Libran man, reappears from the past, with a confession.

The man in question - Libra Sun and Virgent Venus / Mars



Background

We were acquaintances from many years ago, a time when we both resided in the same city. Since then, we each have been in various places and now currently in different countries.

We knew of each other more so than knew each other per se, despite having had a few interactions when amongst mutual social circles. Given that we were practically strangers, he was rather rude to me, always having something to criticise about me or showed blatant disdain for me. All this was unwarranted, however he never failed to make it known to those whom we mutually knew.

At the time, I was appalled and embarrassed, keeping my distance except when forced into a situation where I happen to be where he was, within our social circles. In which, I kept polite small talk to a curt minimum.



Current Situation

He reappears out of the blue. Showers me with compliments, declaring his attraction to me. I politely thanked him, and made small talk thinking that would be the end of it.

He began to make requests, for a portrait photograph of me. A request which I found both odd and disconcerting, it was very much inappropriate to ask it of a stranger. He only wanted to see my face, he said he only wanted to see me, he missed seeing my face. That made my skin crawl. I kept ignoring his request. However, that did not seem to deter him. He kept on with the barrage of compliments, without making proper conversation.

It frustrated and annoyed me, I felt more violated than flattered. I outright asked him what he wanted from me and why he wrote me. Beat around the bush he did, not in any wordy format but in short sentences.

The way in which he wrote was odd as well, short, disconnected, as if the language in which we were communicating in was not one he was fluent in, which he clearly was. I asked whether or not he often wrote this way, which he said he did not.

By now I was confused and even more irritated than before. Then he suddenly confesses, that he has always wanted me and just wants me however that he is aware I am not within his vicinity. How could a man with enough rational to realise that I am not within his vicinity, suddenly profess his feelings. A man who supposedly severely disliked me.

A man could not possibly desire a woman, a stranger who he does not know, to want her as desperately as so that somehow through all these years, she was the one he pined for. Frankly, I thought this was all bull or all said in jest, although in poor taste. A man would clearly and must be delusional to create a fantasy of someone he does not know and to place her upon such a pedestal. I do not deserve this, nor do I find his obsession flattering. Whatever emotional baggage he had, for whatever reason, he felt now was the right time to dump it unto me.

That angered me, he had no right to do so. I bluntly hashed out the fact that I was polite to him back then because I was not bothered to confront an acquaintance even when he was a rude bastard, who criticised me in amongst our mutual social circles, all unwarranted. He kept telling me that I had mistaken his words / actions, he never for once disliked me.

Do not do a 180 and tell me now, that that was not true. I knew what I saw and I knew what I heard. He was lucky I did not give him a few things to hear at the time.

Then I tried to politely thank him again for his previous compliments and wrap up whatever interaction this was, to put an end to it. Also I made sure to gently but bluntly let him know that I was not interested. However, he did not seem to be able to take "No." for an answer. Oh no, the Libra who I was acquaintances with, the one who criticises, reappears, suddenly going upon a list of my supposed flaws when he does not even know me. Insulting me in the process.

Now, very much angered. I demanded what he wanted from me. He declares, nothing at the moment because you are not within my vicinity. If he knew that, why did he reappear to throw his emotional mess and dysfunction at me. If he had enough logical rational to realise this as a futile cause, why confess it. You would think after my clear rejection and his own rational, that he would let it go. No, he merely declares that for now, he cannot want anything from me but not in the future. When frankly, I told him he will never have anything from me, now, or in the future. I am not an object, but a human being.



Conclusion

Dear Librans, this was a rant and a half of a question.

Why would anyone in there right mind do so and how should I approach this as gently as possible ?

I do not wish to make an enemy of a man I do not know well, much less create a stalker out of him.

This is Pride and Prejudice.

Seriously, I think is possible to be rude and to ignore someone because you have feelings for him/her, like trying to get attention from your object of desire by rejecting it... However, is a wrong approach, and even childlike, -and lame-. I don't know him so I couldn't tell why he is how he is (out of insecurity, or the opposite, arrogance) and I can't help you in the Libra thing, though, I haven't got any experience with male Libras, but as partly human I'd tell you to be logical and not try to be hurtful or disdainful, just letting things clear in a clean way.

Could the root of his attraction be your Virgo bits? (I just assumed you had Virgo placements, I get those energies from you, your writing style , impeccability and organization whispers "Virgo")

@Blackburn, it merely came across as highly delusional and dysfunctional to me.

Frankly, I do know him either, he is truly an acquaintance I had once knew long ago. He is quite aware that he does not know me, I am a stranger to him as he is to, I. Therefore, I do not understand what the issue is, logical rational states he is out of his mind.

What did you mean by your suggestion in being less hurtful and disdainful ?

This was a man who I was never close with, who treated me in a despicable manner all those years ago, which according to him, I had sorely mistaken. It is not my responsibility to deal with whatever it is that is his emotional baggage.

@TheLadyScorpio, Yes, he seems so.

I tried to answer to this "how should I approach this as gently as possible ?", not in reference to your responses to his advances, but to how I would answer him, I think you behaved right.

I think a good way to reject somebody is showing it's nothing personal, just no reciprocity of feelings (without mentioning he's dysfunctional behaviour).

