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So I’m texting my crush. We’re friends, but have a strong attraction, we’re kinda sexting and I’m feeling affectionate. I said to him, “I want to be with you right now 😩” he reacted with a 🥰 but nothing else. Should I bring it up and apologize for being a little too much since I kinda saw this as rejection but in a nice way? I personally don’t want to make him uncomfortable
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So I’m texting my crush. We’re friends, but have a strong attraction, we’re kinda sexting and I’m feeling affectionate. I said to him, “I want to be with you right now 😩” he reacted with a 🥰 but nothing else. Should I bring it up and apologize for being a little too much since I kinda saw this as rejection but in a nice way? I personally don’t want to make him uncomfortable

I wouldn't take that as rejection. But it's not very common for the woman to make the first move.



Push again and see what he says this time. In fact, if he replies with another short but unsatisfactory answer, ask him: is that all you got to say?



And then proceed accordingly.
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I didn’t take it as a rejection per se, but I’ve had experience in the past from guys that it meant like he doesn’t feel the same 100% you know? I uh ended up saying, “I hope I wasn’t making you uncomfortable when I was being affectionate earlier 😔”
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So I’m texting my crush. We’re friends, but have a strong attraction, we’re kinda sexting and I’m feeling affectionate. I said to him, “I want to be with you right now 😩” he reacted with a 🥰 but nothing else. Should I bring it up and apologize for being a little too much since I kinda saw this as rejection but in a nice way? I personally don’t want to make him uncomfortable


I wouldn't take that as rejection. But it's not very common for the woman to make the first move.



Push again and see what he says this time. In fact, if he replies with another short but unsatisfactory answer, ask him: is that all you got to say?



And then proceed accordingly.
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I didn’t take it as a rejection per se, but I’ve had experience in the past from guys that it meant like he doesn’t feel the same 100% you know? I uh ended up saying, “I hope I wasn’t making you uncomfortable when I was being affectionate earlier 😔”
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I wouldn't have backed down like you did. You made yourself look weak after coming off a little aggressive..



Try again, keep it simple. And if there's any confusion, come back here.
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If only you commented earlier haha

He saw it and I deleted it 🤷🏻‍♀️ i was trying to be respectful
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So I’m texting my crush. We’re friends, but have a strong attraction, we’re kinda sexting and I’m feeling affectionate. I said to him, “I want to be with you right now 😩” he reacted with a 🥰 but nothing else. Should I bring it up and apologize for being a little too much since I kinda saw this as rejection but in a nice way? I personally don’t want to make him uncomfortable






I wouldn't take that as rejection. But it's not very common for the woman to make the first move.



Push again and see what he says this time. In fact, if he replies with another short but unsatisfactory answer, ask him: is that all you got to say?



And then proceed accordingly.
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I didn’t take it as a rejection per se, but I’ve had experience in the past from guys that it meant like he doesn’t feel the same 100% you know? I uh ended up saying, “I hope I wasn’t making you uncomfortable when I was being affectionate earlier 😔”
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I wouldn't have backed down like you did. You made yourself look weak after coming off a little aggressive..



Try again, keep it simple. And if there's any confusion, come back here.
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If only you commented earlier haha



He saw it and I deleted it 🤷🏻‍♀️ i was trying to be respectful
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Well, I'm not always on here anymore because people are boring as of late. I'll help you decipher this guy out. Astrology helps, but it's not necessary, unless you want to make it be.



If you want some of that dick, you better learn to use your ovaries better.
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Oh nooo! You responded to my post so that means something? 😂 well, he’s a Pisces sun, Virgo moon, Aquarius Mercury, Aries Venus and Capricorn Mars

I’ve been doing very well actually! Just I fell 😅 should I give him space or talk about something else?
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So I’m texting my crush. We’re friends, but have a strong attraction, we’re kinda sexting and I’m feeling affectionate. I said to him, “I want to be with you right now 😩” he reacted with a 🥰 but nothing else. Should I bring it up and apologize for being a little too much since I kinda saw this as rejection but in a nice way? I personally don’t want to make him uncomfortable





I wouldn't take that as rejection. But it's not very common for the woman to make the first move.



