Randomly random topic

Something I've been thinking about lately-

The hell is wrong with Libra dudes?

The overall package that they have to offer in relationships is fine.

It's when they screw around, don't appreciate what they have, and settle for less because of their atrocious fear of being single is what baffles me.

Perfectly decent dudes go through some crisis and they turn into the most terrible human beings that you can encounter. Or they wind up in a relationship with someone absolutely below their league and settle because they fear being alone. Then they either stay put or end up cheating or being some woe is me skeeze because of his terrible life choices.

I bring this up because I've seen some examples of this recently and it just kinda floors me because WHAT in the hell makes a supposedly "logical" sign do such moronic things?

I know of a few who never seem satisfied with what they have. They may have a girl, but then turn around and start chasing another. They have a rotation constantly going. I saw a quote the other day of something like "as long as you keep wanting more, you will never be happy since you cannot appreciate what you have now," and oddly enough, some of these guys came to mind (as Libras generally) because they always seem to be looking for something "better."

Is this all a part of them growing up/coming of age? Is it some internal life crisis? Is it the inability to recognize their faults when it comes to dating and relationships? Mommy issues? Too much porn?

What do you think causes this sign (and men) to go off kilter and turn into absolute trolls?

Posted by rockyroadicecream


It's when they screw around, don't appreciate what they have, and settle for less because of their atrocious fear of being single is what baffles me.

Perfectly decent dudes go through some crisis and they turn into the most terrible human beings that you can encounter. Or they wind up in a relationship with someone absolutely below their league and settle because they fear being alone.

I know of a few who never seem satisfied with what they have. They may have a girl, but then turn around and start chasing another. They have a rotation constantly going. I saw a quote the other day of something like "as long as you keep wanting more, you will never be happy since you cannot appreciate what you have now," and oddly enough, some of these guys came to mind (as Libras generally) because they always seem to be looking for something "better."

OMG YES!!! Libra men and a certain Leo with Libra Venus & Mars that I know- absolutely spot on...

I think it is all part of the 'weighing/ balancing' that libra's are about- on a fence and never truly committing either way...

Like you say- it is a shame, they are otherwise great guys, but just keep stuffing things up.

And, they are always rue their decisions when they get found out, or the poor woman moves on after all their waffling about... Like that song- only know you love her when you let her go...

I think these types are slow learners, tbh.

It's so true Rocky

My bf libra male friend is freaking married to a gemini for about 17 years and he cheats on her like nobody's business, I'm like what the hell is your problem and the only excuse he tells me is that he wife don't do things, but from my understanding, the boy cheated on this girl after the started dating, after he gave her the ring, then get this,,, you ready. ,,,, the dumbass got a freaking daughter by another woman while he is still married to this Gemini , and his daughter is 5 years old and the wife don't know about her, and the wife has his 3 sons,

Now this libra guy got kick out the house for cheating, but it seems like they were trying to work things out, but the guy was always with me and my boyfriend during evevry holiday, I'm like WTF, how on earth don't you spend holidays with your own wife if you guys are trying to work things out, this libra can lie his ass off

But yesterday this libra got caught tho, cause one of his other girlfriends found out his wife's phone number and told her he was still cheating and that he has a five year secret he has been keeping from her, but this libras mother told the wife about the daughter thinking that the side chick told, that is one screwed up family

Thank god my libra isn't that fucked up

So far, all I've noticed is two extremes. Either pretty decent dudes or freaking trainwrecks, haha.

True indeed

But I tell ya this,

It seems libras or some libras just don't know what the hell they want

What really gets me is when the married libras cheats and put all the blame on the other person, the woe is me statement

Yeah, that can apply to a lot of immature guys, too.

I just wonder wtf makes them go off on the deep end like that though. Past issues or character flaw?

I vote is for character flaws, lol


It don't matter what age, if a man can't be a man and do the right thing, he doesn't deserve a good woman

Posted by Sweeetz


"the biggest fault of the Libran is that in striving to be fair to others, they are often anything but."

True say!!! They only person a libra is fair to is himself. I'm referring to libran males as I find the ladies of this sign to be good.

