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Emilyk1991
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Posted by Freetobe007
Emily, I'm not a hypocrite! I never pursued a guy who had a girlfriend! Yeah, we may have both been confused about translating the actions of the Libra guys we dealt with, but you went after a taken guy! that's way different from my situation!



Smh, he was NOT taken when I first met him, maybe you need to read EVERYTHING before you put your input in. Everyone makes mistakes & yes you were being a hypocrite no matter what you say.
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Posted by Freetobe007
Why is it you feel that I'm being a hypocrite?

It doesn't matter if he was taken when you met him. At some point, you were aware that he had a girlfriend. Point blank.



Again, everyone makes mistakes and you cant judge someone unless you were in THEIR shoes... & you called me stupid, in your thread you sounded stupid. That shows you were being a Hypocrite. I dont care how stupid my Problem seems to you, more or less we were BOTH being stupid & we learned from the situation.
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LOL @ the TWO YEARS—

Apparently, you never read about the whole breakup seven weeks ago? Hmm. How to summarize?

Well, actually... it's possible I'm being juuuuust a smidge harsh with him. Basically what happened was his "little Libra lies to keep the peace" broke my trust too much for me to recover from.. we'd broken up last year for a bit, and both dated other people.. well, he (of course) denied he was dating at all.. until caught red-handed. Then denied having sex with any of them. Until caught.. cuz the one told him AFTER we got back together she has herpes. (OMG WAS I PISSED!! *I* HAD TO GET TESTED CUZ OF HIM?!) Confronted, he admitted to her and one other girl I was already SURE he'd slept with. Life goes on, everything's fine.. until he's caught flirting (well, he calls it that.. not realizing the fine line between flirting and propositioning!) which didn't piss me off NEARLY as much as simultaneously finding out there was a THIRD woman he slept with when we were broken up. Another huge lie. -_-

Lies are my big thing.. I can't STAND them.. all along, I told him not to tell those bs little lies, like I need my feelings "protected"?? Not me.. give me the TRUTH, asshole!.. and waited to see if he would adjust the behavior that was making it so hard for me to TRUST him. He says he'd never lie about big stuff (like cheating).. I say.. if you'd LIE about who you fucked while we were broken up.. how can I TRUST you'd tell the truth about bigger stuff?? Little lies, big truths? Does not compute!

And so I realized right then.. I can't go on with my trust wiped out, I'd become someone even *I* would hate.. if he can't tell the truth no matter what.. I can't trust him.. if I can't trust him.. how can I KNOW "inappropriate flirting" will never cross the line into cheating, or even that he'd ever admit to it? Once the trust dropped out, the over the top jackass flirting was not something I'd abide alongside stupid little lies. No not me, sugar.

So I packed his shit, told him to leave. Didn't even speak to him at first, let him BURN. But since then, he's been ALL about me, bending over backwards to try PROVING he's worth another chance. But he ain't there yet - or I'm not. And too harsh or not.. that's the way I am, and won't apologize for MY standards. Without TRUST, I cannot feel good in my relationship. Rebuild the trust, THEN we'll see. Oh, and "proposition" another chick while committed to me.. I'll cut your fucking dick off. *wink*
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Emilyk1991
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Posted by Freetobe007
why are you mad at me!!? I didn't make you stupid!!! lol jk

seriosly though, I'm not being a hypocrite. I didn't say I don't make mistakes. I wasn't trying to judge you...it's just that, in my opinion, you were being an idiot and your actions were f u c k e d up and selfish considering at one point you knew he had a girlfriend yet still pursued him! Don't hate the messenger! Ok so maybe we both were being stupid. But I was being stupid on a much smaller scale!



You pretty much said what I said, "We were both being stupid more or less" you judged me point blank. I'm not mad at all I just say what I got to say without being a bitch about it. & no I was not being selfish, I just really liked the guy & would do anything to make him see that & he used that against me, you have to be in my shoes.
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Jerry Springer shit LOL I wouldn't make a good chick for the show.. I won't go public psycho or get physically violent. MY episode would be boring.. they'd reveal some shocking secret, he's been lying and cheating with my Mom/sis/bff/some stripper, or he's gay, or he has a wife and 8 secret kids... I'd look at him... eyes flashing. And smile a tiny smile, as I felt my own secret heartbreak, outwardly unaffected and unconcerned. Like a still pool, like a rock. My eyes wouls slide right past him, unseeing, I wouldn't even look at HIM again, he's now a GHOST. I'd nonchalantly shrug, and turn back to Jerry and say, "Any single guys in the audience today like my number?"