Push again and see what he says this time. In fact, if he replies with another short but unsatisfactory answer, ask him: is that all you got to say?



And then proceed accordingly.
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I didn’t take it as a rejection per se, but I’ve had experience in the past from guys that it meant like he doesn’t feel the same 100% you know? I uh ended up saying, “I hope I wasn’t making you uncomfortable when I was being affectionate earlier 😔”
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I wouldn't have backed down like you did. You made yourself look weak after coming off a little aggressive..



Try again, keep it simple. And if there's any confusion, come back here.
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If only you commented earlier haha



He saw it and I deleted it 🤷🏻‍♀️ i was trying to be respectful
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Well, I'm not always on here anymore because people are boring as of late. I'll help you decipher this guy out. Astrology helps, but it's not necessary, unless you want to make it be.



If you want some of that dick, you better learn to use your ovaries better.
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Oh nooo! You responded to my post so that means something? 😂 well, he’s a Pisces sun, Virgo moon, Aquarius Mercury, Aries Venus and Capricorn Mars



I’ve been doing very well actually! Just I fell 😅 should I give him space or talk about something else?
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You're the one that made the thread, you also opened up Pandora's Box, so you can close it now.



I'm just here to help you finish what you've started.



You can talk about other things during daytime, but you should be very direct if you want him to come over to your place and rearrange your organs. And if the vibe is off, it'll be off most likely permanently.



Be prepared for that outcome. And if you're not prepared, then stop what you're doing and chase somebody else.
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True! Though I’m also an Aries Venus as well and I have been very outspoken what I want from him. The only reason I had an itch behind my head was because I made a good comeback about “love it if you in charge of me” after talking about him taking a managerial role. He responded, but he failed to respond when I asked if he has done role play of that sort. Maybe he was not in the mood? This started last night and today is today. He’s also working 🤷🏻‍♀️

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If the man is at work, only send him three messages until he's out of work.



The first message should be a cutesy good morning with meme.



Wait a couple of hours and send him a second message, with a flirty, sexy meme.



The third message should read something like: I'm waiting to see what you're going to do next...



And let that mother fucker go. There's no other way he can miss those signals unless he chooses to. And you need to be prepared for either eventuality.



So if you're sitting at home, you better trim that bush and shave those legs, just in case.


Except it’s already late in the day 😂 we’ve talked for 2 hours in total already. I was trying to atone / rectify my weakness 🥲
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If the man is at work, only send him three messages until he's out of work.



The first message should be a cutesy good morning with meme.



Wait a couple of hours and send him a second message, with a flirty, sexy meme.



The third message should read something like: I'm waiting to see what you're going to do next...



And let that mother fucker go. There's no other way he can miss those signals unless he chooses to. And you need to be prepared for either eventuality.



So if you're sitting at home, you better trim that bush and shave those legs, just in case.
Except it’s already late in the day 😂 we’ve talked for 2 hours in total already. I was trying to atone / rectify my weakness 🥲


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Then stop what you're doing right now. Let him go gently and do exactly as I've said starting first thing tomorrow morning.



You don't want to come off as too desperate. You are done for today.
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It sucks because we’re actually friends too. I got way too comfortable 😩 you’re right, I am done for today. I’ll keep you posted!
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If the man is at work, only send him three messages until he's out of work.



The first message should be a cutesy good morning with meme.



Wait a couple of hours and send him a second message, with a flirty, sexy meme.



The third message should read something like: I'm waiting to see what you're going to do next...



And let that mother fucker go. There's no other way he can miss those signals unless he chooses to. And you need to be prepared for either eventuality.



So if you're sitting at home, you better trim that bush and shave those legs, just in case.




Except it’s already late in the day 😂 we’ve talked for 2 hours in total already. I was trying to atone / rectify my weakness 🥲


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Then stop what you're doing right now. Let him go gently and do exactly as I've said starting first thing tomorrow morning.



You don't want to come off as too desperate. You are done for today.
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It sucks because we’re actually friends too. I got way too comfortable 😩 you’re right, I am done for today. I’ll keep you posted!


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The best relationships are the ones where you start out as friends and then figure out whether your genitals fit well together later.



You will eventually be very comfortable with him, you just had a jerky start. It's not unsalvageable at all.



