Why would a leeb talk about other women.. (Page 2)

It sounds like you may be slightly more into him than he is into you. You sound like a pretty bright girl so I'm sure you probably already assessed that fact and apparently you're okay with it. ?.

I think that he does like you if he's driving down to see you. Unless he is experiencing a shortage of women who are willing to have sex with him and he's kind of desperate. But no he told you about other people huh so that's not it.

I think that this guy really likes you he likes a lot of things about you but he feels like you're not the one and there really isn't anything you can do to make somebody feel that way.

You will end up wasting a lot of time money headspace months and years.

But I from my understanding you are Taurus right and you can't stop the fixed signs from moving towards their fixed Target so I get it. Lol

He really likes you if he calls you frequently text you often comes down to see you frequently if he sends you flowers or gifts if he'd Flats out tells you he really cares about you.

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It sounds like you may be slightly more into him than he is into you. You sound like a pretty bright girl so I'm sure you probably already assessed that fact and apparently you're okay with it. ?.

I think that he does like you if he's driving down to see you. Unless he is experiencing a shortage of women who are willing to have sex with him and he's kind of desperate. But no he told you about other people huh so that's not it.

I think that this guy really likes you he likes a lot of things about you but he feels like you're not the one and there really isn't anything you can do to make somebody feel that way.

You will end up wasting a lot of time money headspace months and years.

But I from my understanding you are Taurus right and you can't stop the fixed signs from moving towards their fixed Target so I get it. Lol

He really likes you if he calls you frequently text you often comes down to see you frequently if he sends you flowers or gifts if he'd Flats out tells you he really cares about you.

stop hiding all your stuff!! haha.. i'm a pisces with mostly aqua in my chart.. i feel like its really too soon to even know if there is any kind of future.... that takes time.. no he's not doing anything like sending flowers etc.. just some lil basic sweet stuff.. but he's clearly not serious about me .. or he's just feeling me out right now... that's what it seems like.. and yea i dont wanna waste any time.. i know he's really romantic and would love to be in love, and i know id probably be a great partner for him.. but it's still too soon to tell. and i wanna be taken seriously. we get along swimmingly.. i think he is also a bit scared after getting burned. his venus is scorpio so he's pretty intense. moon pisces so thats good. 🙂

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Clearly he doesn't respect you. He doesn't care for you.

Then why drive 5 hrs to see me? And five back?

I did this for a girl recently.

sex wasn't the primary motivator but I'm not going to lie ..it was something I thought could happen...or rather hoped for.lol

I'm a woman though so I don't know how much it counts when I say that sex with someone you remotely find attractive is nowhere the same as sex with someone you think you might have deep feelings for.....

someone your willing to drive over 800 miles roundtrip at the drop of hat.

I've recently had a lot of interest from other women and also have been in erotically charged environments

where women came on to me......in short

I couldn't even enjoy it ...

.... she's always in the back of my mind. No one else compares.

Wait... So what happened?? It doesn't matter if yr a woman or a man... What was the motivation?? Why is she still on your mind?

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I just really wanted to see her on her birthday. She jokingly invited me 24 hours before and wasn't expecting that I would drive up.

In the end, things didn't turn out like how I would like them to have as we aren't even currently speaking.

While I would have changed some things I did in the past that contributed to the situation I'm in with her now

that drive was definitely worth it....

I got to meet some of her friends and family members

eat a delicious meal that she lovingly prepared for everyone

and see what she looks like first thing in the morning...sans makeup..her tussled ...sleep still in her eye...

I don't think I've ever seen anything more beautiful in my life.

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Posted by x0x0x0x0x
Clearly he doesn't respect you. He doesn't care for you.

Then why drive 5 hrs to see me? And five back?

I did this for a girl recently.

sex wasn't the primary motivator but I'm not going to lie ..it was something I thought could happen...or rather hoped for.lol

I'm a woman though so I don't know how much it counts when I say that sex with someone you remotely find attractive is nowhere the same as sex with someone you think you might have deep feelings for.....

someone your willing to drive over 800 miles roundtrip at the drop of hat.

I've recently had a lot of interest from other women and also have been in erotically charged environments

where women came on to me......in short

I couldn't even enjoy it ...

.... she's always in the back of my mind. No one else compares.

Wait... So what happened?? It doesn't matter if yr a woman or a man... What was the motivation?? Why is she still on your mind?

I just really wanted to see her on her birthday. She jokingly invited me 24 hours before and wasn't expecting that I would drive up.

In the end, things didn't turn out like how I would like them to have as we aren't even currently speaking.

While I would have changed some things I did in the past that contributed to the situation I'm in with her now

that drive was definitely worth it....

I got to meet some of her friends and family members

eat a delicious meal that she lovingly prepared for everyone

and see what she looks like first thing in the morning...sans makeup..her tussled ...sleep still in her eye...

I don't think I've ever seen anything more beautiful in my life.

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How romantic.. Shame you are not speaking..

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by x0x0x0x0x
Clearly he doesn't respect you. He doesn't care for you.

Then why drive 5 hrs to see me? And five back?