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Posted by Sweeetz


"the biggest fault of the Libran is that in striving to be fair to others, they are often anything but."

True say!!! They only person a libra is fair to is himself. I'm referring to libran males as I find the ladies of this sign to be good.

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Rocky, very interesting topic! This is what I was trying to get at in my "curiosity" thread.

Firstly, astrology has it's flaws, one of which is to call libra a logical sign or even to place them in the air category. I have never met a libra in my life that was logical. They are so overboard emotional that I feel like I'm in a cancer's company with them. I don't think anyone as confused, indecisive, impulsive, and emotional as libra can be labelled "logical". What a travesty for that word. They spend most of their time weighing than acting, so what good is thinking when uou don't act on it. Constantly thinking about things doesn't make one logical, that's just human. I think they have better things to worry about (seeking their own balance) then to sit there and be logical and fair with others. Lol

Now, as for my input, on the train wreck libra men, I'd like to say that it's not "some" libran men that are train wrecks. It's "most". To find a proper/honorable libra male is like finding one of a kind diamond in the ...

I think their issue stems from:

A) second guessing themselves/having no faith in themselves. This ties in with B, but this leads to grass is greener on the other side complex. This is why making a decision is so hard!! Because they are constantly going to second guess themselves as they have no faith in themselves.

B) Extreme low self-esteem stemming from issues from childhood. This results in either hooking up with someone way too good for them so they can appear spectacular by association (opportunism) or someone not worthy for the sake of not being alone.

C) definitely some mommy issues. I think these train wreck ones were neglected by their mothers, so they seek affection from a substitute they find in lady love. In fact, they seek love and acceptance from anyone rather, especially females. This is why they are always nice to people and hate being the bad guys. Please anyone and everyone by any means necessary in order to be loved.

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Posted by aquarius09
Rocky, very interesting topic! This is what I was trying to get at in my "curiosity" thread.

Firstly, astrology has it's flaws, one of which is to call libra a logical sign or even to place them in the air category. I have never met a libra in my life that was logical. They are so overboard emotional that I feel like I'm in a cancer's company with them. I don't think anyone as confused, indecisive, impulsive, and emotional as libra can be labelled "logical". What a travesty for that word. They spend most of their time weighing than acting, so what good is thinking when uou don't act on it. Constantly thinking about things doesn't make one logical, that's just human. I think they have better things to worry about (seeking their own balance) then to sit there and be logical and fair with others. Lol

We challenge your logic more than any other sign.

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Hardly. You exhaust us with your everlasting quest for balance. Librans bore Aquarians and Gems. The only reason we stick around is because we have similarities like socializing, humanitarian efforts blah blah blah.

Oh and I forgot, librans are very funny and cute people, so we stick around for ME (My Entertainment). Lol

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Posted by aquarius09
Rocky, very interesting topic! This is what I was trying to get at in my "curiosity" thread.

Firstly, astrology has it's flaws, one of which is to call libra a logical sign or even to place them in the air category. I have never met a libra in my life that was logical. They are so overboard emotional that I feel like I'm in a cancer's company with them. I don't think anyone as confused, indecisive, impulsive, and emotional as libra can be labelled "logical". What a travesty for that word. They spend most of their time weighing than acting, so what good is thinking when uou don't act on it. Constantly thinking about things doesn't make one logical, that's just human. I think they have better things to worry about (seeking their own balance) then to sit there and be logical and fair with others. Lol

We challenge your logic more than any other sign.

Hardly. You exhaust us with your everlasting quest for balance. Librans bore Aquarians and Gems. The only reason we stick around is because we have similarities like socializing, humanitarian efforts blah blah blah.

Your defence mechanism sounds logically Libran..

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Logically libran 😄 bahahhahah. You definitely are a funny libra. Logical and libra don't go in the same sentence, and just saying the two words together is hilarious to me.

Posted by utopian
Sadistic humor. Libra likes 😄

Never seen you around. What's your moon sign?

