tuesday or Wednesday. He hasn't responded yet, he typically responds within 1-2 hours. He has told me when he is upset he gets quiet. I want to make amends.
He is Libra sun+moon+mercury+venus and scorpio mars. I have Gemini sun+moon+mars, aries venus and taurus mercury
You said your piece. He acknowledged it. Now give him time to adapt that.
You don't have to make amends here so long as you were not disrespectful to him about it yourself. Give him time and to rearrange things.
Relationships are a learning process on both ends.
Don't be pulling out the roast every 5 minutes when you just put the thing in 5 minutes ago.
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Gem03
I began dating a libra man, we matched on hinge on 9/10 (just 3 weeks ago) and have been consistently seeing each other. As in almost every single day, our first couple dates were 8 hours long each. We align on core values, have amazing talks and love spending time with each other. Within 1 week, we deleted our hinge accounts, we haven't made it official yet tho. He took me on a shopping spree, spends so much time with me and i whole heartedly appreciate him. On 9/26, it was his birthday so I invited him over and cooked him a whole meal (appetizer+main dish+drinks that i made). I bought him birthday gifts (since he took me on a shopping spree, it only seemed fair). He loved it. I adore this man. He has told me that he is obsessed and attached and i feel the same way about him!
He plays a lot of golf, like a lot. I'm cool with that. But on last Sunday we planned a date and the morning of, he agreed that he will come pick me up at 3pm, around 1pm he cancels on me because he wants to play another round of golf. I was upset, he said he was sorry and we make up.
Well, it happened last night as well. I was going to go over to his place and he canceled on me 2 hours early, saying he wants to play golf with his coworkers. I was like "okay well canceling plans at the last minute is disrespectful. Would you be okay if I did this to you?". He texted this morning at 6am and said he was sorry and that it can be seen as selfish, that he is a loner and he did what made him happy in the moment, and that since we spend so much time together I wouldn't mind. My issue isn't golf, my issue is being canceled on.
I texted back at 6:30am saying yes its disrespectful, but also that we are used to seeing each other so much that it became our routine. So I said we should plan better, and incorporate time for our hobbies and for each other. I apologized as well, and told him I'd be mindful of him needing his alone time/golf time. I asked if I can come see him tonight and then the next time we see each other can be Tuesday or Wednesday. He hasn't responded yet, he typically responds within 1-2 hours. He has told me when he is upset he gets quiet. I want to make amends.
He is Libra sun+moon+mercury+venus and scorpio mars. I have Gemini sun+moon+mars, aries venus and taurus mercury
You said your piece. He acknowledged it. Now give him time to adapt that.
You don't have to make amends here so long as you were not disrespectful to him about it yourself. Give him time and to rearrange things.
Relationships are a learning process on both ends.
Don't be pulling out the roast every 5 minutes when you just put the thing in 5 minutes ago.click to expand
I miss him, we need to find a routine where both of us have alone time and time for each other. I feel bad for how I went about it. Im firm on not being cancelled on at the last minute.
Ooohh!! My ultimate pet peeve which is taking other peopleās time for granted. He gave you a non-apology. Stop second guessing yourself.
Tell him he needs to be courteous of your time and cancel in time because heās such a loserā¦I mean loner.
āNobody is trying to infringe on your solitude as long as youāre respectful of another personās time. So next time Iād appreciate a cancellation well in advance than last minute. Thank you and have a nice day.ā Watch him hide for a couple days to lick his wounds. Let him do that because he rightfully got called out. Let him re-emerge once heās done sulking.
Tell him he needs to be courteous of your time and cancel in time because heās such a loserā¦I mean loner.
āNobody is trying to infringe on your solitude as long as youāre respectful of another personās time. So next time Iād appreciate a cancellation well in advance than last minute. Thank you and have a nice day.ā Watch him hide for a couple days to lick his wounds. Let him do that because he rightfully got called out. Let him re-emerge once heās done sulking.
Posted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
This is no reason to stay single. Nobody is perfect. People come with all sorts of bad manners because their parents did the bare minimum with parenting. Although you shouldnāt have to teach someone basic manners, the least you can do is communicate whatās acceptable and not. If they canāt redress their behaviour, you should ditch them.
Posted by Gem03Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Gem03
I began dating a libra man, we matched on hinge on 9/10 (just 3 weeks ago) and have been consistently seeing each other. As in almost every single day, our first couple dates were 8 hours long each. We align on core values, have amazing talks and love spending time with each other. Within 1 week, we deleted our hinge accounts, we haven't made it official yet tho. He took me on a shopping spree, spends so much time with me and i whole heartedly appreciate him. On 9/26, it was his birthday so I invited him over and cooked him a whole meal (appetizer+main dish+drinks that i made). I bought him birthday gifts (since he took me on a shopping spree, it only seemed fair). He loved it. I adore this man. He has told me that he is obsessed and attached and i feel the same way about him!
