hi, guys, i need help, so maybe one of you has an advice for me. i am gemini and i had wonderful thing with a libra girl last year. it started beautifully and i fell in love, but it lasted only a month and then she left me for her ex bf. that didn't last either and she dumped him also after a few days and decided to be on her own for a while. i decided not to contact her and stuck by my decision. i even stopped eating at the company restaurant so i wouldn't bump into her. after a few months i bumped into her (we work in the same building) for a few times and she was all "friends" about it, but i told her that i was still in love with her and i would never be her friend. i just find it to painful and that's it. then we broke off every contact an left it like that. but, a few months later she sent me a message over viber. it was like how r u, whats up with u, and so. i thought long and hard about it and answered, so we typed for a while and that was it. after a few weeks i sent her a massage and to shorten the story we got back together. this time it lasted two months and she suddenly ended it (over the phone!!!) with the main reason being "not the right time" (i didn't buy it, but ok, probably had something to do with the ex again), since she was very busy at the time (typical for emotionally unavailable ppl). it was devastating for me but i said ok. i broke all contact, no calls, no messages, not asking around about her, treating her ice cold, absolutely NOTHING. at rare occasions that we met she was also cold (it was probably easier for her like that since she knows that breaking up like the way she did was a di*k move). that was 4 month ago and here goes my main problem at the moment. we didn't see each-other for a month and all of a sudden she starts going all happy when she stumbles upon me, smiling and waving. i was ice cold as ever each time. just a cold "hi" and that's it. but then we met a few days ago at a summer festival where i worked as a security guard and she was all like trying to talk to me, to get my attention, showing up where i was and she didn't have any reason to be and we ended having a 90 minute conversation last night. i am not stupid i can read body language, it was telling me that she is interested, but i don't believe it. i am still in love with her but i don't wanna get myself into something pointless like being friends with her only so she could feel better about the way she mistreated me during our break up. i do wanna be with her, really do, but in a normal relationship not some experiment. i don't have any experience with libras. any suggestions on what to do and how to get her back?