I did this for a girl recently.

sex wasn't the primary motivator but I'm not going to lie ..it was something I thought could happen...or rather hoped for.lol

I'm a woman though so I don't know how much it counts when I say that sex with someone you remotely find attractive is nowhere the same as sex with someone you think you might have deep feelings for.....

someone your willing to drive over 800 miles roundtrip at the drop of hat.

I've recently had a lot of interest from other women and also have been in erotically charged environments

where women came on to me......in short

I couldn't even enjoy it ...

.... she's always in the back of my mind. No one else compares.

Wait... So what happened?? It doesn't matter if yr a woman or a man... What was the motivation?? Why is she still on your mind?

I just really wanted to see her on her birthday. She jokingly invited me 24 hours before and wasn't expecting that I would drive up.

In the end, things didn't turn out like how I would like them to have as we aren't even currently speaking.

While I would have changed some things I did in the past that contributed to the situation I'm in with her now

that drive was definitely worth it....

I got to meet some of her friends and family members

eat a delicious meal that she lovingly prepared for everyone

and see what she looks like first thing in the morning...sans makeup..her tussled ...sleep still in her eye...

I don't think I've ever seen anything more beautiful in my life.

How romantic.. Shame you are not speaking..

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Yeah

I know it's a long shot but I hope I get a second chance.

....even as a friend.

It would be really cool to have her in my life in some capacity

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by Shrewdsharp
It sounds like you may be slightly more into him than he is into you. You sound like a pretty bright girl so I'm sure you probably already assessed that fact and apparently you're okay with it. ?.

I think that he does like you if he's driving down to see you. Unless he is experiencing a shortage of women who are willing to have sex with him and he's kind of desperate. But no he told you about other people huh so that's not it.

I think that this guy really likes you he likes a lot of things about you but he feels like you're not the one and there really isn't anything you can do to make somebody feel that way.

You will end up wasting a lot of time money headspace months and years.

But I from my understanding you are Taurus right and you can't stop the fixed signs from moving towards their fixed Target so I get it. Lol

He really likes you if he calls you frequently text you often comes down to see you frequently if he sends you flowers or gifts if he'd Flats out tells you he really cares about you.

stop hiding all your stuff!! haha.. i'm a pisces with mostly aqua in my chart.. i feel like its really too soon to even know if there is any kind of future.... that takes time.. no he's not doing anything like sending flowers etc.. just some lil basic sweet stuff.. but he's clearly not serious about me .. or he's just feeling me out right now... that's what it seems like.. and yea i dont wanna waste any time.. i know he's really romantic and would love to be in love, and i know id probably be a great partner for him.. but it's still too soon to tell. and i wanna be taken seriously. we get along swimmingly.. i think he is also a bit scared after getting burned. his venus is scorpio so he's pretty intense. moon pisces so thats good. 🙂

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I hear you and I really admire the water sign's ability to take time with things.

I have a Scorpio best friend who took a year to get it on with his wife he knew the minute that he saw her that that was the woman he wanted to be with yet he went and he got some things taken care of and then he proceeded forward.

I can't speak for other Libras but I'm pretty clear about what I want from the gate and within three to 12 conversations, I know if this is what I want.

I am very much so attracted to extreme Beauty because of Venus rulership. But his Venus is in Scorpio so I don't really know.

I'm very attracted emotionally and spiritually to someone who just doesn't have the looks that I wan.t I like a very well-kept man I mean like extremely well-kept! I can't speak for all Libras but I know that if there were two people and they have everything that maybe I've been looking for and one is just a little bit more well kept than the other I will move slightly to the person that is extremely well kept like nails clean hair done shoes polished creases in his pants smells good because that attracts me.

In addition I'm normally drawn to people that are hard to get that I have to pursue and Chase.

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Posted by x0x0x0x0x
Clearly he doesn't respect you. He doesn't care for you.

Then why drive 5 hrs to see me? And five back?

I did this for a girl recently.

sex wasn't the primary motivator but I'm not going to lie ..it was something I thought could happen...or rather hoped for.lol

I'm a woman though so I don't know how much it counts when I say that sex with someone you remotely find attractive is nowhere the same as sex with someone you think you might have deep feelings for.....

someone your willing to drive over 800 miles roundtrip at the drop of hat.

I've recently had a lot of interest from other women and also have been in erotically charged environments

where women came on to me......in short

I couldn't even enjoy it ...

.... she's always in the back of my mind. No one else compares.

Wait... So what happened?? It doesn't matter if yr a woman or a man... What was the motivation?? Why is she still on your mind?

I just really wanted to see her on her birthday. She jokingly invited me 24 hours before and wasn't expecting that I would drive up.

In the end, things didn't turn out like how I would like them to have as we aren't even currently speaking.

While I would have changed some things I did in the past that contributed to the situation I'm in with her now

that drive was definitely worth it....

I got to meet some of her friends and family members

eat a delicious meal that she lovingly prepared for everyone

and see what she looks like first thing in the morning...sans makeup..her tussled ...sleep still in her eye...

I don't think I've ever seen anything more beautiful in my life.

How romantic.. Shame you are not speaking..