He plays a lot of golf, like a lot. I'm cool with that. But on last Sunday we planned a date and the morning of, he agreed that he will come pick me up at 3pm, around 1pm he cancels on me because he wants to play another round of golf. I was upset, he said he was sorry and we make up.
Well, it happened last night as well. I was going to go over to his place and he canceled on me 2 hours early, saying he wants to play golf with his coworkers. I was like "okay well canceling plans at the last minute is disrespectful. Would you be okay if I did this to you?". He texted this morning at 6am and said he was sorry and that it can be seen as selfish, that he is a loner and he did what made him happy in the moment, and that since we spend so much time together I wouldn't mind. My issue isn't golf, my issue is being canceled on.
I texted back at 6:30am saying yes its disrespectful, but also that we are used to seeing each other so much that it became our routine. So I said we should plan better, and incorporate time for our hobbies and for each other. I apologized as well, and told him I'd be mindful of him needing his alone time/golf time. I asked if I can come see him tonight and then the next time we see each other can be Tuesday or Wednesday. He hasn't responded yet, he typically responds within 1-2 hours. He has told me when he is upset he gets quiet. I want to make amends.
He is Libra sun+moon+mercury+venus and scorpio mars. I have Gemini sun+moon+mars, aries venus and taurus mercury
You said your piece. He acknowledged it. Now give him time to adapt that.
You don't have to make amends here so long as you were not disrespectful to him about it yourself. Give him time and to rearrange things.
Relationships are a learning process on both ends.
Don't be pulling out the roast every 5 minutes when you just put the thing in 5 minutes ago.
I miss him, we need to find a routine where both of us have alone time and time for each other. I feel bad for how I went about it. Im firm on not being cancelled on at the last minute.click to expand
š± Omg you had a issue and told your potential partner about it. You Monster!
You should absolutely feel badš
You don't feel bad because of this. You are actually afraid of the reaction you will get from it from him. There is a important difference there.
That post panic response of reaching out after speaking up.
Your partner needs to know you and understand you bit by bit, by level of importance of each bit by you.
In this case it's being flexible while having some kind of consistency at the same time.
I bet the first postponement to golf longer didn't really bother you. The second with the last minute cancellation did.
Bit by bit in order of importance to you.
And vis versa.
Posted by StubbornSagPosted by Gem03Posted by StubbornSagPosted by Gem03Get the ball in your hands, don't give him that power over you or he can and will abuse it. I dated Libra once, they respond to rejection much more than to pleasing. Well not to rejection literally, just being less interested, less engaged. Having your own life that you squeeze him in, instead of having it revolve around himPosted by StubbornSag
Dear Gemini, all I can say without even knowing you is thag I'm 100% certain you deserve way better and you have absolutely nothing to apologize for yo him. He's the one who should be apologizing, yet he already has you wrapped around his finger and is toying with your feelings. You can do better. Like way way better than that. Also, all that Libra in his chart is a screaming red flag š¤¦š¼āāļø your Venus and Mars signs are incompatible and it already shows.
That is really sweet. Thank you I'm prepared to leave if he wants to leave tho. I'll work through it if he wants to.
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Its the first time he was ever that formal with me when he said he was going to reevaluate us. I'm prepared for the worst, I washed the hoodies he gave me and logged out of his hbo account on my tv. Also I have a venus in aries with mercury taurus, it grounds me a little and I have never been able to do the "pretend im not interested even tho i like you". Im decisive and straight forward. I don't want to change who i am or play pretend games.
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Um, I didn't mean it in a way that you play games with him or pretend to not be interested as much, just to simply disengage and back off a bit. I wasn't playing games with that guy either, it was just how I am but he seemed to like it. But everyone ia different so...
It's good to state your opinion on things always. And you had absolute right to call him out on stooding you up last minute. That wasn't ok from him, no matter how much time you spent together previously. If you made plans, either change them earlier, or don't make plans until you're certain you can follow through. Your point is absolutely correct and you have nothing to apologize to him for. He should be doing, that cause he wronged you, not the other way around. Suggesting him a time to meet up is simply that - suggestion. I don't see how that could be taken as making conditions as when to meet. So, imo you need to back off a bit and he needs to stand forward a bit to make it work. You sound mature enough to know what you're doing so I have no doubt it will work out the best way for you. Good luck and hope you're happy with the outcome of the situationclick to expand
Thank you š Im not texting him so its upto him, but if we are going to continue seeing each other, the cancelling at the last minute thing has to be cut in the bud and early on. I can't deal with that.
@Eggrolls I'm cuddly. I promise
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Gem03Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Gem03You said your piece. He acknowledged it. Now give him time to adapt that.