Cut him off gently. Start again tomorrow as prescribed. Exactly as prescribed.
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We’ve known each other for almost a year now. It’s my first hiccup and I feel so terrible for my weakness, it’s disgusting 😂 even going to delete my last message which he noticed also. I can tell we’re sexually compatible, it’s just we haven’t done anything yet

Thank you for being so sweet in helping me out
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If the man is at work, only send him three messages until he's out of work.



The first message should be a cutesy good morning with meme.



Wait a couple of hours and send him a second message, with a flirty, sexy meme.



The third message should read something like: I'm waiting to see what you're going to do next...



And let that mother fucker go. There's no other way he can miss those signals unless he chooses to. And you need to be prepared for either eventuality.



So if you're sitting at home, you better trim that bush and shave those legs, just in case.





Except it’s already late in the day 😂 we’ve talked for 2 hours in total already. I was trying to atone / rectify my weakness 🥲


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Then stop what you're doing right now. Let him go gently and do exactly as I've said starting first thing tomorrow morning.



You don't want to come off as too desperate. You are done for today.
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It sucks because we’re actually friends too. I got way too comfortable 😩 you’re right, I am done for today. I’ll keep you posted!


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The best relationships are the ones where you start out as friends and then figure out whether your genitals fit well together later.



You will eventually be very comfortable with him, you just had a jerky start. It's not unsalvageable at all.



Cut him off gently. Start again tomorrow as prescribed. Exactly as prescribed.
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We’ve known each other for almost a year now. It’s my first hiccup and I feel so terrible for my weakness, it’s disgusting 😂 even going to delete my last message which he noticed also. I can tell we’re sexually compatible, it’s just we haven’t done anything yet



Thank you for being so sweet in helping me out
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Stop deleting your messages. 😂😂
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LOL it’s been done. I felt disgusting 😂😭

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If the man is at work, only send him three messages until he's out of work.



The first message should be a cutesy good morning with meme.



Wait a couple of hours and send him a second message, with a flirty, sexy meme.



The third message should read something like: I'm waiting to see what you're going to do next...



And let that mother fucker go. There's no other way he can miss those signals unless he chooses to. And you need to be prepared for either eventuality.



So if you're sitting at home, you better trim that bush and shave those legs, just in case.







Except it’s already late in the day 😂 we’ve talked for 2 hours in total already. I was trying to atone / rectify my weakness 🥲


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Then stop what you're doing right now. Let him go gently and do exactly as I've said starting first thing tomorrow morning.



You don't want to come off as too desperate. You are done for today.
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It sucks because we’re actually friends too. I got way too comfortable 😩 you’re right, I am done for today. I’ll keep you posted!


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The best relationships are the ones where you start out as friends and then figure out whether your genitals fit well together later.



You will eventually be very comfortable with him, you just had a jerky start. It's not unsalvageable at all.



Cut him off gently. Start again tomorrow as prescribed. Exactly as prescribed.
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We’ve known each other for almost a year now. It’s my first hiccup and I feel so terrible for my weakness, it’s disgusting 😂 even going to delete my last message which he noticed also. I can tell we’re sexually compatible, it’s just we haven’t done anything yet



Thank you for being so sweet in helping me out
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Stop deleting your messages. 😂😂
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LOL it’s been done. I felt disgusting 😂😭




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You've absolutely no need to.. get out of your own way. 😂
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🥺🥺🥺 it’s just…I wanted to know if I overstep boundaries
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Posted by TXCowboy
If the man is at work, only send him three messages until he's out of work.



The first message should be a cutesy good morning with meme.



Wait a couple of hours and send him a second message, with a flirty, sexy meme.



The third message should read something like: I'm waiting to see what you're going to do next...



And let that mother fucker go. There's no other way he can miss those signals unless he chooses to. And you need to be prepared for either eventuality.



So if you're sitting at home, you better trim that bush and shave those legs, just in case.





Except it’s already late in the day 😂 we’ve talked for 2 hours in total already. I was trying to atone / rectify my weakness 🥲


click to expand





Then stop what you're doing right now. Let him go gently and do exactly as I've said starting first thing tomorrow morning.



