What is the Deal on Sensitive Guys? (Page 2)

LS, I do agree with you. Just take it from here. Leave the past in the past. If it comes up again then implement improved responses... Way too soon. Plus you want to be careful. Don't want the same thing to happen as with the Leo, totally understand that. Honesty is always the best policy, although it can come back and bite you in the ass sometime, but there leaves no confusion of where you are coming from.

LS, so what if you thought his boss was hot... That is your feelings, he better toughen up. Unless he thinks he is the most attractive man in the universe...

I didn't think his boss was hot. HE thinks I think his boss is hot. I don't even remember what his boss looks like. After I met him, I forgot about his boss. So much sooo I was completely on the spot and at a loss for words when he said that to me.

I am not going to lie and tell him he is it for me. That is morally wrong. The best I could say is that I really like him and hope he could be it for me.

(BTW, he is an Aqua NOT a Leo.)

** So much sooo I was completely on the spot and at a loss for words when he said that to me.

Which, of course, made it look like I was hiding something which I wasn't. I found them both attractive. I noticed his friend had a ring on so I assumed he was married and lost interest. Aquaguy chatted with me, I became interested. I forgot all bout his boss.

Just focus on him and let that other stuff pass. ALL men want to be Numer Uno, but Leos and Aries especially. Aquarius usually has plenty of friends / admirers and also let things go away, shrug things off, easier than some signs. I think you're fine. Keep being right on truthful and fun---throwing him off some, letting him know he has your attention.

And I learned men THINK they want to be chased but it freaks them out. I will not chase a man and put my heart on the line before he has. Sorry.

I will not repeat the Leo mistake.

Thanks Atom.

I am just going to be me. Affectionate, happy, playful, and if he likes me, he will respond. If he doesn't, he will fall away ... and I will date his boss. LMAO!

I just hope he isn't really the jealous type because if he is, he won't be happy. From experience, men find me attractive. Men in my past were shocked by the behaviour of their long term friends and own family members. It isn't that I am particularly pretty either. I have been told there is just something about me.

If he can't deal with it, it won't last anyway because it is nothing I can control.

LS, only if the subject comes up again. Tell him what you told us. As far as you not thinking his boss was attractive... I know he is an agua. Just saying I agree you didn't want the same thing to happen with this guy as with the Leo.

Oh I realize QS. Someone else thought he was a Leo. He is not.

If he brings it up, I will do as you suggest. Hopefully, we will have a happy, good time tonight and this ugliness will be forgotten.

Considering I am still licking my Leo wounds, I REALLY don't want that to happen again.

Lioness, you are strong. You'll do fine---just turn on that charisma.

Atom!

I am a Libra! Actually, I am the five planets Libra.

I am just nursing the bite a Leo took out of my heart.

I will do that Solitas. I was just taken aback because I seriously hadn't thought about the guy since meeting him and felt put on the spot.

I will see what I can do tonight.

Be girl scout. Be prepared!

Got it, ls---you just seem to have some of that Leo fire in you---a compliment.

I do have a Leo Moon and four placements in Sag. It makes me a little fiery sometimes. 🙂

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Well, at 7:30 I phoned him and he was out with the guys and decided to do that instead. Apparently, we didn't have "firm plans" despite me phoning him that morning. I will not see him again. I called him Monday to confirm because I had four other offers on the table for that night. I was REALLY pissed off. My voice was quaking.

I just wished him a happy birthday and hung up.

There were too many conflicts already anyway. That thing with his boss was completely crazy.

Despite handling this whole thing with dignity, I am sure when he tells the story, he will managed to turn me into a psycho somehow.

little sparrow, please tell me how you can do that: not see him again. What do you tell yourself or do?

He hurt me.

This whole thing is way too complicated already. I just want to be with someone who gets me, who is fun, and easy to be with. I really don't want to date someone I have to battle with and I think it will be that way with this guy.

I think he is a good person just not the good person for me.

I rather look for someone who a fun, easy to be with guy who gets me, that play into this guys self-generating drama. The whole thing with his boss left a bad taste in my mouth if you can't tell.

There was something else that he said a few weeks ago that put my back up too and I thought I better watch this guy. He seems to like to stir up trouble.

Why bother? Life is too short. Know what I mena?

know what ya mean!! life's too short to hang with people who get you down and/or confuse you too much, hmmmm come to think of it, nah never mind...won't to there but yep Libras do confuse too much hehehehe.....ummmmm...I like what you want from a man/relationship LS....THAT is the way its meant to be, ESPECIALLY in the early stages - sheesh, if he wants to be THAT serious so early on— OMG run girl, run!!! I can only imagine it to get worse actually...my Gemini was like that too....serious stuff within a week of us getting involved but of course at that time (I was young and naive) I thought nothing of it and took it but man did things continue like that for 6 long years but over bigger issues that really weren't there LOL. Boy am I glad to be out of that relationship - it has taken me 6 months to look back at it all and wonder what was I thinking!!! *slaps forehead*....lesson learnt

Easier to say than to do.