Twinflame

Anyone experienced it? Stories and why you think he/she is your twin soul

lol...its easy to start believing in Twin Flames when a Venus in Scorpio has you under their spell.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
lol...its easy to start believing in Twin Flames when a Venus in Scorpio has you under their spell.

Lol! Could b could be. ! but I do not doubt that much in fact, over time it has proven somewhat very strongly. What do you think?

n trust me it's not something I chose to feel if I was given a choice.

Hm I'm a skeptic in this. All I should know is to know nothing, don't look it comes to you, probably through chemistry with that right one....lol

Posted by IrresistableScorp
I'd love to know where this whole runner/chaser thing started? Honestly it just seems like rationalizing chasing someone who might not feel compatible with you. Idk

I know nothing about twin flames, but surely something that is supposedly a divine manifestation would be far less drama driven, no?

Shakespeare once said, the course of true love doth never runs smoothly. Ok. But is true love so imbalanced as to have one person literally running away from the other? Sorry. Not buying it. 🙂

I think a real twin flame running and chasing thing work both ways... The two can't get away from each other kind if thing... So when one try to run, the person that runs keep coming back... Where if it's a normal relationship, one runs and never return kind of thing.... nothing can cut the cord between the two, time, drama, pain,fear, joy or distance..... I think also that no matter happen above, nothing changes! The feelings r the same or even more intense..... they are the mirror of yourself... When you are hurt and angry or whatever reasons u blame the other, it's the reflection of yourself who's the cause of the problem... Untill you fix yourself, the drama will continue because you are blaming you... Your own soul, hence why you can't run away or hate yourself for very long.... This is my take on it as of now.....

Do you have Venus/Pluto and Venus/Mars aspects with this person who you think is your TF?

Posted by SpiceNSugar
Do you have Venus/Pluto and Venus/Mars aspects with this person who you think is your TF?

how do you work that out ? sorry I'm new to it

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Saweetz. I've looked at some if the twin flames sites and the majority don't end up with their TF. But then it gets rationalized to mean their soul wasn't ready or something. Which, again, why would this divine manifestation put two people together only to have them running and chasing and ultimately not end up together? I'm a hopeless romantic, but this doesn't make sense to me.

However I do actually believe in fate and synchronicity and destiny. I just can't buy the running and chasing in this scenario. It sounds simply like unrequited or bad timing or something. I'd love to find out who started that whole running and chasing part. Probably some person who didn't get their "TF" and still wants to believe it was "divine." Shrug.

that is very true, but i do believe in the concept of not healing within ourselves hence the running and chasing part of the TF connection... i believe its the mirror of who you are, if one is healing, learning the mistakes, feeding positive vibes rather than the negative, then the other half is also feeling the same hence it is important to always feed positive thoughts always...

running and chasing, i think it can only go so far... i'm not sure in this scenario how long is the separation but i do believe that if one is a real TF. no feelings and time or obstacles will ever cut the bond between the two....

where soulmates, the bond will be over once the purpose of the meet up is accomplished where TF ...the bond will never be over because you are indeed the lover of your own soul...kind of thing... I hope i'm making sense?

I do believe in fate and destiny 100% , but this connection i'm having truly makes me wonder if he is my TF.

Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by SpiceNSugar
Do you have Venus/Pluto and Venus/Mars aspects with this person who you think is your TF?

how do you work that out ? sorry I'm new to it

click to expand

Go to a site that does synastry and it should give you all the major aspects between the two of you.

where soulmates, the bond will be over once the purpose of the meet up is accomplished where TF ...the bond will never be over because you are indeed the lover of your own soul...kind of thing... I hope i'm making sense?

I do believe in fate and destiny 100% , but this connection i'm having truly makes me wonder if he is my TF.


Sorry, I'll have to disagree with this. I think soulmates are more likely to stay in your life "physically" because they are relationships which tend to be positive, based on give and take.

TF relationships are more about individual growth spurred on by the experience had with your "other half". Therefore, the TF is likely to not be a consistent "physical" part of your life.

Not sure if I'm making sense, but I hope so

Sounds like a ginormous pain in the ass. My spirit hurts thinking about that kind of connection. Especially if your TF is always running away or doesnt like you.


😐

Be well and be rational.

I am in a twin flame relationship. The love is strong, and I have no words to describe how much and what I feel for my twin. BUT (!) it is and was a painful experience. Even though the love is strong like I said, and this love I want everybody to feel BUT the pain I dont want anybody to go through.