I began dating a libra man, we matched on hinge on 9/10 (just 3 weeks ago) and have been consistently seeing each other. As in almost every single day, our first couple dates were 8 hours long each. We align on core values, have amazing talks and love spending time with each other. Within 1 week, we deleted our hinge accounts, we haven't made it official yet tho. He took me on a shopping spree, spends so much time with me and i whole heartedly appreciate him. On 9/26, it was his birthday so I invited him over and cooked him a whole meal (appetizer+main dish+drinks that i made). I bought him birthday gifts (since he took me on a shopping spree, it only seemed fair). He loved it. I adore this man. He has told me that he is obsessed and attached and i feel the same way about him!
He plays a lot of golf, like a lot. I'm cool with that. But on last Sunday we planned a date and the morning of, he agreed that he will come pick me up at 3pm, around 1pm he cancels on me because he wants to play another round of golf. I was upset, he said he was sorry and we make up.
Well, it happened last night as well. I was going to go over to his place and he canceled on me 2 hours early, saying he wants to play golf with his coworkers. I was like "okay well canceling plans at the last minute is disrespectful. Would you be okay if I did this to you?". He texted this morning at 6am and said he was sorry and that it can be seen as selfish, that he is a loner and he did what made him happy in the moment, and that since we spend so much time together I wouldn't mind. My issue isn't golf, my issue is being canceled on.
I texted back at 6:30am saying yes its disrespectful, but also that we are used to seeing each other so much that it became our routine. So I said we should plan better, and incorporate time for our hobbies and for each other. I apologized as well, and told him I'd be mindful of him needing his alone time/golf time. I asked if I can come see him tonight and then the next time we see each other can be Tuesday or Wednesday. He hasn't responded yet, he typically responds within 1-2 hours. He has told me when he is upset he gets quiet. I want to make amends.
He is Libra sun+moon+mercury+venus and scorpio mars. I have Gemini sun+moon+mars, aries venus and taurus mercury
You don't have to make amends here so long as you were not disrespectful to him about it yourself. Give him time and to rearrange things.
Relationships are a learning process on both ends.
Don't be pulling out the roast every 5 minutes when you just put the thing in 5 minutes ago.
I miss him, we need to find a routine where both of us have alone time and time for each other. I feel bad for how I went about it. Im firm on not being cancelled on at the last minute.
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š± Omg you had a issue and told your potential partner about it. You Monster!
You should absolutely feel badš
You don't feel bad because of this. You are actually afraid of the reaction you will get from it from him. There is a important difference there.
That post panic response of reaching out after speaking up.
Your partner needs to know you and understand you bit by bit, by level of importance of each bit by you.
In this case it's being flexible while having some kind of consistency at the same time.
I bet the first postponement to golf longer didn't really bother you. The second with the last minute cancellation did.
Bit by bit in order of importance to you.
And vis versa.
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Yeah i had a lil bit of post panic response.
Posted by EggrollsPosted by aquarius09Posted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
This is no reason to stay single. Nobody is perfect. People come with all sorts of bad manners because their parents did the bare minimum with parenting. Although you shouldnāt have to teach someone basic manners, the least you can do is communicate whatās acceptable and not. If they canāt redress their behaviour, you should ditch them.
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It was tongue in cheek.
And actually I think youāre just looking to argue because Iām almost certain Iāve seen you say how much you dislike libra moons and possibly libras in general.click to expand
Nah dnt talk down on my fellow aquarius. Watch your mouth
Posted by Gem03Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Gem03Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Gem03You said your piece. He acknowledged it. Now give him time to adapt that.
I began dating a libra man, we matched on hinge on 9/10 (just 3 weeks ago) and have been consistently seeing each other. As in almost every single day, our first couple dates were 8 hours long each. We align on core values, have amazing talks and love spending time with each other. Within 1 week, we deleted our hinge accounts, we haven't made it official yet tho. He took me on a shopping spree, spends so much time with me and i whole heartedly appreciate him. On 9/26, it was his birthday so I invited him over and cooked him a whole meal (appetizer+main dish+drinks that i made). I bought him birthday gifts (since he took me on a shopping spree, it only seemed fair). He loved it. I adore this man. He has told me that he is obsessed and attached and i feel the same way about him!
He plays a lot of golf, like a lot. I'm cool with that. But on last Sunday we planned a date and the morning of, he agreed that he will come pick me up at 3pm, around 1pm he cancels on me because he wants to play another round of golf. I was upset, he said he was sorry and we make up.
Well, it happened last night as well. I was going to go over to his place and he canceled on me 2 hours early, saying he wants to play golf with his coworkers. I was like "okay well canceling plans at the last minute is disrespectful. Would you be okay if I did this to you?". He texted this morning at 6am and said he was sorry and that it can be seen as selfish, that he is a loner and he did what made him happy in the moment, and that since we spend so much time together I wouldn't mind. My issue isn't golf, my issue is being canceled on.