BOOYAH BIZNATCH!

Okay.. maybe not THAT boring -- wouldn't you all CHEER the chick who did that instead of crying and begging him to choose her anyway??
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Posted by Freetobe007
Emily. You were selfish. You seemed to be only thing about YOU wanting the guy and how much YOU liked the guy and how YOU would do anything for this playing, cheating, lying, a s s h o l e. I think that's pretty selfish considering there was another girl in the picture and you knew that. How would you feel if you were with him and some other girl wouldn't hop off his nutts because she liked him and would do anything for him?? that's just the point I was trying to make. It's not like I called you a selfish, homewrecking whore so chill! All I said, basically, is that you were being a selfish idiot. But fine, if it makes you feel better I don't know what I'm talking about because I've never been a selfish idiot chasing after a taken man.



Again you have to be in MY SHOES ... ughh I have to say the same thing over and over again. Its my mistake, I didnt come on here to judge people and call them stupid thats just immature you go on and on calling me this and that. You just have to be in my shoes, my mind, my life, know how I felt. I am chill you just dont get MY situation through MY eyes. I know it was wrong & I was dumb but you have no right to judge me because you dont KNOW ME your wasting your time I learned from MY mistake. You arn't helping the situationa t all you are just here judging.
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Posted by Freetobe007
Yeah, we all have our stupid moments, but this stupidity is just a "stupid moment" on a waaayyy different level! He's showing her right in front of her face "I'm an iconsiderate, selfish a s s h o l e who's not only playing another girl, but using you to play her so in return playing you because you keep exscusing my unacceptable whorish behavior."

Girl, HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND! No offense, but if you were really the girl he wanted, he would have chosen you, not her. Like if what you and he had was so deep and real and special, then he would be with you right now. There would be need for any other female to have that place in his life. Why do you want him?? His behavior is sooo disrespectful! You seriously want to be with a guy who acts like that while he has a girlfriend!!? Snap out of it! You're lying to yourself with this "He's just playing hard to get bs" ...it really just looks like he just wants to keep you on the radar if things don't work out with him in his girlfriend. I know I'm being harsh, but you need to hear it! Not only is it pretty messed and so selfish up for you to continue being "the other woman" when you've known for over six months he has a girlfriend, but you're making yourself look like a complete and total fool. No you shouldn't trust and believe in a man who cheats on his girlfriend.



You really can't let it go, can you? I gotta bang a Leo chick..
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Ha! Bitch, please... you couldn't handle it 😉
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Posted by Freetobe007
Emily, I think you're just saying I'm judging you because you don't want to admit to yourself that there's truth in what I'm saying



I never said you wernt right, yes I was dumb & it was wrong ... but for the rest you have to be in my shoes. YOU ARE JUDGING YOU ARE NOT HELPING ANYTHING. Smh the problem is resolved what are you trying to prove ? You are saying the exact same thing the others did and frankly I could careless about what you have to say because you are a bitch. If you were nice about it and wernt so shallow it would of been fine and I would of took your advice even though I didnt need it because its resolved.
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Posted by Freetobe007
lol! I'm not a b i t c h! I'm not even really trying and you already think I'm one, I can't deny that makes me grin. There was nothing shallow about what I said! You just don't like the truth. There really is no point to keep debating about it haha just that...I know I'm right so...I didn't want to stop talking! What I said is true and I think you're calling me a shallow b i t c h because I was real with you without sugar coating and babying you for your borderline w h o r i s h actions.