How did I know? 4 years ago, when we met, we couldnt take our eyes off eachother. I didnt know him at all, I didnt even liked his appearance as he was a total opposite to my usual taste but the attraction, boom. If we could have got the chance we would have ripped our clothes off and slept. But the opportunity wasnt there and I am actually glad it wasnt because it should have been more painful after. I still remember when we suddenly just held hands and it was like deep magnetism going through our bodies, like we found home. Amazing feeling. But then, distance came between us but we talked and talked via online chats half a year. But then, the rejection began. I couldnt understand why I keep going back to him, even when he tells me that I am not for him, I need to leave but I felt through his eyes that this wasnt true. I lost my mind. Why the h I cant get him out of my mind? Why? I have many men in my life but no one interests me more than a person, who rejects me but then wants me at the same time.

Separation came. He found another girl. I found 2 guys and I wanted to get over my so called "ex", but nothing worked. I felt so bad when being together with other guys, only thing I wanted was my twin. Let me add that I wasnt at all a spiritual person, I didnt believe in anything, no soulmates (not in soul connection but just a fantasy soulmate yes), no idea of twin flames either.

Then something "guided" me to put something into google search and I found out about this. I didnt believe it either. How come something like this exists? I am delusional, this thing cannot be. There is no afterlife, so therefore no soul connections. Everything crashed in my mind and now I am the total opposite. I did needed to talk to a high-end psyhcic who knows about twin flames and she confirmed it. I didnt believe. Went to another high-end psychic and he confirmed it once again. WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON? I seriously lost my mind, I dont know if that was a symptom of spiritual awakening because this i went through but it was intense. It still is.

About the confirmation. I still sometimes doesnt believe this thing exists, just because it sounds surreaal and maybe I am j

About the confirmation. I still sometimes doesnt believe this thing exists, just because it sounds surreaal and maybe I am just hooked up on someone? Then somehow syncronities began and were showed to me. Surreal ones. I dont want to talk about them but it makes chills on my back.

It is something that no one who hasnt experienced can understand. I dont talk about this connection with anybody, they tell me to leave. And I get that, because I would too suggest that but the thing is... this person. He is me, yet opposite. When looking into his eyes, I see home. When he touches me, I feel like home literally touches me.

I cant and wont want to make people believe in it. I dont even sometimes but something happened to me and him as well. We feel eachothers feelings and emotions. We mirror eachother problems and facing them are hard. He is me. Like I said, it is something hard to believe but once in it... hello roller coaster and love you can never imagine.

I remember in my early life I always felt that I have someone Never did I know I will meet him. I wrote books about this person, the same feeling occurrs when I think about it and are with him, all written down years ago. And when I read my old novels etc, I can feel the same energy.

Soulmate relationships are easier, I would have liked this connection more.. but I am "stuck" with my Twin for all my life, in this life. I want to cry because I am so happy for this love, yet I want to scream because I dont want to imagine losing him.. in the end, when we are old.. this is too intense. I want to run, then chase because I cannot deal and I want to be with him.

Sorry for this long post, but maybe from a person who is going through this, can give a good view of it.

But in the end and coming to today, yes we are together and feelings are the same. Lot of love, lot of pain and still lot of work though. With anyone else I would have walked away, but something get me going. And it was worth it. I love him. My soul loves him.

@Taurusinsane

So MANY things that you said are PRECISELY what I have experienced. It's uncanny. Thanks for sharing your experience here. I can definitely relate.

@moongem

Thanks for sharing the runner's perspective. Can you tell us more? I think the runner's view is of particular interest considering runners rarely talk about it 'cause they're too busy running LOL.

moongem, me too 🙂 i love to read others experiences

literally the only people who truly understand the purpose of twin flame, are those who have found their twin flame.. if you have not found your tf, you will never understand, until you meet them. thats it period end of story.

a twin flame is not something meant to be explained, it something, meant to be felt to grow back together and return home, in heaven or the universe whatever your beliefs allows you to call it

What is your point? Girls are not AFRAID to express their TRUE feelings. That's why you see WOMEN here on these forums. Men most definitely feel heart ache and despair just as much as women, most likely even more, but apparently they would rather hide it than to express it.

You're welcome.

there is no real way to go away from your twin flame. the intensity would never be this high with someone else and yes, a man can go and try but they will always come back.