I texted back at 6:30am saying yes its disrespectful, but also that we are used to seeing each other so much that it became our routine. So I said we should plan better, and incorporate time for our hobbies and for each other. I apologized as well, and told him I'd be mindful of him needing his alone time/golf time. I asked if I can come see him tonight and then the next time we see each other can be Tuesday or Wednesday. He hasn't responded yet, he typically responds within 1-2 hours. He has told me when he is upset he gets quiet. I want to make amends.
He is Libra sun+moon+mercury+venus and scorpio mars. I have Gemini sun+moon+mars, aries venus and taurus mercury
You don't have to make amends here so long as you were not disrespectful to him about it yourself. Give him time and to rearrange things.
Relationships are a learning process on both ends.
Don't be pulling out the roast every 5 minutes when you just put the thing in 5 minutes ago.
I miss him, we need to find a routine where both of us have alone time and time for each other. I feel bad for how I went about it. Im firm on not being cancelled on at the last minute.
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š± Omg you had a issue and told your potential partner about it. You Monster!
You should absolutely feel badš
You don't feel bad because of this. You are actually afraid of the reaction you will get from it from him. There is a important difference there.
That post panic response of reaching out after speaking up.
Your partner needs to know you and understand you bit by bit, by level of importance of each bit by you.
In this case it's being flexible while having some kind of consistency at the same time.
I bet the first postponement to golf longer didn't really bother you. The second with the last minute cancellation did.
Bit by bit in order of importance to you.
And vis versa.
Yeah i had a lil bit of post panic response.click to expand
Yup use to do that myself. It's a unwarranted fear response. How can you expect someone to know if you don't tell them?
There are wants/desires and there are needs/core things about everyone.
This post fear response is a red flag for most people. The speaking up part is not.
Go do you while he figures himself out.
Posted by EggrollsPosted by route666aybbPosted by EggrollsPosted by aquarius09It was tongue in cheek.Posted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
This is no reason to stay single. Nobody is perfect. People come with all sorts of bad manners because their parents did the bare minimum with parenting. Although you shouldnāt have to teach someone basic manners, the least you can do is communicate whatās acceptable and not. If they canāt redress their behaviour, you should ditch them.
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And actually I think youāre just looking to argue because Iām almost certain Iāve seen you say how much you dislike libra moons and possibly libras in general.
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Nah dnt talk down on my fellow aquarius. Watch your mouth
You know I can see all the edits you made, right? Is this you flirting with me?click to expand
You ain't deserve all that that's why I took it out after what you said to my aquarius.. All u deserve is air
Posted by EggrollsPosted by aquarius09Posted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
This is no reason to stay single. Nobody is perfect. People come with all sorts of bad manners because their parents did the bare minimum with parenting. Although you shouldnāt have to teach someone basic manners, the least you can do is communicate whatās acceptable and not. If they canāt redress their behaviour, you should ditch them.
It was tongue in cheek.
And actually I think youāre just looking to argue because Iām almost certain Iāve seen you say how much you dislike libra moons and possibly libras in general.click to expand
Nope. You just donāt like being told that youāre uppity. Stay single. My comment had nothing to do with libra moons, did it?
Ladies.. no. fighting..
@aquarius09 be the bigger person. You know I feel where you coming from but don't back n forth with her. Just leave it.
@eggrolls stop being a cunt
@aquarius09 be the bigger person. You know I feel where you coming from but don't back n forth with her. Just leave it.
@eggrolls stop being a cunt
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If Iāve out cunted you, Iāll definitely do some self reflection.
You need to stop
Posted by EggrollsPosted by aquarius09Posted by EggrollsPosted by aquarius09Posted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
This is no reason to stay single. Nobody is perfect. People come with all sorts of bad manners because their parents did the bare minimum with parenting. Although you shouldnāt have to teach someone basic manners, the least you can do is communicate whatās acceptable and not. If they canāt redress their behaviour, you should ditch them.
It was tongue in cheek.
And actually I think youāre just looking to argue because Iām almost certain Iāve seen you say how much you dislike libra moons and possibly libras in general.
Nope. You just donāt like being told that youāre uppity. Stay single. My comment had nothing to do with libra moons, did it?
You calling me uppity is rich. I know that Iām a cunt. Do you know that you are?click to expand
Nope, Iām not. Couldnāt even answer a simple question because you know youād look stupid. Bye Linda.
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If Iāve out cunted you, Iāll definitely do some self reflection.
You need to stop
Iām done. Im going out to have a drink. This is upsetting. I thought we were cunts in solidarity.click to expand
lol go get some dick and stop being mean to my clan
Posted by route666aybbPosted by EggrollsPosted by route666aybbPosted by Eggrolls
If Iāve out cunted you, Iāll definitely do some self reflection.
You need to stop
Iām done. Im going out to have a drink. This is upsetting. I thought we were cunts in solidarity.
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lol go get some dick and stop being mean to my clanclick to expand
āBeing mean to my clan?ā You think delusional Linda with her presumption even came close to being mean? Stop flattering her. Just LoL.