Posted by utopian
Sadistic humor. Libra likes 😄

So you're admitting to liking sadistic humor? hmm. My ex was sadistic and so are my libran guy friends. That's messed. I can't pinpoint why y'all are sadistic and where that emerges from. I think that's probably to mask the embarrassment of being a libra, no? LMAO! I'm already having fun.

Eww. Lol. Just kidding. I really wanted to get along with you, but your sag moon ruined it.

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Posted by Sweeetz


"the biggest fault of the Libran is that in striving to be fair to others, they are often anything but."

True say!!! They only person a libra is fair to is himself. I'm referring to libran males as I find the ladies of this sign to be good.

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Eh, I've seen it with Libran women too, but not as often as with the guys. I think maybe ego is a big part of that.

Funnily enough, as I was writing this, I was thinking about your thread. Glad it could get the question across a bit better.

My bro is a sag moon and he's a heartless user. I feel bad for the girls he leads on.

My cousin is a sag moon and it's like she's incapable of loving.

I have a fiery relationship with sag moons. We just wanna kill each other. So I rather stay away. I never dated one, but just seeing these two makes me really afraid.

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Posted by Sweeetz


"the biggest fault of the Libran is that in striving to be fair to others, they are often anything but."

True say!!! They only person a libra is fair to is himself. I'm referring to libran males as I find the ladies of this sign to be good.

Eh, I've seen it with Libran women too, but not as often as with the guys. I think maybe ego is a big part of that.

Funnily enough, as I was writing this, I was thinking about your thread. Glad it could get the question across a bit better.

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Hopefully it won't be derailed; although it just may like any other non positive thread

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
So far, all I've noticed is two extremes. Either pretty decent dudes or freaking trainwrecks, haha.

Extremes are a part of being a Libra. You have to learn to balance and I mean master the art of balancing. It doesn't come as naturally to all of us as everyone thinks it does. Especially to a Libra with a lot of fire in their chart. I wonder what placements the Libras you all mentioned in this thread have. Here's a good read on Libras:

http://www.skyscript.co.uk/libra.html

So basically you guys suffer from bipolar schizophrenia until you come of age?

...Then no more bitching from the peanut gallery when those of us who suffer on the other end vent our frustrations. :p

Posted by Sweeetz
Umph. Some of this stuff stings a little bit. Cause it's true.


"the biggest fault of the Libran is that in striving to be fair to others, they are often anything but."

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I've been saying this for ages. Trying to be fair is fine and nice, but it's not fair when your own emotional agenda is deciding what's fair for you first, and the rest are secondary to that decision.

Then there's the other side who end up being doormats and need a swift kick in the ass to stop that shit, haha.

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Hopefully it won't be derailed; although it just may like any other non positive thread

Hopefully. Sweetz's response was a pretty good one. I thought I was going to get more "OMG WE'RE AWESOME, YOU JUST HATE US ALL, STFU." and more pointless answers.

It's why I don't post much here anymore as far as new topics. People on DXP suck at answering things efficiently without derailing or twisting shit around.

Rocky, I finally met my very first messed up libra female. She behaves like a libra male. She's really nice and sweet, which is typical, but she says really mind numbing things. I started talking to her about astrology and turns out she's a libra. She asked if I know anything about libras and I replied, "I know all about your confused bad boys". She starts laughing and goes, "that's really funny because I'm very confused". As we kept talking, I reached a point where I shared my libra ex experience with her, and the first thing she asked was if he was really cute?" Once I said that to me he was, she was like "I'd be so pissed if my cute bf cheated on me and then strung me along!" I was so shocked that she's too concerned with looks. Like who gives a shit about looks at that point! It's not like his face was an addictive lollipop that I licked everyday that I should want to keep a handsome liar around or better yet care about his looks when I'm more concerned with his deeds. I was just laughing my butt off over how she didn't see past the surface of the issue.

Then she admitted to being a cheater, but what amazed me was her rationale and how she was justifying it. She felt that her bf deserved to be cheated on because he hit her. I asked her to explain the "logic" behind that. She explained that it was to hurt and teach the ex a lesson. I was like you're delusional if you think that tainting your rep of loyalty to hurt him is acceptable. Hurting him would be to punch him in the face and walk away, not stay with him but passive aggressively take your anger out on him by cheating on him. You are justtr as bad!

