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Posted by aquasnoz
@LadyScorp: YAY! water dominant check! So long as you don't mind the airy side poking a bit of fun and being inquisitive 😉



Bring on the humour and fun, too much darkness becomes a bore...leave the spotlights at home please though 😉 (scented candles are welcomed)

Imagine a Lion trying to saunter by, I would rather him eat me whole, or the floor to open up a hole to swallow me up, rather than to face the sunlight in which he brings.
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Posted by feby16aqua
If I'm tired or hungry is when the mean stuff can come from me. Surprises and then I feel bad afterwards...then I wait a bit and mention it again to "work it out" lol...but I "don't care" the whole time. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh



Here comes the Airhead detachment, dear Feby, be glad you do not need a tampon to bung up the excess flow of sensitivities and emotions (i.e. like moi and our water kind)!
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latin women are gorgeous though! i can watch latin soaps all day, i dont know what the hell they are saying most of the time...but its ok. their beauty is mesmerizing.




No guy wants a crazy chick, no matter how cute they are.
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Even as a woman I would have to co-sign this, because even as an observer, I feel bad for the man.
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Posted by VirgoHero
Feby, response from Peaches.



"Awww

Is she online?

Please express my wishes to her VH - Sending much love and hope she does not forget to spend time when she can to run free around the forests. Do not stress to much dear Pech, big changes are coming with the Mercury RX but be careful with past individuals coming back. Oh, never forgetting to try - Malvoisie, as well 🙂 Bisous
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Posted by SirenSting
I'm not nearly as dramatic as full blood Latinas but I have a Latina streak that comes out like hell when I'm mad... Or want sex. I get feisty 😛



lol i have heard of latin women who will fight for their men...and i mean fist fight, when it comes to bar brawls. is that true?



depends. fight for him how? I WILL get involved if someone messes with my man.
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Ride and Die chics are a rare breed now a days.
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If I'm tired or hungry is when the mean stuff can come from me. Surprises and then I feel bad afterwards...then I wait a bit and mention it again to "work it out" lol...but I "don't care" the whole time. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh



Here comes the Airhead detachment, dear Feby, be glad you do not need a tampon to bung up the excess flow of sensitivities and emotions (i.e. like moi and our water kind)!



lol. 🙂 Yes I can detach I've noticed...and it's getting easier for me as well...
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Ay, you are discrediting that side of you as if it were bad. You are simply surrounding yourself with the wrong individuals if you were to feel so, sometimes we can not help who we our or our nature, to change our ways to fit other people's molds will be but agony. You are great as you are, detachment and all, it is viewed as a great asset to some, who enjoy space you know 🙂
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I don't mean it as a style thing. I meant it more as a gal that's with you through thick and thin. That's what ride and die means to me.



+1

We're not talking about "mess with my man and I'll pop a cap in your ass" kind of women.
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D, you saw the last Fast and the Furious movie. Gisele with Han. She had his back until the end. That's ride and die.

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I have 0% of latina in me. If a woman is messing with my man, I would just stand on the side, get some popcorn and watch what happens next. He better behave appropriately mmhmmm



lol agreed. and if he doesnt behave, im taking off my shoe, beating him with it, then leaving his ass there for her to have. while i flip the bird and walk away saying out loud " have my left overs B face, im trying to help world hunger"



Hahah! If you don't back down, I'M going to beat your ass! Ha
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Hahaha!
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Frankly, why do women feel the need to physically fight for the man. Do excuse me, but I can not understand you ladies there, I would never fight for my man that way. It is full of drama, unnecessary and I have an reputation to uphold. Maybe it is a difference in style s, in regards to passions but I simply do not have that in me, or maybe I am lazy. Who knows?

In my opinion, maybe a verbal lashing here or there but otherwise clear communication or I walk.
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Then again I suppose it's a different ball game when it comes to marriage. So none of us really know what we're talking about (apart from 911, or anyone else I may be forgetting)



Leebs, you were married? 🙂



well yes sir 🙂 10 years with another leeb
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Leebs! Hell I barely get to 6 months in a relationship let alone 10 YEARS. Interesting 🙂
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Then again I suppose it's a different ball game when it comes to marriage. So none of us really know what we're talking about (apart from 911, or anyone else I may be forgetting)



Leebs, you were married? 🙂



well yes sir 🙂 10 years with another leeb



It looks misleading, 10 years dating - 5 years married
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Still! 5 years of dating + 5 years of marriage is nothing to sneeze at.

As much as I'm joking about 6 months. I made it 2 years with my Gem 🙂
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It became worse in the sense we took each other for granted at one point. Being with another leeb also makes it tough. We both mirrored each other and nobody really wanted to take a step back and change something. That lasted for a year and it got better later when we were finally on the same page. I heard from some other couples that that beginning stage into marriage (that piece of paper) changed something in them also.
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Interesting. Huge hypothetical here. If lets say you two didn't get married, but were still exclusively with each other. Do you think you'd still be together? (In essence, as a couple. Screw the marriage label)
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Posted by feby16aqua
Sucked. But I learned a lot about myself. Lady Scorp was right when she mentioned that I need to be around the right people.
My devotion to my promises to someone who obviously didn't feel the same way kept me stuck for way too long.