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If Iāve out cunted you, Iāll definitely do some self reflection.
You need to stop
Iām done. Im going out to have a drink. This is upsetting. I thought we were cunts in solidarity.
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lol go get some dick and stop being mean to my clan
āBeing mean to my clan?ā You think delusional Linda with her presumption even came close to being mean? Stop flattering her. Just LoL.click to expand
I already know.. you know what we could do. That's why I told you to chill. I don't want to show favoritism because thats no good.. Just chill babe pls
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So you canāt let him have some time with coworkers when youāre spending every single day together? Thatās a bit much to then complain about cancelling..
If it was a once a week date, the cancelling complaint makes sense. But this is completely codependent. Um controlling to then tell him when he can next see you. Shouldnāt that be a discussion?
Thatās not the issue itās the cancelling! Regardless how often we are seen it is rude to cancel
Same as making you wait three hours on a date
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Dear Gemini, all I can say without even knowing you is thag I'm 100% certain you deserve way better and you have absolutely nothing to apologize for yo him. He's the one who should be apologizing, yet he already has you wrapped around his finger and is toying with your feelings. You can do better. Like way way better than that. Also, all that Libra in his chart is a screaming red flag š¤¦š¼āāļø your Venus and Mars signs are incompatible and it already shows.
That is really sweet. Thank you I'm prepared to leave if he wants to leave tho. I'll work through it if he wants to.
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Get the ball in your hands, don't give him that power over you or he can and will abuse it. I dated Libra once, they respond to rejection much more than to pleasing. Well not to rejection literally, just being less interested, less engaged. Having your own life that you squeeze him in, instead of having it revolve around himclick to expand
What I notice is when we stand up for our selves then we retract n try to be nice and take it back. I felt it started good until you kinda retracted. The Guy now turning it on you.
I had a get together with a guy many years ago and he cancelled an hour before citing some bs excuse.
He texted me to cancel and asking to reschedule.
I answered back āno.ā
The next day he texted me jokingly asking me if I was serious or not.
I let him have it. He tried to talk his shyt but this aināt no dialogue.
Your time is valuable and so is your mental health.
People show you how they feel about you.
In that moment, his satisfaction mattered and not yours. His we being mattered and not yours.
He can see his coworkers whenever tbh.
He already see them 40 hours a week!
How often do you find love tho?
He texted me to cancel and asking to reschedule.
I answered back āno.ā
The next day he texted me jokingly asking me if I was serious or not.
I let him have it. He tried to talk his shyt but this aināt no dialogue.
Your time is valuable and so is your mental health.
People show you how they feel about you.
In that moment, his satisfaction mattered and not yours. His we being mattered and not yours.
He can see his coworkers whenever tbh.
He already see them 40 hours a week!
How often do you find love tho?
I wanna add that he was golfing with his boss's boss, its part of networking almost. He and I are traditional in some ways, like I want a protector and a provider, loyal, treats me like a princess, and has good family values (I'm 25 but it was how I was brought up and those are the standards I have). I date to marry, I won't have kids with a man I'm not married to, and I don't sleep with someone who is not my boyfriend. He knew all this by the second date, i was honest with him. He [28 y/o libra man] has no problem being the protector and provider in a relationship and he has treated me like a princess since day 1. He likes that I'm feminine and needy (his words).
Update: He called me after work yesterday and we talked. He told me has strong feelings for me and that he is sorry for cancelling at the last minute. That prior to our first date he would work 12 hours a day, sleep and golf. Then he met me and it was work for 8 hours, our 8 hour long date and sleep. He didn't even have time to golf or alone time, but it was all natural and organic, he told me he has never gone this fast with anyone before and he sees a future with me (he has said this before so i'm not surprised).
I was like yeah I would never disrespect you by canceling at the last time. But also that even in marriage its healthy to have alone time for both parties and we need to plan better and incorporate that. I reassured him that I feel the same way as he does. That if he needs to cancel i need a 6 hour notice, so I can make other plans with my family/friends.
He agreed to the compromise and went on to say that I'm the first woman he has dated who is a princess and high maintenance and that there is nothing wrong with that. But everything has been so fast between us he wants to think things through make sure he doesn't fall short in a relationship with me. He asked if he could have the weekend to himself to sit down and think things through.
I reassured him that he has never fallen short and has always made feel like a princess. That taking the weekend to think things through is a good idea.
He got home last night after work and texted me that he appreciates me and that I'm perfect for him. I echoed the statement since I feel the same.
I figured over the weekend Id get radio silence since he asked for space but this morning he texted good morning and I said it back then left it at that. I'm not calling him or texting him unless he does.
Update: He called me after work yesterday and we talked. He told me has strong feelings for me and that he is sorry for cancelling at the last minute. That prior to our first date he would work 12 hours a day, sleep and golf. Then he met me and it was work for 8 hours, our 8 hour long date and sleep. He didn't even have time to golf or alone time, but it was all natural and organic, he told me he has never gone this fast with anyone before and he sees a future with me (he has said this before so i'm not surprised).
