Wrong One?

I meditated to find a good man.... Last year maybe around August. I somewhat cast a spell, kinda to see if it works. Through crystals and my love oils he came maybe about a month later. Literally exactly what i asked the universe for. we had been friends this entire year. he also knew i cast a spell for us to be together, he said something to the effect that i didn't do the spell right because he does not wanna be with me. Andddd Now he left.

Do yall believe in the love oils, and spell casting? have they worked for you? did i in a sense get what i asked for by not being patient and waiting on the natural vibe of the universe? Did i mess up totally by playing with magic?

Posted by blvckphase
I highly recommend against doing this. Playing with magic is not a good idea.. even when you do know what you are doing. Focus on positive mental energy. That will help attract what you want into your life in a much safer manner.

My intentions were pure. I am impatient so to speak, and thought maybe just making myself attractive maybe it would put me in motion to find love. i really just wanted to find love. now im literally going through what is the worse heartbreak ive ever experienced. is this due to maybe the spell working but i wasnt suppossed to do it? did i cast the wrong spell? before that i was hurt though. even though it happened, was it still in the universe for me to go through this?

Posted by bittercupcake
So you basically did Brujeria? 0_-

Yeah that sounds kind of crazy... especially the telling the guy part. Why would you do that?

What's your sign?

Im Aries Sun/Scorpio moon.

I didnt tell him, he just said it one day while we were getting ready to go out as if he already knew.

the male in question is a Capricorn.

i just feel close to the metaphysical and wanted to see if it would work. I personally meditate and ask the universe for guidance period. i didnt do a ritual per say, just during my regular meditation i asked the universe to guide me to love or love to me.

Unless your sun sign is Scorpio, a love spell won't work.

Plenty more fish in the sea.

Keep casting!

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Posted by Palerio
Unless your sun sign is Scorpio, a love spell won't work.

We don’t need love spells....😏

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Stop threatening me with sexy time.

I do love spells......my friends call me the love woman 💖 lol

For me, I light candles then ask for a desired outcome

The most important thing to remember is at the end of the prayer to say "if it is for the higher good"

Golden rule .... never ever name a person ... that takes away free will and is verging on black magick

I usually ask, if it is meant to be, for the person to meet a lover

I use pink or white candles and sometimes red for the hot stuff lol

**~~❤️~~**

Posted by theflyingarrow
Love spells? 😨

Why not pray to God (or to the universe) to bring your soulmate near?

Thin line

There you go, a Scorpio woman popping up teaching us how to cast one...

I know better now. I think I will refrain from casting anything else.at this point I think I was supposed to do it. Not sure about why at the moment

Honey you don't need magic or whatever - what you need are clear boundaries and an exact vision of what you WANT & DESERVE. You need to learn to ditch people out of yor life no matter how good looking, sexy or whatever they are. If a guy doesnt live up to your dating expectations - next.

When you have that then you can effectively sort out the fuckboys in a wink of an eye and have time for the right one - now THATS magic 😎

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Honey you don't need magic or whatever - what you need are clear boundaries and an exact vision of what you WANT & DESERVE. You need to learn to ditch people out of yor life no matter how good looking, sexy or whatever they are. If a guy doesnt live up to your dating expectations - next.

When you have that then you can effectively sort out the fuckboys in a wink of an eye and have time for the right one - now THATS magic 😎

You're way too healthy for this place.

Posted by theflyingarrow
Love spells? 😨

Why not pray to God (or to the universe) to bring your soulmate near?

God? He’s not real

Posted by theflyingarrow
Love spells? 😨

Why not pray to God (or to the universe) to bring your soulmate near?

My sentiments exactly. If I was meditating and praying Why not combine all ingredients? And even though it did work.I'm not understanding this ultimate outcome.