I agree with you, he doesn't seem quite balanced (Ba Dum Tss).

There is no "gentle" way to go about this. Tell him to fuck off and be done with it.

He's only doing this because he's emotionally retarded and has nothing else going on for him so he's gone through his mental rolodex and decided you're now going to be the next object of his affection.

It's shitty and obnoxious, but it's how some Libra dudes function. They approach their obsession with love as if it's just the next toy to be had. Once they get it, they get bored/get "buyer's remorse," hence all the "confused" threads you'll find in the Libra forum.

Don't respond to him anymore. Dude's off his rocker.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
There is no "gentle" way to go about this. Tell him to fuck off and be done with it.

He's only doing this because he's emotionally retarded and has nothing else going on for him so he's gone through his mental rolodex and decided you're now going to be the next object of his affection.

It's shitty and obnoxious, but it's how some Libra dudes function. They approach their obsession with love as if it's just the next toy to be had. Once they get it, they get bored/get "buyer's remorse," hence all the "confused" threads you'll find in the Libra forum.

Don't respond to him anymore. Dude's off his rocker.

Believe me rocky, I find him dysfunctional enough.

What you have described I have witnessed myself, up close with a dear friend of mine. Unfortunately, that particular Libran turned abusive, hitting her and even tried slandering me in the process because I was protective of her. Thankfully, she is now married to a far saner man.

The only reason I inquired about a gentle exit is because I apparently am very good at making enemies and stalkers of men who I have rejected. No, I say this not because I am in any way vain. Obsessive mad men are hardly flattering. Apparently, I was often 'too blunt' in my approach. Frankly, because there is still mutual people / network we both know, I do not wish to be slandered or have my reputation on the line due to an unstable man.

I have not responded since, but keeping on alert in case I would have to do damage control.

Posted by Blackburn
... he doesn't seem quite balanced (Ba Dum Tss).

Hah Blackburn, a cheeky play on words. That gave me a good laugh. 😆

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by rockyroadicecream
There is no "gentle" way to go about this. Tell him to fuck off and be done with it.

He's only doing this because he's emotionally retarded and has nothing else going on for him so he's gone through his mental rolodex and decided you're now going to be the next object of his affection.

It's shitty and obnoxious, but it's how some Libra dudes function. They approach their obsession with love as if it's just the next toy to be had. Once they get it, they get bored/get "buyer's remorse," hence all the "confused" threads you'll find in the Libra forum.

Don't respond to him anymore. Dude's off his rocker.

Believe me rocky, I find him dysfunctional enough.

What you have described I have witnessed myself, up close with a dear friend of mine. Unfortunately, that particular Libran turned abusive, hitting her and even tried slandering me in the process because I was protective of her. Thankfully, she is now married to a far saner man.

The only reason I inquired about a gentle exit is because I apparently am very good at making enemies and stalkers of men who I have rejected. No, I say this not because I am in any way vain. Obsessive mad men are hardly flattering. Apparently, I was often 'too blunt' in my approach. Frankly, because there is still mutual people / network we both know, I do not wish to be slandered or have my reputation on the line due to an unstable man.

I have not responded since, but keeping on alert in case I would have to do damage control.

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Yeah, I get it, but you don't owe him answers or any other bs to cater to his fucked ego. You can step away and just not respond to him. Non answers are not a yes or a no or any sort of blunt reaction.

Tbh, with personalities like that, there's no way to handle it with kid gloves and NOT get a negative response. It's lose lose in a situation like this.

As far as your circle of friends, believe me, I'm sure they've all picked up on what a troll he is. My Libra ex was toxic like this guy is and he ended up basically fucking himself over with that behavior. If this dude does it to you, he does it to others. Karma will bite him in the ass for this ish.

Some men do that as a way of flirting. Take jabs and pick on ya to the point of pissing you off. Kinda like angry sex.

That didn't work for him so he's trying a different approach.

That's what I think is going on

Posted by Ssuperman
Some men do that as a way of flirting. Take jabs and pick on ya to the point of pissing you off. Kinda like angry sex.

That didn't work for him so he's trying a different approach.

That's what I think is going on

Angry Sex ... Mmmmm.

Anyways, back on topic -

Perhaps Ssupes, however I would expect that of a child, a boy for that matter. Not of a well and truly grown man for christ's sake.

Although I must say he was really rather rude and scathing in his criticism of a stranger, even then, which was the only reason why I had remembered it so well.

Posted by starwars
Libras are smart they like to get reactions and 'study' people i could see it from the scorpio-libra dynamics around me

the scorpio being closed off and the libra pushing their buttons for the lulz.

he's obviously crushing on you, too bad he doesnt stand chance cuz you're ours, the virgos❤

The amusing thing is, whenever I meet a Libran man, I always feel the urge to give them a dodgy sideways glance because their awkward and fake charm always leaves a rather unsavoury mark on my radar.

My mental thought - Who are you fooling ? 😆

Libran ladies are great fun though, we always get along splendidly. Strangely enough, they do and can get rather clingy though, however they will always have my back in regards to style and good taste.