I was like yeah I would never disrespect you by canceling at the last time. But also that even in marriage its healthy to have alone time for both parties and we need to plan better and incorporate that. I reassured him that I feel the same way as he does. That if he needs to cancel i need a 6 hour notice, so I can make other plans with my family/friends.
He agreed to the compromise and went on to say that I'm the first woman he has dated who is a princess and high maintenance and that there is nothing wrong with that. But everything has been so fast between us he wants to think things through make sure he doesn't fall short in a relationship with me. He asked if he could have the weekend to himself to sit down and think things through.
I reassured him that he has never fallen short and has always made feel like a princess. That taking the weekend to think things through is a good idea.
He got home last night after work and texted me that he appreciates me and that I'm perfect for him. I echoed the statement since I feel the same.
I figured over the weekend Id get radio silence since he asked for space but this morning he texted good morning and I said it back then left it at that. I'm not calling him or texting him unless he does.
I mean either he is ending things and wants to be gentle about it (you're amazing blah blah blah and i see a future with you but I can't give you what you deserve *rolls eyes*). I know some people do that. OR he really is taking his time to think things through, IDK y'all, I'm a pessimist.
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I mean either he is ending things and wants to be gentle about it (you're amazing blah blah blah and i see a future with you but I can't give you what you deserve *rolls eyes*). I know some people do that. OR he really is taking his time to think things through, IDK y'all, I'm a pessimist.
Iāve never experienced people saying that stuff when they are wanting to walk away. Seems more like he struggled with 100% you, and prior 100% his life. There is no balance there. Iād think it requires a back up and & figure out how that balance works. heās never experienced that before. But Iām an optimist lol
Wait & see what happens. It may take some adjustment since the instinct was to act instead of communicate. You know Iām not an air sun, but Iām an air moon and I do react in a silent way, shut down way when Iām overwhelmed. Guess itās why I viewed it differently. I donāt actually think cancelling is good lol people. I just saw more to it than that in this situation.
Sometimes itās good to look at whatās behind the actions.
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I mean either he is ending things and wants to be gentle about it (you're amazing blah blah blah and i see a future with you but I can't give you what you deserve *rolls eyes*). I know some people do that. OR he really is taking his time to think things through, IDK y'all, I'm a pessimist.
Iāve never experienced people saying that stuff when they are wanting to walk away. Seems more like he struggled with 100% you, and prior 100% his life. There is no balance there. Iād think it requires a back up and & figure out how that balance works. heās never experienced that before. But Iām an optimist lol
Wait & see what happens. It may take some adjustment since the instinct was to act instead of communicate. You know Iām not an air sun, but Iām an air moon and I do react in a silent way, shut down way when Iām overwhelmed. Guess itās why I viewed it differently. I donāt actually think cancelling is good lol people. I just saw more to it than that in this situation.
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There are men who do that, happened to 2 of my friends.
Yeah I agree with him not having balance. Also he wanted the weekend to himself and he's still texting me during the weekend lol(?) I guess thats a good sign. I'm only replying and keeping it light. I don't want to overwhelm him, I think with all the air in his chart he can feel like he is all over the place and not have time for himself.
Okay, Libra sun, moon, mercury, mars and scorpio venus here; married to Gemini sun, moon, mars, mercury and venus. You are doing the exact same thing to him that my husband did to me when we first got together. Smothering the mess out of him. He wanted all of my time, all of the time. He's still somewhat that way. Libras need a lot of space to be happy. We need time to meditate and wander; basically do our own thing. Like him, I cancel plans at the last minute to, if something else catches my attention. I know, that's an asshole move; but I can't help it, trust me I've tried and failed. You have to start doing your own thing and give him a chance to miss you or he will grow tired of you. My suggestion is don't confront him or argue (which will be hard since you're a Gemini, LOL), just say "okay enjoy your golf." Then go off and do something else and not be available for a couple of days.
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I mean either he is ending things and wants to be gentle about it (you're amazing blah blah blah and i see a future with you but I can't give you what you deserve *rolls eyes*). I know some people do that. OR he really is taking his time to think things through, IDK y'all, I'm a pessimist.
Iāve never experienced people saying that stuff when they are wanting to walk away. Seems more like he struggled with 100% you, and prior 100% his life. There is no balance there. Iād think it requires a back up and & figure out how that balance works. heās never experienced that before. But Iām an optimist lol
Wait & see what happens. It may take some adjustment since the instinct was to act instead of communicate. You know Iām not an air sun, but Iām an air moon and I do react in a silent way, shut down way when Iām overwhelmed. Guess itās why I viewed it differently. I donāt actually think cancelling is good lol people. I just saw more to it than that in this situation.
Sometimes itās good to look at whatās behind the actions.
There are men who do that, happened to 2 of my friends.
