Venus in Libra = Sweet talker?

Is venus in Libra known for their sweet talking?

I know they are the sign that thrives in venus as they are very romantic and love relationships, but do they use a lot of terms of endearment and talk sweetly to their significant other?

That placement should be illegal. It's like double whammy.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
That placement should be illegal. It's like double whammy.

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Posted by happykitsune
Is venus in Libra known for their sweet talking?

I know they are the sign that thrives in venus as they are very romantic and love relationships, but do they use a lot of terms of endearment and talk sweetly to their significant other?

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I really really like nicknames. I hate the super-ultra-fuzzy-wuzzy nicknames (gag), but I like things having to do with the person. Other than that, no... can't recall.

Got Venus and Mars both in Libra. I do know my Libra comes out to play in Mars. Usually when someone is agonizing the heck out of me, after Scorpio Sun has had a chance to cool down (thankfully this doesn't show online, lol), Libra starts trying to be nice to the person in an attempt to make them go away. I know it's misleading and deceptive. I know it's all sorts of not-so-good things. But yelling doesn't solve much, either. And yelling in forums is pretty much turning the caps lock on.

OH I'M SO SCARY RAH RAH RAH... not particularly, no.

Being deceptively nice to aggressors does usually make most lose interest. But then there're the issues of unexpressed aggression, on my end. *Sigh*

As far as Libra Venus, I'm 100% focused on fairness. I don't want to do more or less than the guy. I don't want him to do more or less than me. There's this unfortunate checklist going on in the back of my mind, constantly. I will be the peacekeeper, the compromiser; when we both want to do things that are in opposition to each other. This is where it's helpful. I even automatically attempt to compromise when someone else close to the guy (family, for instance) is in opposition to me. I want the other person to get along with me. And I want my own family and friends to get along with him. It's sort of a superficial imagery thing, but it genuinely unruffles feathers and makes the guy less stressed, too. So it's good and it's bad. The checklist is not a pleasant thing. It's what usually only shows up in a relationship if things are grossly unfair; but for me, it's there from the start and never ever leaves. Essentially it's the usual sort of stress attributed to a Libra; but for me, only to my relationships.

And, yeah, I am physically attracted to

...Libras.

Is that sweet talking libra placement even more enhanced with a gemini moon?

Talking to this guy right now who has this way with words and I'm just like "no way that's just his libra doing all the talking and charming."

So is a gem moon also a sweet talker/charmer?

Posted by Draumstafir
...Libras.

So when you say nicknames do you mean like terms of endearment like "dear" and "sweetheart"?

Also do you guys like it when the other person talks sweet to you in a sweet voice? I noticed he seemed to respond well to my sweet demeanor and then countered right back with the same thing lol.

Mostly, and especially, plays or alterations on the pre-existing name. But that carries to alterations of pre-existing words of all sorts for all uses. And goofy noises, too. But also things like Handyman, He-man, Mirror Man, Honey, and Sweetness. He-man was actually a slight variation of a name that started with He-. He hated it. Guys have hated all my nicknames. xD

I've never met a Gemini charmer. They're pretty straight-forward. Although fickle, they'll be honest in-the-moment. You're right that Libra is attributed with charm, but for me in the 'love' aspect it's really only come out in fairness mode. And in compromising. Charm is, ironically enough, reserved for my Mars. But that could be because I don't like it much myself. It feels... fake. I also don't like baby talk or coo-voicing. All these elements at play, aside from Venus. Scorpio Sun for one. Virgo Moon for another. Charm is such a turn-off, for me. Maybe he likes the word-play aspect due to that Moon. Dunno.

I tend to copy my dad in flirtation. Typical psychology there. Maybe he copies his mom?

A Libra Sun I dated was most definitely a word-charmer. I couldn't believe the swoon-worthy things he'd come up with. But they were like a deck of cards for him, in finite amount. And they ran out.

Posted by Draumstafir
Mostly, and especially, plays or alterations on the pre-existing name. But that carries to alterations of pre-existing words of all sorts for all uses. And goofy noises, too. But also things like Handyman, He-man, Mirror Man, Honey, and Sweetness. He-man was actually a slight variation of a name that started with He-. He hated it. Guys have hated all my nicknames. xD

I've never met a Gemini charmer. They're pretty straight-forward. Although fickle, they'll be honest in-the-moment. You're right that Libra is attributed with charm, but for me in the 'love' aspect it's really only come out in fairness mode. And in compromising. Charm is, ironically enough, reserved for my Mars. But that could be because I don't like it much myself. It feels... fake. I also don't like baby talk or coo-voicing. All these elements at play, aside from Venus. Scorpio Sun for one. Virgo Moon for another. Charm is such a turn-off, for me. Maybe he likes the word-play aspect due to that Moon. Dunno.

I'm wondering if it may be his scorpio sun and mars that are bringing in some of that charm then. Here is his chart (Merc in Sag too hmmm):

Sun Scorpio 29.56
Moon Gemini 10.41
Mercury Sagittarius 21.44
Venus Libra 14.35
Mars Scorpio 25.31
Jupiter Virgo 12.24
Saturn Aquarius 2.06
Uranus Capricorn 11.30
Neptune Capricorn 14.53
Pluto Scorpio 20.43
Lilith Capricorn 23.24
Asc node Capricorn 10.23

Im leeb sun, venus, merc, saturn and pluto. I'm not a sweet talker tho. I'm not charming either. I don't even know what it actually means to be charming. *shrugs*

I do know a scorp with libra venus and sag merc, he's not a sweet talker either. We're the same, we do give nicknames to people we're fond of but we both know how to gauge others and the type of communication others prefer. In a way, our communication style mimics the personality of the one we're talking to.

And I thought it was my libra mercury that made me a sweet talker.

My venus is Leo...

I'm not a sweet talker like constantly buttering someone up or overly gushing stuff but I'll come out with the right thing at the right time and I'm sweet in general.

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Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
I'm not charming.

okay, let me clarify this.

*I* do not see myself as charming.

However, I have been told that I can come off that way.

So, with that said, I don't believe it's intentional.

I have tried to go out of my way to *not* be charming (because the scorpio in me wants to go into convulsions when people tell me this)....but I still get told I can come off that way.

I've also been told it has been perceived as being ingenious. I can tell you it's not....but people still don't believe me.

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No need to clarify...we know how "charming" you are... 😛

Haha Sugarfoot, well I hope with a name like that you are sweet 🙂

Glad to hear they know what nicknames to use. This guy has used a few nicknames that have made me melt. I guess I never really get sweet names from my significant others so its something I really appreciate.

And yes I would agree the gem moon does make them talk more. Love this venus in libra tho. Just love sweet guys and the way they treat women. So gentlemanly.

Are any of them "sugar pea?"