Ahhh starwars, well Virgals and Virgents, you lot are in your own special category. I always have a soft spot for your kind, kindred spirits, of the devilish kind. 😈

Posted by yupvirgoo
So this is what a Libra sun with lots of Virgo placements are like...

confusing asf lol 😆



I've always wondered coz im a Virgo sun with lots of Libra placements...

I believe Virgins, with Libran placements are much easier to comprehend than vice versa. There is a method and a pattern to you lot.

Librans with Virgin placements, merely come across, as very much dysfunctional, delusional, and awkward in certain ways. Perhaps, this is karma for having had the dispute with @tiziani back then during the DXP awards.

Now, life is throwing a warped version of his placements at me, to deal with. 😆

Of course, I say this all in jest.

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Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by starwars
Libras are smart they like to get reactions and 'study' people i could see it from the scorpio-libra dynamics around me

the scorpio being closed off and the libra pushing their buttons for the lulz.

he's obviously crushing on you, too bad he doesnt stand chance cuz you're ours, the virgos❤

The amusing thing is, whenever I meet a Libran man, I always feel the urge to give them a dodgy sideways glance because their awkward and fake charm always leaves a rather unsavoury mark on my radar.

My mental thought - Who are you fooling ? 😆

Libran ladies are great fun though, we always get along splendidly. Strangely enough, they do and can get rather clingy though, however they will always have my back in regards to style and good taste.

Ahhh starwars, well Virgals and Virgents, you lot are in your own special category. I always have a soft spot for your kind, kindred spirits, of the devilish kind. 😈

I personally adore the sane libras, theres so much in common between them and virgos (and scorpios)

I've dealt with both libra men and women

I miss my libra bud and my libra bestie is just my favorite, she told me that she wish some guy would love her the way i do lmao i get really mushy around Libras, its weird. im comfortable expressing myself around them cause i just feel like when they like you or let you in they try their hardest to understand you and see where you're coming from. I just know they wont take whatever i say the wrong way and thats so refreshing.

of course we are! I have a soft spot for scorpio too, you bunch of kittens

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Hmm, I would not say there are similarities between Librans and Stinger. At least, in my personal experience, I never found a connection with their lot which ran deep. However, with Virgins, well, even when I despise you lot, I love you with equal abandon.

Hah, I had a Libran who I was great friends with, she also said something similar. In fact, if I so desired to explore (which at the time, I had no qualms to), she would have loved to be apart of that journey with me.

Personally, I always felt a need to keep Librans at an arm's length, be it man or woman. It is instinctual and hardly with any ill intent. My god though, even the sane ones, cling, at least in my definition of clinginess.

I merely love the way they would bounce back from my often harsh and blunt sarcasm rather quickly, it is almost as if their airiness dissipates it all. At times, I wonder if my Libran friends are daft (of course, they are not but I say it in jest.) 😆

I think you should write - you do have an elegant writing style ... as for the Libran - well he might be the type that likes to be ignored and you are ignoring him aren't you - I wonder ... but that is in his head if so and that makes it all the more strange - so I would not feed his ego and just ignore him unless of course you wish to entertain him a spell ...

Posted by tcta
I think you should write - you do have an elegant writing style ... as for the Libran - well he might be the type that likes to be ignored and you are ignoring him aren't you - I wonder ... but that is in his head if so and that makes it all the more strange - so I would not feed his ego and just ignore him unless of course you wish to entertain him a spell ...

Why thank you tcta, I am glad you enjoyed my style of writing. It is not for everyone, some find it lacking or not genuine.



Firstly, I must say that this is not exactly his first attempt at expressing himself per se. A few years after we first knew of each other, he had inquired after a rather brief but gruelling list of questions about me, declared he wanted to date me. Now, he did not even create conversation, but interrogated rather, and threw that statement at me. At the time, I could hardly take him seriously, and entertained it because I was somewhat amused at how ridiculous the interaction was. I thought it all a terrible joke, and shrugged him off, despite him returning a few more times insisting on his genuine 'offer', which it was not.

However, this is the first attempt where he confessed in a rather odd (if not disconcerting) and serious manner after showering me with repeated compliments on my physical appearance. Which to a Stinger, is more of an insult than a compliment. I am not a shell, a husk, or an object to warm a man's bed. At least make conversation, like what any normal individual would do. Instead of throwing a barrage of unwanted compliments, which made me feel more uneasy, than not.

He is still a stranger, always has been, therefore frankly, it is all in his head. I know very little about him, as he does me. Yes, I am and will continue to ignore him but I have a feeling this will not be the end of it. My concern, spells from the fact that I am unsure if he is mentally unstable, or merely the sort, that may try to tarnish my reputation in anyway amongst our mutual social / network circles. Which is the only reason as to why, I asked the question that I did.



How should I diffuse this, should he become even more relentless or unruly ?

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by tcta
I think you should write - you do have an elegant writing style ... as for the Libran - well he might be the type that likes to be ignored and you are ignoring him aren't you - I wonder ... but that is in his head if so and that makes it all the more strange - so I would not feed his ego and just ignore him unless of course you wish to entertain him a spell ...

Why thank you tcta, I am glad you enjoyed my style of writing. It is not for everyone, some find it lacking or not genuine.



