questions about these 2 libras...

So I dorm in a college dorm and yknow how that's the perfect set up for drama? Well there's this cappy boy who lives across the hall from my suite and both my roommate and suitemate like (—?) him...

I say like with question marks because I know my roommate likes him but my suitemate (she is a libra btw) just wants to fuck him?

First question: I asked her if given the chance, if she would jump into bed with him and she answered yes... even tho she knows my roommate likes the cap she answered w/o much hesitation. Is this normal for libras??

Secondly, I met with this libra guy (3-4 years older than me) and felt like we had a vibe going on. I initiated first with me going up to him and asking for his number, saying he was cute, etc. He ended up not being interested in me but seemed up for a dtf text... he's been avoiding me so I guess he really doesn't like me? Anyone willing to give me some pointers/explanation on what I did wrong and why he's avoiding me like heck?

also related - you libra men have the most charming smile gosh darn it!!

everytime he smiles i stg i literally melt and wobble around like a fish on land ?

Its all about the vibes-if there was nothing there, there was nothing there. Its not a competition. 2 people fit together or they don't. Libra may wanna just fck him but she may end up falling into dangerous territory-ie me with a Cappy started out same, before I knew it he had gotten to me.

the odd thing is that she is willing to skip dinner to wait for him even though he's sooo flaky and never upholds his end of the deal (if that makes sense)?

I remember once incident where she didn't want to go to dinner w me bc she wanted to know if the cap wanted to work out with her...

thats why i do question whether she's just lusting over him or if she's obsessed or actually developing feelings for him you get me? ?

ah yes diplomacy no wonder he's so involved with politics LOL.

the smile kills me everytime ? i guess my venus in aquarius drew me to him bc he's so different from boys my age

i'm trying to think of her other chart placements and I remember her having a sagg in her moon i believe - perhaps that's why?

You don't really care about the other two girls. You just want to know why he doesn't like you back.

Be honest.

Posted by LadyNeptune
You don't really care about the other two girls. You just want to know why he doesn't like you back.

Be honest.

not really. im a difficult person to like and i understand that - not everyone can handle me in all my glory 🙂

why do YOU feel the need to assume what I want to know - as if you know who I am? ?

Posted by dolluxe
You should call the astro expert for the Libra board @tiziani

i'm new to this website so I unfortunately don't know any of the experts for the boards!! thanks for the tip though 🙂!

Posted by datboi
So I dorm in a college dorm and yknow how that's the perfect set up for drama? Well there's this cappy boy who lives across the hall from my suite and both my roommate and suitemate like (—?) him...

I say like with question marks because I know my roommate likes him but my suitemate (she is a libra btw) just wants to fuck him?

First question: I asked her if given the chance, if she would jump into bed with him and she answered yes... even tho she knows my roommate likes the cap she answered w/o much hesitation. Is this normal for libras??

Secondly, I met with this libra guy (3-4 years older than me) and felt like we had a vibe going on. I initiated first with me going up to him and asking for his number, saying he was cute, etc. He ended up not being interested in me but seemed up for a dtf text... he's been avoiding me so I guess he really doesn't like me? Anyone willing to give me some pointers/explanation on what I did wrong and why he's avoiding me like heck?

Because of the wall of text about the other girls is just hiding the real reason you continue to think about him...

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by datboi
So I dorm in a college dorm and yknow how that's the perfect set up for drama? Well there's this cappy boy who lives across the hall from my suite and both my roommate and suitemate like (—?) him...

I say like with question marks because I know my roommate likes him but my suitemate (she is a libra btw) just wants to fuck him?

First question: I asked her if given the chance, if she would jump into bed with him and she answered yes... even tho she knows my roommate likes the cap she answered w/o much hesitation. Is this normal for libras??

Secondly, I met with this libra guy (3-4 years older than me) and felt like we had a vibe going on. I initiated first with me going up to him and asking for his number, saying he was cute, etc. He ended up not being interested in me but seemed up for a dtf text... he's been avoiding me so I guess he really doesn't like me? Anyone willing to give me some pointers/explanation on what I did wrong and why he's avoiding me like heck?

Because of the wall of text about the other girls is just hiding the real reason you continue to think about him...

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why do pisces do this? they try to find connections in everything even when there is none. there's a wall of text about the girls because they're my friends and i care about them? and since im asking about my libra friend i might as well add in a snippet of the libra boy so i can figure out what it is about me that repulses men lmao. hoes before bros please

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by datboi
So I dorm in a college dorm and yknow how that's the perfect set up for drama? Well there's this cappy boy who lives across the hall from my suite and both my roommate and suitemate like (—?) him...

I say like with question marks because I know my roommate likes him but my suitemate (she is a libra btw) just wants to fuck him?

First question: I asked her if given the chance, if she would jump into bed with him and she answered yes... even tho she knows my roommate likes the cap she answered w/o much hesitation. Is this normal for libras??