Yeah I agree with him not having balance. Also he wanted the weekend to himself and he's still texting me during the weekend lol(?) I guess thats a good sign. I'm only replying and keeping it light. I don't want to overwhelm him, I think with all the air in his chart he can feel like he is all over the place and not have time for himself.click to expand
Ya like a whirlwind you guys were having such a wonderful time, you donāt want to stop but then oh wait there are things I want to do & I need to be allowed to. Yes good sign heās texting you. As a Saggie/Aqua itās like sometimes things are so exciting it all feels good but then letting things go too fast always seems to smack you in the face. The one Iām currently is a perfect example.. way too fast when we first dated three years ago. Reconnected & we are doing it much better this time. Looking at the others POV, needs etc.
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Okay, Libra sun, moon, mercury, mars and scorpio venus here; married to Gemini sun, moon, mars, mercury and venus. You are doing the exact same thing to him that my husband did to me when we first got together. Smothering the mess out of him. He wanted all of my time, all of the time. He's still somewhat that way. Libras need a lot of space to be happy. We need time to meditate and wander; basically do our own thing. Like him, I cancel plans at the last minute to, if something else catches my attention. I know, that's an asshole move; but I can't help it, trust me I've tried and failed. You have to start doing your own thing and give him a chance to miss you or he will grow tired of you. My suggestion is don't confront him or argue (which will be hard since you're a Gemini, LOL), just say "okay enjoy your golf." Then go off and do something else and not be available for a couple of days.
Yeah 100% , I agree with you and thats why I told him its healthy to have alone time even if we are married, its important. We also compromised on the cancelling thing I just need a bit of notice, he can golf idc, I'll go do something else. He agreed to that, i think its fair. Im not trying to smother him, we met and became each other's habit, long term its not sustainable so now we just have to recalibrate and incorporate alone time for ourselves.
Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Gem03Posted by PuzzlePiecesPosted by Gem03Iāve never experienced people saying that stuff when they are wanting to walk away. Seems more like he struggled with 100% you, and prior 100% his life. There is no balance there. Iād think it requires a back up and & figure out how that balance works. heās never experienced that before. But Iām an optimist lol
I mean either he is ending things and wants to be gentle about it (you're amazing blah blah blah and i see a future with you but I can't give you what you deserve *rolls eyes*). I know some people do that. OR he really is taking his time to think things through, IDK y'all, I'm a pessimist.
Wait & see what happens. It may take some adjustment since the instinct was to act instead of communicate. You know Iām not an air sun, but Iām an air moon and I do react in a silent way, shut down way when Iām overwhelmed. Guess itās why I viewed it differently. I donāt actually think cancelling is good lol people. I just saw more to it than that in this situation.
Sometimes itās good to look at whatās behind the actions.
There are men who do that, happened to 2 of my friends.
Yeah I agree with him not having balance. Also he wanted the weekend to himself and he's still texting me during the weekend lol(?) I guess thats a good sign. I'm only replying and keeping it light. I don't want to overwhelm him, I think with all the air in his chart he can feel like he is all over the place and not have time for himself.
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Ya like a whirlwind you guys were having such a wonderful time, you donāt want to stop but then oh wait there are things I want to do & I need to be allowed to. Yes good sign heās texting you. As a Saggie/Aqua itās like sometimes things are so exciting it all feels good but then letting things go too fast always seems to smack you in the face. The one Iām currently is a perfect example.. way too fast when we first dated three years ago. Reconnected & we are doing it much better this time. Looking at the others POV, needs etc.
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Exactly
Posted by EggrollsPosted by Gem03Posted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
Your welcome, not sure if I should laugh or cry. Did I royally screw up?
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Honey no. Heās inconsiderate and thatās unlikely to change. He was nice for a couple of weeks. Donāt chase after that version of him when he starts showing his true colors.
Donāt ever waste your time trying to raise someone elseās son. Men donāt respond to words. He already knows what he did and doesnāt care. As soon as he canceled plans you should have said ok no worries honey, my friends invited me out anyway.
If he wants to come back make him pay for it. Find a restaurant that requires a reservation deposit and tell him you āreally want to go here!ā If he cancels thatās his own money he wasted.
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Ditto....Agree....He sounds like a very inconsiderate person, and TBH, as a Libra myself, I only consistently canceled on someone because I just wasn't that interested even though I still liked the person enough to be friendly.
Posted by Libra4LyfePosted by EggrollsPosted by Gem03Honey no. Heās inconsiderate and thatās unlikely to change. He was nice for a couple of weeks. Donāt chase after that version of him when he starts showing his true colors.Posted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
Your welcome, not sure if I should laugh or cry. Did I royally screw up?
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Donāt ever waste your time trying to raise someone elseās son. Men donāt respond to words. He already knows what he did and doesnāt care. As soon as he canceled plans you should have said ok no worries honey, my friends invited me out anyway.