You don't want to come off as too desperate. You are done for today.
click to expand



It sucks because we’re actually friends too. I got way too comfortable 😩 you’re right, I am done for today. I’ll keep you posted!


click to expand

The best relationships are the ones where you start out as friends and then figure out whether your genitals fit well together later.



You will eventually be very comfortable with him, you just had a jerky start. It's not unsalvageable at all.



Cut him off gently. Start again tomorrow as prescribed. Exactly as prescribed.
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We’ve known each other for almost a year now. It’s my first hiccup and I feel so terrible for my weakness, it’s disgusting 😂 even going to delete my last message which he noticed also. I can tell we’re sexually compatible, it’s just we haven’t done anything yet



Thank you for being so sweet in helping me out
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Don't delete any messages. Stand behind your words and actions. Deleting stuff sends mixed signals.



Delete things like typos or obvious writing errors. Never delete anything else.



Make changes, starting tomorrow. Radio silence starts now.



We will be waiting for your updates.
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When I saw your message, I immediately took it off 😂 as I abhor looking weak. He saw it, so if he wanted to, he could bring it up, but I’m learning and I know better now

Starting now…yes!

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Posted by TXCowboy
If the man is at work, only send him three messages until he's out of work.



The first message should be a cutesy good morning with meme.



Wait a couple of hours and send him a second message, with a flirty, sexy meme.



The third message should read something like: I'm waiting to see what you're going to do next...



And let that mother fucker go. There's no other way he can miss those signals unless he chooses to. And you need to be prepared for either eventuality.



So if you're sitting at home, you better trim that bush and shave those legs, just in case.





Except it’s already late in the day 😂 we’ve talked for 2 hours in total already. I was trying to atone / rectify my weakness 🥲


click to expand





Then stop what you're doing right now. Let him go gently and do exactly as I've said starting first thing tomorrow morning.



You don't want to come off as too desperate. You are done for today.
click to expand



It sucks because we’re actually friends too. I got way too comfortable 😩 you’re right, I am done for today. I’ll keep you posted!


click to expand

The best relationships are the ones where you start out as friends and then figure out whether your genitals fit well together later.



You will eventually be very comfortable with him, you just had a jerky start. It's not unsalvageable at all.



Cut him off gently. Start again tomorrow as prescribed. Exactly as prescribed.
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We’ve known each other for almost a year now. It’s my first hiccup and I feel so terrible for my weakness, it’s disgusting 😂 even going to delete my last message which he noticed also. I can tell we’re sexually compatible, it’s just we haven’t done anything yet



Thank you for being so sweet in helping me out
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Don't delete any messages. Stand behind your words and actions. Deleting stuff sends mixed signals.



Delete things like typos or obvious writing errors. Never delete anything else.



Make changes, starting tomorrow. Radio silence starts now.



We will be waiting for your updates.
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LOL he wanted know what it was even though he saw it when I deleted it🤨 *don’t act suspicious, don’t act suspicious *
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If the man is at work, only send him three messages until he's out of work.



The first message should be a cutesy good morning with meme.



Wait a couple of hours and send him a second message, with a flirty, sexy meme.



The third message should read something like: I'm waiting to see what you're going to do next...



And let that mother fucker go. There's no other way he can miss those signals unless he chooses to. And you need to be prepared for either eventuality.



So if you're sitting at home, you better trim that bush and shave those legs, just in case.







Except it’s already late in the day 😂 we’ve talked for 2 hours in total already. I was trying to atone / rectify my weakness 🥲


click to expand




Then stop what you're doing right now. Let him go gently and do exactly as I've said starting first thing tomorrow morning.



You don't want to come off as too desperate. You are done for today.
click to expand




It sucks because we’re actually friends too. I got way too comfortable 😩 you’re right, I am done for today. I’ll keep you posted!


click to expand





The best relationships are the ones where you start out as friends and then figure out whether your genitals fit well together later.



You will eventually be very comfortable with him, you just had a jerky start. It's not unsalvageable at all.



Cut him off gently. Start again tomorrow as prescribed. Exactly as prescribed.
click to expand



We’ve known each other for almost a year now. It’s my first hiccup and I feel so terrible for my weakness, it’s disgusting 😂 even going to delete my last message which he noticed also. I can tell we’re sexually compatible, it’s just we haven’t done anything yet



Thank you for being so sweet in helping me out
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Don't delete any messages. Stand behind your words and actions. Deleting stuff sends mixed signals.