Firstly, I must say that this is not exactly his first attempt at expressing himself per se. A few years after we first knew of each other, he had inquired after a rather brief but gruelling list of questions about me, declared he wanted to date me. Now, he did not even create conversation, but interrogated rather, and threw that statement at me. At the time, I could hardly take him seriously, and entertained it because I was somewhat amused at how ridiculous the interaction was. I thought it all a terrible joke, and shrugged him off, despite him returning a few more times insisting on his genuine 'offer', which it was not.

However, this is the first attempt where he confessed in a rather odd (if not disconcerting) and serious manner after showering me with repeated compliments on my physical appearance. Which to a Stinger, is more of an insult than a compliment. I am not a shell, a husk, or an object to warm a man's bed. At least make conversation, like what any normal individual would do. Instead of throwing a barrage of unwanted compliments, which made me feel more uneasy, than not.

He is still a stranger, always has been, therefore frankly, it is all in his head. I know very little about him, as he does me. Yes, I am and will continue to ignore him but I have a feeling this will not be the end of it. My concern, spells from the fact that I am unsure if he is mentally unstable, or merely the sort, that may try to tarnish my reputation in anyway amongst our mutual social / network circles. Which is the only reason as to why, I asked the question that I did.

How should I diffuse this, should he become even more relentless or unruly ?

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I don't know how to answer because I don't have a reputation in a social circle network - I hate that crap and prefer to not have expectations from "others" on what I should or should not do - I run by feels and IDGAF what other people think.

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Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by tcta
I think you should write - you do have an elegant writing style ... as for the Libran - well he might be the type that likes to be ignored and you are ignoring him aren't you - I wonder ... but that is in his head if so and that makes it all the more strange - so I would not feed his ego and just ignore him unless of course you wish to entertain him a spell ...

Why thank you tcta, I am glad you enjoyed my style of writing. It is not for everyone, some find it lacking or not genuine.



Firstly, I must say that this is not exactly his first attempt at expressing himself per se. A few years after we first knew of each other, he had inquired after a rather brief but gruelling list of questions about me, declared he wanted to date me. Now, he did not even create conversation, but interrogated rather, and threw that statement at me. At the time, I could hardly take him seriously, and entertained it because I was somewhat amused at how ridiculous the interaction was. I thought it all a terrible joke, and shrugged him off, despite him returning a few more times insisting on his genuine 'offer', which it was not.

However, this is the first attempt where he confessed in a rather odd (if not disconcerting) and serious manner after showering me with repeated compliments on my physical appearance. Which to a Stinger, is more of an insult than a compliment. I am not a shell, a husk, or an object to warm a man's bed. At least make conversation, like what any normal individual would do. Instead of throwing a barrage of unwanted compliments, which made me feel more uneasy, than not.

He is still a stranger, always has been, therefore frankly, it is all in his head. I know very little about him, as he does me. Yes, I am and will continue to ignore him but I have a feeling this will not be the end of it. My concern, spells from the fact that I am unsure if he is mentally unstable, or merely the sort, that may try to tarnish my reputation in anyway amongst our mutual social / network circles. Which is the only reason as to why, I asked the question that I did.

How should I diffuse this, should he become even more relentless or unruly ?

I don't know how to answer because I don't have a reputation in a social circle network - I hate that crap and prefer to not have expectations from "others" on what I should or should not do - I run by feels and IDGAF what other people think.

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Well, it is not my social integrity that is at risk but my work / business network that is. I have a reputation there, which I would wish to uphold. Both our social, and network circles, overlap in certain areas.

Otherwise, I feel the same way as you, but professionally, it is a different matter altogether.

Anyways tcta, thank you for offering whatever thoughts you had. 🙂

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Posted by Vageenka
Is this a Venus man type of thing?

I dealt with a Taurus in a very similar situation. Constantly tried to embarrass me and always talked shit about me. Then randomly he started to make moves on me... Which shocked me since I thought he despised me. I ignored him for several weeks then the cunt got more vengeful then ever and was worst then ever before with his repulsive behaviour.

maybe they do it so people would think you're undesirable and he can have you all to himself

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That is twisted and backwards, it speaks to a rather low self - esteem.

Who on earth would want someone like that ?

They would very much need to work on themselves, before being with anyone for that matter.

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Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by tcta
I think you should write - you do have an elegant writing style ... as for the Libran - well he might be the type that likes to be ignored and you are ignoring him aren't you - I wonder ... but that is in his head if so and that makes it all the more strange - so I would not feed his ego and just ignore him unless of course you wish to entertain him a spell ...

Why thank you tcta, I am glad you enjoyed my style of writing. It is not for everyone, some find it lacking or not genuine.



Firstly, I must say that this is not exactly his first attempt at expressing himself per se. A few years after we first knew of each other, he had inquired after a rather brief but gruelling list of questions about me, declared he wanted to date me. Now, he did not even create conversation, but interrogated rather, and threw that statement at me. At the time, I could hardly take him seriously, and entertained it because I was somewhat amused at how ridiculous the interaction was. I thought it all a terrible joke, and shrugged him off, despite him returning a few more times insisting on his genuine 'offer', which it was not.

