At parties...why do people......

Why do people make an excuse so that they can leave a conversation even if it's one that they are mostly dictating? I don't get it. If you are doing most of the talking , then why engage in the first place and continue engaging.
Why do people make an excuse so that they can leave a conversation even if it's one that they are mostly dictating?

I don't get it.

If you are doing most of the talking , then why engage in the first place and continue engaging.


female
bukowski is right
Some ppl get bored and want to mingle with others.

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Maybe they cornered you to make someone jelly and once the persons out of eye line they move on.
26 years old
To be polite. Societal pressure. Habit. To make someone jealous. Because they like you. Because they hate you (petty). Because of fear of rejection. People pleasing. I find most people treat others with the "Golden Rule" i.e. treat others as you want to be treated. When really they should be treating others as THEY want to be treated. And so some people I think get in habit of starting pointless convos because deep down they would rather chit chat bull butter than be ignored, so essentially treating you with the same respect THEY would want. All in all not taking in to account being receptive to your needs until it's too late and they are selfish realizing they don't want to be receptive to your needs so they end said convo.
it's a party, not a date. chill.
Posted by exo
it's a party, not a date. chill.



no it's just weird

i'm a newbie to partying so i was just curious .

people are weird.
Posted by WaterDevil
To be polite. Societal pressure. Habit. To make someone jealous. Because they like you. Because they hate you (petty). Because of fear of rejection. People pleasing. I find most people treat others with the "Golden Rule" i.e. treat others as you want to be treated. When really they should be treating others as THEY want to be treated. And so some people I think get in habit of starting pointless convos because deep down they would rather chit chat bull butter than be ignored, so essentially treating you with the same respect THEY would want. All in all not taking in to account being receptive to your needs until it's too late and they are selfish realizing they don't want to be receptive to your needs so they end said convo.


oh look its water devil!

hey girl hey

thanks for the extensive answer

i've ended a convo once because i liked someone. well that and she looked down and started texting someone which i thought was rude so i peaced out without saying anything




Veritas numquam perit
Cause you are a follower, you accepted everything that happened. Common sense isnt it? lol
female
virgo sun-pisces moon | and the beat goes on
coz they probably think you're not interested

or they're not interested

heck, maybe even both
"If I were God, I certainly wouldn't want people to love me sentimentally. It's
Anxiety? Different levels of social inadequacy can make people come off as a little crazy because entering a conversation can be stressful
If I'm being anxious at that moment, I'll sometimes talk too much to appear a communicative person and then excuse myself (to have the "y r u like this" moment) and I might come back to you later calmer. "Trying too hard" situation to put it more explicitly.

Another possible answer is that people are drunk and hyperactive. Makes them want to get to know everyone and they can't stand still. If that were the case, one could also say you just weren't drunk enough
Posted by LadyNeptune
Maybe they cornered you to make someone jelly and once the persons out of eye line they move on.


Sorry you've been used like that!
Apparently you speaking from experience.
Otherwise how would you know?
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Why do people make an excuse so that they can leave a conversation even if it's one that they are mostly dictating?

I don't get it.

If you are doing most of the talking , then why engage in the first place and continue engaging.




Why don't you just get over it right there right then and go get a drink and pour it over their head and be thrown out?
That will show them!!!
Well...that will show YOU how to party and not be party pisser!
Here...🍷
"Double Pisces, double delight. Sag rising VIA MIA
It's a strategy if you want to be popular and considered entertaining, without revealing much.

Move from group to group or from person to person, repeating the same story/news/issue, before they get bored (ideally while they are interested and wanting more).

Try it for yourself!
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by exo
it's a party, not a date. chill.



no it's just weird

i'm a newbie to partying so i was just curious .

people are weird.
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ya lol.


37 years old female
I have never been to a party where anyone is making an excuse for anything. Unless they break up something or throw up.
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