Oh, I know.

It just makes me lol when so many here take things so personally. Kinda tells me they're guilty of some of the bs the rest of us gripe about.

Blindly denying faults seen by others is a pretty big weakness and character flaw, tbh. I have more respect for someone who admits to making mistakes, or in this case, that their sign has fuck ups that make the rest look bad. Unfortunately, there's a lot of excuses, coddling, and deflecting blame to the victim that happens when there's feedback.

Your feedback is appreciated though. It's a lot easier to understand than, "NUH UH!!!11one" or some rambling drivel about how it's okay to be a dick to others.

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Posted by aquarius09
Eww. Lol. Just kidding. I really wanted to get along with you, but your sag moon ruined it.

Sags rock the casbah!

Another Libra will cross your dusty trail.

Moths to a flame.

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Don't curse me. Lol.

Yeah! I like Sweetz and her feedback. She ain't no utopian libran. Lol.

Posted by Sweeetz
"OMG WE'RE AWESOME, YOU JUST HATE US ALL, STFU."


It takes a lot of work to get to awesomeness Rocky. Some of us are a little further along that journey than others 😛

😄

Posted by aquarius09
Rocky, I finally met my very first messed up libra female. She behaves like a libra male. She's really nice and sweet, which is typical, but she says really mind numbing things. I started talking to her about astrology and turns out she's a libra. She asked if I know anything about libras and I replied, "I know all about your confused bad boys". She starts laughing and goes, "that's really funny because I'm very confused". As we kept talking, I reached a point where I shared my libra ex experience with her, and the first thing she asked was if he was really cute?" Once I said that to me he was, she was like "I'd be so pissed if my cute bf cheated on me and then strung me along!" I was so shocked that she's too concerned with looks. Like who gives a shit about looks at that point! It's not like his face was an addictive lollipop that I licked everyday that I should want to keep a handsome liar around or better yet care about his looks when I'm more concerned with his deeds. I was just laughing my butt off over how she didn't see past the surface of the issue.

Then she admitted to being a cheater, but what amazed me was her rationale and how she was justifying it. She felt that her bf deserved to be cheated on because he hit her. I asked her to explain the "logic" behind that. She explained that it was to hurt and teach the ex a lesson. I was like you're delusional if you think that tainting your rep of loyalty to hurt him is acceptable. Hurting him would be to punch him in the face and walk away, not stay with him but passive aggressively take your anger out on him by cheating on him. You are justtr as bad!

Yeah. I actually like the guys over most of the girls I've met. All that two faced, user, shallow bs is too much. I see a lot of that superficial bs with my mom. Just random things that she says make me go wtf?? She even had a similar response to something I was telling her about awhile back- she responded with some really shady, immature way to "get back" at someone. I'm like okay you're the older one here and I'm here thinking that's just immature as hell. :/

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Oh, I know.

It just makes me lol when so many here take things so personally. Kinda tells me they're guilty of some of the bs the rest of us gripe about.

Why would leebs here talk shit about themselves? there are plenty of you here who are doing that just fine 😉

Posted by tiziani
Basically you just have to get over it. All the Libra bashing in the world isn't going to save you.

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Posted by Lib911

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Oh, I know.

It just makes me lol when so many here take things so personally. Kinda tells me they're guilty of some of the bs the rest of us gripe about.

Why would leebs here talk shit about themselves? there are plenty of you here who are doing that just fine 😉

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You're one of those who's yet to reach that level of awesomeness that Sweetz mentioned.

Here it comes, Aq09, lol.

Posted by tiziani
good evening 911 😄

Hey Tizi, nice night isn't it? nothing more fun than reading the trash talk with a glass of wine 🙂

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Oh, I know.

It just makes me lol when so many here take things so personally. Kinda tells me they're guilty of some of the bs the rest of us gripe about.

Why would leebs here talk shit about themselves? there are plenty of you here who are doing that just fine 😉

You're one of those who's yet to reach that level of awesomeness that Sweetz mentioned.