How was it borderline w h o r i s h when I didnt even do anything with him physicaly ? It was all emotional and mental. You dont know anything, you keep saying the same thing over and over again when theres no point. Go to another thread instead of starting drama because you arnt helping anything I dont need your help, theres nothing to solve & like I said I didnt say you were completely wrong it was wrong & I was dumb but the rest you have to be in my shoes. Theres a difference between helping someone for the good or just completely judging them for their actions.
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BOTH of my sisters are LEOS.. this shit is almost amusing 😛

OMG Fire signs need a LEASH.. or a FIRE HOSE 😉

Either of you two happen to be REDHEADS on top of that? 😛



Yeah.. I can see you girls are learning your lessons hard and early.. took MY stubborn, Tau-influenced (so, rather FIXED in some ways) ass a lot longer to learn.. you'll both be forces to be reckoned with later, won't take shit from NO man.. aaaaand.. that's when you'll find a good one worth keeping 😄
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Posted by Nefer
BOTH of my sisters are LEOS.. this shit is almost amusing 😛

OMG Fire signs need a LEASH.. or a FIRE HOSE 😉

Either of you two happen to be REDHEADS on top of that? 😛



Yeah.. I can see you girls are learning your lessons hard and early.. took MY stubborn, Tau-influenced (so, rather FIXED in some ways) ass a lot longer to learn.. you'll both be forces to be reckoned with later, won't take shit from NO man.. aaaaand.. that's when you'll find a good one worth keeping 😄



Hahaha, I just hate when people dont see my point. I HAVE to get it across. When I do debate I get this fiery feeling inside me .. Ahhhh its such a rush 😉
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Posted by Freetobe007
Omg you can't even talk about me repeating everything because I swear all you keep saying is "You have to be in my shoes! You're not in my shoes! You're judging me. You can't help me when you're judging me. But you're just not in my shoes! It doesn't matter because you're not in my shoes!!!" OK!! what are you a fucking parrot!!? I didn't start drama! All I did was say my opinion and you come in here being all sensitive talking about "I hate hypocrites!!!" Maybe I judged you a bit because your ridiculously idiotic actions were soooo stupid that the words pushed themselves out of my mouth! SO THE HELL WHAT! So what if I judged you a bit! People in this world are doing worse things than judging people who are being idiots!! Stop acting like it's the worse possible thing I could have ever done! I was trying to help you for the good...I just didn't sugar coat it because the way you acted was....you already know 🙂 hah omg just let it go!



I know I was saying the same thing over again I have said that, & you did start drama smh as you can see, you were being a hypocrite. & you admit you judged. You didnt help me at all. Negative bitch words came out of your mouth, if you wanted to help you wouldnt have pooped yourself over something that was already resolved & like i said you were no help. I dont see what your point is because all your doing is judging & sayin what I did was wrong & thats true, I think I already know that.
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Posted by amethyst2002
As usual, the Sag can't see what's being said because it's all about them. :p WHY can't they ever hear WHAT'S being said? All they hear is "they aren't kissing my ass and making me feel like a special snowflake, so waah."

Hard headed dorks.



I do see her point, what I did was wrong (Which I already knew) & to her I was being selfish (I dont think so but I can see in her point of veiw & how I was) "You just have to be in my point of veiw to understand" & in my veiw point I wasnt. Everything else is unnesecary & if she wanted to help me which she didnt she should of went another way about doin it... & it was already resolved so I dont know why she even decided to put her worthless to cents in it anyway I dont care.
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Ame.. *nudge* DUDE.. NOT YOU. Sheesh, girl.. you know I lubbies you.

I was ACTUALLY referring to how FTB flipped her cookies allll over my ass when I originally responded to her (second) thread. She was sooo offended by nearly every damn word I said, thought I was calling her slutty, thought I was being a bitch, etc.. it took DAYS (and several others telling her I'm NOT like that haha) to calm her ass down. Then, as she got to know me a little better.. she realized that I'm actually a very nice person and only trying to help, but my "way" just always seems to rub Leos wrong haha

Don't tell me you forgot that? lol
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Posted by amethyst2002
My brother's like that. Holy fuck, it's annoying.

I have several Sag friends like this. If I want to hear from them, I have to initiate. Why? THEY can't be bothered. Too much hassle. *cue nose in the air*

I have friends who know Sags behave like that. It's quite maddening. It's blatantly obvious with Emily's posts with a few things she's stated.

*shrugs* Just how they are.