Yeah

I know it's a long shot but I hope I get a second chance.

....even as a friend.

It would be really cool to have her in my life in some capacity

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I hope so too. Why aren't you speaking?

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by Shrewdsharp
It sounds like you may be slightly more into him than he is into you. You sound like a pretty bright girl so I'm sure you probably already assessed that fact and apparently you're okay with it. ?.

I think that he does like you if he's driving down to see you. Unless he is experiencing a shortage of women who are willing to have sex with him and he's kind of desperate. But no he told you about other people huh so that's not it.

I think that this guy really likes you he likes a lot of things about you but he feels like you're not the one and there really isn't anything you can do to make somebody feel that way.

You will end up wasting a lot of time money headspace months and years.

But I from my understanding you are Taurus right and you can't stop the fixed signs from moving towards their fixed Target so I get it. Lol

He really likes you if he calls you frequently text you often comes down to see you frequently if he sends you flowers or gifts if he'd Flats out tells you he really cares about you.

stop hiding all your stuff!! haha.. i'm a pisces with mostly aqua in my chart.. i feel like its really too soon to even know if there is any kind of future.... that takes time.. no he's not doing anything like sending flowers etc.. just some lil basic sweet stuff.. but he's clearly not serious about me .. or he's just feeling me out right now... that's what it seems like.. and yea i dont wanna waste any time.. i know he's really romantic and would love to be in love, and i know id probably be a great partner for him.. but it's still too soon to tell. and i wanna be taken seriously. we get along swimmingly.. i think he is also a bit scared after getting burned. his venus is scorpio so he's pretty intense. moon pisces so thats good. 🙂

I hear you and I really admire the water sign's ability to take time with things.

I have a Scorpio best friend who took a year to get it on with his wife he knew the minute that he saw her that that was the woman he wanted to be with yet he went and he got some things taken care of and then he proceeded forward.

I can't speak for other Libras but I'm pretty clear about what I want from the gate and within three to 12 conversations, I know if this is what I want.

I am very much so attracted to extreme Beauty because of Venus rulership. But his Venus is in Scorpio so I don't really know.

I'm very attracted emotionally and spiritually to someone who just doesn't have the looks that I wan.t I like a very well-kept man I mean like extremely well-kept! I can't speak for all Libras but I know that if there were two people and they have everything that maybe I've been looking for and one is just a little bit more well kept than the other I will move slightly to the person that is extremely well kept like nails clean hair done shoes polished creases in his pants smells good because that attracts me.

In addition I'm normally drawn to people that are hard to get that I have to pursue and Chase.

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Thanks i appreciate the advice. He seemed pretty gung ho think thats thr scorpio venus and pisces moon.... I'm not gonna lie i ain't ugly so hopefully he sees me as beautiful ! All our convos have been great so yea i dunno...

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Posted by x0x0x0x0x
Clearly he doesn't respect you. He doesn't care for you.

Then why drive 5 hrs to see me? And five back?

I did this for a girl recently.

sex wasn't the primary motivator but I'm not going to lie ..it was something I thought could happen...or rather hoped for.lol

I'm a woman though so I don't know how much it counts when I say that sex with someone you remotely find attractive is nowhere the same as sex with someone you think you might have deep feelings for.....

someone your willing to drive over 800 miles roundtrip at the drop of hat.

I've recently had a lot of interest from other women and also have been in erotically charged environments

where women came on to me......in short

I couldn't even enjoy it ...

.... she's always in the back of my mind. No one else compares.

Wait... So what happened?? It doesn't matter if yr a woman or a man... What was the motivation?? Why is she still on your mind?

I just really wanted to see her on her birthday. She jokingly invited me 24 hours before and wasn't expecting that I would drive up.

In the end, things didn't turn out like how I would like them to have as we aren't even currently speaking.

While I would have changed some things I did in the past that contributed to the situation I'm in with her now

that drive was definitely worth it....

I got to meet some of her friends and family members

eat a delicious meal that she lovingly prepared for everyone

and see what she looks like first thing in the morning...sans makeup..her tussled ...sleep still in her eye...

I don't think I've ever seen anything more beautiful in my life.

How romantic.. Shame you are not speaking..

Yeah

I know it's a long shot but I hope I get a second chance.

....even as a friend.

It would be really cool to have her in my life in some capacity

I hope so too. Why aren't you speaking?

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our last couple of texting convos were a bit off....they were pretty much plagued with miscommunication.

seems stupid to blame mercury in retrograde but we literally started to have issues communicating when it started.

I think though what ultimately pushed her away was a short story I wrote and posted in my notes section on Facebook that was based on that trip I made to visit her. It was in another language as I wrote it in order to complete a homework assignment for language class I'm currently taking. My professor loved it and I received some compliments from other non-native english speaker friends of mine as well. I was so proud I wanted to post it. I honestly didn't think that she would read it.

I only recently noticed she left a comment on the story which wasn't exactly positive. I had sent her a text after I posted the short story but before I noticed her comment .she never replied.

She used to initiate conversations by texting me almost every day. Now we haven't spoken in a month.

I'm a bit sad. 😢