Scorpio Venus

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Lol...idk just go with the flow.

LIbra with scorpio venus? Every single one I met was flirtatious and selfish. Idk why all websites say V in scorpio men are loyal, nice etc. Although I agree with the obsession part.

Has anyone else noticed that V in libra and V in scorpio are very alike.

I'd be happy to know about a non easy-going person who successfully dates a VIS. They like intense girls, but it doesn't work from what I've seen.

Pluto energy loves Venus energy/ Aquarius and Gemini. That's an union with the potential to last. Easy-going people release the tension. : )

Idk wat to say venus scorpio ppl gave me good advice its posted in venus scorpio board idk never been in love with one the one libra venus scorpio i met seems very hard and difficult and private like something isnt right

My father has it my ex cappie has it. Very loyal...can be a bit dark. It depends on the sun and moon though. Loyalty is like .... all!

Posted by Sassygurl
Has anyone else noticed that V in libra and V in scorpio are very alike.

nope. Sorry

Almost same qualities of the moon (mine had both). Not very tolerable, secretive, an inability to communicate. Sweet and charming and will wine and dine, but some of them believe buying you should be good enough. Likely to toss you aside for underlying reasons suddenly and you'll never know why. Scorp influence ruins Libra I think.

Damn @gemguyaz34

Posted by lovely77
Damn @gemguyaz34

It wasn't all bad, but they take a lot of patience and understanding and trust above all else. I think that my loyalty (leo moon) a long with my Cancer in Venus may have been the saving grace. What messed it up was the scorp placement tendencies to play games and "test". I often got the feeling the Libra was trapped inside and didn't know what to do. That said, I'd still take them back, I just believe they had a lot of things they wanted to say but didn't know how to express it, specifically the things they did not agree about due to the Libra wanting to keep the peace part of it, but the Scorpio having that temper keeping it in. Unique is the best way to put it in to terms. They are more the type to express love in actions rather than words.

Awww ok thats not bad then @gemguyaz34

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Posted by lovely77
Damn @gemguyaz34

It wasn't all bad, but they take a lot of patience and understanding and trust above all else. I think that my loyalty (leo moon) a long with my Cancer in Venus may have been the saving grace. What messed it up was the scorp placement tendencies to play games and "test". I often got the feeling the Libra was trapped inside and didn't know what to do. That said, I'd still take them back, I just believe they had a lot of things they wanted to say but didn't know how to express it, specifically the things they did not agree about due to the Libra wanting to keep the peace part of it, but the Scorpio having that temper keeping it in. Unique is the best way to put it in to terms. They are more the type to express love in actions rather than words.

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And when it comes out in words it's all mumbled and jumbled and seems to come out more awkward than anything else. It's challenging to express feelings sometimes because I think most ViS struggle to know what exactly they are feeling and how to handle it without the extemes.

I have to check myself, apply brakes to certain feelings and what I say because if not I'm afraid it'll be too much. And that's a little painful but.. Being with someone who cares and is receptive of my feelings like my bf now makes me feel so much more at ease that the fear is like not even there. Of course we have Venus trine Mercury double whammy and my Mercury is in Scorpio also like my Venus. But that alone makes me feel secure I can be myself with him I don't have to hide so many repressed thoughts or worries or secrets.. He's a Gem too so I'm learning to be more free and let loose much more

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Posted by lovely77
Damn @gemguyaz34

It wasn't all bad, but they take a lot of patience and understanding and trust above all else. I think that my loyalty (leo moon) a long with my Cancer in Venus may have been the saving grace. What messed it up was the scorp placement tendencies to play games and "test". I often got the feeling the Libra was trapped inside and didn't know what to do. That said, I'd still take them back, I just believe they had a lot of things they wanted to say but didn't know how to express it, specifically the things they did not agree about due to the Libra wanting to keep the peace part of it, but the Scorpio having that temper keeping it in. Unique is the best way to put it in to terms. They are more the type to express love in actions rather than words.

And when it comes out in words it's all mumbled and jumbled and seems to come out more awkward than anything else. It's challenging to express feelings sometimes because I think most ViS struggle to know what exactly they are feeling and how to handle it without the extemes.

