Positive thinking -- do Libras believe in it?

I put this question out here because my guy seems so positive. He compliments me on being a good mother, but one time I said "Well, I don't know..." because I had just had to discipline my daughter for something. Well, his voice dropped about 10 decibels and he sounded very bummed after me saying that.

I actually *do* believe that thought affects reality....finding this boyfriend from this particular Eastern European country is a case in point because I had wanted to date someone who is Slavic. I thought about it for a few months and started hanging around the ethnic neighborhoods, imagining myself with such a man.

I've never heard anything negative from my boyfriend's lips (he also has planets in Sag). So what gives?

we will talk negative only when we know thats the only way to push others into positive thinking. else we will be always positive. a libra seeing both sides and talking about both sides are often misunderstood by earth and water born people.

Librans are very positive people they look for an even keel in each situation.

He's a fob no doubt and maybe he's apprehensive that you will be stinging him a couple of times also.

Libra, Leo, Aries, Sag, Gem, Aqua all tend to be positive optimistic social signs.

"a libra seeing both sides and talking about both sides are often misunderstood by earth and water born people."

I have no Libra planets, but oddly i do identify with the sign in many ways. I also highly appreciate fairness/balance in life, and can also see both sides of a situation more often then not. Maybe my cooler, objective aqua planets help out there.. However, when i do see one side or situation *clearly* in the right, i am very loyal and unswerving.

A question: do Libra's in general realize/appreciate when clearly only *one* side *is* right, and thus stick fastly to their decisions in this regard.