LOL

🙂 how annoying !

You're partially right though.
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Emily!

< another Sag in an on/off relationship with the same Leeb for like 7 years!

Let me put this into perspective for you...from the other side of the street? Haha

I dated several other dudes in between him. He only dated one or two other chicks.
He's not the player type. He's very down to earth, funny guy, everybody likes him, etc. He's very charming, but honestly never had much patience for females. He's a total sucker for a pretty face, like most Leebs, but it seemed like once he gained a chicks interest, it usually ended there. He got bored, didn't feel like taking her out, etc.

Anyways, he dated this one girl for about a month or so when we were "off" and I was seeing someone else too.
Basically the whole time he was seeing this girl, and I was seeing this other guy, he was finding ways to cross my path and weasel his way back. We both took turns trying to convince the other we were way happier with our new friends, but neither of us were really happy...we were mostly we were seeing the other people to occupy us, pass time, entertain us, etc. we both thought about the other constantly and obviously wanted to be together still. & eventually he convinced me to "hang out as friends" but of course, you know where that ended up. He told me he broke up with her, she was annoying, obsessed with him, etc. He was still talking to her! We ended up getting back together, me not realizing all this time that he was just blowing her off and he never even properly broke up with her. She was crushed. It was really sad, I felt like shit.

BUT this is what we do. For 7 years, this is what we do!
There's a message there: GIRL. Don't be his runner up. On & off, means he's stuck on her. You're just the in between.
Leave it alone, you will end up broken-hearted.
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& yes. He is indeed stringing you along. (Not like I should really have to tell you that.)

He's keeping you on the back burner just in case. As a Sag you should know about that back burner.
Plan B? Yeah you know what I'm talking about...

If he didn't want to be with his girl, he wouldn't keep going back. He is not obligated to her. They're not married.
If he really wanted to be with you instead, he would be. Simple as that.

He likes the attention you give him, he flirts with you for the excitement, something different, to see if he's still got it, to see if you still want him, etc.
It's a weird little game they play. It's how they entertain themselves.



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Lolz @ the 12 year olds arguing. Both of you are automatically stupid just because of your age alone. It's okay, we've all been through that phase. You'll learn. Just don't be a silly bitch and get knocked up in the process. :p



Amen to that! Theres like an epidemic of Pregnant females at my highschool and even other chica's around my age whom I know from around the city. I REFUSE!!! lol
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Posted by Emilyk1991
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
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Every Libra should have a Sag on a back burner 😛



Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa lol



Hit me up on December 2012



Hahahahahahaaaa . Jerk. lol



I see the Libras not so smooth & charming through the web 😉 lmao
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lol On the contrary KOL is quite charming when he really tries
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Posted by THEKingofLibra
Thats like Inception, Libra style . I'm too lazy to put the effort into it, but rest assured over a year and a half the idea of being on the back burner will grow in her id, bubble over and blow up the superego, take over the most basic daily functions, increase the heart rate and perspiration at the mere thought of King, Libra, or Strawberries. Its gonna cripple her psyche to catatonic desire leaving her on her knees at night praying to turn 18, yelling at inanimate objects and then doing unspeakable things to them. All leading to a culminating point upon which pivots her entire existence, gnawing away at her nervous system, unable to contain her most basic desires until eventually.. she'll cave in.

What were we talking about?



ROFL. You never cease to tickle me! lol
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Posted by Emilyk1991
"What do you like about me" ... I like stuff to be detailed. He would always be like "We have a connection" I would be like what kind of connection ? & he would be like "A weird one" WTF !??! -_____- ... but as I got to know him I did get why he liked me I just wanted to hear him out in his perspective.. He never showed feelings though he thought he was to "Man" enough for it.




You will never get what you're asking for 🙂
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"What do you like about me" ... I like stuff to be detailed. He would always be like "We have a connection" I would be like what kind of connection ? & he would be like "A weird one" WTF !??! -_____- ... but as I got to know him I did get why he liked me I just wanted to hear him out in his perspective.. He never showed feelings though he thought he was to "Man" enough for it.




You will never get what you're asking for 🙂
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When it comes to Libras thats SOOO TRUE lol, they like teasing but dont like being teased.