Why do libra men in serious relationships flirt

Is it harmless fun or are they testing the waters? I work on projects from time to time with a libra, and I can't tell if flirting through dry humor is his personality or if he's on the hunt for his next special lady. I'm not into guys who are attached which I've alluded to, but the flirting still continues through scaled back a bit.

I don’t really understand your relation with the Libra your referring to as you were very vague, but I can almost bet he’s being friendly and doesn’t realize he’s coming off as a flirt.
Or in other cases he’s flirting because your reaction to it feeds his ego, or it’s entertaining to him to know he can still charm the pants off of someone.

Posted by Lyse
I don’t really understand your relation with the Libra your referring to as you were very vague, but I can almost bet he’s being friendly and doesn’t realize he’s coming off as a flirt.
Or in other cases he’s flirting because your reaction to it feeds his ego, or it’s entertaining to him to know he can still charm the pants off of someone.

all of this.

I asked my libra how his flirting changes from just a harmless thing against something more. He told me when it's harmless he'll flirt for a moment then that's it. When it is more it will be continuous and deliberate. He'll seek you out.

In the courting stages with my libra he was always where I was, staring from afar or in eyeshot of me. Then, after a time he started engaging in conversation with me so he definately sought me out.

Obviously he's one of many so it may be different against other libra men but against other employees (we met at work) he treated and responded to me very differently.

Hope this helps.

Posted by Lyse
I don’t really understand your relation with the Libra your referring to as you were very vague, but I can almost bet he’s being friendly and doesn’t realize he’s coming off as a flirt.
Or in other cases he’s flirting because your reaction to it feeds his ego, or it’s entertaining to him to know he can still charm the pants off of someone.

This is the exact answer that I had when I read the title of the thread.

Calm your lady bits down. Dude doesn't necessarily want to stick his dick inside of you.

Thanks for all the insights, very helpful! ðŸ‘

Posted by Ninjagirl
I asked my libra how his flirting changes from just a harmless thing against something more. He told me when it's harmless he'll flirt for a moment then that's it. When it is more it will be continuous and deliberate. He'll seek you out.

In the courting stages with my libra he was always where I was, staring from afar or in eyeshot of me. Then, after a time he started engaging in conversation with me so he definately sought me out.

Obviously he's one of many so it may be different against other libra men but against other employees (we met at work) he treated and responded to me very differently.

Hope this helps.

This was the exact same thing with my Libra.

Posted by Binota
Same goes with Gems, but it's just mistakes of being friendly.

Unless there's seductive going on then yeah there's water testing going on.

You don't know how much I have this prob when I'm only friendly .