I have to check myself, apply brakes to certain feelings and what I say because if not I'm afraid it'll be too much. And that's a little painful but.. Being with someone who cares and is receptive of my feelings like my bf now makes me feel so much more at ease that the fear is like not even there. Of course we have Venus trine Mercury double whammy and my Mercury is in Scorpio also like my Venus. But that alone makes me feel secure I can be myself with him I don't have to hide so many repressed thoughts or worries or secrets.. He's a Gem too so I'm learning to be more free and let loose much more

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Im happy he gives you that love. Im iffy about geminis though im general which makes me question them. We get along but sometimes u cant take them serious. Let me know how this works out for VIS. I dated a gemini and they had a gf and wanted me too. I didnt trust their loyalty so i kind of played games and tested them alot. They r very sweet ppl but loyal idk...they get real bored

Posted by busyeyes88
From what I can gather from experience, a VIS is dark and ugly in a libra and a sag!!!

The libra chick i was recently dating gas these placements. Like I said before I know when ppl love u they act so different. But from what i seen over this year she was laid back private and quiet so idk... but i saw it come out a little with her ex when we ran into her ex......i can see the possesive in her...smfh ....i wish i had that type love someone cared about me enough.

Maybe it be different if she was over her ex...100 into me...Sometimes bad timing in life meases things up. But i didnt get chance to see this vis action. ..

The only venus in Scorp Libras I have ever met were ladies: one was my old roommate, the other is my partner’s ex. Both of them are unforgiving in relationships. If the relationship ends, they do not forgive and will find any way they can to punish … for years. They HATE with a passion. They both are brittle and suffered from disproportionate insecurity.

Both were tall and willowy, model-types and oddly both had sever body issues. Specifically, neither likes her bum and they both fear getting fat. The ex-wife has suffered with eating disorders most of her life.

I am a venus in Libra Libra. Hate is kind of foreign to me. Even if I am mad at you, I will still help you. I will have inner wars between doing the right thing for you and honouring my hurt feelings. I tend to see the best in people and really want the best for people. I am on good terms with all my exs except one – who I really wish I was on good terms with but sometimes, we don’t get what we want. I genuinely love seeing my exs having wonderful lives.

I also modeled in the past though I don't have that willowy look. I am 5’4, around 110, all curve and have always really liked the way I look. I genuinely like myself.

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Posted by busyeyes88
From what I can gather from experience, a VIS is dark and ugly in a libra and a sag!!!

The libra chick i was recently dating gas these placements. Like I said before I know when ppl love u they act so different. But from what i seen over this year she was laid back private and quiet so idk... but i saw it come out a little with her ex when we ran into her ex......i can see the possesive in her...smfh ....i wish i had that type love someone cared about me enough.

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Yeah ViS is all or nothing.. after a breakup Ill keep it up until I stop loving them but personally, I just move on almost instantly and the feelings die from there and it can't ever go back to 100% with an ex.. I read you talk about her in other threads and she clearly was still in love with her ex. And she maybe jumped into things too soon when she still had unresolved feelings for the other girl

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Posted by busyeyes88
From what I can gather from experience, a VIS is dark and ugly in a libra and a sag!!!

The libra chick i was recently dating gas these placements. Like I said before I know when ppl love u they act so different. But from what i seen over this year she was laid back private and quiet so idk... but i saw it come out a little with her ex when we ran into her ex......i can see the possesive in her...smfh ....i wish i had that type love someone cared about me enough.

Yeah ViS is all or nothing.. after a breakup Ill keep it up until I stop loving them but personally, I just move on almost instantly and the feelings die from there and it can't ever go back to 100% with an ex.. I read you talk about her in other threads and she clearly was still in love with her ex. And she maybe jumped into things too soon when she still had unresolved feelings for the other girl

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Yes i do too indeed i agree she did. : (

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Posted by busyeyes88
From what I can gather from experience, a VIS is dark and ugly in a libra and a sag!!!

The libra chick i was recently dating gas these placements. Like I said before I know when ppl love u they act so different. But from what i seen over this year she was laid back private and quiet so idk... but i saw it come out a little with her ex when we ran into her ex......i can see the possesive in her...smfh ....i wish i had that type love someone cared about me enough.

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don't give up! every pot has a lid and all of that. you deserve a love like that and i (and i would say nearly everyone here) believes it will come to you. you give out great vibes, you're generous and seeks to find the best in someone. someone will recognise all that you have to offer and once they find you will never want to let you go.

it sounds like you had a crappy time the vis because she was not yours to have. she did a shitty thing by letting you believe otherwise but you were not to blame. you just so happened to pick one who never belonged in the "singles" pile.

drop her like she is hot, allow your hands to heal and dive in again.

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Posted by busyeyes88
From what I can gather from experience, a VIS is dark and ugly in a libra and a sag!!!