Here it comes, Aq09, lol.

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Fair enough

Posted by aquarius09
Rocky, very interesting topic! This is what I was trying to get at in my "curiosity" thread.

Firstly, astrology has it's flaws, one of which is to call libra a logical sign or even to place them in the air category. I have never met a libra in my life that was logical. They are so overboard emotional that I feel like I'm in a cancer's company with them. I don't think anyone as confused, indecisive, impulsive, and emotional as libra can be labelled "logical". What a travesty for that word. They spend most of their time weighing than acting, so what good is thinking when uou don't act on it. Constantly thinking about things doesn't make one logical, that's just human. I think they have better things to worry about (seeking their own balance) then to sit there and be logical and fair with others. Lol

Hi. I'm female, won't presume to speak for the boys, but I am very logical. I do think solid critical thinking and critical analytical skills are part of the Libra package. Libras love the complexities related to solving problems in a sound, productive way.

It's when there ARE NO sound, productive, mutually beneficial solutions that Libras start breaking out in a rash and getting cranky. We don't always know when to admit we're licked and sometimes the only resolution is the lesser of several evils. We believe if we just hang in there or study/consider the problem/s a bit longer or more deeply, we'll find something we missed and things'll fall into place.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Oh, I know.

It just makes me lol when so many here take things so personally. Kinda tells me they're guilty of some of the bs the rest of us gripe about.

Why would leebs here talk shit about themselves? there are plenty of you here who are doing that just fine 😉

You're one of those who's yet to reach that level of awesomeness that Sweetz mentioned.

Here it comes, Aq09, lol.

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And so it begins because she can't handle it. Nobody is attacking her. We are just sharing our experiences as outsiders looking in. Aquarian forum doesn't usually have "bash" threads, but when they do, I don't see Aquarians crying foul and getting upset.

It's because they're simply not good at it. Libras are just not good at lying. Not for nothing, but I have known my fair share of water and earth sign guys (don't get me wrong I love them, but I have to call what I've seen) who have cheated on their significant others -- and lied about other things --and the reason they don't get the reputation is that they'e so darned GOOD at it! They are able to hide it so well!! The best liars are the ones you'd never guess are lying. The best cheaters are the ones you'd never guess are living double lives.

Actually, most liars are easily seen if you know what you're looking for.

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Posted by aquarius09
Rocky, very interesting topic! This is what I was trying to get at in my "curiosity" thread.

Firstly, astrology has it's flaws, one of which is to call libra a logical sign or even to place them in the air category. I have never met a libra in my life that was logical. They are so overboard emotional that I feel like I'm in a cancer's company with them. I don't think anyone as confused, indecisive, impulsive, and emotional as libra can be labelled "logical". What a travesty for that word. They spend most of their time weighing than acting, so what good is thinking when uou don't act on it. Constantly thinking about things doesn't make one logical, that's just human. I think they have better things to worry about (seeking their own balance) then to sit there and be logical and fair with others. Lol

Libras love the complexities related to solving problems in a sound, productive way.

We believe if we just hang in there or study/consider the problem/s a bit longer or more deeply, we'll find something we missed and things'll fall into place.

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I'd like to see your chart because what you said is very unlibra like. You may be are like that, but that's not a textbook libra. With regards to the statement about resolving problems soundly, that's not true in my experience (lol). Rather, libras run from the issue instead of solving it. An example is coming up soon.

Secondly, this time you take to study/consider the problem more deeply can be very aggravating to the other person, especially in relationship matters. Common courtesy is to have things done in a timely matter. Life is all about time limit: school, work, relationships. Can't take your sweet time. Anyone can dwell on an issue, you don't always need long period of time to think about a matter thoroughly. I dont know how long you take, but the libras I know would take forever until the other person takes charge and makes the decision for them. If for every problem, a person thinks and dwells too much, that's not logical. The word is irrelevant. What about workplace where you have to make a sound decision in a timely manner?

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And so it begins because she can't handle it. Nobody is attacking her. We are just sharing our experiences as outsiders looking in. Aquarian forum doesn't usually have "bash" threads, but when they do, I don't see Aquarians crying foul and getting upset.