However, this is the first attempt where he confessed in a rather odd (if not disconcerting) and serious manner after showering me with repeated compliments on my physical appearance. Which to a Stinger, is more of an insult than a compliment. I am not a shell, a husk, or an object to warm a man's bed. At least make conversation, like what any normal individual would do. Instead of throwing a barrage of unwanted compliments, which made me feel more uneasy, than not.

He is still a stranger, always has been, therefore frankly, it is all in his head. I know very little about him, as he does me. Yes, I am and will continue to ignore him but I have a feeling this will not be the end of it. My concern, spells from the fact that I am unsure if he is mentally unstable, or merely the sort, that may try to tarnish my reputation in anyway amongst our mutual social / network circles. Which is the only reason as to why, I asked the question that I did.

How should I diffuse this, should he become even more relentless or unruly ?

I don't know how to answer because I don't have a reputation in a social circle network - I hate that crap and prefer to not have expectations from "others" on what I should or should not do - I run by feels and IDGAF what other people think.

Well, it is not my social integrity that is at risk but my work / business network that is. I have a reputation there, which I would wish to uphold. Both our social, and network circles, overlap in certain areas.

Otherwise, I feel the same way as you, but professionally, it is a different matter altogether.

Anyways tcta, thank you for offering whatever thoughts you had. 🙂

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good luck - it sounds like he's cheesily trying to court you - but it doesn't work when you are here, then gone, then here, then gone ... just not a solid feeling that one

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Posted by starwars

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

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Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by starwars
Libras are smart they like to get reactions and 'study' people i could see it from the scorpio-libra dynamics around me

the scorpio being closed off and the libra pushing their buttons for the lulz.

he's obviously crushing on you, too bad he doesnt stand chance cuz you're ours, the virgos❤

The amusing thing is, whenever I meet a Libran man, I always feel the urge to give them a dodgy sideways glance because their awkward and fake charm always leaves a rather unsavoury mark on my radar.

My mental thought - Who are you fooling ? 😆

Libran ladies are great fun though, we always get along splendidly. Strangely enough, they do and can get rather clingy though, however they will always have my back in regards to style and good taste.

Ahhh starwars, well Virgals and Virgents, you lot are in your own special category. I always have a soft spot for your kind, kindred spirits, of the devilish kind. 😈

I personally adore the sane libras, theres so much in common between them and virgos (and scorpios)

I've dealt with both libra men and women

I miss my libra bud and my libra bestie is just my favorite, she told me that she wish some guy would love her the way i do lmao i get really mushy around Libras, its weird. im comfortable expressing myself around them cause i just feel like when they like you or let you in they try their hardest to understand you and see where you're coming from. I just know they wont take whatever i say the wrong way and thats so refreshing.

of course we are! I have a soft spot for scorpio too, you bunch of kittens

Hmm, I would not say there are similarities between Librans and Stinger. At least, in my personal experience, I never found a connection with their lot which ran deep. However, with Virgins, well, even when I despise you lot, I love you with equal abandon.

Hah, I had a Libran who I was great friends with, she also said something similar. In fact, if I so desired to explore (which at the time, I had no qualms to), she would have loved to be apart of that journey with me.

Personally, I always felt a need to keep Librans at an arm's length, be it man or woman. It is instinctual and hardly with any ill intent. My god though, even the sane ones, cling, at least in my definition of clinginess.

I merely love the way they would bounce back from my often harsh and blunt sarcasm rather quickly, it is almost as if their airiness dissipates it all. At times, I wonder if my Libran friends are daft (of course, they are not but I say it in jest.) 😆

I don't see them as clingy but they have this controling tendency that is just weird but it doesnt bother me much as i know they know it piss me off and they try to keep it at bay LOL

but I do think that scorpios see Leebs as clingy

honestly, i see them as clingy

i used to date one and she needs to text, call and see me every single day

i could be busy at work or doing important things but she never gives me a break

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Hah, that was how I experienced it as well.

They always, I mean, always needed my companionship.

A friendship with them was taxing, even though rewarding in many ways. Ironic, that a Water Sign, needed more space and private time, than an Air Sign. You would think that they would be flitting in and out of your life, easily so, but no.

When they deem you important enough, they want to do everything with you. I always felt a need to tell them, thank you but no thank you, all the time. That I do not despise them, but bloody hell, I need a break. 😆

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Posted by TheLadyScorpio

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Posted by starwars
Libras are smart they like to get reactions and 'study' people i could see it from the scorpio-libra dynamics around me

the scorpio being closed off and the libra pushing their buttons for the lulz.

he's obviously crushing on you, too bad he doesnt stand chance cuz you're ours, the virgos❤

The amusing thing is, whenever I meet a Libran man, I always feel the urge to give them a dodgy sideways glance because their awkward and fake charm always leaves a rather unsavoury mark on my radar.

My mental thought - Who are you fooling ? 😆

Libran ladies are great fun though, we always get along splendidly. Strangely enough, they do and can get rather clingy though, however they will always have my back in regards to style and good taste.