The libra chick i was recently dating gas these placements. Like I said before I know when ppl love u they act so different. But from what i seen over this year she was laid back private and quiet so idk... but i saw it come out a little with her ex when we ran into her ex......i can see the possesive in her...smfh ....i wish i had that type love someone cared about me enough.

don't give up! every pot has a lid and all of that. you deserve a love like that and i (and i would say nearly everyone here) believes it will come to you. you give out great vibes, you're generous and seeks to find the best in someone. someone will recognise all that you have to offer and once they find you will never want to let you go.

it sounds like you had a crappy time the vis because she was not yours to have. she did a shitty thing by letting you believe otherwise but you were not to blame. you just so happened to pick one who never belonged in the "singles" pile.

drop her like she is hot, allow your hands to heal and dive in again.

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Aww thank you Jeane, your right 🙂

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Posted by lovely77
Damn @gemguyaz34

It wasn't all bad, but they take a lot of patience and understanding and trust above all else. I think that my loyalty (leo moon) a long with my Cancer in Venus may have been the saving grace. What messed it up was the scorp placement tendencies to play games and "test". I often got the feeling the Libra was trapped inside and didn't know what to do. That said, I'd still take them back, I just believe they had a lot of things they wanted to say but didn't know how to express it, specifically the things they did not agree about due to the Libra wanting to keep the peace part of it, but the Scorpio having that temper keeping it in. Unique is the best way to put it in to terms. They are more the type to express love in actions rather than words.

And when it comes out in words it's all mumbled and jumbled and seems to come out more awkward than anything else. It's challenging to express feelings sometimes because I think most ViS struggle to know what exactly they are feeling and how to handle it without the extemes.

I have to check myself, apply brakes to certain feelings and what I say because if not I'm afraid it'll be too much. And that's a little painful but.. Being with someone who cares and is receptive of my feelings like my bf now makes me feel so much more at ease that the fear is like not even there. Of course we have Venus trine Mercury double whammy and my Mercury is in Scorpio also like my Venus. But that alone makes me feel secure I can be myself with him I don't have to hide so many repressed thoughts or worries or secrets.. He's a Gem too so I'm learning to be more free and let loose much more

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And that's a good thing that you can feel secure like that. I "thought" that's how things were where I was concerned, but apparently I was wrong in my thoughts. And when there was an argument (and mind you it was usually due to a communication break down) it wouldn't even come out garbled, it was as if they were a machine that completely shut down. But then after a day or two they would tell me they missed me so much and my response would be "It never had to be this way or go this far." On a few occasions they would mumble something very cold and accusatory that was so far off in left field it would come across as very hurtful and I would just tell them they need to chill out and I would talk to them later; that I would not discuss it if they were going to be irrational about it. So if that is what you mean by applying the brakes, I can understand it, but the thing is, in the rare instance there is something wrong would it not be better just

(cont.) to communicate and express what you feel? It's hard to read someone's mind.

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Posted by lovely77
Damn @gemguyaz34

It wasn't all bad, but they take a lot of patience and understanding and trust above all else. I think that my loyalty (leo moon) a long with my Cancer in Venus may have been the saving grace. What messed it up was the scorp placement tendencies to play games and "test". I often got the feeling the Libra was trapped inside and didn't know what to do. That said, I'd still take them back, I just believe they had a lot of things they wanted to say but didn't know how to express it, specifically the things they did not agree about due to the Libra wanting to keep the peace part of it, but the Scorpio having that temper keeping it in. Unique is the best way to put it in to terms. They are more the type to express love in actions rather than words.

And when it comes out in words it's all mumbled and jumbled and seems to come out more awkward than anything else. It's challenging to express feelings sometimes because I think most ViS struggle to know what exactly they are feeling and how to handle it without the extemes.

I have to check myself, apply brakes to certain feelings and what I say because if not I'm afraid it'll be too much. And that's a little painful but.. Being with someone who cares and is receptive of my feelings like my bf now makes me feel so much more at ease that the fear is like not even there. Of course we have Venus trine Mercury double whammy and my Mercury is in Scorpio also like my Venus. But that alone makes me feel secure I can be myself with him I don't have to hide so many repressed thoughts or worries or secrets.. He's a Gem too so I'm learning to be more free and let loose much more

Im happy he gives you that love. Im iffy about geminis though im general which makes me question them. We get along but sometimes u cant take them serious. Let me know how this works out for VIS. I dated a gemini and they had a gf and wanted me too. I didnt trust their loyalty so i kind of played games and tested them alot. They r very sweet ppl but loyal idk...they get real bored

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Just like a Lib, all Gems are different though. Astrology wise, depends how grounded they are. More fire and water do help in the loyalty department, but the key is we cannot feel slighted.

