heliumfiasco
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You see anything here that describes why the hell....
Haha. I feel like my friends are not like this. It's just me.
Posted by KoniuchaaI just read the description on sasstrology and almost fell out of my chair. Sometimes I question this shit, but sometimes I am simultaneously blown away by its accuracy.
I do that too. But in my case I am just not interested in the ones that show interest in me. Just no attraction.
I would look in to your moon square Venus.
Posted by TomSawyerI'd say a majority of my friends are very striking. Would not feel comfortable saying I was the prettiest at all.Posted by heliumfiascoThat's because your friends are prolly not really attractive.
Haha. I feel like my friends are not like this. It's just me.
Wait..are you the prettiest one in the pack?click to expand
Posted by TomSawyerHahaha. No Sarahs.Posted by heliumfiascoIs Sarah the hottest one?Posted by TomSawyerI'd say a majority of my friends are very striking. Would not feel comfortable saying I was the prettiest at all.Posted by heliumfiascoThat's because your friends are prolly not really attractive.
Haha. I feel like my friends are not like this. It's just me.
Wait..are you the prettiest one in the pack?click to expand
Posted by Koniuchaafuckkkkkk. It's too me!!!!Posted by heliumfiascoI like this site tooPosted by KoniuchaaI just read the description on sasstrology and almost fell out of my chair. Sometimes I question this shit, but sometimes I am simultaneously blown away by its accuracy.
I do that too. But in my case I am just not interested in the ones that show interest in me. Just no attraction.
I would look in to your moon square Venus.
http://astromatrix.org/Horoscopes/Planet-Aspects/Moon-Square-Venus
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So, a dude that likes me I will dissect. It could be something simple like- I hate his favorite band, he had a bad haircut, his sense of style , he made a corny joke. I will dwell on it constantly until I no longer am attracted. However, if a dude is totally distant I will make huge excuses and lie to myself and let nearly everything slide.... build him up in my head. It's so messed up. So irrational.
Posted by heliumfiascoi do this as well. i think for me, its a matter of trying to find the strength of my feelings. that and i always prefer to be single unless i am certain the other person has real potential for longevity.
I strive for relationships, constantly seeking them out. But only seem to want to be with emotionally unavailable people. If a dude likes me, is forth coming and not a shit bag... I immediately start critiquing the fuck out of him. Finding any flaw to turn myself off, even when I don't want to do that. Or maybe the people that like me I'm just not attracted to? IDK. Maybe astrology has nothing to do with it and i'm just fucked! Help! I'm almost 32 and I cannot get my head out of my ass. LOL
i feel that if i can talk myself out of it then my feelings are weak and if that is the case, i'm going to eventually flake and put myself in an uncomfortable position in trying to get away from this guy (and potentially hurt their feelings in the process). i'd rather just avoid the whole complication to begin with and not get involved in the first place.
I do this too.. Then i remind myself to look at positives instead of negatives... It's just anxiety. So many men are complete scumbags assholes from hell.. When i find a good one (rare) it gets scary man... So I pick em apart instead. Now i lean toward how amazing they are.. (they still turn out to be assholes).
Posted by heliumfiascoYou literally have to change your way of thinking. Catch yourself when you do it and say aha! Im doing this again......... Don't let the aloof silent bastards that don't give a shit about you win. Find a good one and focus on how amazing he treats you.
So, a dude that likes me I will dissect. It could be something simple like- I hate his favorite band, he had a bad haircut, his sense of style , he made a corny joke. I will dwell on it constantly until I no longer am attracted. However, if a dude is totally distant I will make huge excuses and lie to myself and let nearly everything slide.... build him up in my head. It's so messed up. So irrational.
Check out this link and see if anything resonates with you.
http://www.outerchild.net/outer-child/outer-child-topics-books/topics/addicted-chasing-unavailable-lovers-outer-child-notoriou
http://www.outerchild.net/outer-child/outer-child-topics-books/topics/addicted-chasing-unavailable-lovers-outer-child-notoriou
i remember picking apart my current partner like you wouldn't believe - his job, his family, his education, his taste in music, movies, his political views.
all through the while, i thought, oh i could never be a person who doesn't like what i like or think about things the same way i do, or has the same interests as me. in fact if you look at us on paper, there is no way we would be compatible. match.com would never have put us together.
but we share the same values, he is kind, generous, dependable and we have the same sort of weird sense of humour where we can look at the most innocuous thing and be thinking exactly the same thought about it. it never fails to surprise me that he speaks my thoughts almost instantaneously.
with the right person, you'll get to the point where his haircut doesn't matter or you hate his favourite shirt or how the fuck can you think this is a good movie—? (yep, been there). what counts is how he treats you, how he makes you feel, what you can learn from him.
