Taurus man-please give me tips girls

hi libra ladies :-)
please can you advise me - k , got a date with a libra girl coming up.
1. is it a good match-please i ask as just want a realistic answer.
(I recently went out with a Sag and found out this is not a good match whereas for you guys it is)
2. i have a friend who is a libra girl and i really like her (just friend of many years) - we have great chats and i have utmost respect for her and her opinions - infact happy to say she much brighter than me and sure we long time friends forever. - is this poss way i should lead my date towards, its only a date so happy to just become friends.
3. is it most often doomed for the lib girl to feel trapped? really dont want to do this at all as it just simply not nice for either person. have done this before and that was only out of ignorance.
4. is the sex good? whats it like? like i know you cant generalise but....
5. got any tips? anything not to do?

i getting heavy flirting at work from a lib girl also but not into this one so i guess i attracting a couple at mo. u know me(taurean) for being possesive but if theres one thing i going to make it my life mission not to be then it is this, to 'weigh' me up please.
much thanksxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

As Librat is MIA, I'll be happy to answer as much as I can.

1) I haven't had much luck with Tauruans. I have heard that Tauruans are strongly attracted to Libra. I did go on a date with one several months ago. The date was great, very nice guy, but I decided it was too soon for me to date after a major break-up. He got kind of weird and was proclaiming love yadda, yadda when I told him I didn't want to see him again. It took me 40 minutes to get him off the phone. It wasn't till I said he really was creeping me out with his behaviour and it had only been one date, that he had the good sense to be embarrassed about his behavour, and snapped out of it.

2) Date or Friendship. Friendship or Date. I tend not to keep male friends in real life because they always want more. I question whether true friendship can exist between the sexes because even friendship is based on some sort of attraction and similarities. Someone always wants more. Just go for it. If she wants to date you, date her. Lovers can be friends. Friends can't always become lovers. That being said too much too soon, can be a complete turn off. I am talking in circles. I don't know. (shrugs)

3) Now that is a complex question. You see ... common misconception ... Libra is not a balanced sign. Libra is about balancing. Libra is contrast. The moment you say one, I say two. We bring the other side to any argument, because we are bringing the argument into balance. Also we are the first of the outward looking signs, and all our lessons deal with relationships and relating to others. BUT because we are the sign of balance we can't stay still. When in a relationship, we often want out. When we aren't in a relationship, we want in. We need to find balance. You just need to let your Libra go through their mental acrobats so when they feel the need to move, they do so mentally then choose you again. You cannot hold onto air. It will always escape. But you can let the breeze blow so it comes back.

4) Is sex with Libra good or is sex in general good?

5) That is a whole other post.

Hi,

I dated a Taurus once and I can't say much about it. Wasn't really due to anything wrong with him, just that it didn't happen for us. That's not to say that it couldn't work.

I disagree with Sparrow (very rare), I have many many male friends and we can keep it at just friendship. Infact I prefer men over women as friends because men don't try to compete.

But look, don't look more in to this date than what is there. This is your first date with her. Don't look at the "Big picture" just yet. You may end upm not liking her at all. Just take a first date for what it is, a first date.

And please, don't complicate things with sex, OK? Just keep it simple. On a first date you rarely get to know much about a person to begin with as he/she is always on their best behaviour.

And as for this "trapped" thing......Hell, sometimes it's FUN to feel trapped for a while if I'm really in to that person! 😉

But if it goes on for too long of a time, then it gets old and I move on to greener pastures.

Good Luck, please keep us posted

I don't find women competitive. Perhaps, I have been blessed. My female friends are kind, wonderful, supportive people. I feel blessed everyday that they are in my life. I could not ask for more.

I find women settle down once they realize you aren't interested in men more than them. Once they realize you aren't after their man, that man, any man ... friendship forms quickly.

I use to have a number of male friends before I realized they all ended in drama. Then I started paying more attention to females and started making female friends. I am so grateful I did.

As a dear friend's brother once told me, "Girls don't have male friends. They have bench warmers."

I find this to be true.

I do like men. I just know how my friendships with them turn out.

Glad it is different with you Librat.

Gee

I bumped up and old post on how to blow Libras away.

k girls
thanks so much for your comments
so yes i am meeting up with her - shes pretty keen - like i tried to blow it out 4 times but shes still really keen so i'm going to.
i was working today talking to this scientist guy when he goes ' look i am psychic(cue laughs from me) but the guy was very ill and very genuine and he goes look i senseing a lot of things from u-ur scent(k right!!) and he goes i must find myself a libra woman etc... i said look i just blown this girl out - i had decided not to bother as she from a really wealthy background and dont want that really ( in context i have just been out with a really wealthy girl and i did'nt like it )- but anyhow as she really seems nice person and keeps asking me i got to really plus i promised the 'psychic'(yeah right!!) guy i would.
she seems really nice though - just pleasant - i'm prob. lot more wacky so hope this will be o.k. at least for evening of chat.
hey to the people who say that boys and girls cant be friends thats so not true -i got equal friends who are girls that i deeply care for and they me. they always there for me and me them - and no sexual undertones. well one of them a little but i made sure she knew i not into it and we maintain really strong care for one another.
my libra friend is marrying my friend and i never seen her as anything but a friend-she like super bright international traveller-but whats so nice is whilst somepeople would display pride of their achievments etc. she just so plain and ordinary whilst being exceptional person.
not sure how libra girls going to like me though!!!:-) sure we have a good time.
hey if i feel like it should i make a pass - drunken of course :-))))