It was more so a push on dating.i have never been in a real genuine relationship.and was becoming more and more depressed at the thought. I was unaware however relationships are very hard work

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Posted by blvckphase
I highly recommend against doing this. Playing with magic is not a good idea.. even when you do know what you are doing. Focus on positive mental energy. That will help attract what you want into your life in a much safer manner.

My intentions were pure. I am impatient so to speak, and thought maybe just making myself attractive maybe it would put me in motion to find love. i really just wanted to find love. now im literally going through what is the worse heartbreak ive ever experienced. is this due to maybe the spell working but i wasnt suppossed to do it? did i cast the wrong spell? before that i was hurt though. even though it happened, was it still in the universe for me to go through this?

There is no such thing as 'pure' when dealing with the dark arts. You were purposely trying to make him love you against his will... how's that for pure? More like fabricated if you ask me.

Instead of trying to find love through dark and twisted means, how about you get out there and date?

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I didn't cast for anybody in specific at all. It was a come to me spell. I never stated anybody in specific. I did not figure it to be a "dark art". Though a lot of dark things came of it....

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Posted by LittleFairy
Plenty more fish in the sea.

Keep casting!

As someone who considers themselves Wiccan, you should know better than to encourage people (esp people who don't know what they are doing) to practice casting. Terrible idea!

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Brilliant idea. Don't listen to her. So long as you do it with the right intentions and do everything in the physical world to help you too.

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Posted by blvckphase
I highly recommend against doing this. Playing with magic is not a good idea.. even when you do know what you are doing. Focus on positive mental energy. That will help attract what you want into your life in a much safer manner.

My intentions were pure. I am impatient so to speak, and thought maybe just making myself attractive maybe it would put me in motion to find love. i really just wanted to find love. now im literally going through what is the worse heartbreak ive ever experienced. is this due to maybe the spell working but i wasnt suppossed to do it? did i cast the wrong spell? before that i was hurt though. even though it happened, was it still in the universe for me to go through this?

There is no such thing as 'pure' when dealing with the dark arts. You were purposely trying to make him love you against his will... how's that for pure? More like fabricated if you ask me.

Instead of trying to find love through dark and twisted means, how about you get out there and date?

I didn't cast for anybody in specific at all. It was a come to me spell. I never stated anybody in specific. I did not figure it to be a "dark art". Though a lot of dark things came of it....

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Oh FFS just cast for what you really want .....whatever is in your head can't be that bad.

Cast for an amazing guy who will become your soulmate and is right for you.

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Plenty more fish in the sea.

Keep casting!

As someone who considers themselves Wiccan, you should know better than to encourage people (esp people who don't know what they are doing) to practice casting. Terrible idea!

Brilliant idea. Don't listen to her. So long as you do it with the right intentions and do everything in the physical world to help you too.

But it wasn't done with the right intention.. It was strictly self serving and that is why she is in this boat.. But okay.. don't listen to me.

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Witchcraft has a dark side ..it's meant to.

You could try asking for the guy who needs you as much as you need him. That will serve you both 🙂

There is no such thing as white witches ...anyone who says that be wary ...they draw negativity ...

People who think they are angels or should be angels draw negativity.

You are part of the dark ..so choose your darkness well.

Imagine that this is his song for you this Christmas and you feel exactly the same and he is as amazing as you and exactly what you need for each other 🙂

Posted by LittleFairy
There is no such thing as white witches ...anyone who says that be wary ...they draw negativity ...

People who think they are angels or should be angels draw negativity.

You are part of the dark ..so choose your darkness well.

There are people who choose to work in the light......

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Posted by LittleFairy
Plenty more fish in the sea.

Keep casting!

As someone who considers themselves Wiccan, you should know better than to encourage people (esp people who don't know what they are doing) to practice casting. Terrible idea!

Brilliant idea. Don't listen to her. So long as you do it with the right intentions and do everything in the physical world to help you too.

But it wasn't done with the right intention.. It was strictly self serving and that is why she is in this boat.. But okay.. don't listen to me.

Witchcraft has a dark side ..it's meant to.