Hiya 🙂 Actually I do get kind of ripped in certain circumstances when morons make brash rash idiotic and untrue statements about aquas. For me it depends on if it is true or not. If it strikes me as unfair I will strike back.

I don't see lib911 as being upset at all...maybe just making a joke with it.

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Yeah, anyone will get pissed if the comments are far fetched and untrue! The comments made on this forum , however, are not far fetched and that's best proven by almost every thread on here being about the same consistent crap. The other thing is that when someoem strolls in aqua forum and says true things like aqua men are aloof, disappear for their alone time, I acknowledge that. I don't refer to it as aqua bashing because it's true. The certain libs here can't handle the truth. It's a sensitivity thing. As for lib911, I don't care what emotion she's feeling but to refer to the truth on her sign as bashing, she's either unaware of her sign's flaws or condone bullshit.

Take for example Chris Christie (a Virgo). No one EVER guessed he would lie in a million years! Everyone liked him even if they disagreed with his politics because he always had the reputation of being very honest, up-front, and saying what he means. Heck I always liked him and still want to like him!! But it's just by way of saying it's often the ones you would never suppose.

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Take for example Chris Christie (a Virgo). No one EVER guessed he would lie in a million years! Everyone liked him even if they disagreed with his politics because he always had the reputation of being very honest, up-front, and saying what he means. Heck I always liked him and still want to like him!! But it's just by way of saying it's often the ones you would never suppose.

I agree with cheaters are usually the ones you least expect of cheating. However, the strength of one's morals can show if they will cheat or not. I can cheat and it would be nice to have like 3 boyfriends, who'd I'd alternate in the week, but I wouldn't be able to justify this crap to my conscience and to my Lord. Yes, I am religious and love/fear God. I would hate to see God's wrath for my nonsense. One of my religion's tenet is to aspire to be a better person and that starts with doing right by others.

Posted by feby16aqua
Erica1, everyone lies or has told lies. It's not just libras or virgos...it's everyone.

She's saying precisely that. Just using Virgo as an example.

Posted by aquarius09

And so it begins because she can't handle it. Nobody is attacking her. We are just sharing our experiences as outsiders looking in. Aquarian forum doesn't usually have "bash" threads, but when they do, I don't see Aquarians crying foul and getting upset.

The passive attempt at masking bitchy snark under the guise of joking isn't disguised well.

And to elaborate for the butthurt, this is not a bashing thread. I seriously am wondering wtf the deal is because these guys that come to mind are decent guys who deserve better. I just do not understand why they eff things up for themselves or act so freaking insane when it comes to dating and relating. They kinda self sabotage which is sad because, again, they are decent dudes when they have their shit together.

Sweetz basically pointed out that truly balancing out is almost like a coming of age bit. They gotta learn how to get that balance going. Maybe this is why these guys go through such crazy phases and end up giving the entire sign a bad rap.

It's almost a catch 22 though. These guys are all about love, and romance, and pairing off, but they clearly are not ready for any of this (and shouldn't be doing any of this) until they achieve true balance and aren't behaving like romantic terrorists.

Rocky you are the only one who acts like a butthurt bitch around here, get over yourself! It is sad that you were hurt by libras, but don't repeat the same lame shit about all of us being butthurt when you are the one spreading the hate.

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Posted by aquarius09

And so it begins because she can't handle it. Nobody is attacking her. We are just sharing our experiences as outsiders looking in. Aquarian forum doesn't usually have "bash" threads, but when they do, I don't see Aquarians crying foul and getting upset.

The passive attempt at masking bitchy snark under the guise of joking isn't disguised well.

And to elaborate for the butthurt, this is not a bashing thread. I seriously am wondering wtf the deal is because these guys that come to mind are decent guys who deserve better. I just do not understand why they eff things up for themselves or act so freaking insane when it comes to dating and relating. They kinda self sabotage which is sad because, again, they are decent dudes when they have their shit together.

Sweetz basically pointed out that truly balancing out is almost like a coming of age bit. They gotta learn how to get that balance going. Maybe this is why these guys go through such crazy phases and end up giving the entire sign a bad rap.