If he wants to come back make him pay for it. Find a restaurant that requires a reservation deposit and tell him you āreally want to go here!ā If he cancels thatās his own money he wasted.
He canāt come back until heās paid for wasting your time twice.
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Ditto....Agree....He sounds like a very inconsiderate person, and TBH, as a Libra myself, I only consistently canceled on someone because I just wasn't that interested even though I still liked the person enough to be friendly.click to expand
I would think that too, but he sees me almost every single day of the week. His work commute is 2 hrs everyday, he wakes up at 6am and gets back to his place at 7pm from work then changes clothes to come see me and brings me food each time or takes me out (he always drives). Plus texts me all day even when he is at work, I feel like thats a good amount of interest.
Posted by Gem03Posted by Libra4LyfePosted by EggrollsDitto....Agree....He sounds like a very inconsiderate person, and TBH, as a Libra myself, I only consistently canceled on someone because I just wasn't that interested even though I still liked the person enough to be friendly.Posted by Gem03Honey no. Heās inconsiderate and thatās unlikely to change. He was nice for a couple of weeks. Donāt chase after that version of him when he starts showing his true colors.Posted by Eggrolls
Thank you for the reminder that remaining single is the right choice
Your welcome, not sure if I should laugh or cry. Did I royally screw up?
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Donāt ever waste your time trying to raise someone elseās son. Men donāt respond to words. He already knows what he did and doesnāt care. As soon as he canceled plans you should have said ok no worries honey, my friends invited me out anyway.
If he wants to come back make him pay for it. Find a restaurant that requires a reservation deposit and tell him you āreally want to go here!ā If he cancels thatās his own money he wasted.
He canāt come back until heās paid for wasting your time twice.
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I would think that too, but he sees me almost every single day of the week. His work commute is 2 hrs everyday, he wakes up at 6am and gets back to his place at 7pm from work then changes clothes to come see me and brings me food each time or takes me out (he always drives). Plus texts me all day even when he is at work, I feel like thats a good amount of interest.click to expand
That sounds like overkill... exhausting schedule
Posted by Jade_Alexander
I'm so confused.
You both can't sustain that kinda time together. And now youre butthurt that he apologized?
have you discussed what is sustainable, what kind of time you can share with one another without neglecting yourselves?
Girl, tell him its okay and that you need to set healthier boundaries. Cancelling last min sucks but he's human. And you should be busy having your own life too.
I couldn't imagine being with someone THAT much and think it's normal 3 weeks in.
1) I did not force him, or make him meet up with me that much. We simply clicked, and just kept wanting to see each other as much as possible. We both agree that things have been going fast between us but everything between us is natural+organic. Yes I completely agree that seeing each other almost every single day is not sustainable, especially since both of us have heavy air placements so we require time and space to function.
2) I was only butthurt because he canceled last minute and then he apologized, we talked and we compromised, that is all good.
3) The only thing I'm worried about is that he said "You are the first girl i have dated who is a princess, high maintenance. I don't want to waste your time or fail you. I need to see if I'm up for the challenge to be with someone like you. "
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What do they think of women who use obscene language? Libras, are such women OK, or bleh, or what for you?
Or vice versa? I'm just wondering how they choose their partners..
I have been friends with a Libra man for over 10 years. He is in a band and we first met by him just comming over and striking up a conversation with me and telling me how beautiful I was. I told him I was married. But we hit it off as friends and exchang
I am a 25 year old Virgo female and he is 33.
Heās absolutely gorgeous and we have SO many things in common we could talk for hours. We have the same life goals and interests - we agree on pretty much everything. I also share the exact same birthday wit
He plays a lot of golf, like a lot. I'm cool with that. But on last Sunday we planned a date and the morning of, he agreed that he will come pick me up at 3pm, around 1pm he cancels on me because he wants to play another round of golf. I was upset, he said he was sorry and we make up.
Well, it happened last night as well. I was going to go over to his place and he canceled on me 2 hours early, saying he wants to play golf with his coworkers. I was like "okay well canceling plans at the last minute is disrespectful. Would you be okay if I did this to you?". He texted this morning at 6am and said he was sorry and that it can be seen as selfish, that he is a loner and he did what made him happy in the moment, and that since we spend so much time together I wouldn't mind. My issue isn't golf, my issue is being canceled on.
I texted back at 6:30am saying yes its disrespectful, but also that we are used to seeing each other so much that it became our routine. So I said we should plan better, and incorporate time for our hobbies and for each other. I apologized as well, and told him I'd be mindful of him needing his alone time/golf time. I asked if I can come see him tonight and then the next time we see each other can be Tuesday or Wednesday. He hasn't responded yet, he typically responds within 1-2 hours. He has told me when he is upset he gets quiet. I want to make amends.
He is Libra sun+moon+mercury+venus and scorpio mars. I have Gemini sun+moon+mars, aries venus and taurus mercury