How to flirt with a leeb...

This topic was created in the Libra forum by boxcarmirnta on Thursday, May 25, 2017 and has 27 replies.

How to Flirt with a Leo Effectively

To flirt with a Leo, be confident and genuine. Use playful compliments and show interest without overdoing it. Leos appreciate sincerity and warmth, so be yourself and maintain eye contact. Subtlety works, but a straightforward approach can also be effective if done respectfully.

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Without sounding like a grody harlot? Or maybe you guys like that kinda thing.... 🙂 subtle or straight forward? Lay it on me leeeebers

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It's a give a take, you give a leeb then you take it away.. keep it interesting...keep em wondering and wanting more.

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Posted by tiziani
Suggestive worked the most often with me. Leaving a space there right at the end for me to fill in the missing details with my imagination.

And then every so often, switch it up and be outrageously direct.

About 90/10 balance between the two.

Tone of voice can go a long way, as well as body language.

Awesome..... I think thats what I'm doing... Sometimes he doesn't take the bait tho and i feel dumb 😢

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Posted by tiziani

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Posted by tiziani
Suggestive worked the most often with me. Leaving a space there right at the end for me to fill in the missing details with my imagination.

And then every so often, switch it up and be outrageously direct.

About 90/10 balance between the two.

Tone of voice can go a long way, as well as body language.

Awesome..... I think thats what I'm doing... Sometimes he doesn't take the bait tho and i feel dumb 😢

Maybe he's being full of pride, sometimes it's just about who breaks first.

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God i totally feel that!!!! Ahhhh who's gonna break first? Normally it would not be me.........

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Posted by 2Moon

Posted by Librasetting
Some of us are just dead inside or maybe that's just me?

I'm also dead af inside. Fcking depressed its unbelievable

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you staap that too - you guys - sorry, and I know I can get like that too sometimes for short periods of time - get out and enjoy the world with some friends maybe ?

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Posted by 2Moon

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Posted by Librasetting
Some of us are just dead inside or maybe that's just me?

I'm also dead af inside. Fcking depressed its unbelievable

you staap that too - you guys - sorry, and I know I can get like that too sometimes for short periods of time - get out and enjoy the world with some friends maybe ?

I'm playing with the idea of traveling. I have been in a bad mood for too long for a leeb lol

{Melo dramatic music starts}

But I was born doomed. Its in the stars..

The day that I was born is like the worst day of the month, its numerology...

I was (probably) a bad person in my previous Life and now Karma decided to punish me for the first 29 years of my life... 😭

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Yes, travel, and do whatever you can to get out and open yourself up to love and life as much as possible. Try to learn to laugh in the face of adversity. Some days you progress, some days you don't but overall if you are progressing you are on the right path. Be grateful for what you have and make plans to get to where you want to go. Live. Along the way you meet people who will help you as you help them. Life is about the journey, not the destination.

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Posted by 2Moon

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Posted by Librasetting
Some of us are just dead inside or maybe that's just me?

I'm also dead af inside. Fcking depressed its unbelievable

you staap that too - you guys - sorry, and I know I can get like that too sometimes for short periods of time - get out and enjoy the world with some friends maybe ?

I'm playing with the idea of traveling. I have been in a bad mood for too long for a leeb lol

{Melo dramatic music starts}

But I was born doomed. Its in the stars..

The day that I was born is like the worst day of the month, its numerology...

I was (probably) a bad person in my previous Life and now Karma decided to punish me for the first 29 years of my life... 😭

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Travel is great for depression!!! Makes you feel so good.. Gives you perspective.. You can meet new people and reevaluate your life! If you're unhappy.. Figure out what in your life isn't working and try to fix it.. Thats what i did!

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Well.. It's always awesome when your crush tells you he's looking at other women!! Wow... Talk about insulting... Eff this guy..

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Posted by Rozaeon

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Well.. It's always awesome when your crush tells you he's looking at other women!! Wow... Talk about insulting... Eff this guy..

You finally saw him ? What happened ?! o:

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No.. Never got that far cuz although he was being super sweet he just started talking about other women.. Which i find incredibly disrespectful.seemed promising but.... I guess not..

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Posted by Rozaeon

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by Rozaeon

Posted by boxcarmirnta
Well.. It's always awesome when your crush tells you he's looking at other women!! Wow... Talk about insulting... Eff this guy..

