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Pisces Male and Libra Female?
I'm a pisces male and just got out of a relationship with a libra. I feel like the breakup isn't full concrete yet and maybe we just need some time to gather our though because let me tell you, she was very emotional.
I don't know of her other signs but the relationship we had was more meaningful than any I've ever lived before. We saw eye to eye on a lot, made each other laugh, basically completed one another.
Problem we had may lie in her lack of relationship experience as I was her first boyfriend. But the smallest things would get to her; if I replied "yes" via text she would assume I was being short and think I was mad at her. If I worded something how she didn't like she'd pick a fight assuming I was being confronting.
if things work, take and treat her lightly but don't try and get one over bc my libra was very smart and clever.
I don't know of her other signs but the relationship we had was more meaningful than any I've ever lived before. We saw eye to eye on a lot, made each other laugh, basically completed one another.
Problem we had may lie in her lack of relationship experience as I was her first boyfriend. But the smallest things would get to her; if I replied "yes" via text she would assume I was being short and think I was mad at her. If I worded something how she didn't like she'd pick a fight assuming I was being confronting.
if things work, take and treat her lightly but don't try and get one over bc my libra was very smart and clever.
Sounds very straight and to the point, haha. I've always been that way, not very into the games playing. If we're able to hit it off, then I'm not worried, but I know that getting to that point can be difficult. She's a legitimate professional model, and has a ton of suitors I'm sure. I've got to stand out from the rest somehow, haha.
Im leeb female married to a pisces male. First hurdle is communication. Sometimes we say the same thing but in different ways and things get confusing. It can be talked about and clarified, that's the good thing.
Posted by AesmaDaeva
Im leeb female married to a pisces male. First hurdle is communication. Sometimes we say the same thing but in different ways and things get confusing. It can be talked about and clarified, that's the good thing.
That seems pretty common with us Fish, haha. Would you say it's pretty common for there to be testing early on in this pairing? Or do you pretty much speak your mind?
It's like being 2 sides of the same coin but just different approaches to things. I am the thinking/logical part of the equation and he is the feeling part. His strengths are my weaknesses and his weaknesses are my strengths. We balance each other out.
Posted by adwand2kPosted by AesmaDaeva
Im leeb female married to a pisces male. First hurdle is communication. Sometimes we say the same thing but in different ways and things get confusing. It can be talked about and clarified, that's the good thing.
That seems pretty common with us Fish, haha. Would you say it's pretty common for there to be testing early on in this pairing? Or do you pretty much speak your mind?click to expand
No testing. Your girl has an aries moon like me and merc in libra too right? I am straightforward. I lay out what I want and need because for me, that's fair. I give you an even playing field because I state what I want. It's better than you guessing and running around like a headless chicken trying to figure out what I want and need. That's very impractical.
IF she acts like that, run. She needs to mature.
sorry man, DXP is too slow to load right now. It's just irking me. Just post questions here and I'll get back later to answer them. Now I gotta make my hubby something to eat.
I may add that in the beginning things were beyond confusing, I didn't have a clue what she wanted until I got fed up with wondering and flat out asked. She came clean and things came together at that point.
This was after a month of seeing each other every weekend, going out, her only giving me attention yet she didn't give the real idea she wanted me. Things were definitely confusing the first month and are confusing again now.
This was after a month of seeing each other every weekend, going out, her only giving me attention yet she didn't give the real idea she wanted me. Things were definitely confusing the first month and are confusing again now.
@spiritofjosh It sounds like the Taurus I was with last. I hope things work out for you, in whatever way is best.
@aesmadaeva That's great to hear, I've honestly reached the point in my life where I know what I want, and want someone who does. She doesn't seem the testing type, so that's good. Can I ask what it was that your Pisces was able to do to win you over? Obviously all situations are different, but if there's anything unique that I can do to be seen differently I'll jump on that. What is it that Libra tend to value more in the early parts of a relationship and getting to know someone?
@aesmadaeva That's great to hear, I've honestly reached the point in my life where I know what I want, and want someone who does. She doesn't seem the testing type, so that's good. Can I ask what it was that your Pisces was able to do to win you over? Obviously all situations are different, but if there's anything unique that I can do to be seen differently I'll jump on that. What is it that Libra tend to value more in the early parts of a relationship and getting to know someone?
My besties are Pisces dude and Libra female. As soon as they got married they had 2 kids. One is on the way. Have fun! Get a van for all of those rugrats.
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My besties are Pisces dude and Libra female. As soon as they got married they had 2 kids. One is on the way. Have fun! Get a van for all of those rugrats.
Haha, that would actually be awesome. First things first though would be getting to know hers, haha. He's got to like me just as much as she might.
Oh my! It might be a long list on how he won me over. There's a lot about him that swept me off my feet.