Delete things like typos or obvious writing errors. Never delete anything else.



Make changes, starting tomorrow. Radio silence starts now.



We will be waiting for your updates.
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LOL he wanted know what it was even though he saw it when I deleted it🤨 *don’t act suspicious, don’t act suspicious *
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If you're in bed already, go to sleep. Let It go.



You've got him curious whether or not he really saw it. Tomorrow, you do exactly as I asked you. Your job is to build up the suspense and anticipation that he's going to do unholy things to you before the weekend is over.
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It’s 3:34 in the afternoon here. Won’t be going to bed anytime soon. I know I’ll do what you advised tomorrow, but don’t tell him at all? I was going to say don’t worry about it 😅
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So I’m texting my crush. We’re friends, but have a strong attraction, we’re kinda sexting and I’m feeling affectionate. I said to him, “I want to be with you right now 😩” he reacted with a 🥰 but nothing else. Should I bring it up and apologize for being a little too much since I kinda saw this as rejection but in a nice way? I personally don’t want to make him uncomfortable

Even though I've sent these sentiments before, I kinda hate them as well. Like, okay, what do you want me to do about it? If we were together a bunch, we should probably take a minute apart and if we literally just can't be together, then we can't.
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How about planning for the next hangout? 🙄 it shows you care, have interest, and effort.
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So I’m texting my crush. We’re friends, but have a strong attraction, we’re kinda sexting and I’m feeling affectionate. I said to him, “I want to be with you right now 😩” he reacted with a 🥰 but nothing else. Should I bring it up and apologize for being a little too much since I kinda saw this as rejection but in a nice way? I personally don’t want to make him uncomfortable
I wouldn't take that as rejection. But it's not very common for the woman to make the first move.



Push again and see what he says this time. In fact, if he replies with another short but unsatisfactory answer, ask him: is that all you got to say?



And then proceed accordingly.
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I didn’t take it as a rejection per se, but I’ve had experience in the past from guys that it meant like he doesn’t feel the same 100% you know? I uh ended up saying, “I hope I wasn’t making you uncomfortable when I was being affectionate earlier 😔”
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No when you backtrack it makes u look weak

Don’t ever backtrack when you said nothing wrong
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If the man is at work, only send him three messages until he's out of work.



The first message should be a cutesy good morning with meme.



Wait a couple of hours and send him a second message, with a flirty, sexy meme.



The third message should read something like: I'm waiting to see what you're going to do next...



And let that mother fucker go. There's no other way he can miss those signals unless he chooses to. And you need to be prepared for either eventuality.



So if you're sitting at home, you better trim that bush and shave those legs, just in case.





Except it’s already late in the day 😂 we’ve talked for 2 hours in total already. I was trying to atone / rectify my weakness 🥲


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Then stop what you're doing right now. Let him go gently and do exactly as I've said starting first thing tomorrow morning.



You don't want to come off as too desperate. You are done for today.
click to expand



It sucks because we’re actually friends too. I got way too comfortable 😩 you’re right, I am done for today. I’ll keep you posted!


click to expand

The best relationships are the ones where you start out as friends and then figure out whether your genitals fit well together later.



You will eventually be very comfortable with him, you just had a jerky start. It's not unsalvageable at all.



Cut him off gently. Start again tomorrow as prescribed. Exactly as prescribed.
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We’ve known each other for almost a year now. It’s my first hiccup and I feel so terrible for my weakness, it’s disgusting 😂 even going to delete my last message which he noticed also. I can tell we’re sexually compatible, it’s just we haven’t done anything yet



Thank you for being so sweet in helping me out
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Don't delete any messages. Stand behind your words and actions. Deleting stuff sends mixed signals.



Delete things like typos or obvious writing errors. Never delete anything else.



Make changes, starting tomorrow. Radio silence starts now.



We will be waiting for your updates.
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This exactly always stand by your words specially when you’ve done nothing wrong
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We've entered a very disturbing period, where communicating clearly still isn't good enough for some people, resulting in unnecessary drama and strife.