Ahhh starwars, well Virgals and Virgents, you lot are in your own special category. I always have a soft spot for your kind, kindred spirits, of the devilish kind. 😈

I personally adore the sane libras, theres so much in common between them and virgos (and scorpios)

I've dealt with both libra men and women

I miss my libra bud and my libra bestie is just my favorite, she told me that she wish some guy would love her the way i do lmao i get really mushy around Libras, its weird. im comfortable expressing myself around them cause i just feel like when they like you or let you in they try their hardest to understand you and see where you're coming from. I just know they wont take whatever i say the wrong way and thats so refreshing.

of course we are! I have a soft spot for scorpio too, you bunch of kittens

Hmm, I would not say there are similarities between Librans and Stinger. At least, in my personal experience, I never found a connection with their lot which ran deep. However, with Virgins, well, even when I despise you lot, I love you with equal abandon.

Hah, I had a Libran who I was great friends with, she also said something similar. In fact, if I so desired to explore (which at the time, I had no qualms to), she would have loved to be apart of that journey with me.

Personally, I always felt a need to keep Librans at an arm's length, be it man or woman. It is instinctual and hardly with any ill intent. My god though, even the sane ones, cling, at least in my definition of clinginess.

I merely love the way they would bounce back from my often harsh and blunt sarcasm rather quickly, it is almost as if their airiness dissipates it all. At times, I wonder if my Libran friends are daft (of course, they are not but I say it in jest.) 😆

I don't see them as clingy but they have this controling tendency that is just weird but it doesnt bother me much as i know they know it piss me off and they try to keep it at bay LOL

but I do think that scorpios see Leebs as clingy

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They are far more controlling than Stingers, I always found that both surprising and amusing. You would think Virgins, as controlling, but no, Librans will impose themselves on you.

I was always the one, to tell them to leave me alone, that I needed to breathe. 😆

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Libras are smart they like to get reactions and 'study' people i could see it from the scorpio-libra dynamics around me

the scorpio being closed off and the libra pushing their buttons for the lulz.

he's obviously crushing on you, too bad he doesnt stand chance cuz you're ours, the virgos❤

The amusing thing is, whenever I meet a Libran man, I always feel the urge to give them a dodgy sideways glance because their awkward and fake charm always leaves a rather unsavoury mark on my radar.

My mental thought - Who are you fooling ? 😆

Libran ladies are great fun though, we always get along splendidly. Strangely enough, they do and can get rather clingy though, however they will always have my back in regards to style and good taste.

Ahhh starwars, well Virgals and Virgents, you lot are in your own special category. I always have a soft spot for your kind, kindred spirits, of the devilish kind. 😈

I personally adore the sane libras, theres so much in common between them and virgos (and scorpios)

I've dealt with both libra men and women

I miss my libra bud and my libra bestie is just my favorite, she told me that she wish some guy would love her the way i do lmao i get really mushy around Libras, its weird. im comfortable expressing myself around them cause i just feel like when they like you or let you in they try their hardest to understand you and see where you're coming from. I just know they wont take whatever i say the wrong way and thats so refreshing.

of course we are! I have a soft spot for scorpio too, you bunch of kittens

Hmm, I would not say there are similarities between Librans and Stinger. At least, in my personal experience, I never found a connection with their lot which ran deep. However, with Virgins, well, even when I despise you lot, I love you with equal abandon.

Hah, I had a Libran who I was great friends with, she also said something similar. In fact, if I so desired to explore (which at the time, I had no qualms to), she would have loved to be apart of that journey with me.

Personally, I always felt a need to keep Librans at an arm's length, be it man or woman. It is instinctual and hardly with any ill intent. My god though, even the sane ones, cling, at least in my definition of clinginess.

I merely love the way they would bounce back from my often harsh and blunt sarcasm rather quickly, it is almost as if their airiness dissipates it all. At times, I wonder if my Libran friends are daft (of course, they are not but I say it in jest.) 😆

I don't see them as clingy but they have this controling tendency that is just weird but it doesnt bother me much as i know they know it piss me off and they try to keep it at bay LOL

but I do think that scorpios see Leebs as clingy

honestly, i see them as clingy

i used to date one and she needs to text, call and see me every single day

i could be busy at work or doing important things but she never gives me a break

im biased, i cant see them that way

probably because the libras in my life are the ones who helped me find the balance between detachement and clinginess

im not one to text the same person everyday or check up on them but the libras do that and ive learnt to do it too, its really nice to appreciate others in that way

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An amusing trait of theirs, even when they are arguing with you. They would still constantly and consistently response to you, even when they are evidently angry at you.

Why ?

Because they feel a need to keep a polite rapport, even when for most, it is not necessary. That always leaves me, with a strong urge to troll them. 😆

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Libras are smart they like to get reactions and 'study' people i could see it from the scorpio-libra dynamics around me

the scorpio being closed off and the libra pushing their buttons for the lulz.

he's obviously crushing on you, too bad he doesnt stand chance cuz you're ours, the virgos❤

The amusing thing is, whenever I meet a Libran man, I always feel the urge to give them a dodgy sideways glance because their awkward and fake charm always leaves a rather unsavoury mark on my radar.

My mental thought - Who are you fooling ? 😆

Libran ladies are great fun though, we always get along splendidly. Strangely enough, they do and can get rather clingy though, however they will always have my back in regards to style and good taste.