Before I start talking about that, I just wanna be clear that what I want would always be the same and never cross boundaries I imposed. I have a very short list for my deal-breakers and if that is crossed, the relationship ends.
Going back to him, he's very consistent. I've known him for 8 years now & he has never given me any reason to doubt him. He calls when he says he will, he gives me a heads up if he can't. He never make me wait or worry. He always keep his word.
He gives me space when I need it and he never gives up no matter how tough things get. Sure, he'll be emotional and even have a 'woe is me' moment but after he release that emotion, his head is bacl in the game and determined to overcome any problem or issue we might have.
He makes me feel that I'm #1 in his life, he'd always call me during his free time or apologize if he can't. He's very caring, giving and nurturing. He treats me like a person, not like a sex doll.
He never bores me. He's extremely smart but humble. We always have something to talk about even after 8 years. We have the same interests and activities. He's very playful and mischievous too and makes me laugh.
Oh man! I can keep going on! He loves cats, has no religion like me, compassionate towards animals and looks after the underdogs. He has a really good heart and always willing to help those in need.
That's it for now.
Before I start talking about that, I just wanna be clear that what I want would always be the same and never cross boundaries I imposed. I have a very short list for my deal-breakers and if that is crossed, the relationship ends.
Going back to him, he's very consistent. I've known him for 8 years now & he has never given me any reason to doubt him. He calls when he says he will, he gives me a heads up if he can't. He never make me wait or worry. He always keep his word.
He gives me space when I need it and he never gives up no matter how tough things get. Sure, he'll be emotional and even have a 'woe is me' moment but after he release that emotion, his head is bacl in the game and determined to overcome any problem or issue we might have.
He makes me feel that I'm #1 in his life, he'd always call me during his free time or apologize if he can't. He's very caring, giving and nurturing. He treats me like a person, not like a sex doll.
He never bores me. He's extremely smart but humble. We always have something to talk about even after 8 years. We have the same interests and activities. He's very playful and mischievous too and makes me laugh.
Oh man! I can keep going on! He loves cats, has no religion like me, compassionate towards animals and looks after the underdogs. He has a really good heart and always willing to help those in need.
That's it for now.
Next time I'll talk about what I didn't like at first. Site is too slow today.
@aesmadaeva Thank you for your insight so far. Your husband sounds a lot like me to be honest. I'm curious what the "negatives" were to see if I share those as well, haha.
Something has to break for me eventually, because my relationships stall at five months like clockwork.
Something has to break for me eventually, because my relationships stall at five months like clockwork.
Well, I did it...and now I'm regretting it...
She and I have still been talking, and this weekend she took her son to the zoo by my house. She shared a picture of them, and I told her they looked really happy together. I asked her what his favorite animal was, and she told me. I then asked what her favorite animal was, and I asked her if she wanted to get together and talk over dinner or coffee sometime. This morning she responds to my question about her favorite animal, but not to the other...In the past too, she's never really thanked me for compliments or anything, just answered any question that I pose. Are Libra's not really prone to flattery or compliments? Do you play aloof and hard to get?
Part of me wants to text our mutual friend and ask if that's her personality, but I hate doing that, I just really like this woman and want to get to know her better...I feel texting through an app just isn't a great way of doing that...
She and I have still been talking, and this weekend she took her son to the zoo by my house. She shared a picture of them, and I told her they looked really happy together. I asked her what his favorite animal was, and she told me. I then asked what her favorite animal was, and I asked her if she wanted to get together and talk over dinner or coffee sometime. This morning she responds to my question about her favorite animal, but not to the other...In the past too, she's never really thanked me for compliments or anything, just answered any question that I pose. Are Libra's not really prone to flattery or compliments? Do you play aloof and hard to get?
Part of me wants to text our mutual friend and ask if that's her personality, but I hate doing that, I just really like this woman and want to get to know her better...I feel texting through an app just isn't a great way of doing that...
i can only speak for myself and base it on placements that are similar with me and her.
No, I don't play hard to get. I see that as very impractical, misleading and opportunistic. Also disrespectful of the guy's time and effort. He could've used that time to move on and get to know someone else. Someone capable of giving him what I can't offer.
If I like someone, I do tell them and state what sort of relationship I'd like. I cut to the chase.
As for her reply. I usually just answer the first or last question someone asks me. I can be quite forgetful and just remember things that catch my attention.
It could be like that for her OR she's just not that into you and doesn't know how to tell you without being too hurtful. Better ask the mutual friend. That one would know her better.
I don't usually remember to thank anyone that complements me either. It's one thing that I take a mental note of. I just feel like it puts me on the spot and I don't like that. It makes me feel uncomfortable.
No, I don't play hard to get. I see that as very impractical, misleading and opportunistic. Also disrespectful of the guy's time and effort. He could've used that time to move on and get to know someone else. Someone capable of giving him what I can't offer.