You finally saw him ? What happened ?! o:

No.. Never got that far cuz although he was being super sweet he just started talking about other women.. Which i find incredibly disrespectful.seemed promising but.... I guess not..

I'm sorry to hear that :/

I can't remember ( sorry ) have you told him that you were interested in him in the first place ? Because maybe he thought that you were not so he started talking about other women, or maybe he wants to make you jealous just to see if you are interested in him ( that sounds lame but who knows ) ?

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Thanks. I haven't told him directly i guess i thought it was implied ....not sure why he'd wanna make jealous..but who knows.. Ill never understand why men do what they do... He was willing to drive 4 hrs to see me i guess i thought that meant something :/

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by Rozaeon

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by Rozaeon

Posted by boxcarmirnta
Well.. It's always awesome when your crush tells you he's looking at other women!! Wow... Talk about insulting... Eff this guy..

You finally saw him ? What happened ?! o:

No.. Never got that far cuz although he was being super sweet he just started talking about other women.. Which i find incredibly disrespectful.seemed promising but.... I guess not..

I'm sorry to hear that :/

I can't remember ( sorry ) have you told him that you were interested in him in the first place ? Because maybe he thought that you were not so he started talking about other women, or maybe he wants to make you jealous just to see if you are interested in him ( that sounds lame but who knows ) ?

Thanks. I haven't told him directly i guess i thought it was implied ....not sure why he'd wanna make jealous..but who knows.. Ill never understand why men do what they do... He was willing to drive 4 hrs to see me i guess i thought that meant something :/

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Did he actually drive to see you?

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Posted by Shrewdsharp

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by Rozaeon

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by Rozaeon

Posted by boxcarmirnta
Well.. It's always awesome when your crush tells you he's looking at other women!! Wow... Talk about insulting... Eff this guy..

You finally saw him ? What happened ?! o:

No.. Never got that far cuz although he was being super sweet he just started talking about other women.. Which i find incredibly disrespectful.seemed promising but.... I guess not..

I'm sorry to hear that :/

I can't remember ( sorry ) have you told him that you were interested in him in the first place ? Because maybe he thought that you were not so he started talking about other women, or maybe he wants to make you jealous just to see if you are interested in him ( that sounds lame but who knows ) ?

Thanks. I haven't told him directly i guess i thought it was implied ....not sure why he'd wanna make jealous..but who knows.. Ill never understand why men do what they do... He was willing to drive 4 hrs to see me i guess i thought that meant something :/

Did he actually drive to see you?

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Hes coming next week.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

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Some of us are just dead inside or maybe that's just me?

I'm also dead af inside. Fcking depressed its unbelievable

Poor guy I am so glad I don't have water placements.

Why cuz you'd be dead inside too??

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No, I am not implying that, I didn't mean to sound unsympathetic to his plight, but emotions are foreign, unwelcomed intruders for some air signs. So when water enters my life it can be a little disconcerting.

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Many Libras have water placements so this doesn't really apply to all Libras; but I believe your Libra has a lot of water placements so this more than likely doesn't apply to him.

My strength is in my thoughts and my logic. My power is in looking at a situation from a logical reasonable perspective and making decisions based off of facts logical analysis and values.

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Posted by Shrewdsharp
Many Libras have water placements so this doesn't really apply to all Libras; but I believe your Libra has a lot of water placements so this more than likely doesn't apply to him.

My strength is in my thoughts and my logic. My power is in looking at a situation from a logical reasonable perspective and making decisions based off of facts logical analysis and values.

Sounds just like Aquarius too! He seemed pretty into talking about his feelings... But then it can also be pretty on the surface. Hmmm

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Posted by SentimentalCrabby
Just teasingingly joke with the Libra, don't come off direct that you're in love with the person.

Have a good laugh, show some humor & be chill. But depending on the topic, hear them out if they want to talk about something, I sometimes think they're testing you, only to get a reaction out of you & see how you'll act.

If you don't budge & become over emotional about some situations then they might awfully be attracted to you, only because you're not reacting in a way they expected you to be.

I wonder what he actually expects. But im pretty sure i don't do the obvious..

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Be fully in the zone, like you're mind is wholly on the situation.

I hate situations when I'm wondering why the person has even turned up in the first place if they appear like their heads are elsewhere. That's not insecurity, that's somebody not appreciating my time.

Subtle touches (if you feel like you're getting the right vibe)!!!

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