It's almost a catch 22 though. These guys are all about love, and romance, and pairing off, but they clearly are not ready for any of this (and shouldn't be doing any of this) until they achieve true balance and aren't behaving like romantic terrorists.

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Posted by feby16aqua

Posted by aquarius09


And so it begins because she can't handle it. Nobody is attacking her. We are just sharing our experiences as outsiders looking in. Aquarian forum doesn't usually have "bash" threads, but when they do, I don't see Aquarians crying foul and getting upset.

Hiya 🙂 Actually I do get kind of ripped in certain circumstances when morons make brash rash idiotic and untrue statements about aquas. For me it depends on if it is true or not. If it strikes me as unfair I will strike back.

I don't see lib911 as being upset at all...maybe just making a joke with it.

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Of course I am joking, you know me at least that much 🙂 You gotta have fun with this stuff after a while

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Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by aquarius09

And so it begins because she can't handle it. Nobody is attacking her. We are just sharing our experiences as outsiders looking in. Aquarian forum doesn't usually have "bash" threads, but when they do, I don't see Aquarians crying foul and getting upset.

The passive attempt at masking bitchy snark under the guise of joking isn't disguised well.

And to elaborate for the butthurt, this is not a bashing thread. I seriously am wondering wtf the deal is because these guys that come to mind are decent guys who deserve better. I just do not understand why they eff things up for themselves or act so freaking insane when it comes to dating and relating. They kinda self sabotage which is sad because, again, they are decent dudes when they have their shit together.

Sweetz basically pointed out that truly balancing out is almost like a coming of age bit. They gotta learn how to get that balance going. Maybe this is why these guys go through such crazy phases and end up giving the entire sign a bad rap.

It's almost a catch 22 though. These guys are all about love, and romance, and pairing off, but they clearly are not ready for any of this (and shouldn't be doing any of this) until they achieve true balance and aren't behaving like romantic terrorists.

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Of course two haters hi-five each other, hoorah 🙂

Posted by Lib911

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by aquarius09

And so it begins because she can't handle it. Nobody is attacking her. We are just sharing our experiences as outsiders looking in. Aquarian forum doesn't usually have "bash" threads, but when they do, I don't see Aquarians crying foul and getting upset.

The passive attempt at masking bitchy snark under the guise of joking isn't disguised well.

And to elaborate for the butthurt, this is not a bashing thread. I seriously am wondering wtf the deal is because these guys that come to mind are decent guys who deserve better. I just do not understand why they eff things up for themselves or act so freaking insane when it comes to dating and relating. They kinda self sabotage which is sad because, again, they are decent dudes when they have their shit together.

Sweetz basically pointed out that truly balancing out is almost like a coming of age bit. They gotta learn how to get that balance going. Maybe this is why these guys go through such crazy phases and end up giving the entire sign a bad rap.

It's almost a catch 22 though. These guys are all about love, and romance, and pairing off, but they clearly are not ready for any of this (and shouldn't be doing any of this) until they achieve true balance and aren't behaving like romantic terrorists.

+1

Of course two haters hi-five each other, hoorah 🙂

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Or maybe you're not apt enough to recognize the truth when you see it?

I'm definitely not a hater here I love libras due to my Libra moon but what aquarius09 and rockyroad have to say has legitimacy to it...

yes it might be masked in over generalizations and harsh undertones... but there is TRUTH in there. Out of every libra man i know (and I know a lot) 9 out of 10 Libra guys I know are exactly like this (the one has a softening Pisces moon). Although not all Libras are like this I would have to agree that most of them are like this because of their inabilities to face up or own up to their flaws or faults (and everyone has them!). It's their unwillingness to accept their obvious flaws that makes them annoying. And instead of

And instead of owning up to them they usually try to hide it under a heavy layer of bravado or cockiness. And therein lies the huge difference between confidence and cockiness... cockiness is to believe you are flawless or hardly ever wrong... confidence is understanding that you are flawed, admitting to it, and owning it NOT letting it slowly own you.