Ahhh starwars, well Virgals and Virgents, you lot are in your own special category. I always have a soft spot for your kind, kindred spirits, of the devilish kind. 😈

I personally adore the sane libras, theres so much in common between them and virgos (and scorpios)

I've dealt with both libra men and women

I miss my libra bud and my libra bestie is just my favorite, she told me that she wish some guy would love her the way i do lmao i get really mushy around Libras, its weird. im comfortable expressing myself around them cause i just feel like when they like you or let you in they try their hardest to understand you and see where you're coming from. I just know they wont take whatever i say the wrong way and thats so refreshing.

of course we are! I have a soft spot for scorpio too, you bunch of kittens

Hmm, I would not say there are similarities between Librans and Stinger. At least, in my personal experience, I never found a connection with their lot which ran deep. However, with Virgins, well, even when I despise you lot, I love you with equal abandon.

Hah, I had a Libran who I was great friends with, she also said something similar. In fact, if I so desired to explore (which at the time, I had no qualms to), she would have loved to be apart of that journey with me.

Personally, I always felt a need to keep Librans at an arm's length, be it man or woman. It is instinctual and hardly with any ill intent. My god though, even the sane ones, cling, at least in my definition of clinginess.

I merely love the way they would bounce back from my often harsh and blunt sarcasm rather quickly, it is almost as if their airiness dissipates it all. At times, I wonder if my Libran friends are daft (of course, they are not but I say it in jest.) 😆

I don't see them as clingy but they have this controling tendency that is just weird but it doesnt bother me much as i know they know it piss me off and they try to keep it at bay LOL

but I do think that scorpios see Leebs as clingy

honestly, i see them as clingy

i used to date one and she needs to text, call and see me every single day

i could be busy at work or doing important things but she never gives me a break

Hah, that was how I experienced it as well.

They always, I mean, always needed my companionship.

A friendship with them was taxing, even though rewarding in many ways. Ironic, that a Water Sign, needed more space and private time, than an Air Sign. You would think that they would be flitting in and out of your life, easily so, but no.

When they deem you important enough, they want to do everything with you. I always felt a need to tell them, thank you but no thank you, all the time. That I do not despise them, but bloody hell, I need a break. 😆

and i dislike how they gloss over deeply personal problems that i share with them

i mean, i share emotional stuff so rarely and they're not very helpful when the chips are down

ive never found them reliable and that is off-putting to my Taurus moon

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Yes yupvirgo, dear lord, yes.

I fully agree to this, but always thought perhaps, I was the one that was insane with my emotional ways.

It seems, even an earth sign, could have related to my experience.

They are almost always there when things are well, the surface of the sea when calm and still. They would cling to you, during those moments. Yet, when their friendship is tested, during my moments of vulnerability. Good luck, on having them even appear, because their presence would be as quick as gone. 😆

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Posted by starwars
Libras are smart they like to get reactions and 'study' people i could see it from the scorpio-libra dynamics around me

the scorpio being closed off and the libra pushing their buttons for the lulz.

he's obviously crushing on you, too bad he doesnt stand chance cuz you're ours, the virgos❤

The amusing thing is, whenever I meet a Libran man, I always feel the urge to give them a dodgy sideways glance because their awkward and fake charm always leaves a rather unsavoury mark on my radar.

My mental thought - Who are you fooling ? 😆

Libran ladies are great fun though, we always get along splendidly. Strangely enough, they do and can get rather clingy though, however they will always have my back in regards to style and good taste.

Ahhh starwars, well Virgals and Virgents, you lot are in your own special category. I always have a soft spot for your kind, kindred spirits, of the devilish kind. 😈

I personally adore the sane libras, theres so much in common between them and virgos (and scorpios)

I've dealt with both libra men and women

I miss my libra bud and my libra bestie is just my favorite, she told me that she wish some guy would love her the way i do lmao i get really mushy around Libras, its weird. im comfortable expressing myself around them cause i just feel like when they like you or let you in they try their hardest to understand you and see where you're coming from. I just know they wont take whatever i say the wrong way and thats so refreshing.

of course we are! I have a soft spot for scorpio too, you bunch of kittens

Hmm, I would not say there are similarities between Librans and Stinger. At least, in my personal experience, I never found a connection with their lot which ran deep. However, with Virgins, well, even when I despise you lot, I love you with equal abandon.

Hah, I had a Libran who I was great friends with, she also said something similar. In fact, if I so desired to explore (which at the time, I had no qualms to), she would have loved to be apart of that journey with me.

Personally, I always felt a need to keep Librans at an arm's length, be it man or woman. It is instinctual and hardly with any ill intent. My god though, even the sane ones, cling, at least in my definition of clinginess.

I merely love the way they would bounce back from my often harsh and blunt sarcasm rather quickly, it is almost as if their airiness dissipates it all. At times, I wonder if my Libran friends are daft (of course, they are not but I say it in jest.) 😆

I don't see them as clingy but they have this controling tendency that is just weird but it doesnt bother me much as i know they know it piss me off and they try to keep it at bay LOL

but I do think that scorpios see Leebs as clingy

honestly, i see them as clingy

i used to date one and she needs to text, call and see me every single day

i could be busy at work or doing important things but she never gives me a break

im biased, i cant see them that way

probably because the libras in my life are the ones who helped me find the balance between detachement and clinginess

im not one to text the same person everyday or check up on them but the libras do that and ive learnt to do it too, its really nice to appreciate others in that way

An amusing trait of theirs, even when they are arguing with you. They would still constantly and consistently response to you, even when they are evidently angry at you.