If I like someone, I do tell them and state what sort of relationship I'd like. I cut to the chase.
As for her reply. I usually just answer the first or last question someone asks me. I can be quite forgetful and just remember things that catch my attention.
It could be like that for her OR she's just not that into you and doesn't know how to tell you without being too hurtful. Better ask the mutual friend. That one would know her better.
I don't usually remember to thank anyone that complements me either. It's one thing that I take a mental note of. I just feel like it puts me on the spot and I don't like that. It makes me feel uncomfortable.
Posted by AesmaDaeva
As for her reply. I usually just answer the first or last question someone asks me. I can be quite forgetful and just remember things that catch my attention.
Turns out it was this, haha. After a couple more messages, she realized she had forgotten to answer it. We're in talks now of getting together sometime next week for dinner! 🙂
So do you remember what the things were that you weren't a fan of early on?
Posted by adwand2kPosted by AesmaDaeva
As for her reply. I usually just answer the first or last question someone asks me. I can be quite forgetful and just remember things that catch my attention.
Turns out it was this, haha. After a couple more messages, she realized she had forgotten to answer it. We're in talks now of getting together sometime next week for dinner! 🙂
So do you remember what the things were that you weren't a fan of early on?click to expand
I wanted to say it's great that you two are making progress but I read this thread.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/feeling-empty-without-this-taurus-5396455/#5396456<BR>
It seems to me you haven't really gotten over the taurus yet. Is the leeb girl your rebound at this point?
I do remember the things that was an issue for me and hubby at the early stages of relationship but it relates more to his cancer moon. My sis-in-law is also dating a pisces guy with taurus moon. I don't like him much for her. He's too paranoid, controlling, mean & grumpy.
The only thing common among pisceans is them not being careful with words. When they're hurt, angry or frustrated, they don't fight fair. They can be too hurtful with words but then later on feel guilty about it. Thing is, words can really have an impact to others, esp those that value your input, thoughts and feelings. To be reckless with words just to hurt someone you're 'supposed to' love is very counterproductive. Sorry, that's all I can think of for now.
As for getting to know leebs more, I love this article.
http://www.elephantjournal.com/2013/10/what-it-means-to-love-a-libra/<BR>
Yeah, in regards to the other thread. Me and the Taurus did talk the day after I wrote that. She called me and told me she's sorry, but she got back with her abusive and controlling ex because there was "just something about him", and that she's sorry she used me to try and get over him. It was an amiable conversation, but confirmed more than a few suspicions.
If that had happened the week after our last date, I'd probably be rebounding, but since we've been separated about as long as we were together, it's what it is. I don't hate her, I wish her the best of luck, but after that talk, I realized that what I was feeling wasn't really love, but just infatuation, and that there wasn't anything there to hold onto anyhow.
I don't know how that looks from the outside, but having closure allows me to refocus my attention on someone who might mean something.
And no, no need to be sorry! That's really helpful stuff! I definitely have been known to be a little blunt, but I feel like I'm generally in tune with people's emotions. I'll take a look through your article as well! Again, the first step in this whole thing is just being a friend. I have no idea what will happen, but a relationship isn't the immediate goal.
If that had happened the week after our last date, I'd probably be rebounding, but since we've been separated about as long as we were together, it's what it is. I don't hate her, I wish her the best of luck, but after that talk, I realized that what I was feeling wasn't really love, but just infatuation, and that there wasn't anything there to hold onto anyhow.
I don't know how that looks from the outside, but having closure allows me to refocus my attention on someone who might mean something.
And no, no need to be sorry! That's really helpful stuff! I definitely have been known to be a little blunt, but I feel like I'm generally in tune with people's emotions. I'll take a look through your article as well! Again, the first step in this whole thing is just being a friend. I have no idea what will happen, but a relationship isn't the immediate goal.
@AesmaDaeva Can I ask, do you think Libran women aren't really curious about their courtiers in the beginning? Or are Libran women prone to being bad conversationalists? We still talk online, and we've obviously talked about getting together sometime, but I'm honestly the only one asking questions. I know there are some people that naturally don't ask questions much, and she could be one of those people. Just curious if you've had experience with that as well.
Sorry to hear about the taurus ex. Being the rebound person is awful. I wouldn't want anyone to be in that position. That's also the reason why I hesitated at first. I dont want the girl to get hurt in case this relationship indeed flourish into something more.
About your question, for me, I quickly run guys through a screening process so there has to be curiosity & attraction right from the start. After that, I subtly observe their behavior & how they interact with people.
Bad conversationalist in what sense? Please elaborate.
I don't ask too many questions. I feel like that can be invasive of a person's privacy. i prefer if the person tells me what they want me to know instead. If there is something I would like to know, I do ask.
I guess in a way it may seem like it's being guarded but that's not my main purpose. The main point is to observe things or people in its natural state so I can better judge if it fits with my ideals & lifestyle or not.
