pisces woman /libra man...wtf.. (Page 2)

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by PV&Jellay

Posted by boxcarmirnta
I already know what I want and if I'm not gonna eventually get it from him ill move on. We need to talk more. He didn't want to throw himself into a relationship again..and that's fine I respect that. But its only been a couple months, so ill draw the line at some point when we've talked and decided for sure its not meant to be.

Uh uh. The man said he don't see a future with you. There is nothing else to see. You setting yourself up for heartbreak.

But if you insist on staying...stop treating him like a priority. Answer his calls only when you feel like it. Have sex then leave. Flake when he schedules dates, then make plans with other friends. Zone out when he talks. Give no fucks about your appearance when he comes to visit...aye it's ugly shoe day. He'll either dump you for good, or fall in love...they have masochistic tendencies I swear. If he falls in love don't blame me, I warned you.

dude...you nailed it. And that is exactly how I am....he is not my world and I will do what ever the fuck I want.. I don't care what he thinks of me. Except that we are friends and that is nice. But yea I usually leave after sex cuz I'm more the dude in relationships, I was simply curious..but it will not END me if it doesn't work out....many other fish in the sea.. Š

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Well that is a very good perspective mija, yes you are right, there are plenty of more fish in the sea, and you are right, if it doesn't work out, maybe you won't be devastated. I was unaware of your comfort level of casual relationships with casual sex. There is nothing wrong with that! You are an adult single woman entitled to make her own choices. And you have made the choice to have the relationship on his terms, and I understand that. I know what it's like to have a little of something that feels good, than a whole lot of nothing, that feels bad. I am a Libra after all!

@Shrewdshare, where are you getting the idea that she is okay with casual sex? She specifically said - Then he tells me he's not long term for me and still wants to screw other people. This would not have bothered her if she wanted casual sex. But Pisces can really live in serious fantasy, now I understand.

Posted by Cancer Lady
Well you haven't dropped him yet, so you're still holding out hope. So good luck with that.

You were right once again. You are always right. I really believed her tough butter when she acted like she was going to shake this loser, you knew she wasn't. How did you know she was all talk? I sincerely thought she was going to do what she said.

Posted by Librawoman77

Posted by Cancer Lady
Well you haven't dropped him yet, so you're still holding out hope. So good luck with that.

You were right once again. You are always right. I really believed her tough butter when she acted like she was going to shake this loser, you knew she wasn't. How did you know she was all talk? I sincerely thought she was going to do what she said.

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Because we're five pages in and she's still making excuses as to why she's still hanging around, therefor its evident she isn't going anywhere. She's going to continue to research and try and find ways she can manipulate the situation to go in her favor and once her attempts have all failed which they will, she'll jump to another guy and rinse and repeat.

Posted by 2Moon
hi, I did not read anything except the title.

i'm just here to say that I don't like pisces women.
they are monsters.

poor guy, I hope he is running away from you. is that what happened?
also: don't take my comments personally. I hate drama...

I am not trying to start a fight I am just genuinely curious as to why you say Pisces woman are monsters?

Posted by Cancer Lady
#1 If it wasn't that big of a deal you wouldn't have started a thread about it looking for validation.

#2 It's not too soon because you've already given him your body, so too soon went out the window when you spread our legs. Now you're forced to accept that despite you spreading your legs TOO SOON and before knowing what his intentions were with you. You don't want to accept that you basically spread your legs for nothing because you didn't get from it what you thought you would.

#3 You keep claiming you're not sure about him and you're going to kick to him to the curb yet you haven't done so and you're still hanging around hoping he changes his mind.

#4 If you accepted him at his word then you would stop playing games in an attempt to manipulate him into wanting a committed relationship with you and instead would respect his wishes and the fact that he doesn't want a committed relationship with you and just continue to enjoy your time together.

#5 Again if it wasn't a big deal you would have been moved on when he told you he doesn't want anything long term and would continue to see other people. So continue to hold out hope maybe your delusions will work out for you.

yea this is totally wrong ...i really do not care anymore....and I can screw whoever I want whenever I want. And I am not holding out any hope at all....im pretty stoked about finding someone else actually! But thx for the insane judgments and assumptions!

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by PV&Jellay

Posted by boxcarmirnta
I already know what I want and if I'm not gonna eventually get it from him ill move on. We need to talk more. He didn't want to throw himself into a relationship again..and that's fine I respect that. But its only been a couple months, so ill draw the line at some point when we've talked and decided for sure its not meant to be.

Uh uh. The man said he don't see a future with you. There is nothing else to see. You setting yourself up for heartbreak.

But if you insist on staying...stop treating him like a priority. Answer his calls only when you feel like it. Have sex then leave. Flake when he schedules dates, then make plans with other friends. Zone out when he talks. Give no fucks about your appearance when he comes to visit...aye it's ugly shoe day. He'll either dump you for good, or fall in love...they have masochistic tendencies I swear. If he falls in love don't blame me, I warned you.

dude...you nailed it. And that is exactly how I am....he is not my world and I will do what ever the fuck I want.. I don't care what he thinks of me. Except that we are friends and that is nice. But yea I usually leave after sex cuz I'm more the dude in relationships, I was simply curious..but it will not END me if it doesn't work out....many other fish in the sea.. Š

Well that is a very good perspective mija, yes you are right, there are plenty of more fish in the sea, and you are right, if it doesn't work out, maybe you won't be devastated. I was unaware of your comfort level of casual relationships with casual sex. There is nothing wrong with that! You are an adult single woman entitled to make her own choices. And you have made the choice to have the relationship on his terms, and I understand that. I know what it's like to have a little of something that feels good, than a whole lot of nothing, that feels bad. I am a Libra after all!

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thanks for being so open minded...women can be just like men when it comes to sex..nothing wrong with it at all! But I'm stoked to move forward..

And for all, I'm not making any excuses and I'm very comfortable with casual sex..once AGAIN I was just curious about a Libra acting like that and why...I'm actually not really interested any more..if I feel like occasionally having sex with him I will. But I'm not really interested in something that can no longer build momentum....he can have all the other women he wants! I'll wait for someone who thinks he's won the prize!

@boxcarmirnta - "But thx for the insane judgments and assumptions!" ... it seems that is why we are here lol

Posted by boxcarmirnta
We connected instantly...he was extremely consistent, more than any men ever had been. Incredibly sweet and giving and generous. We both love art and music and gel really well and have great sex. Then he tells me he's not long term for me and still wants to screw other people. And he'd recently told a friend he was most definitely involved with me. So my question is...wtf is the point of being so persistent, consistent, always there, always caring, always generous, always wanting to be with me...WHEN HE HAS NO DESIRE TO ACTUALLY BE INVOLVED? Is this a typical Libra thing? I'm gonna kick him to the curb soon. I'm.just curious about this extremely bizarre behavio, and would love insight. .what a mindfuck.

What ever happened to this op and her guy anyone know?

Posted by whatthecrab
Libra men really love Pisces as friends, but they don't understand their mind and hence it will never be anything more than best friends.

I agree

I moved the fuck on. Thank goodness.