Also it is said that Scorpio placements suggests they feel deep and to extremes. Well, if that's the case and someone really loves you and has gone out of their way to prove it, shouldn't it suggest you have no reason at that point to feel threatened even if they call you out? Did you ever consider that just maybe the other person is telling you something you may not want to hear because they DO love you? I mean if you can't stick it out, how will you ever be with anyone when shit goes wrong? Couples go through ups and downs, it's a known fact. I know personally I wore my heart on my sleeve and I was open with my thoughts and feelings about things. I made mention that nothing will ever be 100% perfect and things with anyone will never be seen as eye to eye, but I had the willingness to fight for things to work. To the Scorp in Moon, Mercury and Venus, it was easier just to walk away with no explanation. Shrugs.

Posted by busyeyes88
From what I can gather from experience, a VIS is dark and ugly in a libra and a sag!!!

Not always, I think it can be beautiful, if there is true effort, but they need to learn that the other person can't be the only one to make things work. VIS needs to meet at least halfway, if they don't then it comes across as very selfish and only leads to resentment.

Posted by gemguyaz34
(cont.) to communicate and express what you feel? It's hard to read someone's mind.

you're absolutely right, of course, communication is the key. it's almost like you have a double whammy when you are a libra sun and vis. the vis makes you obsessional and secretive and the libra sun wants no drama. so you mix a tendency to brush over things for the sake of peace and then mix that with a side that cannot stop thinking about things that are practically impossible to explain. you're left with someone who doesn't want to broach topics but when they do, cannot express themselves and shuts down as a result. neither placement helps the other.

Yeah that's pretty much how I see it too.

It took a long while for me to come to terms with my Scorpio venus.

Libras are naturally optimistic, light and fluffy, and as @jeane wrote above, drama-free. The Scorpio penchant for all things dark and deep does not go well with the Libra sun. It would be easier if venus is also in Libra or other complementary sign, like Leo or Sag. Even Virgo venus is probably better for a Libra sun than Scorpio.

I've been married to a wonderful man for 5 years, and I trust him with all my heart. Yet I still grapple with a lot of dark thoughts... just the thought of losing him can drive me insane. But of course, true to a Scorpio venus, we never show our crazy 😉

Posted by letterbox10
It took a long while for me to come to terms with my Scorpio venus.

Libras are naturally optimistic, light and fluffy, and as @jeane wrote above, drama-free. The Scorpio penchant for all things dark and deep does not go well with the Libra sun. It would be easier if venus is also in Libra or other complementary sign, like Leo or Sag. Even Virgo venus is probably better for a Libra sun than Scorpio.

I've been married to a wonderful man for 5 years, and I trust him with all my heart. Yet I still grapple with a lot of dark thoughts... just the thought of losing him can drive me insane. But of course, true to a Scorpio venus, we never show our crazy 😉

to know there is no end is not reassuring and yes, never show the crazy...

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Posted by letterbox10
It took a long while for me to come to terms with my Scorpio venus.

Libras are naturally optimistic, light and fluffy, and as @jeane wrote above, drama-free. The Scorpio penchant for all things dark and deep does not go well with the Libra sun. It would be easier if venus is also in Libra or other complementary sign, like Leo or Sag. Even Virgo venus is probably better for a Libra sun than Scorpio.

I've been married to a wonderful man for 5 years, and I trust him with all my heart. Yet I still grapple with a lot of dark thoughts... just the thought of losing him can drive me insane. But of course, true to a Scorpio venus, we never show our crazy 😉

to know there is no end is not reassuring and yes, never show the crazy...

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Indeed.

But I guess this is why we get a lot of threads by people who are left confused by a Libra. And why Libras are the flakiest fakes of the zodiac 🙂

We seem to be so light and fluffy on the surface, but deep down we can be a well of emotions. We're known as a communicative sign, yet sometimes, it can be so hard to disclose to people exactly what we are feeling deep down. So it comes across as crazy passive-aggressiveness.

I personally am more comfortable talking about my feelings in a rational, intellectualised manner. But I can only do that after I've calmed down. In the heat of the moment, I can be a hot mess, and you'll probably get that whole sulky passive-aggressiveness, which I'm not proud of.

Posted by letterbox10
Indeed.