You could try asking for the guy who needs you as much as you need him. That will serve you both 🙂

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Love it! I understand there's good and bad in everything. Hence, the situation.

Posted by gyrados
Why Aries women so desperate for love? I thought it was Leo thing...

I don't think I'm desperate for love. I been single for a while before that...I think it's aries women just go after love hard. That's why usually I never had relationship problems before. I just thought to try something new..we crave a deep love and I'm a Scorpio moon, I require something very different.

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Why Aries women so desperate for love? I thought it was Leo thing...

I don't think I'm desperate for love. I been single for a while before that...I think it's aries women just go after love hard. That's why usually I never had relationship problems before. I just thought to try something new..we crave a deep love and I'm a Scorpio moon, I require something very different.

Ah I see....Aries sun - Scorpio moon was powerful combinations (a sexy one), but men may scared by it too....

Anyway I not recommend you a Capricorn, since they can be very very boring or worst, very evil.

Theres no in between.

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I have in this past year of us literally being together every day. He's very boring and now I'm getting the evil side. I have experienced both sides....

Posted by ChrisxKodak
Bro, no one is allowed to use bruja on me or ima be hella mad lol

I didn't do bujer on him. the bruja led him to me. I asked for love and hate he came. I've never even knew he existed until a month later.

Spells can go sideways on you if you don't have everything fine tuned and don't know what you're doing. As for the whole "dark" arts vs white witch or "light" worker thing, this is where I'm going to stop on my soapbox and give a little lecture about the overly misconstrued idea that dark=bad and light=good. Light/dark are NOT the same as good/evil!! I can't stress that enough! This is so simple it should be obvious to everyone. ~sigh~

Light/dark are simply energies, just opposite ends of the spectrum, much like creation and destruction. Since EVERYTHING is made of energy you have to have both light/dark in order to have the entire infinite spectrum of energies that makes the universe and all that's in it the way it is. Imagine cutting a color out of the rainbow and suddenly you won't get all the colors. It's the same concept because color is also energy. To have good/evil you have to have INTENT. That's all that those are, intents. Without intention you simply have energy. Thus, good/evil can be done with both light and dark....as well as all other forms of energy. ~climbs back off of soapbox~

Well said Moon Artist and I agree.

The OP evoked her lover to her and that’s perfectly fine

Then she invoked a spell and due to her inexperience it fell through....big deal?

Maybe next time instead of invoking a spell to bind them together she will put more thought into what she really wants. Maybe she could invoke that they’re happy in their time together and as result of that happiness he would have stayed.

Posted by Palerio
Unless your sun sign is Scorpio, a love spell won't work.

And if it is - it will work?

Hmmmm

Posted by greylatern
You need to learn not just the law of attraction but the 12 universal laws. Work to clear your negative perceptions about your past, yourself, and the world as a whole. You or him was not ready so you repeled each other. The truth is you probley did a real number on him and yourself doing that.You have incurred karma. Practicing the law of attraction to that degree without understanding is super dangerous and disruptive. Pretty sure my twinflame woke me up unknowingly. The pull was so intense I almost became completely ungrounded. I was obsest about finding her. I almost lost my job being unable to think straight. Couldn't cope had to stop it. God I love her but I wasn't ready. To make things worse another soulmate showed up but she knew what she was doing and pulled the hell out of me too. She was going through very rough times and needed help so I understand.Love them both in different ways but I'm still growing. There is a strong possibilty both were me but reguardless I wasn't ready then.

Learn and understand the 12 laws. You drew a reflection of yourself in away. You need to learn to love yourself if you want true love to come knocking at your door naturally. if that is truely what you seek, then become your trueself and what you are looking for which is love 😊

The 12 laws I will study....

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Posted by Palerio
Unless your sun sign is Scorpio, a love spell won't work.

And if it is - it will work?

Hmmmm

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Yes! Because given the appalling intensity of the Scorpio spell, chances are it will last.