my partner has forced me to grow and change. i'm so much better today than i was before i met him. sometimes that is what matters, not that he is a committed carnivore when you are a vegetarian (yep, that's another one).
all through the while, i thought, oh i could never be a person who doesn't like what i like or think about things the same way i do, or has the same interests as me. in fact if you look at us on paper, there is no way we would be compatible. match.com would never have put us together.
but we share the same values, he is kind, generous, dependable and we have the same sort of weird sense of humour where we can look at the most innocuous thing and be thinking exactly the same thought about it. it never fails to surprise me that he speaks my thoughts almost instantaneously.
with the right person, you'll get to the point where his haircut doesn't matter or you hate his favourite shirt or how the fuck can you think this is a good movie—? (yep, been there). what counts is how he treats you, how he makes you feel, what you can learn from him.
my partner has forced me to grow and change. i'm so much better today than i was before i met him. sometimes that is what matters, not that he is a committed carnivore when you are a vegetarian (yep, that's another one).
Posted by heliumfiasco
I strive for relationships, constantly seeking them out. But only seem to want to be with emotionally unavailable people. If a dude likes me, is forth coming and not a shit bag... I immediately start critiquing the fuck out of him. Finding any flaw to turn myself off, even when I don't want to do that. Or maybe the people that like me I'm just not attracted to? IDK. Maybe astrology has nothing to do with it and i'm just fucked! Help! I'm almost 32 and I cannot get my head out of my ass. LOL
OMG..you sound exactly like me!!!!
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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care pack
So ive been with my libra boyfriend for 13 months he purposed in march and all of you are like aww thats so sweet NOW let me run down the list of everything that has happened since we met now everything started out wonderful he was so sweet caring charmin
I'm going to keep this as short and simple as possible.
I'm a sag dec 8 my husband is a libra born Oct 19
Married for almost a year together for almost 2. We first and were completely in love and inseparable. We both came out of 5 year relationships
Should I let a libra girl ghost me, or should I stay persistent?
Off sat sun mon tues ....no dates lined up no prospects what the hell am i gone do .
Rely on someone or be relied upon, talk about problems or listen to someone else's? Or is it a little of both... I haven't figured it out yet...
Since things are still under way I am looking for as much damage control as possible.
This might be long but I request you to go through the following:
My libra and I have had the most beautiful relationship. I am a Leo. Practically lost hope wit
She is 22. Has 5 Scorpio placements.
She had gained like another one if hers during college years...
Now size 6-8.
Hard to describe her beauty as mom but everyone who sees her pick goes OMG!
She used to be the girlies girl when little.
Grew up to be
i'm gonna give a scenerio, real life facts or not..
you be the judge.
There is a young lady with those placements, with a Scorpio moon, Scorpio mars.
she has three sisters. She is at an age that is going to be looking for a future husband, w
...but I get the feeling this dude is going to require some special attention from me in the near future.
For background purposes, I was transferred a little over a year ago. Did my best to fit in and be a team player, and was sent to a highly desirea
Planetary positions
planet sign degree motion
Sun Libra 11°12'09 in house 12 direct
Moon Gemini 11°01'46 in house 8 direct
Mercury Libra 19°55'39 end of house 12 direct
Venus Virgo 15°08'14 in house 11 direct
Mars Virgo 15°27'03 in house 11 direct
Jupiter Aquarius 7°07'24 in house 4 stationary 🍹
Saturn Scorpio 25°11'20 in house 2 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 14°43'15 in house 2 direct
Neptune Capricorn 0°58'53 in house 3 direct
Pluto Scorpio 3°44'34 in house 1 direct
True Node Taurus 9°24'28 in house 7 direct
Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house.
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra 20°12'03
2nd House Scorpio 18°17'42
3rd House Sagittarius 19°23'13
Imum Coeli Capricorn 22°26'31
5th House Aquarius 25°06'10
6th House Pisces 24°46'43
Descendant Aries 20°12'03
8th House Taurus 18°17'42
9th House Gemini 19°23'13
Medium Coeli Cancer 22°26'31
11th House Leo 25°06'10
12th House Virgo 24°46'43
Major aspects
Sun Trine Moon 0°10
Sun Trine Jupiter 4°05
Sun Sextile Uranus 3°31
Moon Square Venus 4°06
Moon Square Mars 4°25
Moon Trine Jupiter 3°54
Moon Opposition Uranus 3°41
Mercury Sextile Uranus 5°12
Mercury Conjunction Ascendant 0°16
Venus Conjunction Mars 0°19
Venus Square Uranus 0°25
Mars Square Uranus 0°44
Jupiter Square Pluto 3°23
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 5°29
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°46