Describe the person you want to settle down with.

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by crimeofpassion89 on Thursday, July 12, 2012 and has 31 replies.

Key Qualities to Look for in a Partner for Long-Term Compatibility

The most important qualities for a partner include kindness, honesty, and hard work. Kindness fosters emotional connection, honesty builds trust, and hard work shows commitment. These traits are essential for a healthy, lasting relationship and reflect strong character.

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@crimeofpassion89
14 YearsSagittarius

What are the 3 most important qualities they MUST absolutely possess and elaborate on them briefly. 🙂
I'll go first.

Quality number 1 = KIND. I cannot stress this enough. I'm immediately turned off by people who lack kindness. It doesn't take that much effort to be be kind so if you can't even manage that, there's really not much hope for you. Seriously.

Quality number 2 = HONEST. I cannot stand sneaky, dishonest men! They can all just go to hell.

Quality number 3 = HARD-WORKING. I love a man who is willing to put in the required work in any situation. No slackers or bums need apply. I'm a hard-working woman and I don't need you pulling my leg.

Now let me hear from you guys.

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@ruthlessfuk
14 Years

loyal, playful, good lookin.

loyal-when i'm in a relationship i ain't playin around. i expect nothin less than unwaverin devotion. i ain't got no use or patience for disloyal motherfuckers.

playful spirit-if u ain't excited and curious about life, u probably ain't all that interestin.

good lookin-pleasant to look at.

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@Skykomish
15 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Settle down? How about live life and have an adventure with?

Honest, Responsible, Fun-Loving/passionate (kind of two words for the same thing?)

Have absolutely no intention of "SETTLING DOWN". But to have someone I can trust to be honest with me, who has integrity and acts responsibly in all situations, and yet knows how to get down and have some fun to tear this world up with, hell yeah.

^.^

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@crimeofpassion89
14 YearsSagittarius

I'm a little hesitant about the idea of marriage as well. I don't ever want to have to go through a divorce. They can get really messy and time-consuming. I don't want to be that loser with 3 failed marriages behind her. That would be so depressing. And the divorce rate is just so ridiculously high these days...

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@Skykomish
15 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Well I didn't really necessarily mean marriage either. To me, that's just a piece of paper. Doesn't indicate forever, doesn't indicate love, doesn't really mean shit. But why settle down? Sounds like you just gave up on life's passion and adventure. "Settle down" is what you tell your kids when they're screaming at the top of their lungs and dancing just because they feel the joy of being alive. Fuck that.

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@crimeofpassion89
14 YearsSagittarius

Posted by Skykomish
Well I didn't really necessarily mean marriage either. To me, that's just a piece of paper. Doesn't indicate forever, doesn't indicate love, doesn't really mean shit. But why settle down? Sounds like you just gave up on life's passion and adventure. "Settle down" is what you tell your kids when they're screaming at the top of their lungs and dancing just because they feel the joy of being alive. Fuck that.

Yup I def agree! We can't let anybody put out our fire or dampen our passion! If they try, we'll just show 'em the door lol

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@crimeofpassion89
14 YearsSagittarius

Posted by DMV
id perfer it if they had a diverse vocabulary, a nice set of luggage cause they travel alot, someone who is worldly

A love of travel is a must!!! He needs to show some interest in the world around him and be willing to leave his comfort zone.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by crimeofpassion89

Posted by DMV
id perfer it if they had a diverse vocabulary, a nice set of luggage cause they travel alot, someone who is worldly

A love of travel is a must!!! He needs to show some interest in the world around him and be willing to leave his comfort zone.

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i totally agree. i can sometimes be a creature of habit with food and such, but i like to be turned on to new things.

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@CherryOnTop
14 YearsGemini

1.Responsible (takes care of duties, a man of his words etc)
2.Resourceful (smart, knowledgable, good problem-solver, can get us out of any trouble lol etc)
3.Fun to be with! (easygoing, relaxed, funny, childlike, not uptight lol)

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@crimeofpassion89
14 YearsSagittarius

^^A man of his words!!! That's an important one that a lot of people tend to overlook!!! I can't stand flaky people who can't follow through on their words and promises. If you say you're gonna do somethng, fucking do it! It's not that hard.

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@beautifulsoul74
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Intelligent, responsible, fun loving.

I'd love someone who I can share life with. Who inspires me and is inspired by me. One who accepts me for who I am. Reliable, trust worthy. Honest, and doesn't have to manipulate to get her way. A true partner who doesn't look to control but looks to work with me. A woman. Strong, passionate. Doesn't walk ahead or behind me...but beside me. Oh yes, she's gotta be romantic lol