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Posted by Palerio
Unless your sun sign is Scorpio, a love spell won't work.

And if it is - it will work?

Hmmmm

Yes! Because given the appalling intensity of the Scorpio spell, chances are it will last.

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lol

they should try Scorpio moon in case there's no sun there.

lots of other 12 sun signs. gotta find one with the moon in their 7th house and jupiter aligns with mars. lol

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Posted by blvckphase
I highly recommend against doing this. Playing with magic is not a good idea.. even when you do know what you are doing. Focus on positive mental energy. That will help attract what you want into your life in a much safer manner.

My intentions were pure. I am impatient so to speak, and thought maybe just making myself attractive maybe it would put me in motion to find love. i really just wanted to find love. now im literally going through what is the worse heartbreak ive ever experienced. is this due to maybe the spell working but i wasnt suppossed to do it? did i cast the wrong spell? before that i was hurt though. even though it happened, was it still in the universe for me to go through this?

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Yep... Spell work is not allowed with universal flow.... You send it out it backfires leaving you mentally entrapped .... You can't speed any process up by doing spell work... It takes away free will to others not knowing a spell has been cast ... Total disrespect to universal flow... If a spell is cast for self pleasure without technically any true soul self work... It backfires .... The universe always knows the hidden intent in anything .... Manifestations come from within ... That means what is truly in your heart ... If there is deceit there be prepared to have deceitful partner ... Technically what you did was a binding spell... Backfired so now you're bound in your thoughts.... The universe only honors things of your highest good... You can keep trying spellwork want get anywhere but entrapped ... Technically the spell reverses and bounces back on the individual who cast it... It technically protection for the other person... No spells should be cast on anyone... So the universe protects and pulls you both apart ... Whomever cast the spell always get the short end of the stick...

OK it wasn't so much a spell. I saw it as projecting a wish into the universe. I meditate either way was what I was saying.

Here is where people get things confused ... Your thoughts and the words you speak are just as powerful as any spell... Especially now considering the veil has lifted ... The guardians of this world hear everything ... Your thoughts ... What's in your heart.... What you say... If its for self gain... This will not be honored ... The universe only flows freely with unconditional love.. Point is... Thoughts.. Words affirmations are just as potent as a spell... So speak with honesty and truth... Trust they already know the truth... Divine intervention has happened .... I have said this before on here anything you send out will return ... You send out negative it gets rejected and sent back to you... It's nothing's the guardians are doing it's the sender.... God gives freewill ... Freewill... Manifestation now I can tell you are from soul growth ... Any partnership if you want a divine one has to come from soul evolution ... Now if you want something that is not of your highest good... That will come to... But the pain from that... Is supposed to awaken you to realizing your soul worth ... Act with honest and speak in truth... The universe will reward ten fold... Trust me living witness ... Yes this is universal law... How we attract connections in our life... A good example of this is just looking at your exes or the people you have good connections too.. Is it the same ... No change stagnant .. Pain... Always the same etc

.... Well that is an example of a block of universal flow.... Universal flow is free flowing... Abundance but most have a hard time getting there but certainly not impossible in this lifetime ... All that have incarnated have the choice to go with universal flow and are able to receive abundance .... But... It the persons own actions that tend to block this by not letting go of people that don't serve them... It leaves them in pain of their own doing... Don't fret we all experience this... It's the individuals choice to be open and receptive to love... But with blocks... Certain people friends... Life style s.. People give in to that and stay sad and always going through heartbreak ... Be open to what the universe has for you... You don't have cast things... Trust they right there ... Be willing to change and be ready to receive some rewards ... Understand they feel your pain as well and want to send love to you .. But the individual blocks this... Leaving them feeling alone... It's manipulation ... No one can manipulate the Universe at this point ... Could have maybe 10 years ago... But fate is here... And the stars are alligned...

And that is how love naturally flows... It's never forced ... Never ...