About your question, for me, I quickly run guys through a screening process so there has to be curiosity & attraction right from the start. After that, I subtly observe their behavior & how they interact with people.
Bad conversationalist in what sense? Please elaborate.
I don't ask too many questions. I feel like that can be invasive of a person's privacy. i prefer if the person tells me what they want me to know instead. If there is something I would like to know, I do ask.
I guess in a way it may seem like it's being guarded but that's not my main purpose. The main point is to observe things or people in its natural state so I can better judge if it fits with my ideals & lifestyle or not.
Im libra sun, leo moon, and libra venus
My date is aquarius sun, pisces moon and pisces venus.
we're in a LDR for almost 3 months... we're up and down.
Normally, bc of my leo moon ( I guess) I like attention. I wanna know that he cares for me and misses me...
But he's so cool about it. He NEVER tells me he misses me. He never shows any emotions toward me.
I like our relationship to be in balance. I feel like I give him too much attention, and I want some back from him. (libra venus I guess).
I like to make my point straight forward, but I learned the lesson in a hard way that my date can't handle it well.
He thought that I have an attitude and want to argue with him.The best way to be straight forward with this aqua sun, pisces moon is to be soft as much as I can and give him reasons.
We used to argue on the chat for hours when we're friends. Of course, my Leo moon came up and I didn't give up until he's silence.
However, I'm trying to be calmer and cooler after we start dating.
He gave me the 1st silence treatment for a week.. I think bc of I push him to talk with me on the phone too much.
I think he also likes to play mind game ALOT! He likes to seek attention from me. OF course, it works.
So this is my story... I hope yours will work out in the way you like 🙂
My date is aquarius sun, pisces moon and pisces venus.
we're in a LDR for almost 3 months... we're up and down.
Normally, bc of my leo moon ( I guess) I like attention. I wanna know that he cares for me and misses me...
But he's so cool about it. He NEVER tells me he misses me. He never shows any emotions toward me.
I like our relationship to be in balance. I feel like I give him too much attention, and I want some back from him. (libra venus I guess).
I like to make my point straight forward, but I learned the lesson in a hard way that my date can't handle it well.
He thought that I have an attitude and want to argue with him.The best way to be straight forward with this aqua sun, pisces moon is to be soft as much as I can and give him reasons.
We used to argue on the chat for hours when we're friends. Of course, my Leo moon came up and I didn't give up until he's silence.
However, I'm trying to be calmer and cooler after we start dating.
He gave me the 1st silence treatment for a week.. I think bc of I push him to talk with me on the phone too much.
I think he also likes to play mind game ALOT! He likes to seek attention from me. OF course, it works.
So this is my story... I hope yours will work out in the way you like 🙂
Posted by AesmaDaeva
Bad conversationalist in what sense? Please elaborate.
I don't ask too many questions. I feel like that can be invasive of a person's privacy. i prefer if the person tells me what they want me to know instead. If there is something I would like to know, I do ask.
@AesmaDaeva Thanks for your kind words. It was a rough period earlier on, but I knew deep down what was happening, so I had steeled myself for the worst. That may seem negative, but the signs were there, and it was obviously true, haha.
As per your question about bad conversationalist, I mean the questions aspect. It feels like our conversations over text (yes, I know that's not real conversation, but it's all I've got so far, haha) are very one-sided. It's not like pulling teeth or anything, because she always answers my questions, but she doesn't really open the door to a back and forth. Usually it's just a simple answer, some explanation, and that's it; no "What about you?" or anything. Just feels different is all, and she might be completely different in person. I was just curious is all. I have a hard time just talking about myself without reason, so if she doesn't ask me my thoughts, it feels as though she's the only one talking (almost an interrogation as it were).
This made me laugh. I'm like that too when I'm distracted. I usually give short or one-liner responses esp during an actual conversation. I don't really like asking too much questions either. I prefer to listen and comment. The reason why is some people are very private so I'd rather not make them feel uncomfortable. If it's hypothetical questions and not pertaining to anything personal, then yes, I don't mind asking about those if there's anything I'm wondering about.
Don't think that text or chat convos aren't real. They might be a different medium but for me personally, it's as real as it gets. what I share is the same as if you were just right next to me and we're having a convo IRL.
Actually, I'm a better conversationalist when I'm typing because I'm a slow thinker and I'm not really good at multi-tasking but that's because my merc is in retrograde. As my hubby puts it, my brain works like a single core processor. lol
Don't think that text or chat convos aren't real. They might be a different medium but for me personally, it's as real as it gets. what I share is the same as if you were just right next to me and we're having a convo IRL.
Actually, I'm a better conversationalist when I'm typing because I'm a slow thinker and I'm not really good at multi-tasking but that's because my merc is in retrograde. As my hubby puts it, my brain works like a single core processor. lol
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