Secondly, I met with this libra guy (3-4 years older than me) and felt like we had a vibe going on. I initiated first with me going up to him and asking for his number, saying he was cute, etc. He ended up not being interested in me but seemed up for a dtf text... he's been avoiding me so I guess he really doesn't like me? Anyone willing to give me some pointers/explanation on what I did wrong and why he's avoiding me like heck?

Because of the wall of text about the other girls is just hiding the real reason you continue to think about him...

why do pisces do this? they try to find connections in everything even when there is none. there's a wall of text about the girls because they're my friends and i care about them? and since im asking about my libra friend i might as well add in a snippet of the libra boy so i can figure out what it is about me that repulses men lmao. hoes before bros please

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Wanting to know why a dude doesn't like you isn't breaching the sisterhood. It's your friends crush, not their husband. Don't be so serious.

And we can't help you if your not willing to be honest with yourself.

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Posted by datboi
So I dorm in a college dorm and yknow how that's the perfect set up for drama? Well there's this cappy boy who lives across the hall from my suite and both my roommate and suitemate like (—?) him...

I say like with question marks because I know my roommate likes him but my suitemate (she is a libra btw) just wants to fuck him?

First question: I asked her if given the chance, if she would jump into bed with him and she answered yes... even tho she knows my roommate likes the cap she answered w/o much hesitation. Is this normal for libras??

Secondly, I met with this libra guy (3-4 years older than me) and felt like we had a vibe going on. I initiated first with me going up to him and asking for his number, saying he was cute, etc. He ended up not being interested in me but seemed up for a dtf text... he's been avoiding me so I guess he really doesn't like me? Anyone willing to give me some pointers/explanation on what I did wrong and why he's avoiding me like heck?

Because of the wall of text about the other girls is just hiding the real reason you continue to think about him...

why do pisces do this? they try to find connections in everything even when there is none. there's a wall of text about the girls because they're my friends and i care about them? and since im asking about my libra friend i might as well add in a snippet of the libra boy so i can figure out what it is about me that repulses men lmao. hoes before bros please

Wanting to know why a dude doesn't like you isn't breaching the sisterhood. It's your friends crush, not their husband. Don't be so serious.

And we can't help you if your not willing to be honest with yourself.

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do enlighten me on how you can help me when you refuse to understand the fact that hey maybe i'm not thinking about him but just curious as to how i can improve myself?? Why does everything have to be about men lmao can't a girl get some tips on how to be more friendly and a better person?

and no you said that the wall of text was to hide the fact that i was still thinking about him which it isn't? I genuinely am worried about my friends and that always comes before boys - therefore the hoes before bros lmao

lmao honestly at this point nothing that i say is going to change your opinion so take it for what you will - if you want to think that im still obsessed and thinking about him go ahead and be my guest 🙂

Uh huh

Posted by Plagued
People wanting to jump bones is normal, not sign related. I know many non-librans who play with fiddles because they simply want to.

If I don't know you, don't have an idea of who you are, how you are, what you are, and you live in a dorm I don't want you. I don't have any room to talk about want I'm already bedded down aha.

it was originally a fwb relationship and i was up for it and he seemed up for it as well... but i guess he chickened out idk ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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Posted by datboi

Posted by Plagued
People wanting to jump bones is normal, not sign related. I know many non-librans who play with fiddles because they simply want to.

If I don't know you, don't have an idea of who you are, how you are, what you are, and you live in a dorm I don't want you. I don't have any room to talk about want I'm already bedded down aha.

it was originally a fwb relationship and i was up for it and he seemed up for it as well... but i guess he chickened out idk ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

If a Libra man wants you, he WILL initiate communication and make plans. No flakiness.

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yes that's what i have heard haha. this was also something that i noticed when talking with him - unlike with water signs (bc i am a pisces) where the connection is instant, he was really boring while i was talking to him?? Not sure if that's just bc I didn't understand him or what idk

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Posted by Plagued
People wanting to jump bones is normal, not sign related. I know many non-librans who play with fiddles because they simply want to.

If I don't know you, don't have an idea of who you are, how you are, what you are, and you live in a dorm I don't want you. I don't have any room to talk about want I'm already bedded down aha.

it was originally a fwb relationship and i was up for it and he seemed up for it as well... but i guess he chickened out idk ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

If a Libra man wants you, he WILL initiate communication and make plans. No flakiness.

yes that's what i have heard haha. this was also something that i noticed when talking with him - unlike with water signs (bc i am a pisces) where the connection is instant, he was really boring while i was talking to him?? Not sure if that's just bc I didn't understand him or what idk

No connection.

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yeah that was prob it :/ oh well - can't have a connection with everyone right? my pisces ego is a lil bit hurt just bc I've known to connect with everyone haha.

Thanks for all your help though! 🙂