It surely makes you wonder about the fate of humanity.


I think it could be the “desire for a response.” That drives ppl towards insecurity like this.

People want to be acknowledged. Especially by someone they’re interested in.

Not just any acknowledgment either. The acknowledgment they would have given themselves or fantasized about.
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I don't think you should ever back track on what you said. It was in the moment, you guys were flirting and you said what you said cause you were horny.

His emoji was a validation and confirmation that he got where you were coming from. Maybe he wasn't home and was just flirting to pass the time, maybe he couldn't take you up on the offer, but now he knows that you like him and will feel comfortable to make a move if there is a chance to do so between the 2 of you.

It's not a big enough deal to apologize for acting on your emotions. It was a pretty standard response for someone, any gender, who was horny, while flirting. Don't let it get to you, just act normal and things will go back to whatever normal you guys had before.
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I don't think you should ever back track on what you said. It was in the moment, you guys were flirting and you said what you said cause you were horny.


His emoji was a validation and confirmation that he got where you were coming from. Maybe he wasn't home and was just flirting to pass the time, maybe he couldn't take you up on the offer, but now he knows that you like him and will feel comfortable to make a move if there is a chance to do so between the 2 of you.


It's not a big enough deal to apologize for acting on your emotions. It was a pretty standard response for someone, any gender, who was horny, while flirting. Don't let it get to you, just act normal and things will go back to whatever normal you guys had before.


I meant to say something earlier, but your post really made me feel better thank you 😊
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If the man is at work, only send him three messages until he's out of work.


The first message should be a cutesy good morning with meme.


Wait a couple of hours and send him a second message, with a flirty, sexy meme.


The third message should read something like: I'm waiting to see what you're going to do next...


And let that mother fucker go. There's no other way he can miss those signals unless he chooses to. And you need to be prepared for either eventuality.


So if you're sitting at home, you better trim that bush and shave those legs, just in case.







Except it’s already late in the day 😂 we’ve talked for 2 hours in total already. I was trying to atone / rectify my weakness 🥲

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Then stop what you're doing right now. Let him go gently and do exactly as I've said starting first thing tomorrow morning.


You don't want to come off as too desperate. You are done for today.
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It sucks because we’re actually friends too. I got way too comfortable 😩 you’re right, I am done for today. I’ll keep you posted!

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The best relationships are the ones where you start out as friends and then figure out whether your genitals fit well together later.


You will eventually be very comfortable with him, you just had a jerky start. It's not unsalvageable at all.


Cut him off gently. Start again tomorrow as prescribed. Exactly as prescribed.
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We’ve known each other for almost a year now. It’s my first hiccup and I feel so terrible for my weakness, it’s disgusting 😂 even going to delete my last message which he noticed also. I can tell we’re sexually compatible, it’s just we haven’t done anything yet


Thank you for being so sweet in helping me out
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Don't delete any messages. Stand behind your words and actions. Deleting stuff sends mixed signals.


Delete things like typos or obvious writing errors. Never delete anything else.


Make changes, starting tomorrow. Radio silence starts now.


We will be waiting for your updates.
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LOL he wanted know what it was even though he saw it when I deleted it🤨 *don’t act suspicious, don’t act suspicious *
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If you're in bed already, go to sleep. Let It go.


You've got him curious whether or not he really saw it. Tomorrow, you do exactly as I asked you. Your job is to build up the suspense and anticipation that he's going to do unholy things to you before the weekend is over.
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It’s 3:34 in the afternoon here. Won’t be going to bed anytime soon. I know I’ll do what you advised tomorrow, but don’t tell him at all? I was going to say don’t worry about it 😅
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So you're CST? So am I!


Yeah, let it go completely.
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Wanted to update It eventually turned out fine, though I forgot to mention we’re long distance 😅 but we’ve met before and hung out obviously

I stumbled again, but I haven’t deleted my awkward message this time 💪🏻 basically when he showed me his 🍆 I got too excited stating how his size was perfect. He liked my comment, but said “you don’t know the real size!!” I then replied “I just know!” but because I nervous I stated that, “ you’re right I don’t know, but the way you presented it looked so good that I had to look again” he never replied back and idk if it’s that bad 💀