Personally, i'm wasting away. I'm unable to move forward regardless of all my best efforts to move on.

whats the story can u tell 🙂

There's nothing to tell. He shut me out long ago and I can't let go. It hurts every single day. I go through the motions of life. I'm not a hermit,but deep down every day is a struggle.

have u tried talking to him? its not so easy to just leave the connection..

He doesn't reply.

Spicensugar what's his sign

Taurusinsane what's his sign

HE: aqua sun, pisces moon and asc is aqua
ME: taurus sun, leo moon and asc is leo

Are you with him currently taurusinsane?

yes we are, but not fully reunited though. I am not ready and he is not also.

Humbleknight, so if one twin is ready and the other isn't, would it make sense to wait for him? I feel in my heart tht it is my responsibility to wait for my twin for he is not ready yet.

Taurusinsane, when you look at him, do you feel like you are looking at yourself? I do, it's so chilling

When I look at him, I see pure feeling of home, like the best feeling in the world, you can rest, you can just lay with him til the end of time because it is just so comforting, even when just in silence and youre breathing. He is the opposite of me, the side of me that I dont acknowledge in me, he has all the thing that I dont have, its like looking through a mirror. We are opposites in our appearances as well, so like a black and white dog as he is blond and I have dark hair. Everything in us are opposites. Some twins I know are like sister and brother, we are not.

The thing is, yes.. you could wait for whole life but when the energy is strong, the "runner" cannot run forever. They would run from their lessons in life as well. When we fight the things we need to learn with our twin, we are fighting our own life lessons. I have to learn patience for example, I cannot let it pass by, the universe keeps pushing me into having to learn it as I am "right now i want it and go get it, i have no patience". Detachmenet is neccessary, to work on yourself and him to work on himself. it is for the divine reunion in the future. the pain you feel now will be worth in the end. you know it deep down as well

did you know right away that he was your twin flame? for me, it i realized only after we had separated that he is my twin flame. like i noticed really strange similarities between us while we were together but i didnt even know what a twin flame was... but when i did extensive research i was like omg.... i was astonished. it was like someone had just given me all the answers. and i always wondered why i felt so scared to look him in the eye even though we were so close and i knew him for over a year and we talk all the time. because its like literally looking into a mirror, looking at yourself. its crazy intense. i think i also couldnt look at him because im insecure, so i didnt even want to look at myself, i wanted to hide. its like refusing to look at a mirror

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
did you know right away that he was your twin flame? for me, it i realized only after we had separated that he is my twin flame. like i noticed really strange similarities between us while we were together but i didnt even know what a twin flame was... but when i did extensive research i was like omg.... i was astonished. it was like someone had just given me all the answers. and i always wondered why i felt so scared to look him in the eye even though we were so close and i knew him for over a year and we talk all the time. because its like literally looking into a mirror, looking at yourself. its crazy intense. i think i also couldnt look at him because im insecure, so i didnt even want to look at myself, i wanted to hide. its like refusing to look at a mirror

No, I didnt know. 3 years I didnt know what was happening and why I cannot move on and why my soul wants him so badly because my ego is pushing him away. Only last year novemeber or something I found out about it and I knew and resonated immediately. Like some weight was dropped off and I didnt felt like an obsessed teenager girl which I admit, I thought 3 years but something, sooomething inside pushed me to go forward.

Posted by moongem

Posted by SpiceNSugar
@Taurusinsane

So MANY things that you said are PRECISELY what I have experienced. It's uncanny. Thanks for sharing your experience here. I can definitely relate.

@moongem

Thanks for sharing the runner's perspective. Can you tell us more? I think the runner's view is of particular interest considering runners rarely talk about it 'cause they're too busy running LOL.

Exactly. Check your mail.

click to expand

@moongem I want to know too

"No, I didnt know. 3 years I didnt know what was happening and why I cannot move on and why my soul wants him so badly because my ego is pushing him away. Only last year novemeber or something I found out about it and I knew and resonated immediately. Like some weight was dropped off and I didnt felt like an obsessed teenager girl which I admit, I thought 3 years but something, sooomething inside pushed me to go forward.



@Taurusinsane I could not agree more, I am so lost and confused. Obsessed teenager is how I feel right now, I feel like I am losing my mind. He will not respond to any contact I try to make. I didn't even know of the term "Twin Flame" until I started looking for the answers of why I feel the way I do. I have this weird need in the pit of my stomach to just talk to him, even if nothing comes of it...I need to talk to him

How to I deal, when he completely ignores me?