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ught the book but confused on how to find where i download it?

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@tiziani- You're absolutely right. I really wasn't emotionally ready when he contacted me last week but I didn't want to miss out on a possible second chance.

I agree with the text messaging. I feel like he has this aversion to friendship with me. I'm not sure if he thinks I will date other people, not what he wants to hear? Just not sure. We have a lot of sexual energy but I do think we really need to have time to get to know each other.

He asked me directly about being compatible and if I saw us together. I said I thought he didn't want to be with me. (Palm smack!) I take people's words literally because I place a high value on words so I have to stop doing that. Like yesterday! 😉

As far as passionate- I think he is attracted to more vocal women and so he's bringing in some baggage with that. I used the word passionate because it sounds better than hot tempered and he said he understands passionate. He's a passionate person but how I react isn't "normal" to him.

Oh you did write a book? Have a link?
There's nothing particular wrong with getting to know people through touch if you're just naturally geared towards visceral senses. Same with valuing words. If that's how it is for you, that's how it is. LuckyLibra is right in that you're always going to get people/regulars here telling you what to think, say or do until you're supposedly "ready" to date or be in a relationship. That's just a part of this forum. But there's only so much you moderate your own nature.

The only point where words become a problem is when they're out of sync with actions (on both sides, not just his but yours too. Even the lack of action can suffocate the best connection).

Anyway yes this does touch upon the short guide. It is short and It's written to get through in one night then wake up tomorrow knowing how to build the clean slate. It's all here: http://www.my-ab.com/underneath-the-libra-man/

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there a way to pm you? Related to the book but would rather say in private

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@tiziani- bought the book but confused on how to find where i download it?

Posted by tiziani
Posted by Aquagirl2015
@tiziani- You're absolutely right. I really wasn't emotionally ready when he contacted me last week but I didn't want to miss out on a possible second chance.

I agree with the text messaging. I feel like he has this aversion to friendship with me. I'm not sure if he thinks I will date other people, not what he wants to hear? Just not sure. We have a lot of sexual energy but I do think we really need to have time to get to know each other.

He asked me directly about being compatible and if I saw us together. I said I thought he didn't want to be with me. (Palm smack!) I take people's words literally because I place a high value on words so I have to stop doing that. Like yesterday! 😉

As far as passionate- I think he is attracted to more vocal women and so he's bringing in some baggage with that. I used the word passionate because it sounds better than hot tempered and he said he understands passionate. He's a passionate person but how I react isn't "normal" to him.

Oh you did write a book? Have a link?
There's nothing particular wrong with getting to know people through touch if you're just naturally geared towards visceral senses. Same with valuing words. If that's how it is for you, that's how it is. LuckyLibra is right in that you're always going to get people/regulars here telling you what to think, say or do until you're supposedly "ready" to date or be in a relationship. That's just a part of this forum. But there's only so much you moderate your own nature.

The only point where words become a problem is when they're out of sync with actions (on both sides, not just his but yours too. Even the lack of action can suffocate the best connection).

Anyway yes this does touch upon the short guide. It is short and It's written to get through in one night then wake up tomorrow knowing how to build the clean slate. It's all here: http://www.my-ab.com/underneath-the-libra-man/
I checked and haven't seen any new orders today. So you haven't been charged. This has happened for the 2nd time this week so I'll put in on Amazon in the new year.
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there a way to pm you? Related to the book but would rather say in private

Posted by tiziani
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@tiziani- bought the book but confused on how to find where i download it?

Posted by tiziani
Posted by Aquagirl2015
@tiziani- You're absolutely right. I really wasn't emotionally ready when he contacted me last week but I didn't want to miss out on a possible second chance.

I agree with the text messaging. I feel like he has this aversion to friendship with me. I'm not sure if he thinks I will date other people, not what he wants to hear? Just not sure. We have a lot of sexual energy but I do think we really need to have time to get to know each other.

He asked me directly about being compatible and if I saw us together. I said I thought he didn't want to be with me. (Palm smack!) I take people's words literally because I place a high value on words so I have to stop doing that. Like yesterday! 😉

As far as passionate- I think he is attracted to more vocal women and so he's bringing in some baggage with that. I used the word passionate because it sounds better than hot tempered and he said he understands passionate. He's a passionate person but how I react isn't "normal" to him.

Oh you did write a book? Have a link?
There's nothing particular wrong with getting to know people through touch if you're just naturally geared towards visceral senses. Same with valuing words. If that's how it is for you, that's how it is. LuckyLibra is right in that you're always going to get people/regulars here telling you what to think, say or do until you're supposedly "ready" to date or be in a relationship. That's just a part of this forum. But there's only so much you moderate your own nature.

The only point where words become a problem is when they're out of sync with actions (on both sides, not just his but yours too. Even the lack of action can suffocate the best connection).

Anyway yes this does touch upon the short guide. It is short and It's written to get through in one night then wake up tomorrow knowing how to build the clean slate. It's all here: http://www.my-ab.com/underneath-the-libra-man/
I checked and haven't seen any new orders today. So you haven't been charged. This has happened for the 2nd time this week so I'll put in on Amazon in the new year.
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Just wanted to say thanks to everyone for posting on this thread and for all the helpful advice and insight!

I don't think there is going to be anything that comes out of this so at this point I have checked out. There was a text but it doesn't seem to amount to further actions and I'm starting to get to the point where I'm considering just closing that door for good. But I at least wanted to acknowledge everyone's attempts to help and say again how much I appreciated it. I walk away with valuable insight into a libra male should I encounter one again. Š

Happy New Year everyone!
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I wouldn't expect payment if that's what you're asking. I would consider us even for the free advice given. But you have to do whatever makes you comfortable 🙂

Well have you published on amazon before? It's a lot more complicated then it looks and there's a lot of prep and promo you want to do before it even gets to that stage.

However, if you have already published, then you know exactly what you want to do.

Hahaha. Well I have books I've ghostwritten which I'm legally bound not to have any claim to.

The other books I've written are mainly romance with me just now expanding into mystery. We'll see 😉
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>>I do want to continue pursuing a relationship with him.

Don’t pursue. Be pursued. Anything you chase runs away from you and there is nothing more unattractive than a man who thinks he is the prize. Yuck.

>He brings out the emotionally immature and undeveloped side of me.
>I feel that I keep messing up

He is not for you. This is a sign that you are not compatible. You are trying to make yourself over into someone you are not. You are being a bendy twisty if I just TRY harder ….. Noh! Stop it. It isn’t worth it. Find someone who makes you feel good about who you are. Life is long. Find people who bring out the best in you not the worst. You will like yourself a whole lot more when you do.
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I just wanted to update this. I realized that I don't have "Feelings" for libra. I have "feelings" for the good sex and the bit of convo. I have been trying to like him because I felt that I should not because I actually do.

You don't get frustrated or blow up on people you care about deeply or at least I don't. That should've realized that from the get-go but I can honestly say that I am happy this all happened. Made me realize all of this. So for that, I say thank you again to everyone who contributed.