Please to be clear

I have a libra friend. We are getting along well. I like him but not sure it's just as a friend or more. I'm an Aries, i like to make ppl laugh. Sometimes, they think that i flirt which i dont.
One day, he seems to avoid me - stop texting/chatting with me. He even avoid to stand near me, or make eye contact when talking to me. As usual, I teased him. Then, he said he likes me as a good friend and he said he wants everything same as before. He sounded like "i know you like me. But i dont. Please dont ruin our friendship". And, i told him that i like to talk to him since i found we have lots in common; and i dont want to hurt you in any way.
After then, I pulled back. I stop giving him much attention, since i dont want to make him feel uncomfortable. Though, he starts to initiate to talk to me more. And, he seems to care more about me. Last night, we went out with couple of friends. When i got home, he texted me ask if i got home, and asked me why i didnt text him to let him know (which i never did before). When i felt sad, he wanted me to talk to him, and wanted to help me.
I had lot of male friends. I know they are care about me. But his way of acting is a bit weird. I know that he only wants to be friend with me, and he's clear that he dont want me to hurt the friendship.

anyone experience something like this? Please advice. Thank you in advanced

😛 my subject should be "please help me to be clear"

Wow. I'm not good at playing game.
I've tried to talk to him yesterday, but he ignored me completely.
I guess i should just ignore him. 🙂

Run. Away.

Game playing = no bueno. My ex tried a lot of mixed crap like this with me (as an ex) and it got really old, really fast. Just don't bother entertaining it. You can remain friendly, but remember, HE said he only saw you as a friend. If he tries any game playing or tries to confuse you further and drag in "emotions," remind him that HE said he wasn't interested like that. The rest is on him, as long as YOU don't add fuel to the fire by behaving too strangely or trying to initiate romantic type things. Just remain friendly and don't act strange. If he continues this bs, wtf evar. His problem. Not yours.

He sounds really immature. Immature guys are ones to steer clear of. No matter how cool or level headed they may seem, they have no freaking idea what they really want.

In true Libra fashion, we've told you we are only friends but we want the attention still...it's called having our cake and eating it. You decide where you go from there but he'll still expect as much attention as before with no strings!!

I were upset about something other day. And he's tried to comfort me. Then, i said to him that he don't need to care about me, and i want to be alone. He seemed mad and said that i should remember that. I felt little guilty and explained to him. The more i try to ignore him, the more he try to make me pay attention on him (like - tease me more, send me song, poem,...). Is this really normal for a friend?
Today, i found out that he still kept his status as "in relationship" on facebook, although he told me he broke up with his gf long ago. I felt sad and realized that i should end this. I texted him that i appreciated the gift he sent me and he don't have to do this any more. Then, he told me "are you oddish?". I asked him why he said so. He just answered "just forget it"
he made me feel so unbalance now.
I deleted his contact number. Though, i still have to see him at work..
I hope this feeling wont last long..

Right now, he's caught between the two of you. Meaning that when his lady is ignoring him, you're his fallback for attention. He may be attracted to you, but you haven't given him enough of a reason to leave. And you shouldn't try. It needs to be a clean break, but you also have to consider the fact that he will do this to you when you are in a relationship with him with another woman. My guess? The songs and poems are just charms to get you to pay more attention to him. As for his comforting, that is probably genuine but also serves his purpose as well. Remember, confusion begets confusion. Don't get jealous over him not changing his relationship status because he senses that you are probably watching him and it's a subtle way of manipulating you. Keep it simple, platonic, and civil. Don't be cold, just indifferent.

Thank you for your advice.
As an Aries, I get jealous pretty easy and hard for me to be indifferent to the one I like (i'll give that one much attention, but not clingy. Because i love my own space too)
When i'm jealous and mad (he teased me lots lately), I told him that I can disappear if he thinks that I'm not good enough to be around him.
He got mad and told me that he dont want me to say something like that ever again. (i know i'm mean..)
And he seems that he dont want other ppl to think there's something between us. So, he always came up with a silly excuse to come to my desk (borrow a pen, look for snack,...) and he acts weird when he stands next to me (his hand, his head, his eyes,... So weird)
I'll have business trip for couple of weeks. Maybe this is the good time so that i can forget about him.. I'm still not sure if this is how libra normally act to every girl.

Thank you for your advice

It seems that he's interested in other girl in same company...

There were many ups and downs. He did something hurt me the other day. I told him that i dont want to talk to him any more if it's non-related work thing. And i were clear to him that i dont want any relationship with him, except co-worker. And i thought it's better that way, since I dont think I can maintain a good friendship with the one I like but cant have.

I avoided to contact him outside of workplace. He kept texting and calling me. He finally told me that he wants everything back to the time we had before. And he dont want "us" be distance. (I guess he just dont want to lose a girl who likes him). Then, he said he will try hard to make this relationship work (i guess he meant friendship), and he hopes i can do it too. He said that he knows he's non-sense when he kept forcing me to have lunch, and hang out with him. I asked him give me reason to keep this relationship. He said he cant say it right now, since I'm still mad at him. he said that this relationship is worth for him to try hard, even if I dont care about it. And he wants to talk to me face to face about it (I told him that if he wants to say anything, then text me. I dont like talking over the phone, or face to face.)

As an Aries, I forget how mad I am so easily.. So, I did talk to him again. I told him that i'm not patience, i'll get hurt over and over again (i cant learn from mistake). Then, he encouraged me to be strong. (so, he will hurt me again?)

I know I'm making mistake... 😢

I'm sorry about my long story...

Y'all must have had sex