I've had the whole me run the show bit and I'm over it.



Aww Feby, I'm sorry. This whole HEART BUSINESS BLOWS. You only get good at it after getting it shattered 2374623974 times! This is bullshit! 😛
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Oy, you two...please find a dark corner please for your shenanigans 😛



but they are so cute

on a side note, I just discovered the travelzoo website 😄 sooo many good deals! *doing the happy dance*
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...and they are, hence my tongue-sticking-out-smiley was placed there in the end as emphasis.

Oh, what deals? You must be making new plans 911? 🙂
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Oy, you two...please find a dark corner please for your shenanigans 😛



Dark corner? I like well lit...I need to see what's up 😛
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Nobody enjoys being good in here and dark corners are terrifyingly torn down with light.

*Stinger sighs*

Why am I even in this mad place which we call home, with these...crazy individuals 😛
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Oy, you two...please find a dark corner please for your shenanigans 😛



Dark corner? I like well lit...I need to see what's up 😛



Nobody enjoys being good in here and dark corners are terrifyingly torn down with light.

*Stinger sighs*

Why am I even in this mad place which we call home, with these...crazy individuals 😛



Lol you love us? Oui?
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Maybe, just maybe, my heart may be big enough to accommodate you all...hopefully. Some of you lot, take up far too much space, 6 foot etc. Giants, I dare say!
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Posted by Mr. Defense
To the ladies, is the lack of charm in a guy a deal breaker? I mean you do realize a guy can be interesting without being particularly charming. Plus I think charm is a personality trait unique to people on an individual level. I don't think everyone has charm, does this automatically make you gloss over them because a guy isn't trying to charm your pants off?



Firstly, what is your definition/understanding of charm?
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Here is another definition of "The Charmer" -

"Charm is seduction without sex. Charmers are consummate manipulators, masking their cleverness by creating a mood of pleasure and comfort. Their method is simple: they deflect attention from themselves and focus it on their target. They understand your spirit, feel your pain, adapt to your moods. In the presence of a Charmer you feel better about yourself. Charmers do not argue or fight, complain, or pester - what could be more seductive? By drawing you in with their indulgence they make you dependent on them, and their power grows. Learn to cast the Charmer's spell by aiming at people's primary weaknesses: vanity and self-esteem."


Although, I must say your definition sounds more like a playful teaser. It truly depends on the woman, some do not understand the rapport that is found in chemistry with a "Charmer" so to speak. Therefore in their world, such an attitude and style of communication is non-existent. Just as you said, charm itself as a personality trait is not found naturally in many individuals, therefore there are just as many women who have not truly felt nor understood it. Because they were never exposed to it, or even if they have, they may not feel a pull towards a person who has it show it be demonstrated. If one must compare it, sarcasm/sarcastic trait is appreciated by some, not all, an acquired tastes as in wine and music.


Personally, I enjoy bantering with another individual who understands the terms of teasing and charm because that is where I find pleasure, playing with words, communication, body language, all these nuances keep me on my toes and my mental/or in some cases emotional energy going. One being interesting and charming are hardly mutually exclusive although one thing is a turn off, when a man who takes himself far too serious where he loses his sense of humour. That, in my opinion, is a turn off for most women.
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Posted by feby16aqua
I like charisma. I'm all for wittiness, charm, teasing and romantic gestures. I feel like most women like this, the only variant being the wittiness factor imo. Its important to me though.



But what if a guy is not like this?
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If the man has no brand of charm at all, not even in a quirky way in which I could find intriguing, sexy and endearing all at once. Then personally I might gloss him over, because that is my style of rapport, anything else would be forcing communication that would not work, which happens. One would be wise to leave what does not fit together, no point fitting a square peg into a round hole.
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The lyrics are absolutely beautiful, bumped into this gem when a friend had shared it. For those whom are interested, here is the English lyrics for the song above -


On a vast plain,
as vast as the sky,
I will shape a garden
on which your body can sleep.
In an ocean dense and wide
wider than the universe,
I will build a boat
on which a dream can sail.

In a black universe,
like the purest ebony,
I will build in white
our love for the future.
In a closed night
I will stop time,
to dream by your side
that our love is eternal.

And fly, fly so far away.
Where no one can obstruct
our thoughts.
Fly, fly fearlessly,
like free doves,
as free as the wind.

And live, live out what we have.
And love to the point of
breathlessness,
Dream, dream awake.

In a world without race,
without color, without woe.
Without anyone to oppose
That you and I...
love each other.

From a high mountain,
high like the stars,
I will shout that I love you,
to let the world know,
that we are one for the other
and we will never leave each other
and even if no one understands us
we will live for our love.