I met a libra sun with a pisces moon a couple months ago and immediately felt the connection. We have a lot in common like music, art, politics etc??_ The libra was 2 months into a new relationship with someone that they had been talking to for a year and we ended up hooking up (nothing extreme). After that they checked on me to make sure that I was ok after what happened. They wanted to make sure I still wanted to be their friend because I was a good person and they didn't want things to be weird between us because we do work together musically and i have to see them on a consistent basis. I was ok with it and with it not happening again because they are in a relationship but I feel such a strong connection with them and i am attracted to intellect which we both have and we can talk about anything. I have been really in control of my feelings but I do like them but there is nothing I can do because they are in a relationship, which we talk about also. They tell me that they love this person but are not in love but the girlfriend is in love with them. I had to eventually meet the girlfriend because we perform together and was very indifferent when i met her because I didn't feel their connection but everyone could see our connection. The girlfriend was nice (she is a leo) I could just see she was more into the libra than the libra was into her. Anyhow Im just trying to keep my cool because I want them in my life as friend even if nothing happens but Im always curious to know if they feel anything for me. When we have long talks she tells me what she thinks about me. I did try and hit on the libra just because i wanted to feel that feeling again but they rejected me and told me not to make it hard on them because I'm such a good warm loving person but she has a girlfriend. I just would like someones insight on the situation because I'm confused as to why keep me around, if they feel nothing? My friends have said because I act like I don't care they don't care. I have pulled back little with this libra and just focus on the music but they feel like sometimes I am feeling cold distance and not sure why they said that because i feel like I am very open and loving with them as much as can be but i can't give all of me because they are in a relationship and we have a working relationship so I protect myself. I also don't want things to get messy. Im just not sure what to do with my feelings. Any advice? I am a pisces with a taurus moon.
Libra Sun/Pisces Moon insight

I think you should concentrate on just being friends with this person, because if you push for anything more you will either make them dislike you or want to stay away from you, or you will become a fling on the side which will make things far worse for you and it won't end well.
It is better to stay friends and gain this persons trust and have a friendship that outlasts their current relationship, you never know, you may end up together later down the line and it would be so much better that way, than in the situation you are in right now.
It is better to stay friends and gain this persons trust and have a friendship that outlasts their current relationship, you never know, you may end up together later down the line and it would be so much better that way, than in the situation you are in right now.
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