Why ?

Because they feel a need to keep a polite rapport, even when for most, it is not necessary. That always leaves me, with a strong urge to troll them. 😆

Hmm.. continuing to reply to someone you've upset means that you've failed in diplomacy. A good Libra would've shut down the conversation with an agreeable statement.

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The keyword being a 'good' Libran, in particular, a sane one. 😆

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Some men do that as a way of flirting. Take jabs and pick on ya to the point of pissing you off. Kinda like angry sex.

That didn't work for him so he's trying a different approach.

That's what I think is going on

Angry Sex ... Mmmmm.

Anyways, back on topic -

Perhaps Ssupes, however I would expect that of a child, a boy for that matter. Not of a well and truly grown man for christ's sake.

Although I must say he was really rather rude and scathing in his criticism of a stranger, even then, which was the only reason why I had remembered it so well.

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I agree with you and I've never used that tactic myself. However, his goal was complete. He stood out and you remember him many years later.

I'd just ignore the guy. He obviously insulted you beyond repair.

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Libras are smart they like to get reactions and 'study' people i could see it from the scorpio-libra dynamics around me

the scorpio being closed off and the libra pushing their buttons for the lulz.

he's obviously crushing on you, too bad he doesnt stand chance cuz you're ours, the virgos❤

The amusing thing is, whenever I meet a Libran man, I always feel the urge to give them a dodgy sideways glance because their awkward and fake charm always leaves a rather unsavoury mark on my radar.

My mental thought - Who are you fooling ? 😆

Libran ladies are great fun though, we always get along splendidly. Strangely enough, they do and can get rather clingy though, however they will always have my back in regards to style and good taste.

Ahhh starwars, well Virgals and Virgents, you lot are in your own special category. I always have a soft spot for your kind, kindred spirits, of the devilish kind. 😈

I personally adore the sane libras, theres so much in common between them and virgos (and scorpios)

I've dealt with both libra men and women

I miss my libra bud and my libra bestie is just my favorite, she told me that she wish some guy would love her the way i do lmao i get really mushy around Libras, its weird. im comfortable expressing myself around them cause i just feel like when they like you or let you in they try their hardest to understand you and see where you're coming from. I just know they wont take whatever i say the wrong way and thats so refreshing.

of course we are! I have a soft spot for scorpio too, you bunch of kittens

Hmm, I would not say there are similarities between Librans and Stinger. At least, in my personal experience, I never found a connection with their lot which ran deep. However, with Virgins, well, even when I despise you lot, I love you with equal abandon.

Hah, I had a Libran who I was great friends with, she also said something similar. In fact, if I so desired to explore (which at the time, I had no qualms to), she would have loved to be apart of that journey with me.

Personally, I always felt a need to keep Librans at an arm's length, be it man or woman. It is instinctual and hardly with any ill intent. My god though, even the sane ones, cling, at least in my definition of clinginess.

I merely love the way they would bounce back from my often harsh and blunt sarcasm rather quickly, it is almost as if their airiness dissipates it all. At times, I wonder if my Libran friends are daft (of course, they are not but I say it in jest.) 😆

I don't see them as clingy but they have this controling tendency that is just weird but it doesnt bother me much as i know they know it piss me off and they try to keep it at bay LOL

but I do think that scorpios see Leebs as clingy

honestly, i see them as clingy

i used to date one and she needs to text, call and see me every single day

i could be busy at work or doing important things but she never gives me a break

Hah, that was how I experienced it as well.

They always, I mean, always needed my companionship.

A friendship with them was taxing, even though rewarding in many ways. Ironic, that a Water Sign, needed more space and private time, than an Air Sign. You would think that they would be flitting in and out of your life, easily so, but no.

When they deem you important enough, they want to do everything with you. I always felt a need to tell them, thank you but no thank you, all the time. That I do not despise them, but bloody hell, I need a break. 😆

and i dislike how they gloss over deeply personal problems that i share with them

i mean, i share emotional stuff so rarely and they're not very helpful when the chips are down

ive never found them reliable and that is off-putting to my Taurus moon

Yes yupvirgo, dear lord, yes.

I fully agree to this, but always thought perhaps, I was the one that was insane with my emotional ways.

It seems, even an earth sign, could have related to my experience.

They are almost always there when things are well, the surface of the sea when calm and still. They would cling to you, during those moments. Yet, when their friendship is tested, during my moments of vulnerability. Good luck, on having them even appear, because their presence would be as quick as gone. 😆

I've always found them frustrating in arguments.

The universe has a sense of humor. It gave me 2 Libra sons and lots of Libra placements.

*smh

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Arguments with a Libran, I would much rather hand them a metaphorical gun, and tell them to end my misery.

Ah, the universe ...

Of course, it has a sense of humour, if not cruel at times.

Look at me, I have a tiziani look - a - like, astrology wise, on my back.

Although in a very much and different way.

That is the only piece of humour I could make out of all this, to laugh at my own predicament. 😆