But I guess this is why we get a lot of threads by people who are left confused by a Libra. And why Libras are the flakiest fakes of the zodiac 🙂

We seem to be so light and fluffy on the surface, but deep down we can be a well of emotions. We're known as a communicative sign, yet sometimes, it can be so hard to disclose to people exactly what we are feeling deep down. So it comes across as crazy passive-aggressiveness.

I personally am more comfortable talking about my feelings in a rational, intellectualised manner. But I can only do that after I've calmed down. In the heat of the moment, I can be a hot mess, and you'll probably get that whole sulky passive-aggressiveness, which I'm not proud of.

absolutely. i have learned to avoid things in the heat of the moment. it's never helpful. either i cannot trust what i am feeling (ie i'm not going to feel that way in 5 minutes) or i go off the deep end projectile vomiting emotion like a lunatic.

that taking a moment to calm own means, like you say, i can intellectualise it. i can consider the situation and plan my response and words carefully. i know it's a great big error but i'm very comfortable with text. it gives me time to make sure i am communicating effectively (merc in virgo) but also that it is not either a rant or a silent wall of nothingness. i can also describe the depth of feeling which i am unable to do in the heat of the moment. it would come out in spurts ending in silence and swallowing my feelings leaving me frustrated in my inability to talk.

i had a passive aggressive moment the other day. likewise, i was not proud of it but realised i needed to air my grievance rather than just pretend everything is ok. it's freud said, repression is not possible! it always comes out one way or another.

Posted by gemguyaz34
Also it is said that Scorpio placements suggests they feel deep and to extremes. Well, if that's the case and someone really loves you and has gone out of their way to prove it, shouldn't it suggest you have no reason at that point to feel threatened even if they call you out? Did you ever consider that just maybe the other person is telling you something you may not want to hear because they DO love you? I mean if you can't stick it out, how will you ever be with anyone when shit goes wrong? Couples go through ups and downs, it's a known fact. I know personally I wore my heart on my sleeve and I was open with my thoughts and feelings about things. I made mention that nothing will ever be 100% perfect and things with anyone will never be seen as eye to eye, but I had the willingness to fight for things to work. To the Scorp in Moon, Mercury and Venus, it was easier just to walk away with no explanation. Shrugs.

I cannot speak for everyone but I have Venus in Scorpio also my Nessus and Pluto conjunct my Venus.. Love scares me a little.. I love hard but I'm worried about being loved back and how do I know how much they love me?? I always felt like I had to work hard for love and that if it's too easy than its probably too good to be true. Dramatic relationships are the most painful yet what I was more comfortable with. Easy going relationships where the guy adores me and ready to drop it all for me just everything is calm and smooth makes me super suspicious but it fufills me so much more and at the end of the day those guys would be the ones sticking around.. I'm even friends with a few of my ex's still.

I asked myself a little while ago which do I prefer...to chase or be chased? And I said to be chased because at least I know what he wants and that he is interested in me and that makes my job easier to fall for him.

I'd rather have the good guys. And I've been hurt enough to know not to ignore true love when it's right in front of me.

I like my Gem guy, he's really easy going and we take it slow which helps me to relax and calm any fear.

And it's never easy to walk away it hurts us too but like I said its a fear that it's too good if that makes sense.

Posted by daydream_achiever
For anyone who hasn't noticed yet.. every placement in a persons chart is modified by at least several, if not many other factors.

Saying something like, Scorpio ruins Libra imo, is ridiculous. I wonder how many Libs w VIS you know and like just in general and don't even realize it because likely you've not pulled the chart of every person you've ever met.. Maybe Scorpio energy enhances some Libras.

i agree. i don't think my vis ruins my leebness. if anything it i enhanced. i like that obsession. i like the extremes that it stirs up in me. the libra sun gives me the middle ground in most other aspects in my life but when comes to love, i don't want to be in the middle ground. i want that insane, destructive love that vis provides.

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Posted by letterbox10
It took a long while for me to come to terms with my Scorpio venus.

Libras are naturally optimistic, light and fluffy, and as @jeane wrote above, drama-free. The Scorpio penchant for all things dark and deep does not go well with the Libra sun. It would be easier if venus is also in Libra or other complementary sign, like Leo or Sag. Even Virgo venus is probably better for a Libra sun than Scorpio.

I've been married to a wonderful man for 5 years, and I trust him with all my heart. Yet I still grapple with a lot of dark thoughts... just the thought of losing him can drive me insane. But of course, true to a Scorpio venus, we never show our crazy 😉

to know there is no end is not reassuring and yes, never show the crazy...

I have shown my crazy a time or two.. but two tops. lol

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lol! i've shown it once and never again. lesson learnt. ha!