Will my Libra man return?

Look, try to be patient for a bit, but if you are not seeing change or at least effort to change, gtfo. It's not so much abandoning ship, it's just getting to the point where he's hurting people around him and that's not good for you.

Libras and stress do not mix. They turn into a terrible troll of a person. I saw similar shit with my ex after our first disagreement/issue of sorts. Afterward, his behavior was all downhill. Sure he had his lovey dovey moments (before AND after our break up), but it didn't stop him from breaking up with me and then acting like I never existed.

Different circumstances, but I can definitely relate to the change of behavior after conflict. And really, if it takes THAT much for them to change toward you and end the relationship, then fuck that shit. Seriously. How much did they really think of you if it's THAT easy for them to change their attitude toward you? One minute they're madly into you, and the next, they completely change because of some little spat?

As for his situation, it's a lot to go through and you're going to see a lot of batshit crazy behavior. I'm currently dealing with this with my mom and it's trying as hell. With their temperament, when something life changing happens, they turn into a crazy person and can be the most irrational, illogical, emotionally trying people you'll meet. Libras hate conflict for a reason, and when something life changing happens that they cannot run away from, you get that entire spectrum of emotions. It will drive you crazy before it gets better.

Give the dude his space and stop trying to contact him. Now is not a time for you to be a control freak. Maybe try again in a few weeks and if he's still acting this way, go about your life and do you. It fricken sucks to have this bs happen because you'll always wonder wtf is going on, but just doing you when this happens is the best option.

If he's truly into you and isn't going to let some scuffle change what he thinks of you, he'll be back around. However, do NOT hang on to that little snippet. Gawd. I had so many people here tell me that my ex was going to be back around and that was the last thing I needed to hear post break up. Especially since it didn't really happen.

Overall point- go do you. Do not let this consume you. Do not sit there, waiting for him to come back around, either.

He and I both sit on the board for a local sports club. He always loved this club and devoted a lot of time to it. I got a text today from the board president, whom is also a friend of his, telling me that he needs to be replaced because he has not responded for weeks. Part of me feels better knowing that it's not just me but the other part of me hurts for him. I want to just hold him and make it all better.

Funny, I was thinking about past relationships last night. I was married to a Capricorn for 10 years. We absolutely hated each other. When we were dating he dumped me 3 times. I always begged and cried for the first week and then gave up. He always came back after a month or so of no contact.

A few years before I was married I had a passionate, long distance relationship with a Libra. I broke up with him and moved shortly after. 3 years later he called out of the blue, hoping to win me back. He said he had been trying to find me for years! I was already married. Damn Libra waited too long and missed the boat.

I had my chart done many years ago. I'm not sure but I think my Venus was in Libra. I know that something significant was. Does anyone have an accurate online resource that can help me chart? Thank you all for the ear and the advice. It's really helping me work through all of this.

Yup. Just as a thought. My Venus is in Libra.
Thanks for all the help. I am just trying to let him go. I still love him but I can't force him back. If he comes around I will welcome him with open arms.

What the hell? WHY would you want to be there for him? The guy could be in deep shit for embezzlement and you want to run and get INVOLVED in that?

Stay the hell away. Now is not a time to let the estrogen make you be an irrational fool. Getting in touch with him could implicate you in the whole thing if this is the case.